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Archived questions from: May, 2017 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

He's unbalanced and often will not take his meds. I'm scared of making another mistake but I know I have to leave him. How can my children and I leave him safely?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2514 days ago

30 May 2017 (F) - I've decided to leave but I am scared. I've been married twice before. The first 14 years and two children and he cheated. The second was a rebound one child but he was abusive. I had 5 years on my own with my three children and we were happy...

So tired of it, what now? I feel rejected again. We met, and then we were texting a lot. Now he is not replying.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2514 days ago

29 May 2017 (F) - Hi! Just need some advice on not stressing out too much... I met this guy a week ago, last friday. We were at a party and kissed on the night and he was SO nice. He asked for my number and texted me the day after and told me how nice it was ...

I am beginning to resent him. He has changed since we married. He is now sarcastic to me. How can this be resolved ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2515 days ago

29 May 2017 (F) - Apologizes in advance for the long post but I really need advice. My husband and I have been married for five months. We dated for 2.5 years long distance. I moved to his city post-marriage. During the time we dated, he was always very sweet ...

Who am I? I want to be bisexual as I think I like girls more than boys now. Hardly anyone I know is bisexual

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2501 days ago

29 May 2017 (F) - I have been out with loads of boys but I kissed a girl and I think I like girls now. I want to be bisexual, but don't know what people would think and well it's harder to get a good relationship because hardly anyone I know is bisexual or gay. W...

How do I determine if this relationship will ever turn serious or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2515 days ago

29 May 2017 (F) - I have been in an awkward type of relationship with a man that is 14 years my senior . I Have known my Partner for 13 years now and we have an oops baby that we both love to bits and pieces. we started out as a one night stand that became a fr...

Why did my husband marry me, (I'm slim), if he prefers more curvy woman when he watches porn?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2456 days ago

29 May 2017 (F) - I am a slim enough (not too slim but not curvy chubby), my husbands porn preference is ALWAYS BBW or chubby women. Why?? I know it's his preference because we've talked about his sexual attraction to BBW women! And we sometimes watch porn together...

I found a phone he'd been using to text a woman for 4 years!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2456 days ago

27 May 2017 (F) - Hi I found a phone my husband had a few months ago he had been texting a woman for 4 years !! It was someone he had known 35 years ago and been out with a few times before he met me . He states that he thought they had slept together 35 years ago ...

I fell in love with a part-time escort and not sure what to do now

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2516 days ago

26 May 2017 (M) - Long read, please be patient. I am a working professional in my early 30’s and I've been living and working in Southeast Asia for the past 10 years. I live and work in a rather remote and industrial area and thus I've always found it diffic...

Haven't heard from my friend after I rebuffed his advances. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2520 days ago

24 May 2017 (F) - A friend came over we went to my room sat on the bed we talked them he touched me I moved his hands. Shortly after he left. Haven't heard him after that. He only sent me moving greetings via whatsapp. Should I try to contact him or walk away?...

I cheated and had a one night stand!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 2334 days ago

24 May 2017 (M) - Hi, I have been with my girlfriend for 3 years. She honestly is the love of my life and I am very happy with her and would do anything for her. Unfortunately, I made a terrible mistake a couple of nights ago , had way too many drinks (which I know ...

Advise needed about my husband's therapist!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2521 days ago

24 May 2017 (F) - Hi all, I'm really confused and would appreciate your help. My husband's therapist wants me to LIE to my husband and I'm not comfortable with it. My husband has been in therapy for almost 10 years. The last shrink changed our lives 8 mont...

He said he needed time away from me but still texts every day.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2520 days ago

23 May 2017 (F) - So my boyfriend of a year and a half told me last week out of the blue that he needs time away from me. At first I thought he was joking and I said are you casually trying to break up with me and he said no that he stressed and that I've been mean ...

