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Archived questions from: August, 2014 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

Forever single?. How do I learn to be more comfortable with girls? How or when or where can I touch a girl?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3517 days ago

31 August 2014 (M) - How do I touch girls? I have been forever single. In order for me to have a girlfriend she needs to see that other girls are comfortable round me. The problem is I fear them all so much that I can't remember the last time ( if it even exists ) tha...

How do I handle my best friend who is convinced that I had sex with her husband when this is not true?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3492 days ago

31 August 2014 (F) - My best friend of 35 yrs has accused me and her husband of having affair. We never had a misunderstanding not once .her husband texted me about 3:45 am one morning asking me to listen to him. He and my bestfriend had been arguing so he wanted me...

How do I attract faithful and available men interested in dating? Not interested in married men

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3506 days ago

31 August 2014 (F) - Modnote added: The writer may mean celibate rather than abstinent? ................................................ Hi. I am asking advice on how to attract good faithful men. I am not going to any bars or nothing like that. Yet, only married men...

He doesn't want to move on. I can't see us lasting together. So why do I keep going back to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3517 days ago

31 August 2014 (F) - I've been with a slightly younger guy for 2 years now. After 8 months we moved in together in to a house i bought. We shouldn't have moved in so quick, because it all ended up pear shaped and i had to move him out to cut a long story short. ...

I'm worried I may be paranoid about them laughing behind my back.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3518 days ago

30 August 2014 (F) - Basically I met this group of girls through my job. I've been there about 8 months now and I would like to think I get on with everyone, however, generally I just do my work and go home. I don't do 'office gossip' if you will. I am quite introverted ...

He said marriage was not about money.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3518 days ago

30 August 2014 (F) - Why does he talk like this? Is marriage about money or not? So I had an arguement last night with bf. I asked him if he's ready for marriage and he said yes. But said no, cause he's been out of job for 8 months now and he's reluctant ab...

Why did my boyfriend, who is a well respected member of the local community, have to indulge in this cheap theft-like activity?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3518 days ago

30 August 2014 (F) - Hi, I am in a relationship (3 months) with a lovely guy (we are both in our 60s) and he is a well respected member of the local community. One thing really bothers me though; our town hosts a huge annual agricultural show and the entry fee is £25 ...

Should I just brave it and try to approach girls. What are some good tips to connect with girls?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3517 days ago

30 August 2014 (M) - I am 15, tall, muscular, well featured, and intelligent. I never curse or swear and I would never insult anyone. I respect all girls but especially like brown haired, cute, and shy girls. I homeschool so therefore I don't socialise much but when...

It was nearly 8 years ago. We broke up due to his cheating. So why does he still have a hold over me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3518 days ago

30 August 2014 (F) - My ex cheated on repeatedly and when I found out it broke my heart. We were in our late teens and it seemed like I would never get over it, as it does at that age. Time moved on and so did I, and after a year or so I felt ready to start meeting ...

Feeling guilty about walking away from my drug addict guy. Was I wrong to take some distance?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3517 days ago

30 August 2014 (F) - Hi everyone I have been in a relationship for a few months with a guy who is a drug addict. He uses coke, meth, heroin, etc. We recently spoke about his drug addiction and I told him that I will be there to support his recovery. He just has to ...

Crush on my soon to be Ex boss. What's the best way to ask him out after I leave?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3519 days ago

30 August 2014 (F) - I'm 43, divorced and my soon to be ex-boss is 65 , looks 50 and divorced. I've had a crush on him for the one year we worked together but I've handled it pretty well without showing it. I've found a new job and will be leaving in two weeks. Wh...

Should I believe him? My heart is saying I'm not ready to give up on us

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3517 days ago

30 August 2014 (F) - My world is in bits. My heart has been ripped out of my chest and my whole body aches. I can't believe I'm here writing this. I found out Thursday my childhood sweetheart (5 years together) and the man I love to pieces has been cheating. He h...

Is my lack of sexual experience the reason I have so many doubts about my Gf's virginity? Was she really a virgin?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3518 days ago

30 August 2014 (M) - I am love a very cute girl and she also, our relationship going on from last 2 year. our relationship going with love,emotions, some time fight, sadness but it is true great love having between us. one day we had decided that more close to ea...

Is this just an excuse for breaking up? Or what does he mean by his remarks?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3519 days ago

30 August 2014 (F) - My boyfriend is ending out relationship because he said he was unhappy and didn't feel like himself. He told me he wants to focus on himself and make himself happy and then he can focus on us . I am confused about focusing on himself part ? I...

I feel weird asking him after an hour. what do you think he meant by his remark?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3519 days ago

30 August 2014 (F) - Hi everyone I texted my friend a video about gardening (he loves gardening), and told him it reminded me of him. And he texted it was funny because anytime he sees a cool math video (I love math) he thinks of me and I think of him when I see garden...

I want to be with him but I'm not sure that I can trust him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3519 days ago

30 August 2014 (F) - My names Tori and I dated my bf for just over a year. I signed up for a summer volunteering placement that involved me spending the summer travelling and doing work in low income communities. I left on June 1st and returned on Monday. While I was ...

