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Archived questions from: March, 2016 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

Should I end this relationship? It hurts me to end something that has so much potential and beauty to grow

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2944 days ago

31 March 2016 (F) - Hi guys, I'm in a dilemma. I come from a very traditional Pakistani family but born and raised in the states. I grew up wanting a Pakistani guy who looks like me and has similar values and upbringing because it's so complex and detailed. An...

What do I do? My BF refuses to stop talking to a girl he had a crush on before meeting me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2945 days ago

31 March 2016 (F) - So I moved in with my boyfriend in the end of OCT . It was love at first meeting and a very quick move in together. He moved me in on his birthday of all things and said I was the best birthday gift ever. Well since then Ive had to wade through ...

Happily married but feeling terrified out of my wits as my pregnancy has been confirmed. Need advice, please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2945 days ago

31 March 2016 (F) - Thank you all for taking the time to read my question. I know I'm going to be severely judged for posting this but please bear with me. I got married about 8 months ago to a wonderful man. I'm 33 and he's almost 40. He is the best husband and frie...

Did I make a mistake when I decided to let him go? Broke up last night

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2946 days ago

31 March 2016 (F) - i really don't know how to express myself still i will try. Its been 2 years since i am dating my boyfriend. Both of us are in our late twenties and this is the 2nd relationship for both of us. We started dating in 2014 before that we were ...

Am I a woman who just can't help herself? I've fallen in love with a married man

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2945 days ago

31 March 2016 (F) - He is married, I have fallen so deeply in love with him I can't let go. My feeling is since we both can't and don't want to let go we should just ride the situation that we are in and see where it takes us. Every man who is single only wants to sl...

Help! My boss thinks I have a crush on him. How do I deal with this situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2946 days ago

31 March 2016 (F) - Help! My boss thinks I have a crush/ i'm in love with him. I've been working with this guy for a little over a year, he's quite reserved and a bit shy with other people, he can be even rude sometimes, but with our team he's quite funny and niceish....

Deal breaker? Should I end my relationship with my fiance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2946 days ago

31 March 2016 (F) - I'm really heart broken and disappointed. I am in a LDR realtionship for 3 years and my fiancé is going to come where I live and get marry this summer. It has been an extremely difficult pat to get here. We both are divorced his wife moved to an...

Unfinished business? Should I leave my current GF for an ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2945 days ago

30 March 2016 (M) - Dear Cupid, I have been going out with my current girlfriend for roughly 5 months now, and everything was going fine, until my ex recently came back on the scene. I had a strong connection with my ex and we were each others best friends. I do n...

Was my boyfriend insensitive to praise this new employee to the extent he did? Or am I being too sensitive?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2945 days ago

30 March 2016 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend a few years now and we love each other but a comment he made this morning really upset me... He was interviewing this woman for a job and he texted me afterwards saying she was excellent and that he would be hiring h...

How long its acceptable to wait, between texting episodes with my LDR? Should I wait for him to text first?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2946 days ago

30 March 2016 (F) - Im currently seeing a guy who i go to university with, we're not in an official relationship but have agreed not to see anyone else. We're both at home at the moment as its the holidays but we live a long way from each other so haven't seen eac...

Is it wise to confront him with all that I have found out about him in contact with his ex? We have been together for 12 years

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2947 days ago

30 March 2016 (F) - I have been with this man for 12 years I just recently found out that he has been paying for his ex bills though their kids are grown Found out Thur text on his phone with texting and calling each on it the daily found text where they are send...

Is he wasting my time? Am I kidding myself, for considering that one day he may want to get married?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 2944 days ago

30 March 2016 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend (hate that word at my age) for almost 2 years, he moved in with me a little over a year ago. A while back we had a conversation about commitment type things and he said he had a four year rule, that he wouldn't...

Will his friend be thinking I am an absolute idiot to still stay with him? I think my husband took another girl's number while away with the army

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2947 days ago

30 March 2016 (F) - Hey. I need to know if I'm being silly or not. Last month my husband went away abroad with the army to malta and while he was there got girls numbers etc to be honest Anyway he wants us to go out with a guy and his gf, the guy we are meeting wen...

What should I do? Crushing a lot. A friend recommended telling him I like him but I'm scared

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2947 days ago

29 March 2016 (F) - I like this boy, a lot, like a lot a lot, and we're quite close. We hang out quite a bit, and we're really flirtatious but I don't know how he feels. He'll never make the extra effort, like text me or call me, we'll only speak face to face. I ...

Truth or fake? Wish I never catfished him. Do I tell him the truth and end up with losing him, because he feels betrayed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2947 days ago

29 March 2016 (M) - So I had this crush and I found his boyfriend on online. I started talking to his boyfriend but used him to get info on his now ex. As it turns out me and him click I really like him as a friend and now after nearly 4 months of talking I feel bad...

Do I have a right to feel uncomfortable? Everyone has a past, but my boyfriend keeps dropping bombshells

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2947 days ago

29 March 2016 (F) - I have had a wonderful few months with my boyfriend but he just keeps dropping bombshells. The first was about a one night stand he had in his unhappy marriage two years ago which he regretted. Then he told me he uses alcohol as an emotiona...

