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Archived questions from: January, 2015 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

How can I learn to not react? Should I continue to put up with his actions? My bf is neglecting me and pushing me for a reaction

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3373 days ago

31 January 2015 (F) - I can't take being neglected anymore. My bf and I have been together for 5 years. We've hit a rough patch and things have been horrible. He ignores me knowing, full well, how I feel about it. Then I get mad and start bitching and he laughs at me....

Do I need to give up wanting to be physically attractive to him? He notices other women but seems to not notice me in the same way anymore.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3373 days ago

30 January 2015 (F) - I really would appreciate some advice from the aunts and uncles here. They say that much of women's libido comes from feeling desired and I would definitely agree. I am a woman into mid 40s and have always taken care of myself and enjoyed doin...

Would a man stay with a woman for nearly 4 years if he didn't love her?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3370 days ago

30 January 2015 (F) - If your were scared of commitment, would you be with someone for nearly four years. but not live with her. Get close and then pull away again and then repeat. Despite illness on both sides, the rows maybe a couple days of calming down but...

When I tell my mother I'll be in serious trouble. So how do I tell my mother I'm dating?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3370 days ago

30 January 2015 (F) - There's a boy that I have been really close to and a few months ago he asked me to be his girlfriend. I said yes and since then we have been super close, hugged a lot and kissed a few times. The only thing is, my mom has no clue! She always war...

She now knows I'm older than I said. Shall I leave it a couple of days and drop a note, explaining all to her, under the door or knock?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3373 days ago

30 January 2015 (M) - Thank you for reading. I have been with my girlfriend a year and we have had a great time. My family moved away and they have pretty much been family to me. We have done trips and I really have spolit her and we have been to some great places / g...

Will I get hurt? He has troubles with his ex and he gets angry sometimes.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3078 days ago

30 January 2015 (F) - I met this guy a year ago and we have been dating since. We get on so well, and have become best friends. When we met he had just had a major surgery and was recently divorced. Since getting to know him he has had such a hard two years. He h...

He admitted he cheated and with a woman I thought I could trust. Do I cut my losses? How do I get over his betrayal?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3369 days ago

30 January 2015 (F) - I have been with my husband for 10 years and have 3 kids. New year we had a massive argument and he admitted he cheated twice with the same girl. The girl who I thought to be a friend and who I confided in, although he did not know this. He has...

How do I back off in a LDR? How can I encourage him to chase me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3373 days ago

30 January 2015 (F) - I am the female, 23, and lately boyfriend, 21, has been acting distant. We've been together for a year. He would text me good morning beautiful and all those things but for the past couple of weeks or so, they are nonexistent. Whenever we te...

Should I agree that it's OK? My Girlfriend wants to wear transparent clothing that will allow her breasts to be seen to others in public.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3373 days ago

30 January 2015 (M) - Should I let my girlfriend to go braless in public? Will it be okay to allow her? she wants to wear very short dresses, and dresses that allow her breasts to be seen through the fabric and be transparent and be viewable in public. She says she wan...

Should I give her the benefit of the doubt and trust her? One minute it's all good, then she is cold with no explanation.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3370 days ago

30 January 2015 (M) - Hi Folks, I started seeing a girl around the middle of November last year. We went on several dates, many of which involved no alcohol and we got on really great. The dates lasted for hours and she was always expressing how she wished they could la...

Should I feel so betrayed? He lied by omission about visiting a Lap Dancing Bar.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3373 days ago

30 January 2015 (F) - My boyfriend has totally betrayed my trust, and all he can say is he hasn't actually cheated on me, all he did was go to a lap dancing club but he lied about where he was going so he might have well cheated on me. He went with a group of friends...

I've got the hots for my boyfriend's dad!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3374 days ago

29 January 2015 (F) - From the moment I met my boyfriend's father, I have been very attracted to him. But recently when my boyfriend's parents dropped by our house to tell us they were seeing each other again after 10 years of being separated, I got really jealous for ...