I found out my wife was/is a call girl. How do I end this marriage with the least amount of pain?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3518 days ago

29 August 2014 (M) - hi lovely people out there..... im really in mess. i do need your help so desperately .... please. Here is my story. i married a girl just 3 months ago. i knew her about a year. I happen to know her by a friend i used know. She was her relative...

He says he loves me should I give him another chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3520 days ago

29 August 2014 (F) - I was dating a guy but he left me, he blocked me on facebook and i didn't know why. He came back to me saying he has regreted doing that to me cuz he has never forgiven himself for it. i asked him why he left me and he told me he doesn't recall why ...

I really love this girl and want to trust her but I'm finding it difficult

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3518 days ago

29 August 2014 (M) - Hello guys and girls.. About a year ago.. I had an issue with my girl friend which I reported here http://www.dearcupid.org/question/girlfriend-cheated-but-then-chose-me-but-im.html .. the TL;DR version is about how my gf cheated on (because I ...

I`d like to learn to feel confident in this relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3520 days ago

28 August 2014 (F) - I met my boyfriend at university; we have been together for three years, and spent most of this time together almost constantly. He has invited me into his family and is overall supportive of me in my work. On the other hand he hasn’t stuck up ...

Should I believe my girlfriend and what she says about her past?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3520 days ago

28 August 2014 (M) - my girlfriend and I were talking about past sexaul experiences and she told me she had sex with 2 guys. I really do not care what she did before me, but she said the boy that lived next door fingered her for 3 years but never had sex with her.I k...

Suspicious behaviour from my wife in the context of a poor marriage

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3520 days ago

28 August 2014 (M) - Ok so here is the situation. About 2 yrs. ago my wife tells me that she is not in love with me anymore and that we should separate. The next day she wants to take back what she said and work on our marriage. So I agree. Anyways, My wife is ...

I told him everything but he doesn't trust me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3521 days ago

28 August 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been happily married for 16 years. Well a few months ago a friend's husband sent me a text message offering an indecent proposal. I was immediately up front with my husband but since he has treated me on occasions as if ...

Am I overreacting about him not initiating any text for the last few days ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3521 days ago

28 August 2014 (F) - I have been dating this guy for 2 months over the summer and he had to move 6 hours away (driving) to finish his masters program for one year. Prior to his moving we had spent a month and half 24/7 together. We had gotten very close and decided ...

I haven't been able to stop thinking about her. Do I love her or is it just a crush?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3518 days ago

28 August 2014 (M) - I haven't been able to stop thinking about her since the day I first saw her. She is beautiful but so are many of the tens of thousands of girls on campus. Even though I was shy to even talk to her at first I got to know her and she is extremel...

How do express my feelings about this LDR? Should I cut him some slack? His actions don't express romantic intentions to me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3521 days ago

27 August 2014 (F) - I am in a LDR of two months with a guy in UK. We talk everyday and he professes his love for meeting a woman like me everyday. He wants to be with me and marry me. I am feeling the same as well but I do have to questions compatibility or maybe I'm ...

Conflicted. Do I stay with my new crush? Or try to resume with my former Bf?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3520 days ago

27 August 2014 (F) - Hello Everyone, I am in need of some help. I'm not quite sure where to start but I will try my best. I am starting my sophomore year of college on labor day, which is in less than a week. I'm excited, but I am also kinda dreading it. For ...

Boyfriend doesn't look at other girls...lying?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3514 days ago

27 August 2014 (F) - Basically, my boyfriend lies about looking at other girls. I've always known that men, even in a committed relationship, look at other women. Obviously I know some do it more than others and for some there's just glance. My boyfriend claims he ...

Should I tell my Mom the things my cousin has shared with me about my father and the affair my father is having?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3522 days ago

26 August 2014 (F) - My cousin [We'll call him R] came with me today with news that really shocked me. He told me my dad has been seeing a woman he graduated with who has a lot of money. The other day, R came to my house (I still live with my parents) and I wasn't the...

Expecting a baby with Bf. Looking for accomodation. Bf suggested adding a female room-mate. I said no. Was I wrong to say no to his idea?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3522 days ago

26 August 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I are currently apartment hunting. We are expecting a child in a few months and have been looking for a 2 bedroom apartment with little luck. The other day he messaged me telling me that one of his female coworkers was looking ...

Am I totally over thinking this? I don't want our relationship to be based on lies.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3522 days ago

26 August 2014 (F) - I got married three months ago, and we have been together for a little over two years. I am probably in the happiest relationship out of anyone I know. In the very beginning I didn't want to be official with him because I was so in love with my ...

Is it normal for boyfriends to not let their girlfriends know that they've been on the phone with other girls?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3523 days ago

26 August 2014 (F) - This question is rather trivial, but I would like to know whether its normal for boyfriends to not let their girlfriends know that they've been on the phone with other girls? My boyfriend recently commented that if there was anything he did that mig...

I go on a weekend away and come home to a boyfriend with what looks like a love bite on his neck

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3523 days ago

26 August 2014 (F) - Hi everyone! I'm just wanting your opinion on whether I'm being naive here! Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 years, I've never had a reason to not trust him! This weekend I went away with my friends for bank holiday and he went out ...

