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Archived questions from: July, 2013 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

Found out that my ex lives near the home my wife rented. Have made it complicated for myself? What should I do now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3914 days ago

31 July 2013 (M) - Dear Cupid, I arrived in US three weeks ago. I'm Indian Muslim . I'm 28. My wife is also 28 Recently, I bumped into my Ex”L” while jogging and she lives just one mile away from my wife house. She was also American and dumped me four years ago. ...

I don't know if I could ever trust again and build the relationship up, which seems like double standards based on my past behavior.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3914 days ago

31 July 2013 (M) - I'm not quite sure where to start with all of this, so here goes; I've been in a relationship with my partner for 13 years now, and I love her very much, we have three young kids together. About four years ago I discovered that my partner had t...

Is she really busy as she says, or just keeping me on hold?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3901 days ago

31 July 2013 (M) - There's a girl I really like and know through my summer job. We talk quite a bit and I enjoy her company. We can be really honest with each other, she tells me about things how she felt a bit overwhelmed away at school or goings on in her life, etc. ...

My boyfriend is planning a weekend away with a female friend

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3909 days ago

30 July 2013 (F) - Id like some honest advice from men and women to see if I am just being over jealous or if anyone else would feel the same as me. My boyfriend of a year has a 4 year old girl from a previous relationship. He has lots of female friends which I ...

Happily married men do porn???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3915 days ago

30 July 2013 (F) - My husband just came home from a 2 week business trip. I noticed the Internet history on his laptop was full of porn including a site called " F@$ and k women locally" and it gave a web address of our home city. I was so shocked when I went to look ...

My boyfriend was looking at dozens of pics of his "ex" while sleeping in my room, in my parents house, after we got engaged!!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3913 days ago

30 July 2013 (F) - My bf and I got engaged a few days ago. We have what I thought was a ‘perfect’ relationship, we’ve known each other for many years, started dating sometime back, we clicked, we were absolutely made for each other…or so I liked to think and from what ...

Was she hiding something, or trying to reassure me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3916 days ago

30 July 2013 (M) - My girlfriend gets a phone call from a guy while we were cuddling. They seem to know each other very well judging by their tone of their voice. Afterwards, she automatically and pro-actively explains to me who this guy was - they have known each ...

Would it be an insult to get my wife an anniversary card after I cheated on her with a prostitute?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3916 days ago

29 July 2013 (M) - I admitted to my wife just after Christmas that I'd cheated on her with a prostitute. I regret my behaviour very much and have no intention of ever repeating it. My wife is trying to forgive me and we're still together, but she doesn't wear her ...

I've met a new guy who I like and I led him to believe I was divorced. I'm actually married and my husband is threatening to take my children away from me if I try to divorce him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3916 days ago

29 July 2013 (F) - I met a guy recently that I am really into and he feels the same about me. This guy is long-distance and is divorced and has been for 9 years. When he asked me "are you married" I answered that I was for five years...kind of giving him the ...

My boyfriend flirts shamelessly with other women but freaks out if he sees me with another man. Why do men flirt when they are in a happy relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3917 days ago

29 July 2013 (F) - My boyfriend is 3 years older than me we've been together for 4 years and lived together for 3 years. He's very sweet and always compliment me and tell me I'm beautiful. His problem is that he likes to flirt and I know its harmless but its getting ...

I've been burned before and I'm worried it will happen again with this guy who lives in another country.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3917 days ago

29 July 2013 (F) - I met a guy a few months ago at a music event. He was the producer of the event, but I didn't know this until much later. I just saw him there and was immediately drawn to him. After the event was over I went up and introduced myself and had a chat ...

My husband's semen changed consistency. Does this mean he's cheated?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3916 days ago

29 July 2013 (F) - My husband has always had very thick, gloopy semen. He lost interest in sex a year ago. A full physical and blood workup proved him to be healthy. He started taking Cialis. We had sex 1 time since he began the Cialis , 1 month ago. His semen was ...

