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Archived questions from: September, 2008 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

What should I do when my husband cheats every six months?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 50 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - ok, so i've been married for almost 4 yrs, and my husband cheats on my about every six months it breaks my heart. we have talked and talked. he says he wants to keep our marriage. i beleive that there is hope for us but im tired of hurting. i dont ...

Should I leave my wife or not?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 101 days ago

30 September 2008 (M) - I'm not sure how far to push this, or if I should leave my wife or not. I'm really pissed off, not only at what she did, but her attitude that it was no big deal. That just makes me think she will do something like this again. We got married, and...

Which guy is playing me and which guy likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 101 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - Okay I just want to know which guy is in playing or likes me. I would like to have a male point of view but females can too. The thing is with these guys I don't even flirt with any of them, I just act like myself, and I am shy,but generally ...

My husband acts like I cheated when I didn't! How do I get him to stop pushing me away?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 90 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - I've been with my husband for 17 years and married for 15. During our relationship I have always been honest and faithful and gone through a lot with him. In the past, he has given me many reasons not to trust him but still, I stayed and moved on. ...

My boyfriend is always waiting for the next best thing. Why is it so hard to walk away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 41 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - well i am 20 my boyfriends is 28 w have been together for 2years and i feel really uhapy we live and work together. we speand somuch time with each other. he makes me so happy. i love him so much much. i really need happy to put a smile on hisface ...

I feel our child kicking in my stomach and it breaks my heart!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 101 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - I am having another problem, our first problem ballooned to a nightmare. My first blog was that I am 7 months pregnant and found nude pix of his ex and him on his computer, he did not want to get rid of them and days later he said he did, and hated ...

Am I being naive or am I just plain dumb in love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 93 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - I've been together and living with my boyfriend for almost 3 years. The first 6 months were like that out of a fairy tale novel; surprise trips, PDA, affection, respect and a complete gentleman willing to do anything to make me smile/laugh. After ...

His jealousy has reached levels that scare me! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 80 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - I really am at such a loss of what to do, or even what to think at this point... I have been dating a man from Italy (I am American) for a little over 6 months. We met in a way where our trust in one another needs to be strong enough to get be...

Should my boyfriend be watching porn?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 42 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - Should my boyfriend be watching porn? I've been with my boyfriend over 4 years and we live together. I am so happy apart from the fact that he watches porn. I cant accept it and it makes me feel very insecure. Why does he have to get turned on by ot...

He's been sending dirty messages behind my back! Is this salvageable?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 101 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - Me and my partner have been together for six months. We have recently moved in together, as I had to move to go to university and he wanted to move out himself. There have been difficult times in our relationship – mainly concerning him looking at ...

Begging for help: pregnant and very broken.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 101 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - I feel very desperate I need help before I completely break down. It was love at first sight. And for 2years we had never experienced such immense happiness while being with someone. We really fell in love. We had all those typical talks th...

Pregnant girlfriend wants to leave the state!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 101 days ago

30 September 2008 (M) - Well I guess I should say first that she, after yesterday, is now my ex-girlfriend. We had been dating since late February and moved in together in mid May. Our relationship has had it problems, more so than the typical relationship. She did cheat ...

Am I over-reacting when I think...she may have lost interest in me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 102 days ago

30 September 2008 (M) - There is a girl Im really interested in who is in one of my college classes. She seems to be interested in me also. Recently she told me that we should hang out soon. A week passed and she didn't say anything about hanging out. This weekend I ...

Are there any good old guys still out there? Where do I go to find him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 101 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - After I got divorced I started to date. Seems that I am horrible at choosing a good,honest guy to date. So far the few Ive dated want only a casual thing and they are way selfish in bed and two minutes and they are done and thats it no ...

Scared my bf will find someone else while he's away working! How do I get over this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 102 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - my boyfriend just left for two months to work i miss him sooo much.i dont know how to get over this im soo scared he will find someone new or realize he is happy without me. im tired of crying about it i mean i realize he is working and cant be ...

I can't trust my boyfriend-- this is destroying my relationship! please help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 101 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - Hello I need a lot of help here, I am in a relationship with this really wonderfull guy, he does everything to please me, he is very introverted but for his actions I know that he really cares about me, we have been 8 months of relationship, I am 27 ...

Caught between my family and my forbidden lover! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 101 days ago

30 September 2008 (F) - I met this guy ( lets call him Mr.A) nearly a year ago, he's a tough guy with piercings and tattoos but as i got to know him i realised he is quite sensitive and sweet. When i told my family about him they had their doubts but were happy that i was ...

