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Archived questions from: November, 2015 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

Feeling jealous of my sister. Any ideas on how to sort this out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3065 days ago

30 November 2015 (F) - So I feel in a way jealous of my sister, she's 26 and I'm 22, she's married and has 3 children, I really love children, I work with children. I have no partner though. I really wish I was my sister. I'm a shy person so find it hard to form rela...

My husband is not the most attractive man but I fear I'm not good enough for him

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3065 days ago

29 November 2015 (F) - Beem with my husband 23 years married 19. I have no confidence in myself and hate the way i look but try to make the most of myself. I have blonde hair that sits on my shoulders and im thinking of getting it cut shorter as i feel like a new ...

A mutual friend warned me the guy I'm dating just wants casual sex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3069 days ago

29 November 2015 (F) - I've been talking to this guy for about a month, and recently started seeing him for about a week. However, I don't know if he's looking for anything serious or not, and I don't want to ask and make things awkward. A mutual friend of ours, ...

I can tell he's trying to change but I don't think it's enough anymore

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3068 days ago

29 November 2015 (F) - I apologise in advance for this being a long question, but as I need answers/advice from people outside of the situation, I have to fully explain everything. So, basically, I'm 19 years old, and was dating a boy, lets name him Jordan, for over...

We split 8 years ago. I need to find some happiness. But how? I don't know how?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3069 days ago

29 November 2015 (F) - Hi, it's a long story but will try to make it brief! I was with B the father of my 2 children 10 years.He was absolutely the love of my life and I was totally in love however I am certain it wasn't the same for him. B cheated on me througho...

Why is my boyfriend suddenly indifferent about his ex who's now engaged?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3069 days ago

29 November 2015 (F) - TDLR my boyfriend is suddenly completely indifferent about his ex after hearing she got engaged. What could be the reason for this sudden change of heart??? Long version: My boyfriend found it extremely hard to let go of his ex. They didn't date...

Should I trust him this time? I still feel he may go away again, off the radar.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3011 days ago

29 November 2015 (F) - There was a problem with a question I posted about a guy I met online who I subsequently had over 100 conversations with over 35 days, he got really sick, we never met and he fell off the radar screen. He called me a few days ago, is doing be...

Do I just stop talking to him or keep waiting ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3069 days ago

29 November 2015 (F) - hey everyone, i'm so confused about a guy right now. I don't know what to do. anyway i started talking to this guy a while ago and we started talking everyday back in september. we have hung out, i've stayed at his house twice the second time i st...

Should I insist on her leaving her husband before I move to Germany to be closer to her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3046 days ago

29 November 2015 (M) - I have met a German married woman. I am in UK, 57 divorced. She is 44 with 3 children. We met at a party in Germany and she told me her husband no longer has sex with her since 6 years. We talked all night. The past 4 months we talk every day on...

He is getting annoyed at me, and more frequently. What can I say or do to address this issue with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3069 days ago

29 November 2015 (F) - Hi, I'm a 20 year old student and have been with my boyfriend for just over a year now. We get along really well, and share a lot of the same interests, so it's never hard to find something to do together. I'm very very much in love with him, j...

How do I keep my college-age daughter from falling away from our church and family?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3069 days ago

28 November 2015 (F) - I am a proud mother of six children from the ages of 27-10. I am a stay-at-home mom and part-time Sunday School teacher and I volunteer for many church activities as do all members of our family. All of our children attended or attend our small ...

He's been having long private secret lunches with drinks with a co-worker! Is this forgivable?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3070 days ago

28 November 2015 (F) - Please help me. My husband has been having private lunches with a woman 10 years younger than him. The lunches turn I to four hours with drinks and no other coworkers are included. He has been doing this for four years and kept it a secret. We ...

Guy asked me out, but he has a female friend who worries me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3070 days ago

27 November 2015 (F) - Met this guy recently and he seems to have a major thing for me and recently told me he liked me. His friends say I am his "type" physically and he is always giving me compliments etc. I told him Id think it over and to give me time. He is not my ...

He admitted that he only knows two girls who are 'hotter' than I am and they'll be at an upcoming party

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3068 days ago

27 November 2015 (F) - Hi everyone, When my boyfriend and I first started dating we were going to a party and I said as a joke "there are probably going to be really hot girls there" because he is very involved in sports so a lot of the girls that are in his friend g...

My boyfriend has been trying to meet up with another woman

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3071 days ago

27 November 2015 (F) - So, I've been in a relationship with someone for about a year and a half mostly online. Up until recently it has been completely virtual. I went to visit him in the summer and we hit it off eventhough he was a bit....forward. Recently (Septemb...

I like him so much but my head says no

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3071 days ago

26 November 2015 (F) - I've just got into a new relationship and we made it official. We've been together for 5 weeks but I'm feeling it's not right. I'm feeling more like a handbag used when needed. In the 5 weeks we've been together we've seen each other once. He has ...

How can I move on when I still love her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3071 days ago

26 November 2015 (M) - Hi, I need some advice I dated this girl about 3 years ago. I realy loved her with all my heart then after about 7 months she cheated on me. We never broke up but we never have sex. Since that day I've seen her about 5 times thought we work in the ...

