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Archived questions from: June, 2007 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

My boyfriend keeps naked ex pictures and is online dating--help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 385 days ago

30 June 2007 (F) - Please can someone offer me some reassurance or advice. My boyfriend of 5 months has a naked picture of his ex in a sexual pose. I saw it and he said he threw it away, but it is still sat in his drawer. Now I have discovered he has joined an ...

He is still on about his ex...does he love me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 389 days ago

30 June 2007 (F) - Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years and we have two children together. He is a few years older than me and has two children from a past relationship, which he was in for 11 years. They broke up and a couple of years later we met. Ever s...

I'm sure he's cheating on me but I just can't nail him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 390 days ago

30 June 2007 (F) - My boyfriend fixes things for a living. I don't wanna get too specific. I recently checked the contacts in his phone and saw a girl's name (and I actually haven't looked in a few weeks and before that it was a long time), a new girl, which I ...

He says young relationships rarely last, does this mean he isnt commited to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 390 days ago

30 June 2007 (F) - Me and my boyfriend are both young, I'm 18 and hes turning 19 soon. We have been going out for 5 months now and I'm scared/paranoid hes going to break up with me because I don't feel he is commited as he says he is from a disscussion we recently ...

He says he's not the jealous type but he hates me being around his best mate

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 391 days ago

29 June 2007 (F) - My boyfriend's told me that he's no way near the jealous type. Yet, according to my friend, whenever I'm with his best mate on my own talking to him (I don't fancy him), it 'pisses him off'. I know my friend's not lying to me about it, because ...

I use lust to advance and get what I want but some can't tolerate it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 391 days ago

29 June 2007 (M) - It seems that lust is something that motivates me or i use to my advantage in getting more out of my life in terms of workplace progress and well being in general. Somehow, some people are not comfortable with this kind of behavior, no matter how ...

I see him actually having sex with someone else. What do these dreams mean?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 391 days ago

29 June 2007 (F) - My name's Summer. I've been with my boyfriend for 8 months now. In my past relationships, I was abused, cheated on...and lets say I haven't got the greatest trust issues. Latley I've been having all kinds of dreams about him. Such as him cheating on ...

I can't stop thinking about him. I tell myself, I need to move on. I don't deserve him for all he's done to us.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 391 days ago

29 June 2007 (F) - I want to be able to love again and be loved. The father of my child emotionally hurt me after all I've done for us to maintain a stable living situation. Our relationship at that time was rocky because I couldn't trust him (he's cheated on me), ...

If a guy loves you and wants to marry you, is it okay to ask that he not go to a woman's house at night?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 391 days ago

29 June 2007 (F) - I have a wonderful guy that still visits a beautiful girl who lives down the street from him once in a while in the evenings. I told him it makes me uncomfortable, and he said they are only friends. I told him, how would I know that. And he said ...

I'm so fed up with my guy right now for not taking any interest in my worries or insecurities

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 391 days ago

29 June 2007 (F) - I'm so fed up with my guy right now for not taking any interest in my worries or insecurities, he is entirely blameless for me feeling this way (so he thinks) he won't see anything from my point of view, I was once a cocky confident person, now I'm ...

Do even guys with attractive girlfriends check out other women?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 369 days ago

28 June 2007 (F) - To sexy girls: do your boyfriends still look at other women? I'm in a new relationship and afraid of ruining it with my jealousy. In the past I always had boyfriends who looked at other women a lot and they would also comment on my weight and ...

We had 10 seconds of unprotected sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 391 days ago

28 June 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I got very drunk last week and wanted sex. i made him get a condom but he hates them and to my dismay did not put it on for about 10 seconds when he was inside me... im afraid there was pre cum on his penis.. im so scared.. am i ...

He keeps testing how sincere I am

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 392 days ago

28 June 2007 (F) - i knew my bf since college. We were friends back then although we lost contact for about two years. We met again through a reunion and started dating, for about a year now. I noticed he does not seem to trust me which i find very disturbi...

She said she needed space, now she says she wants to break up

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 391 days ago

28 June 2007 (M) - My girlfriend recently told me she needed some space and some time alone to work out personal issues, this hurt and upset me that she wouldn't let me try to help. Over the next couple of days I text messaged her several times. About two days later ...

She had another man's baby aborted and didn't tell me; now I don't trust her

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 392 days ago

28 June 2007 (M) - Hello, I am a young undergraduate of physics,I have been dating a girl since the past three years,before i met this girl she was in a relationship with another guy,of which she told me she has broken up with.But later this girl was sick in our y...

She thinks I am flirtatious, when, in fact, I am just a very friendly person.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 392 days ago

28 June 2007 (M) - My girlfriend of one year has been rather pissed off all the time lately. I never knew what the problem was, but it seemed to all come out just a few hours ago. Apparently, she thinks I am flirtatious, when, in fact, I am just a very friendly ...

He's looking at pics of exes and have also caught him texting them....what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 391 days ago

27 June 2007 (F) - I feel so stupid. I am dating someone, and have been with him for a year now. But things are different. He used to tell me that I am beautiful, that he knows I'm meant for him....that the sex was good, etc. But now he doesnt do those things. We ...

