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Archived questions from: June, 2008 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

I want to stay with him him so much. Heart or head?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 167 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - I'm considering ending my relationship of 8 months because I have become so paranoid about my boyfriend cheating. Four months ago he suggested going on a break for a few weeks, and later admitted it was to see another girl who he took on dates and ...

I'm sure he's "at it". I want to catch him. Can you help?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 193 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - About the beginning of last month my husband started acting different. One morning when I woke up, I decided to go onto his MSN and his facebook to see what I could find. On his MSN hotmail he had an email from an adult sex site. I got the password ...

My partner speaks to her "friend" daily. Then I found sexual text messages...

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 193 days ago

30 June 2008 (M) - I have recently got engaged and moved in with my partner. Until last week, everything was perfect and i couldn't imagine anything else i could wish for in life until we were driving home from work, my partner took a phone call from a friend i had ...

My girlfriend's background is trashy, rather slutty and I suffer from it. How can I get past this? How can I regain confidence?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 191 days ago

30 June 2008 (M) - Hi, I am 28 yrs old and I am in love with this 24 yrs old british girl with a pretty filled and trashy sexual background. We have been together for 4 months and connected staright away, we are both crazy and very alert but the first times we tried...

He had his first lap dance and I'm feeling even more insecure now, help me cope, please.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

30 June 2008 (F) - Hello there, I have a problem, which makes me feel bad about myself. I'm insecure, and I'm not sure why, and I wish I could somehow turn off some switch inside me to stop feeling like this. It's about strippers and strip clubs. I wish so much ...

How can I gain her trust back and get a second chance with her? Please help I need some good advice....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 191 days ago

30 June 2008 (M) - Please help! Me and my ex girlfriend broke up about 2 months ago now after being together for a year. I love her so much and I want us to get back together, but I dont know how to convince her to give me another chance. The reason for us breaking ...

She's showing the same signs of cheating again, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

30 June 2008 (M) - Hey heres my question... Ok so ive been with my girlfriend for over a year now. we broke up a couple of times because it was obvious that she was cheating on me, so i broke up with her. we got back together about 2 months ago and everything w...

I love her. She's the light of my life. But when she won't even let me have some fellowship with my friends in peace, it really does drive me away...any advice???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 176 days ago

29 June 2008 (M) - My wife and I have been married for 6 years, as of this past April. We have a good relationship, by my reckoning. We have 1 son, who is 3 years old. I like to go out and try new restaurants, whereas she doesn't. I like to have friends over for...

We met online, then in real life and everything clicked. Now all of a sudden he has backed off, what is going on??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

29 June 2008 (?) - I have met this wonderful guy via a dating site on the internet. We were chatting, phoning, text messages, Skype messages and calls until the early hours of the morning. We were getting very close to each other and yeah, fond of each other. After 6 ...

My partner is controlling and lies to me. Should I leave?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 195 days ago

29 June 2008 (F) - I need help, I found out my partner was arranging to meet by text someone they met online for real for coffee, it was all hugs and kisses texts, and they said lets meet coffee, then I found out and said what is it going to be me or that coffee, they ...

We have only met once but I'm already feeling insecure. How can I protect myself emotionally?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 194 days ago

29 June 2008 (F) - It's been a year since I split from my ex partner. He played mind games and made me feel I was going mad,because he wanted a relationship with someone he works with. Anyway a few months ago I joined a dating site and have had a few meets. some w...

Can you forgive after cheating?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 195 days ago

28 June 2008 (M) - Four months ago I got back together with my ex,who is a good friend that I've known all my life. We never made it official, because we knew the relationship was going to have to end soon when she left town for 6 months. Despite this we agreed to be ...

My boyfriend still gets mad about stuff I did in the past. Help me please!!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

28 June 2008 (F) - Hi, I have some issues, I feel totally lost, like I don't know where I'm going in this relationship! Ok, my bf and I have had our issues because he asked about my past early in the relationship, and I lied about it, and later when I came clean, he b...

My relationship ended because of jealousy, arguments and mistrust. Am I crazy to not let this go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 195 days ago

28 June 2008 (F) - My ex and I were in a relationship for 3 years, ended b/c of jealousy, arguments and mistrust. we reconnected after 7 months of not communicating and it seemed as though everything was going well(even though he would constantly bring up the nega...

I'm a virgin - I'm left wondering whether she is or not. My fiance`s past relationship is bothering me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 195 days ago

28 June 2008 (M) - This question stems from my fiances past relationship and my inexperience with relationships, but before I think crazy things I need your experienced advice. This is a long and boring read so bear with me if you really want to help me. ABOUT ME ...

Can players ever be trusted?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 195 days ago

28 June 2008 (F) - Can someone out there please tell me - what is a "Player"? I hear of this reference alot and just wondering what are the character traits of a player, how does he relate to women. What does he REALLY think of women? Can players ever be trusted?...

