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Archived questions from: September, 2010 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

He's either upset with her and trying to keep me out of it or he's trying to break things off with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - Hello I am having a hard time figuring out what is going on with a guy I have been getting to know over the past 5 months. We met through an online dating site, and we live a few hours away from one another, so we don't see each other very often, b...

How do you know if they felt the same way?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4957 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - Hey, I'd love opinions from guys and girls about this: when you kiss someone, and it makes your stomach do flips, makes you feel on top of the world, how do you tell if it's having the same effect on them? When I kiss my new bf, that is exactly how ...

He wants his ex-wife back, but wants to have sex with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - This is a really weird question but please help me. I have been chatting with a 40 year old guy on the internet for about a year. I am 18. We started talking about all kinds of things when we first met, but now it's pretty much about sex. I'm not ...

Boyfriend says he'll never get back with me again because I lost his trust

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years and we have had many many highs and equal lows. I've always been a very friendly girl to other guys (but have never flirted or cheated) but he has never liked it. I love him incredibly. In the past ye...

I regret it all, what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

Is she blowing me off to start something with this other guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4956 days ago

30 September 2010 (M) - I think my ex is seeing someone else but she won't tell me that she is and its really annoying me because our break wasn't supposed to be permanent just until she found a way to deal with her problems IE severe depression and alcoholism. She said we ...

How can I overcome my trust issues?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4929 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - i've had trust issues for a very long time, from a very young age i can remember being reluctant to trust anyone i didn't know very well. when i was 10 my father left but continued to visit me, then after he got a new house i visited him for the ...

My boyfriend is expecting twins with another woman

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - Me and My boyfriend have been together for 6 years we had a falling out last year due to his craving for woman and his dishonesty so we broke up for three months and than got back together needless to say we are about to have a baby girl. Just ...

I am confused, and wondering if I have scared him off

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4950 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - You guys have been helpful in the past...please help again. Right, I have moved on in my life. Relocated, new job, starting again. Recently a friend of mine called me and invited me to a dinner party. It was local to where I am now living a...

I am too scared to meet him because of age differences

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4955 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - I've been overweight my whole life. I'm used to rejection and being told no guy would ever want me. Recently I've been talking to a guy who is about 17 years older than me. I am attracted to him and he is attracted to me, we've planned to meet a few ...

My gut says she is hiding something

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

30 September 2010 (M) - Ok so im somewhat seeing this girl latetly she has been going out and drinking a lot she has a lot of guy friend and everything plus she is still inlove with her ex. she allways seems to treat me like crap after she sees him and its like she is ...

I feel he is not making the effort

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - Hi I've got a problem but I don't know if its my own doing and I should just accept it or he's using what happened to punish me. I've been going out with a guy for 3yrs we were engaged and even talked about children but I've got trust issues f...

I told him I love him, but he's making plans he won't commit to, with me.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4948 days ago

30 September 2010 (M) - I'm 19 years old and gay. A little over a year ago I fell in love with one of my best friends. I told him how I felt about him in November and I know he avoided me for a long time. Whenever I would ask if we could get together he would tell me that ...

How will I ever regain his trust?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - Ok, so I really messed up. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years. Needless to say we have had many ups and downs over the years. Recently I began talking to an old friend who I used to have feelings for and have slept with. I know he has f...

How can I make myself trust him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4957 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - ok so first of all i have had a really bad past and childhood with all my guys and my mom guys cheating. so i have a huge guard up when it comes to not trusting! there is a new guy that im talking to and have been for 2 months, he is so good to ...

Why can't guys let go of the past?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - ive been with my boyfriend for a yr and everything was good well at times it still is to a certain point. he has been tryng to deal with my pass. i had cheated twice on my ex husband. and he has such a big prblm with that he calls me names he says ...

I feel like my wife lied to me about having an STD, how should I bring it up?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

29 September 2010 (M) - My wife of 4 years returned from her pap smear with irregular cells. This in itself is terrifying. We found out they weren't cancer, so that was a huge relief. My question: when my wife told me she had the irregular cells, she then said, "I to...

How can I stop feeling paranoid about my relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

29 September 2010 (M) - Well first i will tell you exactly what my problem is and explain it in detail. Any girl i get really attached to after about a month or 2 months i get paranoid that they are going to dump me. So basically 4 years ago i dated this girl, and after ...