I am hurt that my boyfriend of 4 years is going on a 3-month music tour without consulting this with me!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3916 days ago

29 July 2013 (F) - My boyfriend of 4 years is a music teacher, and I just found out he has agreed to go on a 3 month tour with his friend's band (their normal bassist can't do it) without thinking to discuss it with me. I am so hurt! Surely after 4 years this is so...

Things used to be great but I'm seeing another side of him and I'm starting to feel like I can't trust him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3917 days ago

29 July 2013 (F) - I'm 23 years old, and have been in a relationship with my 23 year old boyfriend for 2 years. We don't live together. Things started off great in the beginning, but the honeymoon phase is over and I'm beginning to see the not-so-great side of him. A ...

My husband and I are trying to rebuild the trust in our relationship but we have totally conflicting work schedules

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3909 days ago

29 July 2013 (F) - My husband and I are working through some trust issues. With that said, we basically are trying to rebuild the foundation that our relationship is made on, because we both love each other very much and are not willing to walk away from something ...

My new girlfriend is very attractive and it makes me feel insecure

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3917 days ago

29 July 2013 (M) - Hi I'm a 24 year old guy seeing a girl of the same age. I fairly recently got out of a 3 year relationship which didn't work and am now seeing this new girl. This is going to sound like a strange issue but here goes... She is really good look...

I told my girlfriend's friend she was hot, and now there is friction between them

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3917 days ago

28 July 2013 (M) - Dear cupid, Just eight days ago , I said to my girlfriend's close friend , in front of her, that "Oh my God, you are one hell of a hot girl." . Her friend just smiled whereas my girlfriend said "Enough" . Ever since that happened, my girlfrie...

My fiancé is still in touch with his ex and I'm concerned about his feelings for her

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3909 days ago

27 July 2013 (F) - So I know snooping etc and everything is not a good thing and I guess I wouldn't normally but the opportunity arose as my other half left his email open and I couldn't help it......my fiance had dogs with his ex wife and as far I knew they still ...

My husband's friend verbally attacked me and my husband believes him over me even though there were witnesses

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3918 days ago

27 July 2013 (F) - Hi,I am 24 years old and I now its 3 years to my marriage and there was always problem my husband spent more time with friends thn me.....but I managed as I love him so much,but now one of my husband's friend his name is suraj and he is married and ...

My boyfriend was meeting his ex behind my back and I'm finding it very hard to trust him again

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3919 days ago

27 July 2013 (F) - I really want to work things out with my boyfriend but I don't know if I can trust him. We've been together two years, we met when I was finishing with someone else and he waited almost a year to actually be with me, during which time he had plen...

Dirty talk and sexy photos with another man - should I tell my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3917 days ago

27 July 2013 (F) - I have a bf for past 4 yrs. its a long distance relationship. I also had a good friend with whom I could share all my probs and all my opinions..but never loved him any near to my bf. Recently he broke up with his gf. Just to comfort him I said.i....

How can I improve my attitude towards dumping guys too quickly?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3918 days ago

27 July 2013 (F) - I just need you all to read dis and help me wit a reasonable solution. I am a young pretty girl in my twenties,bt i have never had a stable and lasting relationsip ever since i started dating. Am always getting piss off easily and always e...

My trust issues are ruining everything how can I put this right?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3919 days ago

27 July 2013 (F) - Hi aunts and uncles! Please can you help me. I'll start with a bit of past background, I'm one of this that's always been unlucky in love, and it doesn't seem to be getting any better. My childrens father cheated numerous times, and subseque...

Thoughts on losing virginity to a ''friend with benefits''

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3915 days ago

27 July 2013 (F) - Ok so, this might sound really childish and terrible but I honestly have NO idea what to do and since the whole topic and question in hand is on my head I need help with the answer: Ive been in a ''Friends With Benefits'' relationship for about a ...

