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Archived questions from: December, 2013 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

I have never had a "G-spot" orgasm.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3760 days ago

31 December 2013 (F) - Please excuse the graphic details!! I have never had a "G-spot" orgasm. Only ever clitoral orgasms. My boyfriend of two years says he really wants me to have one. I think he misses it and feels he can't satisfy me sexually. But I can only really ...

I love him but I can't do this for much longer!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3748 days ago

31 December 2013 (F) - I've been married to my husband for almost two years now. Our marriage started out great. We both worked, so all our time off was spent with each other. After I found out I was pregnant, I quit my job and we moved someplace more affordable. He got a ...

I got with this boy, now he is acting like it never happened!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3761 days ago

31 December 2013 (F) - on friday i got with this boy and we have been friends for 4 years but lately we drifted apart! when everything was happening i kept saying 'that we dont do this' and h was like this should have happened ages ago. We were both drunk me more than ...

Cheater Cheater!!!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3748 days ago

31 December 2013 (F) - My husband bought another woman clothing and jewelry for Christmas I found the receipt in his truck, I know he will deny it, should I ask him about it or leave it alone? ...

Was he serious or was it the booze talking?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3762 days ago

30 December 2013 (F) - Hello agony aunts and uncles, Ok so I was out the other night with a friends and her boyfriend in the same bar as this guy we went to school with years ago. We never chatted in school but knew of each other. Anyways he was really drunk and it took ...

Should I give up now or wait and hope?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3762 days ago

30 December 2013 (F) - Hi everyone, I'm hoping someone can give me some guidance with a problem I have. I have been seeing my partner for a year now and I'd say it's a beautiful relationship. We get along fine and don't have any problems. We have little rows now and the...

I have a neon sign above my head saying "AVOID HER"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3763 days ago

30 December 2013 (F) - hello, need to ask a question, appreciate answers. I don't think people like me much,or are drawn to me, when I meet them, ie in a group, one to one, or in any social situation. Im a quieter person, yet 9/10 times I'm the one saying "hi" wh...

Is my ex a player?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3762 days ago

30 December 2013 (F) - three weeks ago I moved out of my partner's home after being together for 3 years with my son. My reasons being that our relationship had become physically abusive and cold where i felt i couldn't trust myself any longer to be sane around him as we ...

He feels our relationship is not healthy.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3764 days ago

30 December 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am 28 years old and my boyfriend is 27. We have been together for almost a year now. Everything was great and he always treats me like a queen. But recently, we started to fight over stupid little things. Due to that, he has tri...

I feel he is behaving badly on purpose

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3764 days ago

30 December 2013 (F) - Why is he being like this? Should i cut him off? We've been seeing each other for nearly 4 months. I told him I wanted to take things slow as he kept asking me to be his girlfriend after the first date. We hit it but he's now coming off as bi...

Found out my boyfriend was using me to cheat on his long-term partner and now my self-confidence is suffering!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3764 days ago

29 December 2013 (F) - this sounds really pathetic but about 2months i found out the guy who was my boyfriend was actually cheating on his long term girlfriend with me and since then i have lost a lot of confidence. i contastly bodycheck all my fat (im 5'7'' and 140lbs- ...

I haven't heard from him since we had sex.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3764 days ago

28 December 2013 (F) - Hi i met this man in April this year we had 4 dates i really liked him and we got on really well but due to problems on his side nothing came of it now boxing day we got back together he is still having the same problems not heath wise but family ...

Is this a mid life crisis or can men change so quickly?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3764 days ago

28 December 2013 (F) - I had casually been seeing a guy for a year, I wanted a relationship but he didn't as he "doesn't have relationships" and I know this to be true. He had his life and I had mine, we never went out, only saw each other behind closed doors (again his ...

He has been lying to me for two years, and I don't know what to do.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3748 days ago

28 December 2013 (F) - me n my partners relationship is really rocky at the moment as alot of things have gone on n im on the verge of breaking up with him, we have 2 children so im scared. i found out from him something about his past......he was an escort.....people ...

I like my best friend's sister.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3763 days ago

28 December 2013 (M) - Hi all, please can you guys give me your advice?! On new years eve, my best friend, his sister, her friend and I are going out of town for the night to celebrate.. The thing is, I seem to get on really well with my friends sister, we've all been o...

I feel vulnerable and don't want to get hurt!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3764 days ago

28 December 2013 (M) - Dear cupid agony aunts and uncles, I am writing because I do not know where to go from here. So the details: I am a gay man, and I met this wonderful gay man who lives a good 7 mins away from me. And well in the beginning he was very attentiv...

She's no good but I can't stop loving her.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3765 days ago

28 December 2013 (M) - I've no idea what to do? I feel like I've tried everything. I met a girl years ago who I thought was the woman of my dreams. She's beautiful, and she's been successful in life. I discovered she was cheating and as a result we split up. For...