He's hot but I think he may be gay! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 102 days ago

29 September 2008 (M) - hi i met a guy how is hot and i think he is half gay. i really like him and we make each other laugh. i tried calling him but he wont answer or even txt. he is on to drugs and were the same age 13. the other day 9/27/08 i was asleep at a sleep over ...

Is this picture really that big of a deal? My girlfriend is freaking out over it...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 102 days ago

29 September 2008 (M) - I ask this because I want to make sure that I'm being reasonable, because I don't want to be that guy who only thinks of himself. My girlfriend took a picture of me sleeping in my underwear with my hand down my pants (hilarious!). She sent it to s...

Just found out my husband of 8 years is a member of 100 online pornography sites!! Now what?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 100 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - Three weeks before I was to get married I caught my soon to be husband trolling for sex on the internet. He promised nothing other than curiosity was happening and I forgave him. Now here we are 8 years and 2 kids later and I catch him with an ...

She hasn't told her mom about us yet so she keeps getting set up on dates!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 89 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - Okay here is my problem me and my girlfriend have been together for like 5 months now and she hasn't told her mom yet. Then her mom set her up with some guy and she had to date him and she was still dating me!!! This really hurt my feelings but I ...

Should I keep trying to keep our friendship going or step back to see if she even cares?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 95 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - I have this friend that I met through an old friend of mine. At first I didn't like her but as we both grew farthur apart from our mutual friend we became closer. We both had a baby only 2 months apart from eachother so we have that in common. It ...

What should I do to fill up my time? I'm my own worst enemy.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 102 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - Everyone I know thinks im this popular, confident and intelligent person. The truth is the things I think about myself I wouldn't even say to my worst enemy. I worry all the time that people will realise that I am stupid, dont know how to do my job ...

Does he love me? He didn't say it back....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 102 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - hello I have a question here, yesterday I was cuddling with my 8 months boyfriend, and I told him that I loved him for the first time, his response was that he hugged me really tight, but he didn't say anything, should I be concerned?. Our ...

Am I too fussy or am I just worthless?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 102 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - The man who left me for his baby mama got married this weekend. i hurt like hell but i guess for me this was closure.however i am left feeling worthless and not good enough and am consequently feeling sorry for myself. i am in another relationship ...

Why doesn't he ever want to discuss our future anymore?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 101 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - Ok story is like this... I been in a online relationship for 15 months.. We been online close friends for around 3 years, and very very good friends at that. Well when we first became a couple, the romance and way he behaved towards m...

I really like this guy, but there are rumours he got a 14 yr old pregnant, I don't know who to believe...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 98 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - Ok Guys, theres this guy a really like he is just a year older than me and he is actually amazing. He isn't the nicest looking guy but he means the world to me, he has the nicest personality ever. Recently his pals have told me that he got a 14 year...

He kept dropping hints about escorts...what does all this mean?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 98 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - Hello people, this question is mainly for the guys out there!! Recently my partner and I started talking about changing our sex life. We have been together since we were both 22 and though we have both been with other people before this, I g...

My LDR isn't working and I don't know if he's cheating or just not that into me. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 102 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been in a long distance relationship just over a year. My track history with relationships is dire so I am not sure how a healthy relationship evolves over time. I loved the honeymoon period of our relationship but that ...

What to do about a cheating friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 102 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - My husband is good friends with a guy who lives close to us, and I am friends with his wife. We have always thought of him as a decent person who will help out when he can. However, he has recently confided in my husband that he cheated on his wife ...

We have a baby and he keeps cheating on me. I don't know if I should stick with him or move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 102 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - Hi There, Well the story goes like this. My boyfriend and i have been together for almost 2 yeard and we have a 9mnth old baby as well. last year while I was pregnant I found out that he cheated on me and that the girl was pregnant. I ...

How can I deal with rejection. It's really brought me down.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 103 days ago

29 September 2008 (M) - Hi, I wrote about a girl who i thought was interested in me last month and today I finally brought myself to ask her out. When I did, she told me she was already in a serious relationship and so I said it was ok and changed the subject. I've worked ...

She wants the relationship a secret and I don't. What now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 102 days ago

29 September 2008 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for 5 months now and I knew her for about 7 months before then. We get along really great and we really care about each other. I'm 25 and she's 21. Overall, I'm happy with how our relationship is but there is one thing ...

Our adult son is addicted to drugs and we cannot say no to helping him...how do we cope?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 101 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - This about a parenting dilemma. I hope someone can come up with some good advice. My adult son is addicted to drugs. We tried to help him many ways. We never found out ,what happened in his life what made him turn to drugs.. We tried many ways to ...