I am troubled and feel so down.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2513 days ago

23 May 2017 (F) - Just looking for advice. I'm 33 and separated from my husband due to domestic violence we separated in December having only been married 3 months. I wasn't happy for a long time and only married as we have 2 kids one is 2 1/2 and the other is 15 ...

How can I cope with my sexual frustration? Masturbating seems my only option. How can I feel better about myself?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2520 days ago

23 May 2017 (M) - I'm 26yrs old and have accomplished nothing. I failed college, don't have a job, and I am a virgin. I feel that I am a hopeless disgrace with no future or anything of value. My problem is that I am sexually frustrated but feel like I have noth...

We are newly weds. Should I confront him over this? He's been watching porn, alone, when I've been at work

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2520 days ago

23 May 2017 (F) - Hi I am 61 years old my husband is the same age. He has trouble keeping an erection but he tries he says it's do to his blood pressure. We have only been marriedx for 7 months now i know he likes porno. I have watched it with him What bothers m...

Do I date him or not? My mother says NO to dating him. My friend says Yes, or she'll not be my friend.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2520 days ago

23 May 2017 (F) - So this guy likes me and i sorta like him back but people tell him not to date him but my best friend says if i dont she wont be my friend and people that said no because they wont let me date him and my mum says i should say no what should i do?...

Despite out 6 year age difference, do you think this relationship could work out well for us ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2521 days ago

23 May 2017 (M) - Hello. I'd like to get some advice, as I've never been in a similar situation before. I've met a really good, caring and beautiful girl, and in short, we talked a bit, she told me she liked me since the last year, and later on, we kissed a few ...

I'm getting no empathy or support from my family.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2521 days ago

23 May 2017 (F) - Hi I'm not really sure where to start with this one or how to word it without coming across like I'm playing the victim so il just say how it is best I can. Basically I am in my 30s with three children. 11,13 and 10 weeks. My newest addition was a ...

Will I ruin our friendship if I ask him out first?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2524 days ago

21 May 2017 (F) - A simple one really. A guy I like seems to exhibit all the signs of being into me - dilated pupils, unnecessary physical contact, teasing, lots of talking, grooming around me, etc. Just all that stuff. Yet he hasn't asked me out, and I haven't as...

I feel used. Should I tell his Gf?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2523 days ago

20 May 2017 (F) - I had been speaking to this guy that I met online.. we had been flirting away and getting on super well. Time passed as he asked to meet which I agreed. However he didn't make it and I found out it was because he has a girlfriend. I've accepte...

I am not sure if she feels the same about me. what can I do? I've developed feelings for a female co-worker.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2523 days ago

20 May 2017 (F) - Not sure where to start.... So I am a 24 year old female and have developed feelings for a co-worker who is also female but is 45years old. We have worked together for over 2years now, we work amongst a team and work with different colleagues. I wo...

What do her words mean?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2523 days ago

20 May 2017 (M) - hello, I've been seeing this girl now for 6 months, but out of no where, she been acting moody and distant with me lately and I don't know why. So I confronted her about it and ask if I was us and she said yes. she went on to say "I don't know h...

I cannot keep on ignoring him. He keeps on asking me to his, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2521 days ago

20 May 2017 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am only 14 but have a boyfriend I think he is super sweet and super cute but he is always asking me round to his. I always decline because I am too nervous because he seems to eager to move on with our relationship but all we have ...

I cheated then found out my girlfriend is pregnant. She says she doesn't trust me and would leave me if she wasn't pregnant

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2526 days ago

18 May 2017 (M) - I've been dating my girlfriend for four years. A year ago we bought a house together and within weeks I got laid off from my job. I ended having to take a job that required me to be out of town for three weeks then home for a week. I felt terrible ...

My boyfriend is grounded and I feel its my fault.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2526 days ago

18 May 2017 (F) - My boyfriend has college review classes and is not allowed to go out after classes. But the other day, he broke the rules and went out to have lunch with me. When we were almost done with our lunch, his dad called him and got mad at him because his ...

Do many females masturbate ? I feel ashamed when I do so.

