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Archived questions from: May, 2016 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

Did my boyfriend lie to me about spending time with his son? What's going on here?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2886 days ago

31 May 2016 (F) - My boyfriend's son is over on a visit. He has been here for a week. He lives in the Florida and we are in Canada. Now, I am having some trouble figuring something out. Can everyone help me? Before I go insane? My boyfriend was supposed to sp...

My boyfriend cheated and I have all the proof but he keeps denying it

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2883 days ago

31 May 2016 (F) - This is probably a no brainer but I'm asking anyway, found out my boyfriend has been texting and chatting with his ex, I confronted him and he promised to stop because he didn't want to lose me the problem is he hasn't I checked his phone and have ...

I (F) upset my boyfriend and he's now being so cold with me. What do I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2887 days ago

31 May 2016 (F) - I need advice on what to do about my boyfriend. Whenever we have an argument and I am slightly to blame, he gives me the silent treatment the next day and sometimes for a few days. He has mental health problems and I will admit that he is very ...

Third option. Should I wait for more clear signs before reaching a decision on what to do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2871 days ago

31 May 2016 (M) - I have fallen for a best friend of mine. I don’t know if his feelings are reciprocated, what I do know is that I am walking between the borderline of acting on my feelings and pursuing him as more than a friend or restraining myself altogether and ...

What can I do? My ex ghosted me. Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2888 days ago

30 May 2016 (F) - My ex-boyfriend whom I've been sleeping with, ghosted me for someone else a month ago. I found this out from mutual friends. I feel absolutely horrible. I feel strung along, used, worthless, hopeless, "not good enough".. Its pretty pathetic. why no...

Seeking your opinions, please! Is he covering up dating another woman?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2888 days ago

30 May 2016 (F) - I have been seeing this man for quite awhile now. Recently there were some pics of him on Instagram with another girl. I questioned him about if he was seeing anyone and his reply was no. I then sent the pic to him and he still says this is not h...

I like this guy at work. But he is dating someone else at work. How should I handle this situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2888 days ago

30 May 2016 (F) - I like somebody at work, however it is a bit complicated as he is seeing someone else at work. A few months ago they had broken up (although I didn't know at the time) and at the pub he and I were getting on really well, enough for some of my work ...

He still lives with his ex. What can I do. ?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2886 days ago

30 May 2016 (F) - Hi guys thanks for reading, I am open to all the advise you can give me. I have been dating this guy for a few weeks, but I barely get to spend time with him because he has a son. I haven't met his son yet I would like to but not till we are in a...

Are my strategies taking me in the right direction? Should I 'live' a little after the divorce?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2887 days ago

30 May 2016 (F) - My husband and I are amicably divorcing after 10 years of being together. There's no drama, we've been dead as a couple for years, we just didn't fight in public or complained to friends and family. So people close to us are in shock, as they ...

My Bf ignores me and neglects me. Is it time to break up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2885 days ago

30 May 2016 (F) - If my boyfriend has neglected me for over 3 months and counting, should I break up with him? He might be working on something, or studying for finals, but that might not be it. I have also found another man but I haven't met him in real life, and I ...

How can we come to some agreement? We have different views about my past sexual history.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 2874 days ago

30 May 2016 (F) - Hey everyone, I'm hoping you can help! I'm in a relationship with this new lovely guy, but there is one main problem; we have very different ideas about sex and relationships etc. Basically he's very traditional and believes that sex is only wh...

My words initiated the break-up. But he broke up as if I never meant anything to him. How can I get over this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2887 days ago

30 May 2016 (F) - Hi, I am very unhappy i need advice I have been dating this man for ten months now and he has a habit of ignoring my calls and texts even for days so we have been urguing about it he says he is busy but he will go even for a week unless i contact ...

My boyfriend's behaviour has left me feeling confused. How do I make sense of this? Help !