She's not the same person online and I am so scared of losing her to internet chat rooms!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 99 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - hello everybody... im in a relationship for the last 5 months and me and my girlfriend spend every day together i love her to bits but we have silly arguments everyday and i crack up when she chats on-line because its like she is a different pers...

Found out he sent flowers to another female, a long time ago. Should I confront him or just drop it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 101 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - I recently discovered that the guy i've been with for two and a half years has sent a girl flowers and a teddy to her work office about 6 months into our relationship but he's never done anything like that for me, i found out he had been online ...

He hates my past so he calls me ugly and disgusting! How do I cope with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 103 days ago

29 September 2008 (F) - My boyfriend hates my past. Even though it wasn't terrible, I mean most people would think it's mild (the worst I did was give oral sex to a friend once). So yeah, but it bothers him. We were arguing, and he told me how ugly and disgusting I am....

I don't feel his love anymore. May be I should give up. Please help.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 102 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - I am 15 years old . My boy friend does not really like talking to me now like before. When I say that I like another guy but i already give up on that guy and now I only like him . A long time ago he cheat on me too, but i have forgiven him ...

I confronted her about that secret and she said that she was NOT a girl at all...she is a transexual!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 102 days ago

28 September 2008 (M) - I have a serious question that has been bothering me for a couple of days. I met this girl two months ago online and she and I were fully in love with each other. We always chat almost everyday and she has been sending me pictues of her. I thought ...

Whenever we arrange to meet, he has to cancel at the last minute. Is he seeing someone else?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 103 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - Hello, I met a guy about four weeks ago, we got on very well and have been texting chatting on the phone, but he never seems to be available to meet up, or else when we arrange it he has to cancel at the last minute. Is he seeing someone else?...

Were they being genuine or just saying that so that I wouldnt feel like a 'burden'.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 102 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - Hey, I just need help with working out if what my friends are saying is genuine or not. Basically, theres four of us - three girls and a boy. The lad is kinda new to the group but we all really like him and thats fine. They went out without me l...

I'm young, I don't want to be trapped in a pointless relationship for the rest of my life, so please, help me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 103 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - Hi. this is actually weird and hard to type and to share with everyone, as i havent spoke about this to my best mates, or my family, as i know wht theyll say, but i dont know if i want to except it. I'm 17 and have been goin out with my bf, who is 2...

Should I be worried about my husband flirting with a coworker?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 74 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - Hey i found out my husband has beeb texting a coworker female loads, he says it was just about work stuff as he has just got a new job and doesnt know how to do everything. So he says he was asking her how to do work stuff, and he said sometimes she ...

Why in the world won't he have sex with me? It's been a month!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 90 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - Warning, this is a sexual problem with a little bit of graphic detail, hope it does not offend! I've been seeing this guy for over a month just now, and since we live 30 miles apart, every time we've got together we have also spent the night ...

Am I being unreasonable with my boyfriend about going out by himself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 103 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - Hello I have a boyfriend since almost 8 months ago, we really get along very well, and he is wonderfull with me and he does everything to please me. We both have very tight schedules so we normally see eachother 3 times a week. I know he has give up ...

Please help with my drunk, insecure boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 103 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - I need some help, I hope you have time it's a long story. I just turned 28 I have been with a man for 12 years, he was my first everything and we have 5 kids together. Here is the problem, he drinks ALOT. At first it wasn't so bad but know it if ...

We were forced apart and now I don't know what to do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 99 days ago

28 September 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and I were forced apart. During the first few months we were apart, she lied about me, lied to me, and was flirting with her ex boyfriend. Then when she said that we'd "never be allowed together again" she gave up and dated him, yet ...

Why is he not replying to my messages? Did I make him mad?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 95 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - I have a male friend who I made while he was serving duty here in TX. We only met twice but got attracted to each other. Unfortunately, there was no time for anything else. He left a week after to Korea (He´s military). We started to keep in touch...

On having a bisexual boyfriend.....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 98 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - I am currently dating a bisexual guy. I know he loves me and would do anything for me - that's not what is in question here. I recently found out that he's been looking at pictures of naked guys. Fine- it's like how straight guys look at porn. Wh...

He's pushing himself away when I need him the most! What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 102 days ago

28 September 2008 (F) - i've been going out with my BF 4 7months now, its been great up till now, we've both said that we love each other which was true, i still love him. But near the start of the month i've started feeling off (emotionally, physically and mentally) my ...