How often is a partner in a relationship likely to come home drunk? His actions are causing me concern

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3071 days ago

26 November 2015 (F) - Hi all, for those cohabiting and/or married, how often does your partner come home drunk? My boyfriend comes home drunk once a month. We've been living together for half a year. He reaches home around 3,4am, reeks of alcohol and is terribly inco...

Men, can you be turned off a woman and lose attraction, based on one thing she said ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3067 days ago

26 November 2015 (F) - Hello! There's a man that i serve every day at work, I really like him, and he seems to like me too- we just smile and sort of gaze at each other, even when we're not saying anything, and he does seem shy and quite nervous but tries to initiat...

Do troubled on again and off again relationships last? Or is she just kidding herself?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3072 days ago

26 November 2015 (F) - My friend is in a very 'on-off' relationship with her boyfriend. One minute they are best of friends having weekends away together and the next minute they are falling out and he is abusive to her and doesn't speak to her for days - and then the...

What to do? My boyfriend will not stop talking about the past

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3072 days ago

26 November 2015 (F) - My bf and I are moving in soon, but their is one big issue between us. During our time we've dated until now recently, he was the one who drove all the time to pick and drop me up at my home. I don't have my own car. I rely on my mother to allow me...

Online Dating : is it possible that I'm emotionally unavailable?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3071 days ago

26 November 2015 (F) - Am I emotionally unavailable. Or is this a combo of both. I started online dating almost a year ago now and have met a few guys. I met one guy who was 10+ older than myself. He seemed very interested in me after our first coffee date and I went...

I do want you, I don't want you - is it my fault?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3072 days ago

25 November 2015 (F) - I feel at cross roads in my relationship. I have been seeing and older woman for two years. We had a rocky start due to her constant lies over her spending time with her ex which resulted in lack of trust on my behalf still even now. I have always ...

Feeling insecure about the future of me and my boyfriend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3069 days ago

25 November 2015 (F) - Hi, its usually me giving the advice, but now I need some. I have been with my boyfriend for over a year, we did get in to a relationship rather quick, but I don't regret any of it. He really does make me feel special and does take care of me. but ...

Is it just sex, or does he want a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3073 days ago

25 November 2015 (F) - i used to work with this guy over a year ago we got on great but he had a girlfriend. I met him out on Halloween night and we ended up kissing. We were both quite drunk but he did say he had always fancied me and now he's single. Since then we've ...

He can't make up his mind if he wants a relationship with me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3072 days ago

25 November 2015 (F) - I was with my boyfriend for about 7 months and we split about 2 weeks ago. For both of us this was the first significant relationship we'd been in. When we first got together everything was going great apart from the sex side of things. I hadn't...

He speaks to his ex differently when I'm not around

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3073 days ago

25 November 2015 (F) - Ok I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years and we have a 5 year old son together. He was married and has 2 boys with her but was divorced about 3 years before we started dating. She calls him every sometimes about the boys and sometimes not. He ...

How can I prove that I have long term potential and that we could become a long term relationship, without scaring her off?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3073 days ago

25 November 2015 (M) - Hi, I know this may sound like I'm fighting a losing battle, but I would love some advice. The other night I had a one night stand with my first ever girlfriend who I broke up with 10 years ago. She is incredibly loyal, lovely with a big heart, s...

Am I over-reacting to his harsh and hurtful comments?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3072 days ago

25 November 2015 (F) - Hello Everyone! Boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year. Last weekend, he said things to me that really broke my spirit and was very hurtful. We were getting intimate and he said that I was the only woman who's never made him come,...

How much more can my heart take? Tired of being Mr Nice and getting no where.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3072 days ago

25 November 2015 (M) - I tried again, am done being the nice guy, romantic, sweet talker, opening car doors ,poems,I've tried, an tried again, woman say they want to meet a good guy, well I've had it, am not going to be a bad boy, just don't give all I got. So ladies ...

Why does he act like this when I'm supposed to be the love of his life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3069 days ago

24 November 2015 (F) - Hi I just want to know what others think to this. I have been with my boyfriend for 18 months. We don't live together yet but are planning to next year. He was my first love and after a number of years apart and us both having been married to other...

I lashed out at him. He says we are done. What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3074 days ago

24 November 2015 (F) - I lashed out to my boyfriend for the 3rd time after a party again and now we are broken up. I lashed at him about his daughter but Ive been very stressed with him for the past couple of weeks. He just has not been nice to me and I was going to...

He wants to be a Daddy again. How can I get him to understand my feelings on this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3068 days ago

24 November 2015 (F) - Hiya I don't really know if I'm in the right place I could just really do with getting a bit of advice, me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 years, we've got two beautiful children together. Aged 2 and 3, I've just recently gone back to work ...

I want her in my life, but I don't understand some of her reactions. What's the best way forward?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3073 days ago

24 November 2015 (M) - I started speaking to a beautiful and charming woman in August and we met up, spoke a lot on WhatsApp and had a great connection. She was everything I wanted in a woman and we told each other that we loved each other. It was too soon but I think...

