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Archived questions from: September, 2017 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

He's starting a new job and I've begun to worry about it!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2390 days ago

29 September 2017 (F) - Hello everyone! My hubby has been unemployed for over a year. Last summer I encouraged him to apply for a good job I knew he wanted... and today we got the news that he got it and he starts on Monday!! Exciting, right? Well... I was excited at first ...

We want different things in life ... should I just let it go?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2390 days ago

28 September 2017 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for about 2 years now. I’m 20 and he’s 22 so we’re still pretty young and we don’t plan on getting married or having kids any time soon. Especially since we’ve only been together for 2 years. But we have com...

My boyfriend and I argue constantly but I love him.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2392 days ago

28 September 2017 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together 2 and a half years. Things were great in the beginning but more recently we seem to argue about everything. Things are lovely when we're getting on but we seem to argue most days and he goes silent and will ...

Should I stand firm or offer reconcilliation?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2391 days ago

28 September 2017 (M) - Hello aunts, My question here is simple. I fought with my wife last night. The reason was that she started complaining and saying she wishes she didn't have to pay rent (we pay half-and-half currently) so that then she could buy more things. ...

How do I get out of this planned weekend getaway? I've decided I don't trust him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2393 days ago

28 September 2017 (F) - Hi i was seeing soneone 2 yrs ago and he started seeing someone else. He denied it and lied left right and centre then he got her pregnant. During all this time he hasnt let go of me. I told him i was not prepared to be a bit on rhe side. Now they ...

Long distance boyfriend is asking for naked pictures, should I trust him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2393 days ago

27 September 2017 (F) - Hi there friends...I really need your advice.. I have a long distance relationship and know for a year.we don't meet yet and we both christian born again... and I dont want this guy to entertain but he was keep in contact with me even if j don't....

I know I could have an amazing life with mistress but don't want to hurt my wife and children

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 2375 days ago

25 September 2017 (M) - Hi. I am really confused and need advice. Here goes with a bit of background and my position. I am an almost 49 year old man and have been married for almost 25 years.we have 3 Kids.one of which has now left home. My wife gave up work 17 years ag...

My boyfriend has a new friend & he seems to care more about their relationship than ours.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2374 days ago

25 September 2017 (F) - I've been in a relationship for five years, and cheating has never been something I was concerned about. But about six months ago my boyfriend made a new friend through a club at colleg, and they became close friends real quickly. They talk all the ...

My parents don't know about my relationship till I am 18. A parents advice would be nice

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2394 days ago

25 September 2017 (F) - I am currently 16 and live in Victoria Australia and my boyfriend is 20 from punjabi india.All aspects of our relationship is legal We have been together for just under a year and my parents don't know i plan on telling them when i am 18 but his ...

Difficult LDR, I feel I'm becoming close to my ex. Should I isolate myself from all girls so I don't find myself slipping?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2394 days ago

22 September 2017 (M) - Greetings Agony Aunts and Uncles, To give you a bit of background Im in a LDR with mg GF for about a month now and the separation is killing us. We met in college and our both living near our families in different states. Unless one of us is willi...

I desperately want to reconcile with my ex husband. He had sex with me after he had broken up with his girlfriend but hasn't contacted me since

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2394 days ago

22 September 2017 (F) - This is a long story and I apologize but I really need some advice from some neutral parties here. I am wanting to reconcile with my ex-husband. We were married for 4 years. He was and still is the love of my life but he left me for another ...

I am unhappy at home, and flirting with my ex boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2400 days ago

21 September 2017 (F) - I am married for nearly 4 years and lived together for 5 years . Since having my son last year , everything has changed . We both very good with looking after our son but My partner seems to be on the phone so much , which has been locked fo...

I want more, he leads me on but in the end wants just sex. It's he just a player?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2400 days ago

21 September 2017 (F) - Hello! I have been friends with this guy since sophomore year of college and I graduated last year. He's 25 so yeah we are still young, but I feel like we have a good vibe going with one another. We used to hang out and talk about everything and ...

She said she wants to hangout with her friends which is fine except for my concern about this one male friend!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2402 days ago

19 September 2017 (M) - My gf of 1.5 years is amazing for the most part. We have talked about getting married and moving in together and everything. We plan on moving in in the next 6months. Recently she told me that she feels that she will miss out on being young cause ...

Is this a genuine concern or is he blowing me off?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2400 days ago

18 September 2017 (F) - My bf and I have been together for a couple months. He treats me really well and is different from the other guys that I dated. One thing though that has really started to worry me, is him trying to drop me off at home early in the day. He works ...

I want to marry this woman and find it hard to let her go! Please help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2400 days ago

18 September 2017 (?) - Help help help. In a previous column I told everyone about how my x dumped me after 3 1/2 years by text. I also found that she had a dating profile. We talked on the phone. She says she feels like a horrible person for what she did and we had long ...

I'm worried my boyfriend is stealing from me.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2403 days ago

18 September 2017 (F) - Hi, I really need some advice - I've been in a very happy relationship for over six months now. My boyfriend is very loving and caring, and we've never even had an argument - we just seem very in tune with one another. But something odd happ...

She has bruises and I think she's cheating with the Baby Daddy

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2402 days ago

18 September 2017 (M) - My lady gets mad couse I pointed out two bruises on her back she didn't have before last time we had sex was 5 days ago she takes of one morning to school with baby Dady for conference metting regarding son school I find her on find I phone she ...

My girlfriend wont cut ties with her ex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2401 days ago

17 September 2017 (M) - This might be a bit long. After a few relationships, i decided to try and get together with a girl recommended to me by my friend's girlfriend. I'll call her Agnes. This happened great, especially the first 3/4 months - we had our issues to ir...