I think my B/f might he seeing this other girl but I don't know what to ask him.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3523 days ago

26 August 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I normally have a great sex life. We would have sex maybe 2-3 times a day when we first met, and although nothing too kinky, it was adventurous. When we moved in together it slowed down, and he almost stopped wanting it as of...

My boyfriend disappeared for days and I feel sad, confused, and lonely

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3523 days ago

26 August 2014 (F) - My boyfriend and I have (or had...) a very happy relationship, at least it was happy on my end, and he seemed happy too, but now I have no idea what is going on. It was very hard for me to trust him at first because of all the things that have ...

If I stay with him, I feel like my soul will die. If I leave, I'll leave with the clothes on my back and my child, with nowhere to turn...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3522 days ago

25 August 2014 (F) - So I need some advice/help... I'm 24 and a mother to a beautiful 7 year old daughter. I have also been in what I have discovered to be a very toxic relationship for 5 years. To sum it up, we have both hurt each other for no reason but too...

The more I find out about her past the more ill I feel

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3523 days ago

25 August 2014 (M) - sorry for the long post but gotta put from the start...i met my wife in august of 2012,she was 23 i was 28 she was a co-worker and from the moment i meet her i was just consumed by her never got tired of being around her and hated when our shift ...

Does him finding ME attractive mean he doesn't find his wife attractive?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3525 days ago

24 August 2014 (F) - I wanted to know if I have done the right thing or was there a chance that he was sort of serious about that me? There was a mutual crush between us, however we are both committed. His wife works in the same place as he does so do I, however, t...

I don't know if I can trust him. Should I remain friends?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3499 days ago

23 August 2014 (F) - Dear Agony Aunts, I am a bit confused and I need your advice. So anyways, I have a guy friend. We have been friends for years and he has a gf. Recently his gf when away and our friendship has gotten deeper, I have a sorta crush on him but I'm i...

I found out he watches porn and it makes me feel cheated

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3522 days ago

23 August 2014 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years and a couple of months ago I found out that he watches porn. I feel cheated on and lied to because he has always said that he doesn't watch porn because he loves and respects me too much to do so. I know a lot ...

Am I not supposed to show my feelings? I am at a loss!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3526 days ago

23 August 2014 (M) - I don't know what to do with my girlfriend anymore. I feel like I'm always failing, even when I don't know why or what I did wrong. I picked her up from work the other night with a bouquet of flowers, trying to be sweet. We went back to my place...

I'm insecure for no reason -- how do I stop it from hurting my relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3528 days ago

21 August 2014 (F) - I have been divorced for two yrs. I just started dating. I met a nice guy and we have been dating for almost a year. I love him very much and think he is great. We go to church together and talk about our future together. He is great with the ...

I want my boyfriend to forgive and forget

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3518 days ago

21 August 2014 (F) - i am dating this Boy for Three years now, a long distance relationship and unfortunately we are going down everyday cos i had an affair with a Boy a year ago and My bf found out and obviously was very sad and disappointed in me. But he forgave me ...

My boyfriend is mad with me and thinks I'm cheating... for no reason!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3529 days ago

20 August 2014 (F) - Hi everyone xx Right,so my boyfriend of a year has been going through a very rough patch and i helped him find a new place to stay and i tried to support him in every way i could... Before the wekeend, he wanted to see me but i couldn't due to ...

Extremely insecure and self conscious, I'm afraid this will kill my relationship!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3529 days ago

20 August 2014 (F) - I have dealt with this issue for most of my life and it's slowly killing me inside and I'm afraid will slowly over time kill my relationship if I don't stop. I am extremely insecure about myself, I have very low self esteem for reasons sometimes I ...

My fiance accuses me of cheating.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3530 days ago

19 August 2014 (F) - My fiance of four year has accused me of sleeping around. I have given him my undivided attention within the 4 years we have been together. He suffers from depression and iv been there always through his ups and downs. I cannot exept theses ...

My recovering drug addicted boyfriend has gone AWOL .... again!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3529 days ago

18 August 2014 (F) - Hi everyone I come here in despair, hoping to gain some insight from objective people. I have been dating a guy who is a recovering drug addict. We have been together for just over three months. At the beginning of our relationship, h...

We agreed to be exclusive, she says sex with another woman doesn't count!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3530 days ago

18 August 2014 (M) - I've been with a woman for about a month, we just recently had the talk and decided to be exclusive but not official. Deciding to take things slow. Last night she decided to attempt to see if she could do anything sexually with another woman. She ...

My ex boyfriend wont pay back money I lent him!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3523 days ago

18 August 2014 (F) - I recently asked my ex to payback some money he owes me. It's not much (150 dollars) but still, I think it is only fair he pays me back. I know he is strapped on cash and I am doing much better financially, but I don't understand how someone could ...

After dating him for several months I've learned he lied about his age!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3531 days ago

17 August 2014 (F) - Hi I'm 35 I met a guy he said he was 33 and we began dating. A few months later he tells me he had lied to me he is only 28 and his reason was that if I had known his age I wouldn't have dated him. I don't know what to do the age difference scary.....