He said he's, "marrying me because I want it and he doesn't".Is marriage still a good idea, in the circumstances?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3074 days ago

24 November 2015 (F) - Im 28 years old and yave been with my boyfriend for 13 years. We have a 10 year old and a 6 year old. We are best friends and cant be away from each other for more than a few hours a day. We are in love. He never proposed but gave me a ring on my 2...

He's disrespectful but I don't want to hurt him. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3072 days ago

24 November 2015 (F) - I'm sorry if this is a little long. I've been in a relationship now for a little more than a year and a half. I try not to think about the fact that we don't really go out and do much, and we only really spend time at each other's houses. The ...

What should I pay for, in the first month, as I will be away, and not residing there with him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3074 days ago

24 November 2015 (F) - My bf and I are moving in together. He is paying for the rent, and i'm paying utilities and food. I unfortunately, will be gone for a month and a half with my mother on vacation. We planned this trip out, before I even met him because she is just...

Smitten with my female best friend. She has a Bf. Am I Bi-sexual?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3073 days ago

24 November 2015 (F) - I am so beyond confused and hoping somebody will point my thoughts in the right direction.... I have always been bi-curious, but never actually thought bisexual! Reason being i've had 3 serious boyfriends, but never been tempted to have a girlfr...

Could my boyfriend have aspergers or ADD or a compulsive disorder?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3073 days ago

24 November 2015 (F) - Dea Cupid, My boyfriend is great but has some curious 'quirks' He plays computer games and then tries to rely on me to stop him because he cant stop himself and will otherwise play all night. He enjoys DIY and always has several projects ...

I seek true love and a lasting romantic loving relationship. Are my goals possible?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3073 days ago

24 November 2015 (M) - So, one thing has been driving me crazy lately. I am 21 years old and I have yet to find the girls around me as individuals that I want to date. It seems that the dating experience has changed drastically since the last 20 years. I watch and listen ...

I'm still attracted to men. While she is the only woman I've ever been attracted to. Am I Bi?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3074 days ago

24 November 2015 (F) - I've never liked women except for one brief crush on my classmate during my sophomore year of high school. I am now in my junior year of college and I think I might be in love with my literature professor. She's 45. I'm 24. I'm always thin...

How can I get past the fact that I'm not tall, improve my confidence and successfully date women?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3069 days ago

24 November 2015 (M) - Ashamed to be a short man. I don't feel like I have the same potential as a taller man. Anything positive that I do would be much better if done by a taller man. I am also the shortest guy in my family and every time I meet a relative, family friend ...

Is he sick of me, and bored with me, that he falls asleep, soon after he arrives home?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3074 days ago

24 November 2015 (F) - Is my boyfriend sick or just sick of me? He is fine and wide awake when he's alone and I'm at work. In the evenings he is fine and awake while out with his mates. He will call me to talk on the phone during his 15 min ute drive home. But once...

How do we start over again in order to have a more harmonius relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3074 days ago

24 November 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid Me and my bf have been together for almost a year ..recently we have been fighting a lot and most of the time it's because of me..otherwise we just happen to get into some misunderstandings. I love him a lot and after several failed...

Is it selfish that I don't want my Bf's sons living with us?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3074 days ago

24 November 2015 (F) - I need Help.. I'm 22 years old and my boyfriend is 35, he has 2 kids 18 and 13 both boys. I am currently 3 months pregnant and couldn't be any happier I'm so excited for my baby we both are, after months of waiting we finally are getting our new ...

Why do I delay leaving him? How do I gather the courage to leave?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3073 days ago

24 November 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid My bf of 5 years constantly belittles me, insults me, talks about how other girls look good and how I look v bad in front of them and how old I look, how I don't deserve him... But still comes to me for money, it's been months since w...

I wonder if he misses sleeping with other women

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3074 days ago

23 November 2015 (F) - Hi, I'm just looking for a bit of outside advice really. I am jealous of things that my boyfriend is doing, I cannot stop, some weeks are fine, others are not. I don't know if I should end it because I am jealous and I hate feeling like thi...

I feel he may be simply taking advantage of my generosity, how do I ask him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3075 days ago

23 November 2015 (M) - I am 55, my partner 28...I feel he may be simply taking advantage of my generosity until he has gained what he wants and will then disappear. How can I know? How can I ask him this very difficult question?...

Plan to marry in 5 years time. We are cautious about a sexual relationship. Should we wait, or not wait??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3076 days ago

23 November 2015 (M) - Hi, Im 22 yrs old and my girlfriend is 21 yrs old. We got into a relationship for a year already. We are both willing to explore each other body and practice safe sex. However, we are concerned about whether we should wait until marriage. For ...

Was it OK to ask my landlord for a female property manager when viewing requested repairs? The male PM seemed annoyed

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3075 days ago

23 November 2015 (F) - Hi, Guess I'm just looking for reassurance that I have done the right thing. I live in a rented flat and the landlord has a property Manager (PM) who does inspections which should only be done every 6 months or so or if I request a repair. Anyway...