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2887 days ago

30 May 2016 (F) - I am so confused about my boyfriend's behaviour lately. We've been together for nearly six months and everything has been great. He's really sweet and loving. He always makes an effort and plans dates. He's a proper gentleman, always pays. For Va...

What can I do? My Bf has now become just taciturn and grumpy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2887 days ago

30 May 2016 (F) - When we first met my boyfriend loved talking with me but now he is just taciturn and grumpy.He bites back every conversation i start and complains about everything connected to me. It's driving me crazy and i cant see why he could imagine i want a ma...

I feel crushed. How can a man turn nasty so quickly?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2887 days ago

30 May 2016 (F) - My ex of 42 recently ended things twice with me and I have lost all trust in him now. He wanted to see me yesterday. I still love him but declined as Im healing and feel it was not a healthy relationship anyway. He had mood swings and was not over...

He is not the ideal choice, but I love him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2888 days ago

30 May 2016 (F) - Hello aunts! I broke up with my bf a year ago. People who love me dont like him anymore because he could have cheated on me (not sure, however proofs led to break up). Though we broke up for the public, we have been meeting and talking. The relation...

We had our problems. Now its much later and I've moved on. Should I unblock him???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2888 days ago

30 May 2016 (F) - Hi, I'm new to this website so sorry if i make any mistakes. There is this guy I know that is the most confusing... one day my friends and i were playing a game where we had to tell everyone who we liked (on facebook messenger). i liked him bu...

How can I get my man to kiss and cuddle me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2888 days ago

29 May 2016 (F) - My boyfriend/partner dislikes kissing and cuddling me.He has had a troubled past; We have sex most days,which we both love,but no kissing and not close to my body during sex.But he caresses and strokes my arms and back which I find very loving a...

Male virgin and now in my 20s. What can I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2888 days ago

29 May 2016 (M) - I'm am writing to get advice and opinions about my virginity and lack of relationship experience. I'm a male who has never had sex or a girlfriend. The reason for this a rather personal and complex.I have always had trouble making friends and rela...

He's sending me mixed signals. How should I proceed?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2889 days ago

29 May 2016 (?) - Hi Aunts and Uncles, I am 25 and never been in a long term committed relationship. I always just focused on school and college and then my career, so i've been quite comfortable with being single, that is up until recently. My close friends hav...

Do I have a chance? What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2888 days ago

29 May 2016 (M) - Background: I'm a 13 yr old boy of Sierra Leonean descent(African) who lives in a south London flat, and I go to a private secondary boys school on a bursary in the center of London. I'm an only child and I never really knew my dad but that's beside ...

We me on an online site. Should I assume we are still in a relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2888 days ago

29 May 2016 (F) - Dear Auntz. Ive fallen inlove so fast within a period of a month with a guy 9 years older than me from a dating site. He asked me to help him do a website for him because i told him my brother does that so at fast my brother wanted to do it for f...

Why does my heart warm up when I see my ex? What's up with my current relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2888 days ago

29 May 2016 (F) - I am now into my third year of a wonderful relationship. We got together about 6 months after breaking up with my daughters father, which was a very turbulent time. Some his fault, but I admit, I never made things easy by cheating several times(he...

My Bf wants to be single again to sort himself out. How can I cope with all the uncertainty of this change?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2888 days ago

29 May 2016 (F) - My boyfriend of two years decided yesterday out of no where as things are going great that hes too stressed with everything going on in his life and wants to be single to sort himself out. It was totally out of the blue and I'm utterly heart br...

How can I get the respect I seek from my husband and from his family? What will improve this situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2888 days ago

29 May 2016 (F) - My husband told me he recents me for keeping him away from his family. I do keep him away from his family because HIS family doesn't like me . my marriage is falling apart over this we are at the point where either I let him be around his famil...