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 2512 days ago

17 May 2017 (F) - Do lots of girls/ladies masterbate? I get so paranoid that I'm abnormal for doing it because my friends never talk about it and sometimes someone will make a comment that it's more of a boy thing and I'll feel ashamed. ...

Boyfriend created fake marriage documents with his ex so that she could have residency in the US. Do I tell him I know? What do I do now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2527 days ago

17 May 2017 (F) - I live with my boyfriend of a year. We moved in together 2 months ago and everything has been wonderful from the start of our relationship. Today I finally unpacked our last box. I opened a notebook I didn't recognize and it was a journal he wrote ...

Is his attitude to me just a phase?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2530 days ago

16 May 2017 (F) - This guy I did like told me he liked me. And then his whole personality changed in attempt to impress me. He agrees with everything I say and seems to say stuff to just try and impress me, almost like he's googled something to just make ...

My female friends keep hitting on my boyfriend. What do we do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2528 days ago

15 May 2017 (F) - My boyfriend and I, both 26, have been together one year. We met through a social group meetup. We are the youngest among our large group of friends as everyone else is in their 30s. We have been with the group for 1.5 years. We are both social ...

Am I asking too much? Can I trust him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2529 days ago

15 May 2017 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been fighting a lot over the last 3 months. It started as I was nitpicking at him and I think it was due to my parents divorcing and me desperately wanting him to be there with me. I live at home with my Mum and brother and ...

I thought the online military guy from the UK liked me so how did he suddenly lose interest?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2529 days ago

13 May 2017 (F) - Hey there Aunts and Uncles! I have a quick question for you guys, you may think it's stupid because it probably is. So a week ago, I created a profile on this dating app and met a guy pretty quickly. We exchanged face pics and added each ot...

We are two very different people. I feel stuck in this relationship. What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2530 days ago

12 May 2017 (F) - Feeling stuck between a rock and a hard place. My boyfriend and I have been together for about 2 and a half years, and we have lived together for 2. He is an incredibly kind guy, he always means well, and is all around just a nice guy. However...

I obsess over him too much. What can I do to rid myself of dating anxiety?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2533 days ago

12 May 2017 (F) - I obsess over him too much. I have a terrible form of dating anxiety and even though I do look good, I never dated before because of fear. A few months ago I met a guy and dated him for a short period of time. He was my first everything. We par...

Why can't I get a girlfriend again? And a girlfriend without a lot of crazy luggage from her past?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2533 days ago

12 May 2017 (M) - Hello Not a newcomer to this site, been here for a few years really but I've decided to post this anonymously. So I think I'm stuck in a rut with relationships. I've taken what's easy and made a few dumb decisions, and over the last yea...

Why does my teacher take photos of me? Yes I do have a crush on him.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2534 days ago

11 May 2017 (F) - So I have a crush on this particular teacher for at least 4 years already. At first, i was completely not interested and found him extremely ugly. However, tables had been turned around in my second year of my Secondary school. Apparently he f...

If a guy is happy with his Gf then why does he act uncomfortable and angry towards his ex-crush?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2533 days ago

11 May 2017 (F) - This guy, his girlfriend, and the girl he use to has a crush on, work at the same place. The "ex crush" is still friends with the guy's girlfriend and he doesn't reallly care for them to still be friends. He use to profess his love to the "ex ...

I don't feel I'm attractive to girls. How do I overcome my insecurities?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2534 days ago

11 May 2017 (M) - I have a question, a lot of girls that i have dated don't seem to bother about my looks, and many people tend to tell me that i am goodlooking etc., But i find myself ugly, and i have big lips,etc , which i am made fun of sometimes, and i find tha...

Help ! What is the best way to approach him? what do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2534 days ago

11 May 2017 (M) - I am 20 years old (nearly 21) and I have been seeing someone since December 2016 who was 37 but is now 38. We met online on a dating app, things were great at the start, we both hinted we were looking for a relationship and on our first date we ...