He's been chatting online to women with the webcam and even plans to meet someone!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 380 days ago

27 June 2007 (F) - Several months ago, I found out my boyfriend (of 14 months) was using a webcam to chat online with other women while I was gone. I found this out because I came home a little earlier than he'd expected one day and caught him. He told me he wasn't ...

My ex, who cheated on me, was cheated on, so should we have another go at it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 393 days ago

27 June 2007 (F) - I have been with this guy for almost 4 years on and off(since I was fourteen). the longest that we have ever been together is 2 years. i broke off with him last year june. i don't know what the real reason was for doing so either. it was just a ...

Update: I want to go on holiday with my female friends and my gf doesn't like it.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 393 days ago

27 June 2007 (M) - (@dearCupid: sorry if this question is the same, but something doesn't seem to work. I also could not make an update on my previous question. The computer didn't recognise me a the one who originally posted the question. So I do it this way.) Hi! ...

How do I learn to trust again after my past hurts?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 394 days ago

27 June 2007 (F) - It is really hard for me to trust another man in a relationship. Being engaged then cheated on, helping him take care of his two kids from his previous marriage, father of my child playing mind games, manipulation, etc. My past relationships were a ...

He's acting suspiciously and I think he's cheating; should I leave him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 393 days ago

27 June 2007 (F) - i am currently with a man whom for 4yrs we have been going out as a couple. recently things aint been great due to the fact that he`s a selfish,self centered pig,and i love him. i am 99% sure hes having an affair,secret txts,silent phone ...

My boyfriend said 'I love you' to another girl but I still want to be with him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 382 days ago

27 June 2007 (F) - My boyfriend recently admitted to me that he kissed another girl and told her that he loves her. I feel like I can't trust him anymore. I still love him, but its the fact that he's done this to me. I don't know what to do. I feel hurt and upset, but ...

I faked an orgasm to please him now I don't know if I should do it again

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 394 days ago

26 June 2007 (F) - Hi I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months (I'm 22, he's 25) and we started to have sex a month ago. I enjoy the sex but I haven't had an orgasm. He said last week that he would like it if I showed him when I was having one because he likes to know ...

I still love him even thought he lied to me and hurt me so much.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 393 days ago

26 June 2007 (F) - When I was 14, I met a boy who lived near a friend of mine when it was her birthday. We didn't talk all night, but I think I fell in love straigt away, and luckily the feeling was mutual. After a couple of years however, in which we had lost our ...

After four years, she's not interested in sex. When I bring it up, she accuses me of only wanting her for sex!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 332 days ago

26 June 2007 (M) - Hi Guys, I'm really hoping someone out their can help me as Im so damn confused. My girlfriend and I have been together nearly 4 years. My problem is that lately (over the past few months) she just doesn't seem interested in being intimite with me ...

I'm 99.9% sure my brother's wife has a thing for one of our friends. Should I confront her while my brother is in basic training??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 385 days ago

26 June 2007 (M) - My brother is in Basic Training for the Army. Before he left, his wife and him were joined together at the hip. Now I've been keeping an eye on her while hes gone. I'm like 99.9% sure shes got a thing for one of our friends, but I don't know what ...

He will make my life hell if I break up with him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 394 days ago

26 June 2007 (F) - Hi Everyone, was wondering if someone could help me as i don't know what to do. Been with my bf for about 7 months, he became controlling and possessive to which we/he is/are getting help for. Over the weekend we had a really big argument which i...

Things with my bf of 7 months are going downhill quickly. We're on break now, but I'm not sure what to do with it anymore!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 394 days ago

26 June 2007 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for about 7 months and we've had our fair share of arguments but we're very much in love, up until recently. We'd been pretty much living together until a couple of weeks ago when I decided to move home because of probl...

How can I know for sure if my girlfriend is cheating?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 108 days ago

25 June 2007 (M) - I think my girlfriend is cheating on me. She's very private when it comes to her emails, text messages and phone calls. She was never so secretive before with any of that. Recently I "went down" on her and smelled and tasted latex faintly. Since it...

My girlfriend doesn't trust me because I have girls on my facebook and myspace pages!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 395 days ago

25 June 2007 (M) - My gf recently got very mad at me for having girls on my msn and my facebook. she even found out that i had a conversation with an ex gf of mine, i ensured her it was nothing and just a catch up (which it was) but now she says she doesnt trust me, ...

My girlfriend cheated on me--what do I do now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 341 days ago

25 June 2007 (M) - My girlfriend cheated on me--we have been together 5 yrs, lived together for 3 yrs and now living apart until we find a house. She went away working and came back and confessed that she slept with someone...it was a one off she said. What do I do?...

We want to be together for the rest of our lives but we keep arguing due to jealousy.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 394 days ago

25 June 2007 (M) - Hey, I have a problem with my gf, well ex gf. we have been broken up for a few months and recently started talking and trying to sort things out to try and get back together, we both love eachother very much but we dont know if the other can change ...