Troubles with my fiance: porn, trust, family ...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4957 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - I just stumbled on this site looking for answers to my relationship. Even though I think I already know. I just don't want to admit it! I don't know what my question is? I guess I just what opinions? I started dating this guy almost 4yrs ago. We ...

Help me get out of this situation!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4956 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - I will try and explain my question as best as I can,I know its long but please help.Here goes... Me and this guy have known each other for 6 years altogether.We dated for about 10 months and then we moved in together when I was 16 to his area which ...

She lied to me but I still want her back, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4958 days ago

29 September 2010 (M) - Well to start things off, im 19 and my recent ex is 17. I have been in college for one year, and she recently ggraduated from high school. We are young. We decided to get an apartment together as i transfered schools, to be closer to her and my ...

Is it okay to pull away from the person you think loves you to test them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - I never thought I would consider “testing” my boyfriend, but here I am dealing with some doubts that are driving me to seek action. My first boyfriend of over 1.5 years is by all initial impressions a great guy. We share the same values, respect ...

I'm not sure if this relationship is right anymore. I want to trust him but I don't!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4958 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - I'm in a long-distance relationship with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now. I have caught him twice chatting girls up online before and after we got together. Last time when I confronted him, he promised me that he wouldn't do it again and he ...

How do I show my boyfriend I wasnt lying about being true to him while he was away?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - how do i show my boyfriend i wasnt lying about being true to him while he was away. someone mistakenly called my bf by a different name. thinkin it was one of my friends. (they kinda look alike). this friend had once visted me on campus and ...

Is he making a fool out of me or is he telling the truth?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4958 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - okay my boyfriend cheated on me before and he was acting all funny, so i checked his phone records and saw this number all the time coming up, so i rang it and a girl answered, so instead of saying it to him i checked his record so i dumped him. we ...

I have discovered my boyfriend has been contacting girls for webcam sex! What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2977 days ago

29 September 2010 (F) - Today I searched on google my boyfriend's mail and the results that appeared all where from comments he posted on porn blogs for girls to contact him (for webcam sex and I don't know for what more). One of them had the date of four days ago and we ...

Will he lose trust in me because I lied?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4959 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - Basically, I lied about how old I was when I first met someone, because I was a year younger than what he said his 'limit' of age gap was, I hadn't expected it to go anywhere and now it is. I know I have to tell him, and have a pretty good idea of ...

The difference between the sexes, or getting over a break-up.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - So, last Saturday (9/25/10)I broke up with my boyfriend because I felt he wasn't fulfilling my sexual needs. He was my first love and we were together for three years. Because we have been together for so long, we are also best friends. Therefore we ...

Need advice on dating a cop!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4854 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - I have been officially dating a cop for about 6 months, but we met 9 months ago. He is a loving, thoughtful, and easy going guy. We have a pretty good relationship the only problem is my trust issues that I have, and it's mainly because I have hea...

I'm willing to change to get him back

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - My ex boyfriend and I broke up a little over a month ago. We had been dating a little over a year. The reason we broke up is I would start arguments with him and I admit I was a little too pushy. When we were together, we did have a lot of fun and ...

Fiancee and confusion! What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4939 days ago

28 September 2010 (M) - [Moderator's Note: OP's own title] hey guys this is long story but ill try to make it as small possibleee i could do well with some ''outside'' advice so im going out with this girl... its been 11 months.. but in the beggining it was really...

Should I approach him saying I saw it and ask if that was the first and last time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

28 September 2010 (M) - I've posted previously about finding pictures of my bf and some other guy on my bf's spare phone that I needed to use, and came across that.. when my bf gave me the phone he commented saying enjoying snooping around where your nose doesn't belong. ...

We are not having sex and she doesn't seem to want to resolve the situation!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4959 days ago

28 September 2010 (M) - After 3 years, my woman now says she is too tired or has a headache, etc...something always to put off sex. It used to be off the hook. We used to do it twice a day.... Now she takes trips without me, works late everyday, won't hang with me on ...

He says she's just a friend!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4959 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - My husband has been sending texts to his "friend" at work that says things like - only if you caddy for me while topless and nice ass! He says that she is just a friend and that he's sorry and didn't mean to disrespect me, but what should I think?...