I'm with an alcoholic who goes back and forth between his ex and me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3918 days ago

26 July 2013 (F) - I have been in a relationship with a man who is an alcoholic and drinks liquor and beer everyday.He has for 5yrs. now been going back and forth between his ex-girl friend and me.He'll be at my house one month,then at her house the next month.He ...

How do I resolve my feelings about my sexuality? Should I wait until I have my first crush on a girl?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3919 days ago

26 July 2013 (?) - I think im bi. Not completely positive, but i will see another girl sometimes and be totally turned on. Like girls my age. i KNOW i like boys though. but i dont know how to tell my parents or anything. its so wierd. I dont really know what im asking ...

He told me she was only a friend then later admits that he had sex with her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3681 days ago

26 July 2013 (F) - i met a boy via social network some 9 months ago, we became friend,then he proposed me, though at first i was negative,we met and i started liking or loving him..he told me about his past relationships including that one with one of his junior, ...

I don't think I trust my LDR boyfriend and now that he knows I went through his messages he doesn't trust me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3920 days ago

25 July 2013 (F) - Dear all, I am currently in a semi LDR seing other weekend/alternative weekends due to work commitments for last 1.6 yes. Whilst we love one anothers lots I'm not sure I trust my BF. A while a go i found some flirty messages (some sexual but bante...

I can't trust my husband because he gambles and lies

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3919 days ago

24 July 2013 (F) - My husband and i have been married for almost two years. I know we are new and young but I am worried that we have problems that I can't fix. When we were engaged he gambled away $500 of our savings behind my back then confessed. Then after one ...

We're not together but we're jealous of each other. How can I get him to trust me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3923 days ago

24 July 2013 (F) - I'm in a complicated relationship with this guy. We are not together, but we are somewhat talking I guess. We are close friends who have feelings for each other. We made a vow that we would always be open and honest with each other no matter ...

Is he hiding something from me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3923 days ago

23 July 2013 (F) - Hi I was looking for a link in the search history of our computer and I noticed that my boyf had looked in the 'sent' folder followed by the 'draft' folder then the 'trash' folders - he has two. Should this give me cause to believe he's trying to ...

I am too scared by previous relationships to say "I love you"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3923 days ago

23 July 2013 (M) - I suffered too much being too much emotionally involved in my previous relationship . In simple words, I was too romantic and my ex girl friends and then wife walked over me. Now I have met this this American girl in Dubai and whom I liked but I ...

Will I get played by the HUGE player?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3923 days ago

23 July 2013 (F) - I've known this guy for 4 years, we met through my ex because they are childhood friends, He continuously made an effort to converse with me and finally I talked back and we became close, Like best friends . tHey lived in a different state. To m...

My best male friend has cut me out of his life after his wife got jealous

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3924 days ago

22 July 2013 (F) - My male friend and I have been best friends ever since High School. We are both grown around our 30's now and we've been talking on the phone and emailing each other past years, I'am married with 2 kids and he just got married last year and a ...

My husband says he's totally against cheating but I've found out that he made a pass at my mum. During our marriage he has also slept with a 17-y.o.

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3915 days ago

22 July 2013 (F) - hi, my husband and I have been together for 19yrs now, we have two children 3yr and 6yr. my husband has always talked about his strong morals especially over affairs he has said that even a kiss is a passionate moment and in his views is as good ...

Is a threesome a good idea? Should I delay decision making, until I return in a month?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3924 days ago

21 July 2013 (F) - Hi aunts and uncles :) I'll start with a bit of back story first. My boyfriend and I have been together for over 5 years now and we believe we are in a strong relationship. We've been through a lot what with family death and serious fall outs be...

My boyfriend doesn't like me confiding in friends about our problem but he confides in a female friend when we fight

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3926 days ago

20 July 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I are in a serious relationship for almost 2 years. We had a spat, and he went to his friend who is a girl and told her all about it, and confided in her!!I don't like it It upsets me because he does not like me getting advice f...