How can I stop making my current boyfriend pay for the sins of my ex-boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3375 days ago

28 January 2015 (F) - [MOD NOTE - OP's title] My last boyfriend cheated on me and broke my heart. I never want to go through that kind of pain ever again. Because of this, I am having a very hard time trusting my current boyfriend. My boyfriend has done nothi...

Blowjobs, snapchats, and exes! All are causing me to unhappy in our 6 month relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3377 days ago

27 January 2015 (M) - Girlfriend and I have been dating for 6 months. When we first started dating she spilled her sexual past with me despite my reservations. Initially I hated hearing it because it was much more than my own but I grew to love her and respect her past. ...

He went from being a jerk to Prince Charming overnight.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3376 days ago

27 January 2015 (F) - Me and my guy live together for about a year. However I was thinking about moving out because We never do anything special and we never go anywhere. In fact it's usually always on his terms on what he wants to do and even when we argue he needs to ...

My gf is a liar

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3376 days ago

26 January 2015 (M) - My gf lied about talking to her ex. I'm going to try to be as factual and unbiased as possible about this, and not include any of our history. For ease of explanation let's just pretend I'm psychic. Last night (Sunday), we're laying in bed an...

Could he like me, or do you think it is something else?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3378 days ago

26 January 2015 (F) - Okay, so to begin with I better explain my situation. I have anxiety disorder, and it is mainly social anxiety and this means that sometimes I just can't do something. Like I just physically can not do it. I'm not meant to force myself to do ...

Should I be worried? He brought up an ex of his and mentioned that she's a porn star now.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3378 days ago

26 January 2015 (F) - Me and my boyfriend were talking last night and he brings up a friend of his that is female (and also his ex)that she said that she is a porn star now (which I think might be a fib I don't know and I don't plan on finding out). He tells me that she ...

How can I be the partner she deserves, when my mind is still filled with thoughts of my ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3378 days ago

26 January 2015 (F) - I came out of a tumultuous 2-year relationship only a handful of months ago. I loved her so incredibly much, but we were constantly breaking up and getting back together (never once was it my decision to split) over petty, insignificant fights, ...

I am starting to dislike and distrust men. How can I move forward after so many disappointments?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3378 days ago

26 January 2015 (F) - I'm afraid I'm starting to dislike men and I really don't want to. Can someone help me to work out how to get over these feelings please because I don't want to be that woman? Basically, I split up with my boyfriend of 5 years about 6 months a...

She had oral sex before we got married and I just found this out! Was she a virgin?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3264 days ago

24 January 2015 (M) - I am 30 years old and been married for 9 years. I was a virgin when we got married and she told me she was the same. Till after 8 years of marriage and 3 kids later she tells me that she gave out 20 or 30 blowjobs to two guys before me and she said ...

My marriage was broken.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3373 days ago

24 January 2015 (F) - I finally found the courage to leave my abusive husband for the last time.God gave me the strength to open my heart ? eye's and ears to others going through a similar situation in their lives hopefully my heart ? breaking tonight will make at least ...

Motorcycle Picture on Facebook ask to be removed caused a breakup

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3380 days ago

23 January 2015 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for 20 months. Both of us are twice married. Her second relationship was very, very bad. It hurts her badly to think of it. It damaged her emotionally and if she could, she has said it was the worse mistake she ...

I want him to realize what he lost and change for me

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3376 days ago

23 January 2015 (F) - [OP's original title] I and my ex were together 5.5 years. We had some problems in december cause he get a new job so he wanted to hang out more with his coworkers including admins(girls).last saturday, first time after a month saw each other an...

Suspect fiance lied about past relationship, her lifestyle and degree

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3381 days ago

22 January 2015 (M) - I'm 35, had a few relationships in the past, lived with someone for 5 years but never felt like settling down and we split a few years ago and I've dated casually since. 6 months ago I met someone who is incredible, she works in the same field as ...