I love my boyfriend but am looking elsewhere

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2300 days ago

15 September 2017 (F) - My situation.. I met my boyfriend a year ago while while I was living overseas, he is from that country. We ended up getting into a relationship quite fast. Our parents met each other and everything was great. A week later or so, he had to g...

My step daughter is making my life hell!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 2404 days ago

15 September 2017 (F) - My step daughter is making my life hell. I'm a nurse on a trauma unit and I work nights. My job is stressful enough without coming home to a battle every day. My husband is far from perfect but his main flaw is his unwillingness to discipline his ...

Is it too soon to mention I'd like more contact?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2401 days ago

14 September 2017 (F) - Hello and thanks in advance for reading. I'm having trouble dating and trusting men after a very difficult year that I'm slowly getting through and coming to terms with. This year I've had to deal with sudden job changes, dates going wrong a...

My destructive behaviour regarding my boyfriend's past is ruining my relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2407 days ago

13 September 2017 (?) - I have been seeing a lovely man for over four months. He is kind, caring and treats me very well. I have been on my own with my daughter for 17 years, her father left me when she was a baby and i was left devastated. He got on with his life and it ...

I think I'd be better off just blocking him from my life

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2408 days ago

11 September 2017 (M) - I was recently away on a holiday with a load of other people. I am gay and everyone knows this and am 38 yrs old. Whilst we were away a younger 23 yr old was being friendly with me and then hinted he wanted to come up to chat in my room. Anyhow ...

I moved to be nearer to her, now she has broken up with me.

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 2403 days ago

11 September 2017 (M) - I'm fifty years old and moved over a year ago to be near my girlfriend she is 48 and I thought she was the love of my life. Suddenly she started saying she was busy all of the time and tired So I havnt seen her in two weeks. Tonight she broke up ...

I had a friend check on what he told me and he cut ties with me. Did I do something wrong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2409 days ago

10 September 2017 (F) - I met a guy online 4 months ago. All along he has been telling me about the particular company he works for and has talked about work at great length because he works really long hours. I have a friend who works for the same company. I told her ...

Angry about my parents divorce.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2409 days ago

10 September 2017 (M) - Long story short, when I was 6 my mom cheated on my Dad with a married man that has 2 kids older than me. Less than a year they both left their spouses for each other. When I grew up my step siblings ignored me like I don't exist. My step dad son ...

I 'almost' had a relationship, what's going on, s he being cautious?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2408 days ago

10 September 2017 (F) - I am very confused. An "almost relationship" probably best describes what we were. We were close friends prior to any feelings developing. We were not physically intimate, there was a lot of cuddling and closeness when he invited me over. But he ...

Are we dating or are we friends? Long distance friendship with my ex.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2409 days ago

10 September 2017 (F) - Dear cupid, my boyfriend and I have had a 'thing' or more like dated for just over a year. He has moved away from home to go to boarding school and we made the decision that we would stop dating once he left, we also had decided that we were going ...

Any advise on this relationship will be welcome.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2406 days ago

9 September 2017 (M) - I met a woman online about 2 yrs ago where she had posted she was divorced but was actually still married and her husband left her and was seeking a divorce. I told her she needed to finish her divorce before we could date because I don’t date ...

How can I repair the damage done to our friendship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2407 days ago

8 September 2017 (F) - Hello folks. Just looking for advice. About 2-3months ago I meet a younger guy. I'm 33 he's 24. We met at work. I was between jobs and looking to earn while I looked for something else so found a part time job where I met, I'll call him Tom. I wo...

What's with the condoms? Is he lying to me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2415 days ago

7 September 2017 (F) - Hello, My fiancé and I been together for almost 6 years and about 2 years ago I've found a condom in his jacket pocket and I asked him about it and he told me it was from us from the beginning of us dating. And now I found another condom in his ...

If he doesn't trust me then I can't stay

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2414 days ago

6 September 2017 (F) - OK, so i have fucked up..... Multiple times and i obviously haven't learnt my lesson else i wouldn't be in this situation to begin with. Some history: I'm a single mom of a beautiful boy (Almost 3 years old). I left his father as i was no longer ...

My girlfriend broke up with me but now wants back

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2403 days ago

4 September 2017 (F) - My girlfriend broke up with me a few weeks back but couldn't give me a reason for wanting out. We have been in a gay relationship together for 5 years with many ups and downs and this was just another time of her saying she didn't want the relation...

My boyfriend has just confessed that he slept with someone else

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2416 days ago

4 September 2017 (F) - I'm after some advice, I have been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years. I have never doubted our trust or believe he has ever done anything to jeopardise our relationship. Well that's what I thought until this Wednesday he called me down the...

Why won't he be honest?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2417 days ago

4 September 2017 (F) - Why wont he tell me the truth? Me and my ex split in 2013 both are choice. He moved to the north of the midlands. Anyway last yr he got bk in contact with me and since we have met a few times and he's been on weekends away with me and my little on...

What does my boyfriend mean by all his confusing statements?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2418 days ago

3 September 2017 (F) - Hello Aunts and Uncles!!! So I'm in a bind. A month ago my bf and I had a huge disagreement with one another. We did not talk sometime after. About a week ago he contacts me apologizing and giving me confusing signs. First he says I want to be with ...

My wife of 30 years just confessed that she was not a virgin

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 1938 days ago

2 September 2017 (M) - my wife of 30 years confessed that she was not a virgin when we were married. I was not a virgin when we met and if she had told me before we were married I would have been fine with it. My problem is she made such a big deal of telling me she was ...