Naming issues for our new baby. Are my reasons wrong? Should I reconsider?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2889 days ago

29 May 2016 (F) - Hey there folks! Just need some advice. I'm pregnant due June 26th with a little boy, now to my dilemma. My partner and I tried to conceive for 9 months (been together for 3 1/2 years), I became pregnant he seemed pretty excited. He has two kids...

Feeling obsessed and desperate. Who really is my baby's Daddy?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 2888 days ago

29 May 2016 (F) - Hello there, I am really hoping someone can help me here with some advise and no judgment. I am 31 years old and married for 5 years. My husband and I share a daughter that is 3 years old. Last year we are having a lot of trouble in our marriage ...

I have anxiety and trust issues. What can I do to trust my BF?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2890 days ago

28 May 2016 (F) - Is it normal to worry that anytime your boyfriend is out of your sight, that he is cheating on you? I worry constantly. And it is affecting my peace of mind as it is eating away at me and causing me great anxiety and stress all of the time. I h...

He is the best friend of a guy I used to like. Does the best friend like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2888 days ago

28 May 2016 (F) - So basically, about 2 years ago, I moved to a new college and so did a new friend that I had made. We both ended up really liking each other. His bestfriend also came to this new college too. At the beginning the bestfriend and I really got along. ...

When my BF was younger, before he knew me, he slept with some women who, then, were in their 40s. Why didn't he tell me earlier? I'm disgusted and very upset

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 2889 days ago

28 May 2016 (F) - My boyfriend is older than I am. It seems like he loves me very much but yesterday, I found out that he slept with a couple of some who were in their forties when he was about twenty years old ( he slept with them at different times). This really h...

I believe that someone at work is stirring up trouble and trying to sabotage friendships with people I work with. How should I proceed to deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2889 days ago

28 May 2016 (M) - hello agony aunts I've got a problem which I hope you can solve for me, I feel as though someone at work is plotting against me and is telling untrue stuff about me to my friends and to a girl who I'm friends with about my past, he doesn't like me ...

Dating problems. Where does one find the nice, genuine, yet good looking guys out there?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2888 days ago

28 May 2016 (F) - It seems that every descent looking guy I come across ends up being a total a^^^ole! They turn out to be liars and cheaters and users and abusers and honestly I'm sick of it. They think that just because they are good looking they can step al...

How do you treat your soon-to-be ex-husband as a friend after being together for years?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2888 days ago

28 May 2016 (F) - We were a couple for 10years, married for 4yrs. What issues I saw we had when we were young and didn't really focus on resolving it before it manifested during our marriage. It didn't help that I went through several personal strategy and depr...

Age differences? Is this even worth continuing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2889 days ago

28 May 2016 (M) - I met an amazing woman the other day. I've already gone out with her a couple of times and we've even had sex. The only thing is that she's 35 and I'm 22. She also has a 12 year old boy. I've tried to talk myself out of this a million times, b...

Is this cheating type behavior? Or am I just being paranoid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2891 days ago

27 May 2016 (F) - As much as I love my boyfriend, I've been very unhappy and paranoid lately. I hate to jump to conclusions and sound crazy but I have a gut feeling my boyfriend is cheating, or at the very least spending time and talking to another girl. Th...

Should I stop cooking for my Bf after what he did? Any suggestions on how to get him to appreciate me more?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 2891 days ago

26 May 2016 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 6 years now, living together for 1 year. He can be super sweet, loyal and sensitive and we have a lot in common... but sometimes he can just 'lose it.' Though he would never be violent he has lost his temper over ...

The age issue bothers me. How do I learn to accept what my sister has done?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2892 days ago

26 May 2016 (F) - Hello, My sister is 32 with a 9 year old child. Until recently, she was with a man, W, for a majority of her child's life. He is not the real father, but my nephew believes him to be. W has stepped up and taken care of both of them. He has pro...

It's a secret I've not told my long term friend. How do I reveal my autism to her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2891 days ago

26 May 2016 (M) - I've been friends with a girl from high school for many years and I have a secret I haven't told her about me. That I have autism and I can't find the right words to say or explain it to her, and as I've autism my words get cross wired and some...