I can't get over the feeling I am second choice simply because the other woman went back to Poland

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3382 days ago

22 January 2015 (F) - How can I stop feeling second best? I met my boyfriend through online dating. I was on the rebound and he seemed ideal in many ways but mainly because he had no kids (former relationships had Young kids and the restrictions that brings) Very qui...

I found out my boyfriend lied about being married, should I keep dating him? He only sees his wife once a year

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3383 days ago

21 January 2015 (F) - Started dating a guy in the army back in June, it was more casual than anything else. Then the last few months it got more serious and I could tell me was falling in love with me. When I first went to his place I asked him if he was married as there ...

She's 18 and I'm 15. Met online. Never talked on phone. Never met in person. Should I do as we planned or what?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3382 days ago

21 January 2015 (M) - Hello Aunts and uncles! So, I met this girl some time ago (maybe 6-ish months or more) she's 18 and I'm 15. We both have admitted to liking each other, and we've sent pictures of each other (her more than me because it's a bit more difficul...

First she flirted a lot. Now she's not replying. What should I do? Try to contact her asap this week, or wait until next week?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3322 days ago

21 January 2015 (M) - I met a great girl at a friends party on Saturday. She just flew in from the other side of the country since she is moving here (I'm in LA) and we both had a ton of common interests. She started up the conversation with me, playfully hit my ...

He was in a FWB a few years ago with an older woman. How can I get over my disgust at what he did in the past?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 3357 days ago

21 January 2015 (F) - My 27-year-old boyfriend went through a really rough time in his life a few years ago, which led him to make a huge mistake. He let this woman (10-15 years older than him) to throw herself at him and spend money on him just so that she could have ...

Is it time to break-up? My Gf is always sad. But now her depression is affecting me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3383 days ago

21 January 2015 (M) - Let me start out by saying my girlfriend is depressed, I believe. And it is staying on me. A little background on me that may be relevant is that I am a 20 year old engineering student. I am a relatively level headed person. Basically on a ...

Now some SWOT analysis makes the new guy appear better than my BF. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3383 days ago

21 January 2015 (F) - So....... Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a 4 months. Its not long but it feels like forever to me. Unfortunately recently I have developed feelings for another guy. My sister and i made a list of pros and cons and my boyfriend had so many ...

Where to Now? And how to stop this jealousy too?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3383 days ago

20 January 2015 (F) - I wrote in a few months ago about an argument between me and my boyfriend. I had gone on his phone as he had been hiding it everytime he got a message which made me doubt what he was upto. I know I shouldn't have but I needed to know as it was ...

She has changed but I love her and don't want to throw 2 years down the drainpipe!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3383 days ago

20 January 2015 (M) - Here goes, I’ve been with her for 2 years, everything was great, she started uni 6 months into our relationship (i’ve always worked full time), her starting uni never bothered us, we worked through it, didn’t argue and we were good… In September s...

Am I doing anything wrong? I like a married man and he likes me.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3384 days ago

20 January 2015 (F) - please advise:- I like a married man, he likes me too. we share intimacy like few kisses/smooches /holding hands etc but not physically involved beyond that extent. we like each others company he is a top level guy in my office and I've been emp...

How many stay with their first love and is it better for me to experience someone else?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3384 days ago

20 January 2015 (F) - Hello there :) Thank you for sharing your thoughts if you decide to answer. Since the new year has started, many couples around me broke up or there were people that started a new relationship. Many of my classmates are around the age of 22 or ...

How often is too often? And if the only sexual activitiy I have ever had has been masterbation, alone, then am I still a virgin?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3384 days ago

20 January 2015 (F) - Hey everyone im 17 and im a girl and i feel that i have a huge problem. I masturbate a lot especially when i feel horny. I use my fingers and a vibrator and i orgasm most of the time. I am a virgin but i believe in marriage then sex with my part...