I tried to trick her into being jealous and now it's backfired--help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 394 days ago

25 June 2007 (M) - Hello, The entire fours years her and I have been together I have been faithful. She has refused to marry me and gives me a bullshit excuse about beliefs. It has eaten me up really badly. I tried to make her come around by making her jealous. I p...

My boyfriend is hiding things regarding money--what is he up to?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 395 days ago

25 June 2007 (F) - I think my boyfriend is hiding things from me, even the stupidest things. He takes all of his money with him even to work(constuction worker). He didn't tell me he borrowed money from Amscot or didn't ask me to borrow the money. We have lived ...

I cheated before, but now I want to let my boyfriend know I'm his alone!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 395 days ago

25 June 2007 (F) - Dear Cupid, I want to show my boyfriend that I can be a special woman and I want to show him that I am worthy of his love. I had a really bad past when I was younger and then I cheated on him about 6 months ago at a college party. He doesn't tru...

My boyfriend told me I was too big--now I am depressed and uncomfortable with him

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 387 days ago

25 June 2007 (F) - Hello, I am 27 years old. I have been through a lot the past year. I left my husband after 10 years. I lost my father, who was my rock. I lost almost everything me and my four kids owned. I have been in a new relationship for about 10 or 11 m...

I'm trying to hide who I really am to keep him while everything else seems hopeless

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 389 days ago

25 June 2007 (F) - I have abandonment issues which Im worried will eventually destroy my relationship..oh and I dont understand men. Ive just started seeing someone I adore, hes beautiful, so handsome sometimes Im shy to look at him. Hes kind, gentle and alway...

I'm pregnant and my boyfriend sometimes denies it's his; I think he may be cheating too

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 395 days ago

25 June 2007 (F) - I am almost 8 months pregnant. Me and my boyfriend have been together for around 11 months. He has an ex who says that they are still having sex. One day I seen he had a hickey on his neck and I could still swear that i didn't do. If i did I don't ...

I kissed another girl when I was drunk; should I tell my girlfriend and risk hurting her, or keep it quiet?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 395 days ago

25 June 2007 (M) - hello, i am 18 years old and a freshman in college. my girlfriend and I have been dating for 5 months. i truly think this girl is "the one" for me and i am very much in love with her. i know it's early on in the relationship, but i can't help how i ...

I'm hurt by my girlfriend's behaviour

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 395 days ago

24 June 2007 (M) - I am really worried. My girlfreind told me on the phone that she flashed in front of sum mates and was talking to her freind about things we had done and her freind had done. She even admitted to seeing a mates penis non erect and erect. I felt ...

I can't get over seeing my wife in a tape she made with her previous husband; it was so violent!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 396 days ago

24 June 2007 (M) - I have been married for two very short months. About six months before I was married, I sold my house and moved in with my fiance'. I was doing some cleaning and making room for my things one night while she was at work. I came across a video....I ...

My girlfriend fancies another guy and has been lying to me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 396 days ago

24 June 2007 (M) - Hi there. New on here so be kind! Ok, here goes. I've been with my girlfriend for around 7 months now but we've known each other for about 10 years and have gone out together in the past. I love her to bits but something's come up recently that's ...

I'm afraid of getting my heart broken!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 396 days ago

24 June 2007 (F) - Boy trouble! I really like this boy and I think he likes me to, but I don't want my heart to be broken again. If you were in this situation what would you do? Please help! ...

I found out my husband is looking to meet transvestites--how do I confront him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 207 days ago

24 June 2007 (F) - Hi, I know this probably is not the best place to find help in this matter. But right now I don't feel like telling my friends or family about this. I am married and really love my husband. But he uses internet a lot and he keeps logging on dating ...

My brother cheated on his wife and now I am afraid to date incase it happens to me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 395 days ago

24 June 2007 (F) - Okay, I have this thing... I am absolutely terrified of men! My older brother cheated on his wife and left his children, and since then I have been paralyzed when it comes to dating. I figure, man that was my brother and I thought I knew him, what ...

I'd lose so much if I ended my relationship but I don't love him anymore

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 397 days ago

24 June 2007 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for 8 years (since I was 18) and we've lived together for 5 years. I feel like we have drifted apart emotionally and sexually, and although we still care for each other, I dont think we love each other anymore. It just ...

Anti-depressants have killed my sex drive but he's very sexual; I'm afraid we're going to break up

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 143 days ago

24 June 2007 (F) - Hello Cupid, I'm a newbie here but I have some relationship problems. My guy loves me very much we've been together for 6 years now in July. We are the point where we are ready to give up and split and I don't want that to happen. He does love me ...

Should I confess to my husband about my risque past?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 359 days ago

24 June 2007 (F) - Ok im a 20 year old female and im married and today me and my husband were talkin about how many sex partners weve had over the years and what not, and i told him that ive been with 12 men but that was a lie. you see me and him starting dating when ...

We have a connection but he also has other women

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 393 days ago

23 June 2007 (F) - I was divorced 10 years ago, and have not had a relationship since then. I am not desparate, and am quite happy and content. But I have now met a lovely man who seems crazy about me. The feeling is mutual. The problem seems to be that he has seve...