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Archived questions from: June, 2018 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

What should I do about this player?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2097 days ago

30 June 2018 (F) - OK - this is a long and complicated story, so please bear with me. I worked in the same company with a guy. We worked there for over a year, remotely. That means we didn't meet in real life, until perhaps a year into the time at the company, at a ...

There's a weird movie-like scenario playing in my head where I imagine my boyfriend and his ex pining for each other and wanting to get back together!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2115 days ago

30 June 2018 (F) - My boyfriend (26) and I (22) have been together for ~9 months. This is my first ever relationship and, at this point, we're going pretty strong and live together. I feel more confident in my relationship that I ever have. Except for one thing. ...

I'm have an uncomfortable feeling about my girlfriend's stepfather who walks around in the nude and God knows what else is going on

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2119 days ago

29 June 2018 (M) - Right so this all started one day when my girlfriend called me I thought nothing of it, she usally calls me 5 times a day but she mentioned her step dad how she feels “uncomfortable” with him cos he walked round the house naked or just in his ...

Boyfriend's close friend from his highschool group is obsessed with him and he's slept with her... And while she hates me, he won't stop hanging out with her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2116 days ago

29 June 2018 (F) - So my boyfriend has a really close friend group from highschool. 3 other guys and 3 girls and they have a groupchat they always text in and are always planning hangouts together. This one girl in his group has always been obsessed with him (i've ...

I have had an extremely stifled upbringing but I want to break free by going to a college of my choice. How do I convince my authoritarian parents?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2110 days ago

27 June 2018 (F) - In our family, it has always just been assumed that we'd all go to college. I've never been the best student, but I've basically been average. I liked "electives" the best and I got the best grades in music and Spanish. Actually, I won the John ...

My boyfriend is being secretive of his phone and is liking Instagram pictures of girls in bikinis!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2121 days ago

25 June 2018 (F) - I am 16 and my boyfriend is 15. We have been dating for almost 5 months. He is from Israel and went to go visit his family for 6 weeks. It has only been less than a week since he left but for a couple of weeks before he left I have been getting a ...

I’m starting to worry about her relationship with a lesbian friend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2122 days ago

24 June 2018 (M) - My girlfriend is friends with a lesbian. I'm starting to get worried. Am I overreacting? They've become really close. They've been spending a lot of time together. Sometimes, she goes for a girls night out with her friends including her le...

I stole from my brother, how do I repair our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2126 days ago

24 June 2018 (M) - My youger brother, Justin, is 23 months youger than me. I am 35 years old and he is 33 years old. He have always been a good person (doing charity work, volunteering his time to different charities, est.). When I was in my late teens and early ...

Anything that bothers me he says its a cultural thing.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2127 days ago

23 June 2018 (F) - Hello I'm married and my husband has all his exes on social media and still speaks to them. I have told him I feel its inappropriate to talk to your exes when their part of his past. He is also addicted to his cell phone. He has many Male fr...

I suffer from OCD and crippling jealousy and my husband's occasional comments about other women's looks drive me over the edge

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2128 days ago

22 June 2018 (F) - Hi, I hope you guys can give me some wise advice, because i can't deal with and handle my OCD and my jealousy. I do suffer from OCD and now my OCD appears to have crossed into the realm of the physical too, whereby i get obsessed by a part...

My bf drunk texted his ex FWB and now I feel like I have a right to go through his phone

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2127 days ago

21 June 2018 (F) - My boyfriend of a year and 8 months drunkenly text a girl whom he used to see sexually before we started dating. I feel like I have a right to go through his phone now but at the same time I don’t. He feels terribly about the situation and has since ...

I'm worried he still has feelings for his ex.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2132 days ago

18 June 2018 (F) - Is he really over his Ex? Me and my boyfriend have been together 2 years now and I thought we was both the happiest we could be. Last night he went to show me something on social media and his ex girlfriend was at the very top of his search bar I...

Who is the weird one, me or him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2133 days ago

16 June 2018 (F) - I have this guy friend that I’ve been knowing for almost a year now, we’ve been involved intimately at one point, pretty much on and off. We both have feelings for each other. We recently started conversing again and hung out. We’re both still ...

All the staring, sexual tension and then ignoring me... What's going on here?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2134 days ago

14 June 2018 (F) - I met a guy at my university last year. We had instant attraction and started liking each other. Though the school year had ended, he was coming to uni as he was involved in a protest/occupation against the school. He would keep staring at me an...

Harmless lies are still lies and he can’t seem to get that into his head!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2132 days ago

14 June 2018 (F) - I live in a somewhat small town. Not middle of no where town with 500 people but if you grew up there, you knew everyone in your age group, more or less. I kept to myself Im my teens and 20s, it seemed liked everyone knew each other's business...

Is this normal?? Am I stupid to love a man who does not respect the institution of marriage??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2135 days ago

14 June 2018 (F) - Dear Agony Aunt I am married for 20 years to a narcissistic surgeon with roving eyes yet I've stayed with him thinking that we love each other. He had been unfaithful to me and my young children once in the past and after leaving home he returned...