I want to end my relationship with him but I love him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 196 days ago

28 June 2008 (F) - i really need help with this. i met my boyfriend 2months ago and we barely know each other before dating.he told me he was an investor and he loves spending and he was also a young millonaire. we met through myspace and hookd up and afterwards ...

I get this jealous streak when it comes to my older boyfriend! Is this because I'm inexperienced?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 195 days ago

28 June 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years, and he is 8 years older than me (imonly 18). I find myself feeling jealous when he goes out, as i dont go out hardly ever, and i also get jealous because he talks to quite a few old friends- of ...

He's cheated on all his girlfriends and now I find condoms! I'm pregnant with his child so will things just sort themselves out?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 195 days ago

27 June 2008 (F) - I have been with the guy Im seeing for 7 months,I am also 5 months pregnant which caused tons of probs but seem to be sorting themselves out now. So after an awful few months of finding out we'd be parents we have recently started getting on. I've ...

Why did he stop speaking to me all of a sudden?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 196 days ago

27 June 2008 (F) - I just got out of a bad relationship. It's been hard for me, but I overcame it finally and my life is being put back together. I still think about my ex, but I don't care for how he did me. I datd him for a year and some months, everything was going ...

Wife had affair I cant get over it and move on, I want to though...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 196 days ago

27 June 2008 (M) - How do you put your wifes affair in the past and move forward in the relationship. She has told me everything and I know I neglected her infact I had two affairs on her and she knew about one. We have both cut off all ties to the affair poeple and ...

I'm having problems with him chatting to other girls

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 196 days ago

27 June 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years, and he is 8 years older than me (imonly 18). I find myself feeling jealous when he goes out, as i dont go out hardly ever, and i also get jealous because he talks to quite a few old friends- of ...

Need help in coping with my boyfriends past

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

27 June 2008 (F) - i have been with my bf for 5 months. we are in love. before me he did drugs and had alot of one night stands. he says he is done with all that now and has vowed never to touch drugs again. altho he has promised me before and has done them twice ...

She led me on and then completely broke my heart, and It still hurts like hell!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 196 days ago

27 June 2008 (M) - I'm hoping someone can help me to get a better understanding of what's happened to me recently. I was seeing a lovely girl for three weeks. It was only a short fling, but she was very keen and things got quite intense quickly, mainly because she ...

I feel I am probably losing her - what can I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

27 June 2008 (M) - Hi, I met my girlfriend in high school. We went to college in the same city. After college I bought an apartment and we moved together. We have been together for 10 years. I am her only serious boyfriend. We are the best friend of each other an...

I need some cheating boyfriend advice about catching them in the act. Can anyone help??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 196 days ago

27 June 2008 (F) - My Story: Ive been with this guy now for well over a year, I gave up everything for him to move interstate so he could be round his family and friends and Ive given my absolute all to the relationship. About 6 months ago I checked his email to find ...

I am obsessed with the girl my ex fiancee cheating on me with

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 145 days ago

27 June 2008 (F) - I found out my ex-fiance had slept with a co-worker behind my back. i posted a distressing agony on here. but the thing is i am obsessed with this girl. and i say girl becuase she was only 17. I just cant explain it, but im obsessed. i hate her and ...

My mum wont let me stay the night at my boyfriends!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 27 days ago

26 June 2008 (F) - how unfair is it to not let you'r 16 year old daughter stay at her boyfriends for one night? my mother wont trust me, even tho she was stayin over at my dads all the time when she was my age. she refuses me to stay over at my boyfriend. ho...

How do I find out if he's having an affair?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 196 days ago

26 June 2008 (F) - my husband had an affair he denies they slept together and were just friends now he has a lot of female friends i dont know i may have met her in the supermarket once and have been introduced i think he's up to some thing again but have no proof and ...

I found my husband online dating, please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 197 days ago

26 June 2008 (F) - hi im 22 and my husbands 25 , we've been together 4 years but lately ive been having real trusting problems which isnt healthy for the relationship, you see i found out that he had signed up to a online dating site not just any though a one for ...

Another porn problem, with a twist...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

26 June 2008 (F) - OK, so I have a problem and searched it in Google and came across a thread on this site. The dilemma was similar to mine but with some key differences. My would be husband has been looking at porn and just like every other woman poster, it hurts. ...

Surely if he were so in love with me he'd make that 2 hour drive?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 196 days ago

26 June 2008 (F) - met a guy in March, he lives far away bout 2 hour drive. Well he is my friends cousin. We started dating and he came to see me a few weekends and became very serious very soon. He said he wanted to marry me, knew he felt that way and started ...

A text is just a text... or is it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 197 days ago

26 June 2008 (F) - hi i have been with my boyfriend for 4 years and about 2 years ago he cheated on me. i decided to forgive me we are all humns and i believe we al deserve a second chance so i forgave him. but mving on our relationship just like many other has ups ...