How would you feel if your fiance talks a lot about a female co-worker? Should I be concerned?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3922 days ago

19 July 2013 (F) - Well, I'm back. I've posted on here about this issue before and it doesn't seem to be getting resolved. I know this is a long post. So bear with me on that. I didn't intend for it to be. Kudos to anyone that can finish reading it. Thank you. ...

LDR problem, I love him dearly but not sure if he loves me, and don't know what to do. Should I keep on waiting?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3928 days ago

18 July 2013 (F) - I met my Aussie boyfriend 2 and a half years ago. He first flew here and chased after me after 2 months of talking. I was very smitten. We had our ups and downs in our LDR and 16 months forward he flew me to Aus for the first time and took me ...

Is he really making sense or am I downright stupid?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3927 days ago

18 July 2013 (F) - Ok so my Ex and i spoke about the problems we had, we also had sex he wants to take baby steps in getting back together i don't know why am starting to feel like its a game he's playing because he is still communicating with the girl that he ...

I'm four months pregnant and I've just discovered my boyfriend's excessive porn use, much of which involves extreme stuff

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3922 days ago

18 July 2013 (F) - Yesterday I used my boyfriend's ipad (with his permission) and came across a search for a porn site. When I clicked on his history to see more, I saw that he watches porn (alot of it) every single day. There were at least 50 links per day, and ...

My husband just doesn't want to do 'normal' things.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3929 days ago

17 July 2013 (F) - My husband just doesn't want to do 'normal' things. He is very fond of drinking whilst I'm not bothered. All his plans involve drink and drinking buddies as I call them. He won't make plans with me to go out or walk with the dog, take me out a ...

Three months and he didn't mention he has kids?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3928 days ago

16 July 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid, My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 months. He is 28 and I am 25. The relationship moved really quickly and I absolutely fell in love with him and him with me. This past weekend, I found out that he has two children he neve...

Tricks and twists from my best friend? Do I believe him or the new guy? I'm traumatized and confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3930 days ago

16 July 2013 (F) - Hey there! I don't know how to go about it.. it's really a messed up relationship.. :/ So, i have a really good friend rather my best friend who loves me a lot..he still does but i no longer wanna date him because he has got some serious issues w...

Does my boyfriend masturbate to his ex girlfriends facebook pictures?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3930 days ago

16 July 2013 (F) - Is it possible that my boyfriend masturbates to his ex girlfriends facebook page? He used to watch a bit of porn everyday. I didn't mind this but he said that he did it out of boredom (he works mornings and evenings and has a lot of hours off during ...

Not sure I can trust him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3930 days ago

16 July 2013 (F) - I'm not sure I can trust my boyfriend. I discovered that, the very night we began dating, he had been calling and messaging his ex-girlfriends, asking them to come over. He told one of them "I'd rather not stop seeing you." Nothing has happened ...

If you were me, would you take him back?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3929 days ago

15 July 2013 (F) - Me and my boyfriend of 2 years broke up recently. The relationship was at tipping point and although we loved each other (and still do) very much and had a great connection and friendship, it was time that we either did something about it, or brake ...

Best friend and boyfriend .... what do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3931 days ago

14 July 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and my best friend have been sleeping together for at least 5 months but I can't find the courage to leave him. We share a 18 week old daughter, and we have just got our first mortgage in the past year. I'm in two minds about whether to ...

My bestfriend/love of my life is upset with me and I don't know why.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3931 days ago

14 July 2013 (F) - I have a friend who ive known for some years now, who lived in a different state. We use to be really close, like best friends but he had a gf and we stopped talking, I heard he moved and then he got his number changed. I dated this other guy a...

I need him to love me like he used to! Do I give him more time and space?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3933 days ago

12 July 2013 (F) - So here's the thing, i've broke up with my ex for 2 months and a little, and just a 2 weeks back, he finally agreed to get back with me because he still loves me. We went out and watched a movie, we held hands during the movie, but when i wanted t...