My sister is 3 years older than me and she bullies me. How can I distance myself from her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2892 days ago

26 May 2016 (F) - i am from india and i almost 21 years old, i have a sister who is 3 years elder, till before 7-8 months, we were very close like super close as far as i remember we did everything together only like parties, going out and shopping n all stuff. ...

At what age, of a particular person who has never dated, are others likely to form an opinion that the particular person is gay?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2871 days ago

26 May 2016 (M) - I've heard a lot of people say that people close to you often guess your sexuality before you actually come out. That has got me wondering. I'm 26, I have never dated, don't talk about who I'm attracted to and have never so much as held someone'...

My introverted daughter is in her 30s and loves animals. She hates her work and hates being single. At 71, what advice can I give her that will help her?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2885 days ago

26 May 2016 (F) - I'm worried about my daughter. Recently she was upset about something and she blurted out that she hated being single. She is in her 30s and a highschool teacher, and she never got married but she always seemed okay with it. Recently, sh...

I suffer social anxiety. How can I break the news to my parents that I've met a guy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2892 days ago

26 May 2016 (F) - Hey everyone, just looking for some advice and I guess some moral support :-) Brief background story: I've always been shy and introverted, and have been in abusive relationships in the past. After my last long term relationship I moved...

I feel as if I am just the girl he made pregnant. Does he really love me? I feel as if I'm second best

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2892 days ago

26 May 2016 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for over 2 years and together have two babies. We have 2 kids each to previous partners. All up we have 6 kids whom we raise together. He was with his ex for about 5 years. They were not married but were...

How can I ask my husband to consider an open marriage? Cheating has never been a part of our relationship

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2888 days ago

26 May 2016 (F) - I’d like to discuss with my husband a possibility of an open marriage but don’t know how to do it. First of all he may think I literarily lost my mind. You see, I was always a good girl/woman, did what was expected of me, while my husband was free...

What can or should I do? I can't stop thinking about another man

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2888 days ago

25 May 2016 (F) - So I'm in big trouble. I haven't been happy in my marriage for years now. I still love my husband and like him but not like I used to, he is an alright person but does some questionable things. He has been unfaithful with another woman. However he ...

Help ! I need help dealing with my negative bitter mother.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2892 days ago

25 May 2016 (F) - Dear All, I need help dealing with my negative bitter mother. My mother is a good woman and has been a good mother. She raised 4 kids all by herself after my father fell mentally ill. She is still married to him but unhappily and bitter at ...

She is wonderful, fulfills all my needs in life, but I'm not in love with her. Should I reconnect with an ex, instead, despite problems likely to result?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2893 days ago

25 May 2016 (M) - 5 years ago me and my partner that I have children with went through a very rough patch and I ended up cheating on her. Me and her friend ended up falling for each other but in the end I couldn't deal with the guilt and told her what has been go...

Does he still like me? Friends think yes. I thought so too, but now I don't know

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2893 days ago

25 May 2016 (F) - So I like this guy in a bar and he's working there and for the past few weeks whenever he's there he always looks at me and tries to strike up a conversation, but I'm always with my friends and it's kinda hard to have a decent conversation with so ...

Age gap. Is our relationship destined to fail or can we make it work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2892 days ago

25 May 2016 (F) - Is me and my boyfriend's relationship destined to fail or can we make it work? I'm an 18 year old girl dating a 39 year old man. We have been dating for 3 months now and it has been amazing he is the best relationship I've had so far. He really...

How do I keep a healthy balanced perspective on my finances?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2889 days ago

25 May 2016 (F) - Sorry, this isn't really a relationship question, but it's really weighing on me. I'm fairly young (or maybe 30 isn't considered that young anymore), I have no debt and as of a couple months ago had low 6 figures of savings. With all that said, I...