He's asked for a second chance and I said no. Should I let him back? He's so jealous.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2946 days ago

29 March 2016 (F) - I was in a relationship with this guy and at the beggining everything was great.it was my first relationship so i was really excited so was he. he was really in love with me and after a month he first told me he loved me. BUT he was jealous all ...

Were we wrong to offer? Why did she not tell her husband about the invitation and the arrangements to attend the wedding?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2949 days ago

28 March 2016 (F) - My aunt and I have always been close- she is 12 years older than me so more like a big sister than an aunt. A few years ago she moved to America with her husband and son due to her husband's job. Of course I missed her and we kept in touch and I w...

How can I be myself around others, without putting myself in danger?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2948 days ago

28 March 2016 (M) - I've pretty much been a loner since I was a child. I usually I aim to beat to my own drum but I do crave friendship and a romantic relationship. What sucks is that I can't pin-point what exactly the problem is. I think people might be intimid...

Tips, please? How to deal with a rude much younger colleague?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2949 days ago

28 March 2016 (F) - when a work colleague ignores you? what to do? you say hi at start of work, they ignore you or say sharply "hi" or blank you and say nothing but talk and smile (and hug at times) and say hi to others you've done nothing wrong you work with th...

Boyfriend ghosted and I'm trying to move on, but always anxious and unhappy with life.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2950 days ago

28 March 2016 (F) - My boyfriend of three months ghosted on me one and a half months ago. We had an amazing relationship and I was shocked to the core. I feel that it's been more than enough time to get over him but he's always still fresh on my mind. I've given up ...

I don't trust one of my new roommates

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2947 days ago

27 March 2016 (F) - I just rented a room in an apartment in the city I just moved to. I have three roommates, I didn't know them beforehand. But I love my new place and for the most part get along great with my roomies. I've developed a friendship with two of them whom ...

Does he really want a relationship, eventually? Or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2950 days ago

27 March 2016 (F) - I hope someone can help I fell out badly with someone I became close to Wasn't a relationship but was on its way there but then because of how it ended we ended up not talking for 2 years Then he gets in touch and messages sporadically but not...

How is a move to a new area and a new school likely to affect a 13 year old boy who is not very outgoing at present?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2948 days ago

27 March 2016 (F) - What do people think of moving a 13 year old boy to a new school in a new location? Would it be a complete disaster or would he adapt? The reason is that my widowed partner and I are nearing our mid sixties and want to downsize and relocate...

He seems flaky. Is he not that interested or just bad at keeping plans?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2947 days ago

26 March 2016 (F) - I met this guy through a mutual friend 2 weeks ago.The first time we arranged to meet up, he flaked on our plans. Basically, we arranged to meet up after 6 pm when he gets off work.I texted him earlier that day and said "hey" but he didn't respond. ...

Should I marry him, considering that I have major trust issues?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2951 days ago

26 March 2016 (F) - Ive been with my fiance for 6 years and last year he proposed to me. Our relationship has its ups and downs. Ive known his positive and negative traits more than anyone he knows. Probably more than his family do. He is quite loving and caring ...

What should I consider? I have finally found love, but I am scared my parents will disapprove

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2950 days ago

26 March 2016 (F) - I didn't mean to fall in love with him I just did. I am 22 and he is 24 I have had one serious relationship which was abusive and lasted 5 years. I finally ended that relationship and have spent just under a year being single, trying to fix my...

Did I jump the gun?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2949 days ago

26 March 2016 (M) - So I have worked with this girl for about 2 years now and well we get on well and I do fancy her but have not let myself fully like her . She is very flirty physically and emotionally I know she can be with another lad although she says she seems ...

I lost 42 pounds and gained confidence. Why are people now so mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2951 days ago

26 March 2016 (F) - Hi guys. I'm struggling at the moment as I'm quite a sensitive person and I've always wanted to be liked by everyone. This means that sometimes I give people more effort or time than they would give me and I take comments people make quite perso...

Should I marry him knowing what I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2948 days ago

I accepted his proposal, but I'm having doubts about marrying him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2952 days ago

25 March 2016 (F) - Ive been with my fiance for 6 years and last year he proposed to me. Our relationship has its ups and downs. Ive known his positive and negative traits more than anyone he knows. Probably more than his family do. He is quite loving and carin...

Does this sound fishy to you? I need some tips!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2953 days ago

24 March 2016 (F) - Dear Cupid I joined online dating couple of days ago, met a profile he mentioned that he has a kid, wife passed away and we chatted and he sounded nice and everything. We exchanged numbers, he didn't call but sends me text every 1 hr Max. Told me ...

Boyfriend hasn't been paying the agreed amount and now I am in debt!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2953 days ago

22 March 2016 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for three years. I am in love with him completely and he is in love with me. We moved in together after a year and a half. We have no issues living together and love being able to spend that much time together. our ...