He lied to me about being married!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3764 days ago

28 December 2013 (F) - I met this guy at a friend's party a little over 2 months ago; he was really sweet and funny and about 2 days after the party, my friend told me that her friend told her that he was asking for my number, because he was not a direct acquaintance of ...

Overwhelmed with grief at relationship breakup. Should I move out now? Or wait until I move shortly to another country?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3762 days ago

27 December 2013 (M) - Hello everyone, Thank you for reading this, all advice is really appreciated! I will reply in the best way I can. My (ex)girlfriend was pregnant and we had a baby together. This was a total shock and we decided to stay together even thoug...

Problems from my past are affecting sex and love in the present!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3766 days ago

27 December 2013 (F) - my man would like to have sex with lights on and be able to see me naked ,but I don't have any confidance in how I look I am 45 but am a size 10 ,but have issues from a rape yrs ago and in my marrage when I tried to spice things up in bedroom dept ...

We met, then nothing, then we met, had sex, and now again I hear nothing!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3766 days ago

27 December 2013 (F) - Hi really hope someone can give me some good advice i met a man in july met up a few times had a few dates then i heard nothing for a month until a text saying he is in a awkward situation which he genuinely was we talked on Christmas eve and ...

What's the best advice on how to read men? I want to understand this man's intentions better

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3765 days ago

27 December 2013 (F) - Hello, I went out last night and bumped into a guy i dated for about a month 2 years ago. Just wondering if you could help me understand 2 little things. 1. Him, his friends and I were talking, I cant remember the conversation topic, but he sa...

Is this a double standard? She did not like me using harsh words. So why is it OK for her to do the same?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3765 days ago

27 December 2013 (M) - A few weeks ago me and my girlfriend were leaving a pub, and we were joking around, and then as we were talking I saw my coach there, and I accidentally let a word along the lines of go away but more harsh. It was a slip. She got really mad at m...

It's not so much what he did, it's that he lied about it

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3766 days ago

27 December 2013 (F) - hey aunties and uncles... i am in a real tricky situation and just cant seem to make my own judgement or decision on what to do... I have recently been seeing a guy for the last 7 months and am planning to get married in November... we have known ...

I drove him to the airport, so why isnt he texting how he is away?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3766 days ago

26 December 2013 (F) - My bf left for vacation to see his fam n hasnt txted me or anything. I tried texting him bt he doesnt reply. I know he is with his fam n his enjoying his time, bt just texting to know how I am is not much. Afterall, I was the one who volunteered to ...

Should I twist the situation or are my friends more important?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3767 days ago

26 December 2013 (F) - Recently one of my good guy friends, call him A, confided in my best-friend that he liked me. He also said that he was confused because he also like my other friend. If they started dating, I would probably be pretty upset, but I would be able to ...

Why is he keeping me in his life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3767 days ago

26 December 2013 (F) - Merry Xmas to you all, and thank u in advance for reading this. I don't know if my situation is rectifiable or not, so if anybody can help me sort this one I will be truly grateful and if I'm being honest kind of surprised! I know there doesn't so...

I am alway in the friend zone!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3766 days ago

26 December 2013 (M) - I'm in In high school, I had a lot (5) female friends and not very many male friends. I am a total nerd but not the smart kind, just goofy-looking and not athletic. I do real good with math and computers and physics but I suck at English and History ...

Not sure if he likes me, or not, after he avoided me. Have I ruined my chances with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3767 days ago

26 December 2013 (F) - I thought a shy friend of mine liked me, and i think I am starting to develop feelings for him too, but i think I ruined my chance to form a relationship with him. The only reason why i think he likes me is because of our mutual friend's teasing...

My bf blocked me from everywhere but he still reads my Facebook messages!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3766 days ago

26 December 2013 (F) - my boyfriend blocked me from everywhere only because I asked one of his girls indirectly that if she is dating someone and if she is then what his name is I wanted an answer without anybody knowing it but then my boyfriend got to know about this ...

After one awful attempt at sex with my ex, how do I prepare for my current boyfriend?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3765 days ago

26 December 2013 (F) - I recently entered a new relationship after being in a long term one for the majority of high school. I had sex once with my ex, to be blunt it was awful. I couldn't even feel him inside of me because there was so much pain. We were intimate ...

After his cruel and bewildering attack it is as if I never existed

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3767 days ago

26 December 2013 (F) - I was married for 19 years, no children, knew my ex for 22 years. He filed for divorce and i was not aware of anyone else on the scene. I got to hear about divorce not from him but solicitors email to me... I returned home to a half empty house. He ...

I want this relationship to work!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3766 days ago

25 December 2013 (F) - Hello, I'm needing advice about me in my relationship. To make a long story short. I have been with my fiancé for almost 4 years. We've had our share of trouble, but there is one that happen a two years ago that still haunt me. My fiancé che...