Am I being a drama queen? How can I deal with this?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2529 days ago

11 May 2017 (F) - I know that to other people this is going to sound ridiculous, but this is a huge dilemma for me because I can't help how I feel. Maybe I'm really upset about something else and this is the tip of the iceberg. I am very uncomfortable wh...

CatFish, and tips to keep you safe

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10 May 2017 (F) - CatFish,has nothing to do with either Cats or Fish.As you will probably know ..CATFISH....is a person male/female who will put a fake profile on dating sites....and will contact many people or maybe just one and have a relationship be it ...

A long term friend dated my brother, treated him poorly, and now she wants to reconcile with me, without explaining. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2534 days ago

10 May 2017 (F) - Sorry this is so long! My best friend from grade school went overseas for college and upon returning started a relationship with my brother. I was living in a different state by now and she initially wanted him to keep the relationship a s...

What can I do? My Gf of 5 years says she wants to have sex with another guy.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2532 days ago

10 May 2017 (M) - Okay so I have been with my girlfriend for 5 years. Recently I started noticing a big change in our sex life like she was losing interest. After a few months and started asking her what changed and all she would say was I don't know. After it e...

Is it wrong that I get more sexual satisfaction from masterbating and my sexual fantasies, and less satisfaction when having sex with a man?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2532 days ago

10 May 2017 (F) - Hey. I have been masturbating since I was younger. A lot. I'm 43 years old now, cannot settle down, never found a man who really satisfies me (maybe 1 or 2) because they always get off for themselves and can't really be bothered with me or my ...

How should I approach this situation? I think he is messaging other women.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2534 days ago

10 May 2017 (F) - Recently I have had suspicions that my partner is messaging other women and watching porn. What makes me think this? On a few occasions I have heard orgasms, which made me feel uncomfortable, as I don't like the thought of my partner getting ...

She behaves so sweetly in public. But she cheated on me. What can I do to forget a crafty girlfriend, who I trusted and love?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2534 days ago

10 May 2017 (M) - My LDR girlfriend cheated on me. I found out and I told her about her cheating. She cried, she denied her cheating. I said to her that I would not sponsor her into U.S as the fiancee. She replied to me that she did not want to go to U.S. After...

Why would my ex male friend partially ghost me instead of going to complete NO Contact? How do I end this madness?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2533 days ago

10 May 2017 (F) - First he tried to ease me into a FWB, after agreeing to friendship. We spoke, text and video chatted practically everyday. We did have sex twice. He wanted to continue to have sex as an FWB. I informed him recently that I was not FWB material. I ...

I'm torn between boyfriend and a new guy. Do I stay with my Bf or go with the new guy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2534 days ago

10 May 2017 (F) - I am currently in a relationship with my boyfriend for a little over a year now. We have a huge age gap 11years??. We met at work and fell hard for each other. We've obviously had our ups and downs but grew stronger throughout the year. My boyfri...

How do I converse with my crush? I'm shy. Should I try, or just let it go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2534 days ago

10 May 2017 (F) - So i have a crush on this boy at my school, he's in the same year as i am, but I've never talked to him, not like a real conversation. I'm very shy, and also his friends are like not the same group of people as my friends. I'm afraid that if i ta...

How do I tell my strict, military, religious father that I'm pregnant?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2534 days ago

9 May 2017 (F) - I am a 20 year old who still lives at home. I just found out I'm pregnant with my boyfriend's child. My friend and I haven't been dating very long but I have known and been friends with him for over 6years. Because of this fact my father hasn't...

What should I do? Four years after we broke up my ex still hangs around, tries to get my attention and stares at me whenever he sees me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2534 days ago

9 May 2017 (F) - Hi I split from my ex boyfriend 4 years ago, after I had a miscarriage. Neither of us wanted to split up but after the miscarriage he ended it with me i moved on met another man and had a baby girl. Yet my ex still hangs around and stares at me an...