His best friend has told me very upsetting things about his sleeping with other women, including her! What do I do now?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3384 days ago

20 January 2015 (F) - I always knew my boyfriend was hiding something from me regarding his best friend but I was never sure about what it was. I do have trust issues due to be hurt in the past but it was something different this time. It was like I could see it with my ...

We started to rekindle, but he can't let go of the past!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3385 days ago

19 January 2015 (F) - Ran into my bf the week of new year's. We instantly felt the connection again and we started talking and went out a couple of times. We live in different states now so it's a little complicated. We decided to try to see each other again and keep ...

Should I be worried about his change in behavior?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3385 days ago

19 January 2015 (F) - My boyfriend of two years has been somewhat distant on and off for the last month, but for the most part things have been okay. We are somewhat long distance, we live 40 miles apart. We just returned on Tuesday from a group trip for two weeks. He ...

Can my girlfriend overcome her troubled past enough for me to learn to trust her again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3385 days ago

19 January 2015 (M) - To give a quick run down on the situation, my girlfriend of now over 6 years and I have been through some horrible times. I will preface this by apologizing for the length of this, there was a lot to say! Firstly let me give you the ru...

Condoms under his bed ! Do I believe his explanation? Am I over-reacting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3385 days ago

18 January 2015 (F) - Hi all, I would really like some help ihave wrote on here before but would appreciate some more advice. Been with my boyfriend for 3 years I love him to pieces. But about 6 monthd ago we went to his mums house when his brother came out with, '...

Should I give those 3 or 4 girls, who each hurt me, a second chance?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3386 days ago

18 January 2015 (M) - Hello everyone, i would love to hear opinions from you all. Suppose, all the girls(3 or 4 girls) i fell in love in different stage of my life pretended to love me, when they actually used me to get their ego boost, and hurt me, and finally push me ...

How can I be COOL when starting a new relationship? I think I act too eager at the start, and that results in problems

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3385 days ago

18 January 2015 (M) - Hey there, I need help regarding a pattern I have seen while I'm dating anyone really. I just get attached very quickly and too deeply to the point where I'm waiting for their texts, meeting them, calls and thinking about how to please them...

Is it worth trying again or should I just let my head rule my heart?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3386 days ago

18 January 2015 (F) - I'm really confused right and now and need some advice please! So background : I was with my ex for 5 months when he asked me to move in with him. I know it was too soon but I was stupid and said yes. We lived together happily for over a year...

Why couldn't we stay friends? LDR break-up. He says the trust was broken.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3386 days ago

18 January 2015 (F) - Hi guys. I just need to understand something from an outsiders perspective. So I met a guy before Christmas online and we got on great. Only thing was he lived over 100 miles away and I did wonder if this could be a problem. However, I wen...

My b/f wants to try anal sex, but I don't think I'm comfortable with it. How common is it for people to try anal sex?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3385 days ago

18 January 2015 (F) - I'm wondering what everyone thinks of anal sex. I'm 21 my b/f is 23 and we've been together roughly 2 years. He's the only guy I've ever been with and we have been sexually active for a few months now. He's recently told me about wanting to try a...

Loyalty to my friend is stopping me. I can't ask her out, because what kind of a friend would I be?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3384 days ago

18 January 2015 (M) - I like this girl in my friend circle and I'm somewhat sure she likes me back. The big problem is that one of my close friends fell for her pretty hard a while back, going as far as to say the whole "never felt this way about anyone like this bef...

I am pregnant, fearful and uneasy with my LDR engagement. I need an intervention.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3386 days ago

18 January 2015 (F) - How do I act, communicate or make things better in my LDR relationship without looking like a jealous, insecured and weak woman? I am currently engaged to my LDR boyfriend and we just found out I am expecting a child on NewYears. I may just be ...

Should I talk to him about putting off sex until he feels he can trust me again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3387 days ago

17 January 2015 (F) - I am in a rut in my relationship. Long story short I cheated, There was no physical cheating. I was texting my manager and deleting the messages..they were not in any way inappropriate but I knew the fact bothered my fiancee so instead of nipping ...