Is he just in this for the sex?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3759 days ago

24 December 2013 (F) - Hey guys. So I met this guy Mark a while ago via my next door neighbor Andrea (we were hanging out once and she invited him). The night I met him we were really into each other and I ended up going home with him. My neighbor made him promise ...

I'm afraid that when my girlfriend does overcome her abusive ex she'll be attracted to his type again

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3766 days ago

24 December 2013 (M) - We've been together a year now and in our mid-twenties. She was raised very strict and about 8 months before I met her ended a 2 year relationship with your typical "bad boy" who treated her horribly, pretty much abuse from what I know. I ment...

His dislike of me makes me uncomfortable with my group of friends.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3769 days ago

24 December 2013 (F) - my friendship group has recentally broken down with lots of different people involved in individual fights. during this time i have been dealing with issues with work and my ex so i have spent that much time around it all. however a few weeks ago, ...

Why do girls seem to prefer, and date, the guys who are cocky, arrogant, stubborn jock types?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3769 days ago

24 December 2013 (M) - Why oh why do girls prefer the cocky, arrogant, stubborn jock types? Is it because they assume their children together will be born with a lightning bolt in their hands? Girls have done pretty skewed ways of finding guys thinking that they are bett...

She kept looking, but didn't return my smile. Was she was interested and should I try to find her again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3769 days ago

24 December 2013 (M) - I have noticed this very good looking girl on the underground a few times. So the last time I managed to sit almost opposite her on a full train. She definitely kept looking at me every few minutes, looking away a few seconds after I caught her g...

How do I tell him without hurting him? I like my own space and some time to be alone.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3769 days ago

24 December 2013 (F) - Hey guys just have a short and simple question for everyone here... i just want a different opinion and hopefully it will help me sort things out in my head... I have been with this guy for around 7 months and yesterday his family came round fo...

BF of 4 years. Our sex life was phenomenal. So why is he now choosing Porn over me? I need advice please

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3762 days ago

24 December 2013 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years now and we have been living together for the past year and a half. Up until two months ago our sex life was phenomenal; we would have sex almost every day, and sometimes more than once. However we suddenly...

Why does my boyfriend remain friends with people who have treated him badly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3769 days ago

23 December 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months. Our relationship is great except for something that I've noticed and I'm not really sure if it's that big of a problem but it does bother me. He remains friends with people who have hurt him an...

Does she want to try again? Can someone give me some insight into what she is suggesting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3769 days ago

23 December 2013 (M) - Hi I'll try keep this short , about four month ago I pulled a girl in town and we started to see each other, she wanted to take it slow so I agreed with her as I really liked her, it went downhill when I introduced her on a night out to my best ...

I can't bear the thought of him kissing another girl!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3770 days ago

23 December 2013 (F) - Do you think that kissing is cheating? When I was with my ex, I would have firmly said no - I really didn't think kisses meant that much and weren't personal, I kissed other people and he did too, it was never sober or with the same person more...

What if I wait and then he flakes out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3768 days ago

23 December 2013 (F) - Ok, so my boyfriend of 4.5 years says he wants to marry me 'one day' but I feel this is a bit too unspecific after this much time. Am I overreacting? I am 28, he is 26 and he says he can see marriage and kids at some point in the future but not f...

How do I talk to this boy who I think likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3681 days ago

23 December 2013 (F) - I have been friends with this boy for two years now but only recently have we began to gte closer as what i thought as friends. When i was at party the other day i got told by a girl that she had over heard this boy and his friend talking about how ...

He said I was being controlling ....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3769 days ago

23 December 2013 (F) - I lost a friendship with one of my very good friends. We got in a big fight and both stopped talking to each other. I deleted her of off my facebook, and asked my boyfriend (of 2 years) to do the same. Instead he said i was being controlling and we ...

He keeps telling me he is going to break up with me!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3768 days ago

23 December 2013 (?) - My boyfriend kissed me when he was trying to break up with me yesterday. I found that to be confusing in itself. Then 15 minutes later he changed his mind and was all over me and said he wants to be with me and wants me to be his girlfriend!!! ...

I've had a horrible year and he is making it worse!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3770 days ago

23 December 2013 (F) - My boyfriend has Bipolar Disorder. He told me that he wanted to see me today at first. He was supposed to see me yesterday. He didn't send me a message yesterday though. He wrote to me today and told me that he had a cold yesterday, and he said he ...

My husband has told me he is gay!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3770 days ago

23 December 2013 (F) - Last night my husband admitted to me he was gay. He said he didn't want to have these feelings and won't follow up on them, he wants to stay married to me and have sex with me. He said he does like women, but only certain select women, has never had ...

My boyfriend's boss was very flirty with me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3770 days ago

23 December 2013 (F) - Ok, awkward situation! Went to my partners christmas party Saturday night and i'd never met any of his colleagues or managers before. When we got in I went to check my coat whilst he went to check the table plan. As I got there, there was a long...