How can I make this work? I want to get back with her. My family think I'm crazy to try.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2954 days ago

22 March 2016 (M) - My ex girlfriend and I had a pretty intense relationship. We met when she was pregnant with her son, we became friends first but started dating shortly after her son was born. I hadn't had much contact with my family for a few years but once we ...

What can I do? I have a crush on a person but I am in a relationship with another.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2955 days ago

22 March 2016 (F) - Dear readers, Thanks for taking your time to read this. I've been in a loving relationship with my boyfriend for more than six years. We met each other in Highschool and were each others' firsts in almost everything. I am 22, my boyfriend is t...

Is it right to stay in a relationship when your partner indicates that someone before you was his ''perfect match''??

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2955 days ago

22 March 2016 (F) - I would really like some opinions about my situation and I'm not sure if I'm being an idiot staying with my boyfriend or if I should leave him. I've been with him for three years and from the second date he started talking about a female friend qu...

I feel scared that I'll be tempted to cheat again. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2955 days ago

22 March 2016 (F) - Hi all. I am a 37yr old married woman no kids. Have been super happily married for a few years now, but I am seeing my usual relationship pattern starting once again. And the pattern, which has always started after a few years into any of rela...

Should I trust and feel reassured by my Boyfriend's remarks considering he cheated on me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2955 days ago

22 March 2016 (F) - My ex boyfriend cheated on me and it has affected subsequent relationships. When I said to my current boyfriend that I always want to be his only one, he said to rest well knowing I am the only one he thinks about. Would this be reassuring ...

Where is the passion? Can the passion be revived? We have become platonic friends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2945 days ago

21 March 2016 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been together 10 years. He is 9 years older than me. at first we were always making love but its got less and less over the last few years, and we have not been intimate since last year, Recently I found flirty texts bet...

When people say they are ''not ready for a relationship'' is that just a line to discourage the other party?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2956 days ago

21 March 2016 (M) - I was seeing a 25 y.o. woman over a month ago. She just lost her mother due to very complicated circumstances so she went through a very hard time. I took the 'not ready for a relationship' line as sincere. I didnt pursue but was open to go on mo...

He confessed he wasn't ready, and now he wants me to relocate to be near him

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2957 days ago

21 March 2016 (F) - My long distance relationship ended today and by ended I mean I tried to end it but we're still arguing! Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years, 10 months of this has been long distance. We met at University, but after we graduated, de...

He wants my help obtaining a British passport renewal

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2940 days ago

21 March 2016 (F) - Hey Aunts, There is a guy I've been talking to on for 5 months. We get along quite well and he plans to come to our country for a visit this summer (his is part nationality here). We like each other, just not in-love and we talk on a variety of ...

Still worried sick my ex might pursue one of my closest friends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2956 days ago

20 March 2016 (F) - Not been with my ex boyfriend for about a year now (we were together over a year and a half) and my feelings are still there, his friends aren't the best and can be really horrible about me. When my ex boyfriend and I are by ourselves like in conve...

Am I too boring to ever get a girlfriend?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2957 days ago

19 March 2016 (M) - Lately I've been thinking about future relationships and stuff, and it's just hit me that even if I did get a girlfriend, I would have no idea what to do with her. I do not like the bar or club scene at all. I cannot and do not like to dance...

Disappointed by my boyfriend's love making. He doesn't satisfy me. What are some options to address this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2957 days ago

19 March 2016 (F) - Hi all, I'm 17 and my boyfriend doesn't please me in bed? he was my first sexual relationship but he had one previously. I've taken in on all the things that turn him on and make sure I do them, I'm not keen on blowjobs though because I gag real...

I don't trust my boyfriend. Its ruining our relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2958 days ago

18 March 2016 (F) - Hi there, I have been in a relationship with a man for about 2 years now however I find trusting him extremely difficult. Very early on in the relationship I found out that he's way of life is very different to mine. His lifestyle is one where he ...

Would it be a bad idea to text him? There was no formal goodbye to our relationship

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2959 days ago

18 March 2016 (F) - I dated someone for a month, which ended two months ago. There was no formal goodbye. The communication just faded on his end. I never reached out again but I find myself thinking about him all the time. I was very attracted to him physical...

What should I do about this guy? Did I over-react?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2958 days ago

17 March 2016 (M) - I recently started seeing a guy that i have known for quite a while (we attended the same school and live in the same town). He started chatting to me on Facebook after we had run into each other one night. He was always asking how i am, how wo...

I'm overwhelmed and don't know what to do. Is his behaviour part of his grieving or something else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2959 days ago

17 March 2016 (F) - I am a 21 year old female with a same age boyfriend, we both are in school and work part time jobs. We have been together for 3 1/2 years. With a 7 month break up 2 years ago. It was a very ugly breakup, which was very hard on both of us. We bot...

I just want to know was it wrong of her to accuse me of being a liar? Shouldn't she trust me more as a "best friend?"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2960 days ago

17 March 2016 (F) - Essentially, today one of our mutual friends asked to hang out while I was on some errands, so I told them I might meet them up if I get back in time. Well, I came back and turns out I had family visiting from another country, so had dinner aroun...