I asked for help and he lied about why he couldn't.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2136 days ago

14 June 2018 (F) - I am not sure if what I am feeling right now is normal or I am being unjust? I asked for help from my boyfriend of 4 years. what I need is a room/place to stay for 1 year while I am doing the last part of my studies. We do not live together...

My ex-girlfriend has a way of messing with my head

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2135 days ago

13 June 2018 (F) - Hi all, Long story cut short. I was in a lesbian relationship with my gf for two years. She kissed a guy during our relationship (even lied to my face and was secretly sending messages to him). This pushed me to pursue my dreams in working a...

My boyfriend's drunken behaviour was nasty. Should I just let it pass?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2136 days ago

12 June 2018 (F) - My bf, myself and our close friends were at a house party. I spent most of my time helping the hosts so I was pretty much sober while my bf decided to get sloshed after many years. By the end of the night, he had way too many and was totally out ...

She has a guy friend stay over!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2133 days ago

11 June 2018 (M) - I am dating someone and have been for 4 or 5 months now. She is having a guy friend stay over, which makes me uncomfortable on a level of respect. I have stayed at another girls place with a previous gf and was told by family that this shouldn't of ...

Is my long-distance husband using me?

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 2135 days ago

10 June 2018 (F) - Hi and thanks I have wrote on here before but I wasnt able to find my question. I have married a man from Africa, I'm Canadian. We met on Facebook and we have been married for 16 months. Doing a long distance relationship isnt easy ...

Why did he throw the gifts in the trash?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2140 days ago

10 June 2018 (F) - ok my ex boyfriend of 6 years when we met we were both 45 it’s weird cause I just had a broke up wasn’t looking and he was on Facebook I didn’t wanta like him I had just lost a lot of weight cause I had my first child only child so I was very ...

My boyfriend says if I don't lose weight after our baby's birth he will dump me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2140 days ago

9 June 2018 (F) - I am 24 weeks pregnant. My boyfriend is constantly calling me fat. He says he is teasing. He also said that if I don't lose the weight after the baby is born he will dump me. I have taken all these things to heart. I was really skinny before I got ...

My boyfriend often tells me small lies, how do I get him to stop?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2142 days ago

7 June 2018 (F) - Been tigether 2 years and the past 6 months my boyfriend has the tendancy to change his stories often and its getting to a point where Im always get upset and angry and then we end up in a big argument. Theyre usually small pointless ones, but if he ...

My partner doesn't know how to parent our child

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2142 days ago

6 June 2018 (F) - Hi I’m in a relationship for 5 years we have a 3 year old daughter I have started a new job 8 months ago so now my partner has to bath our daughter and put her to bed something which he had never done till I started this new job due to changing my ...

Everyone around me seems to want to sabotage me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2143 days ago

6 June 2018 (F) - Hello, this is less a romantic question and more of a coping question. Due to some mistakes I’ve made and struggles I keep having, I had to move into a homeless shelter. I’m going to call it The Haven and I want to make it clear that any names and ...

Tales of attraction, games, betrayal and the wifes condundrum

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2143 days ago

4 June 2018 (F) - Seeking some guidance around my husbands relationship with a highly promiscuous, devious and highly NARCISSISTIC Slor€ (that's her appropriately allocated nickname btw from her own family - which I was told in advance meant slut crs whore because ...

I cheated in the past he doesn't trust me and now things are off. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2145 days ago

4 June 2018 (F) - Dear cupid,about 4years ago, i was in a long distance relationship with Ray(not his real name). The relationship didnt mean much to me because he was my rebound and the distance wasnt what i needed but at that time i wasn’t thinking. This resulted ...

Does kissing get easier over time?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2143 days ago

3 June 2018 (F) - I recently asked this question on here, http://www.dearcupid.org/question/im-a-first-time-dater-and-find-myself.html and you guys gave me some great advice and I've been trying to incorporate what I was told. Essentially the advice was to go...

My ex said some things, now I feel so low and worthless.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2147 days ago

3 June 2018 (F) - I am feeling low and hurt. I split from my boyfriend around 5 months ago and got odd texts from him now and then. Anyway started to accept it was over and to start building my life again when put the blue my ex text me to say he was really ill and ...

Is it really a big deal that I didn't call?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2143 days ago

2 June 2018 (F) - I’ve been dating this guy (no official relationship) for a few months. We were old friends who got really close and started a romance. He did the chasing and I finally caught feelings after a while. We would hang out all the time. He would call me ...

My sister and my boyfriend lied about having sex while we were courting.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2139 days ago

2 June 2018 (F) - So my sister was having some marital problems and she met this guy who she confided in and he gave her some advice well atleast that's what she told me. I was single for approximately for years. She introduced this guy to me after some months and ...

Do I keep believing him after his string of lies?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2144 days ago

1 June 2018 (F) - Long story short, over the past month, my husband has been caught in a string of lies. First lie is when he told me he called his buddy but later found out he called a female coworker to congratulate her for this cover she got for a magazine. Odd ...