What is this? I don't know if he likes me or just wants a FWB.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - This past summer I started talking to a guy at my college. He didn't intially say he liked me when we first meet but I knew he did. Prior to us talking he would text me all day asking me questions about myself and vice versa. So he finally asked me ...

Help me because I don't know how to get over her!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4944 days ago

28 September 2010 (M) - hi its been over i month me and my ex girlfriend have been broken up, neither of us really wanted to break up but it just ended up happening and i love her to death but we both did some stupid things that we cant forgive eachother for in that month, ...

Someone told me he cheated and there was a condom wrapper on the floor.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - I am going crazy out of my mind. I have been scared to ask anyone for their unbiased opinion because I fear that I may come off as a nutcase, but here goes nothing... In April 2009, I began dating a guy who I'd known since I was 9. We were separ...

Does he deserve this last and final chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - Long story short, the guy who i dated for a year and a half wants a last chance. Btw hes 20, if that makes a difference. He was the one who i gave multiple chances too and every time i did he would take advantage of it. He knew how much i loved ...

She kissed him, so he says. What happened?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4960 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid.... I'm dating this guy who I realy like...we have been dating for 4 months...we broke up after the first 3 months...and dated again... then we broke up, because he kissed another girl in a club...but he said that it wasn't his fault...

Pathetic cheater (posters own title)

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

27 September 2010 (M) - Hello Ladies, I guess I am looking for your advise. Would you want to know? I caught my sister inlaws husband cheating. I have to work with him in a family business. He is a senior member of his church and the person he is cheating with was once the...

My girlfriend's kids were fine ... until I saw an old picture of her ex and now I feel cheated!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

27 September 2010 (M) - Im 29 and shes 27, her kids are 2 and 5. We've been going out for about a year, just recently i saw some old pics of her kids, herself and her ex, they were never married... I saw some pics of them playing in the park and christining ... ...

I don't understand why he would cheat on his new girlfriend with me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - Hi I was in a relationship for 6 years with the father of my 2 year old girl. We split up last July through his choice. He believed he didn't love me because he kept looking for something else in other women, he kissed two girls during the last ...

Trust? I'm not sure what to think about this situation but I don't want to go down that road again!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4956 days ago

27 September 2010 (F) - Major Trust Issue. Ok. So here is the issues. Yesterday my bf who i've been seeing for the last 4 months was arranging drinks with a girl that he has told me in the past that he is good friends with. The issue is that he messaged yesterday to...

I'm worried about my guy and my sister!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4958 days ago

27 September 2010 (?) - i m in problem ,totally confused,i love some one(rahul) by heart eariler we were good friends and that boy used to like my sister but she rejected his proposal first,and know when i and rahul are together she wants rahul back,but rahul says that he ...

Are her parents holding us back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

27 September 2010 (M) - I have fallen in love and started a relationship with a girl 12 years my junior. i'm 31 and she is 19. We get on so well, we can talk to each other about anything, we share similar interests, we enjoy each others company. we both feel the same about ...

How do you trust a cheater?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

26 September 2010 (F) - How long does it take to get over and trust the person you are with if they cheated on you? My bf told me he cheated in the first and second month of our relationship. I told him things arnt gonna get better over night even though he wants it to. ...

Should we go our seperate ways or will this pass??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4961 days ago

26 September 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 2 years. About a month ago I broke up with him because I was curious about other guys and just wasnt sure if he was "the one". Well that didnt work out too well and I missed him a lot and came back ...

Guys are so confusing! Come on now!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4961 days ago

26 September 2010 (F) - So it's been about 3 weeks that weLve been broken up. My ex and I and He's stating that "I'm glad we're friends, It's better than nothing at the moment"....WTF?? I know, I like being his friend to but why does he continue to flirt with me, have sex ...

He hurt me so bad before I don't know if I can trust him to not hurt me again.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4959 days ago

26 September 2010 (F) - I split up from my boyfriend at the start of June. We went out for 6 months during which me and my friends think he treated me badly, it was both our first relationship and we had been building up to it for years and are both 16 years old. we had ...

Why is my boyfriend so angry and why did he stop responding to my messages?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

26 September 2010 (F) - know it sounds childish but Need advice to handle this prickly situation...wid my bf..? ok my bf and me have been dating for 10 months...and yes he has some trust issues cos he has been cheated on before.He is pretty quick tempered..and moody at...