He masturbates to porn--would phone sex and webcam use make him masturbate to me??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 194 days ago

26 June 2008 (F) - Okay. So my boyfriend has been lying to me about masturbating to other girls for about a year. I found tons of porn on his computer yesterday. I am really angry at him and I was wondering if phone sex would make him masturbate to me? And possibly if ...

My husband has been visiting dating websites!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 195 days ago

26 June 2008 (F) - i am new to this site, i ran into it on accident but i'm glad i did. the first question i ran into sounded just like mine. my husband has been going into websites without me knowing and there date, or meet someone websites. i found out by accident ...

Is it normal for him to want more than one woman?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 197 days ago

26 June 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I met and fell in love very quickly and knew we could spend our lives together. He told me early that he didn't think he could only see one woman naked for the rest of his life and would like to have prostitutes give him hand jobs ...

He won't remove his ex from his friends list!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 191 days ago

26 June 2008 (F) - my boyfriend have a second myspace account and he refuses to remove his ex from his friends list,he removed her from his top friends list but he wont remove her from the friends list ...

He's been flirting with his ex via e-mail, what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 175 days ago

26 June 2008 (F) - i dont know what to say to my boyfriend.he is flirting with his ex-gilfriend.this what he said to her over an email. "Y is it always so hard 4 u to believe me, am i dat a lie?? Anyways, am feeling bad 4 ya hornyness, where is ur man, if u aint get...

Am I wrong for wanting to know how old she was when she lost her virginity?

This question has 31 answers - newest was posted 191 days ago

26 June 2008 (M) - I am having trouble coping with the fact that my girlfriend won't tell me how old she was when she first had sex. I know who it was with, just not how old she was. I also want to know how many different guys she's been with and who they are. To a ...

What should I do about having found naked pictures of her ex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 191 days ago

25 June 2008 (M) - What should I do about naked photos of her ex-boyfriend? Here is some background information: My girlfriend and I have been dating for 1.5 years and are getting ready to move-in together. We "joke around" about getting married and it doesn't s...

Is it safe to be with a girl who cheated on me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 198 days ago

25 June 2008 (M) - is it safe to be with a girl who cheated me? i wish to be with her, but i hav lost the trust. i wish to regain it by time. she gal says that i will never gain the trust again, and its better to stop.... she is also not suer that she wont repeat the ...

My boyfriend has gone to the other side of the world for a few months... Any suggestions on how to make this time go a bit faster and better for me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 198 days ago

25 June 2008 (F) - Hi, My boyfriend has gone to the other side of the world to work for a few months. Where he is gone is pretty remote so he will only be able to ring me maybe once a week. I'm feeling very down about this, he only left yesterday..I am desperatley ...

Is it unreasonable to ask for stop the contact with her friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 198 days ago

25 June 2008 (F) - Hi, I want a little advice. Last year my partner had an emotional affair with an old friend she had been mailing for years. She ended up going to Sweden to meet her and told me soon after that she thought she was in love with her. We have sought...

How can I tell if I am attractive to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 198 days ago

25 June 2008 (F) - I met this guy on the internet and was not immediately attracted to him, but he was persistant and I agreed to meet him. We got on well and since I was previously married for many years and so was he we had mutual interest. We started a ...

I love him, but I'm sure I've lost him. how can I cope?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 195 days ago

25 June 2008 (F) - I have problems with my bf. Or maybe soon to be ex. Probably soon to be ex. See, we have a long history of issues because in my past I was with some guys he knew. This was way before I met him, but when we started dating I never told him, even t...

I date my cousin somtimes but also cheat on him, but can't stand seeing him with anyone else!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 198 days ago

25 June 2008 (F) - I've had this huge crush on him ever since i could remember, he always makes me happy. we have kissed before and dated but sometimes i cheat on him with someone else, i hate seeing him with another person. are my feelings only like a cousin or more?...

Why does he lie about trivia?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 198 days ago

25 June 2008 (F) - Okay. So my boyfriend and i have been together for about three months. He always says he loves me, but i dont get the feeling that he means it. I tell him i love him back but im really confused about my feelings for him. When im with him, everything ...

How to I make my daughter a lady and not a tramp?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 198 days ago

25 June 2008 (M) - Help please!! I am a single dad and live with my daughters. (4 of them. I love them all very much and until last week it was not a problem. My oldest daughter is 18 years old and is a very strong minded thing. Anyway last week I finished up work...

What do you do when your girlfriend still has strong feelings for her ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 198 days ago

25 June 2008 (M) - what do u do when ur girlfriend still has strong feelings 4 her ex?...

I fear even talking to other girls because if my friend finds out she will treat me really badly

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 199 days ago

25 June 2008 (F) - Ive had this friend since we were 6 years old, we are now both 19 years old and ever since we were little kids shes tried to destroy any other friendships ive had with other people. And she still does this. When we were 6 she told another girl who I ...