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Archived questions from: October, 2008 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

What can I do to stop these insecurities ruining what I have?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 54 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - Hi. im pretty much with a guy... by pretty much i mean that we know we like eachother bt he's at uni atm and we're gonna see how it goes when he gets back home. my problem is that i get so jealous! i cant help but get so insecure. when ive been wi...

What are your suggestions on completely letting go of my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 70 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - so, at the end of june my boyfriend of 6 months broke up with me about 3 weeks before leaving for the navy. he couldn't make up his mind what to say to me or about me, although none of it was entirely bad, he was stuck between saying he loved me and ...

Hope I can get an honest answer here!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 69 days ago

31 October 2008 (F) - Hi! hope i can get a honest answer here...i've got a bf and i love him a lot and he loves me the same way. he's very nice and kind. only i'm not used to the kind of relationship he's got with his sister...i think i'm a bit jelous and i'm almost ...

Should I stick with her and try to work this out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 35 days ago

31 October 2008 (M) - I'm 20 years old. My girlfriend and I have been dating for a little over a year. About a month after we first started going out I was very drunk and cheated on her. I let her know and we talked it over and got over it. We got along really well after ...

Has anyone been in this situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 71 days ago

31 October 2008 (M) - I've been dating my partner for almost a year now, and after receiving an sms that I knew wasn't meant for me, I did something that I shouldn't have. I went through her phone. Unfortunately I found a large amount of sexual text msgs and 'I love you ...

I have trust issues but feel I am too controlling if I restrict him! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 71 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 4 1/2 years. We are at different colleges, me in Florida and him in New York but he lives in Florida and comes home for breaks. We spent most of last year broken up trying to figure things out since it was ...

Does he hug me just to get me to shut up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 71 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - hello my boyfriend allways when we talk he stares at me smiling, and hugging me, does this mean that he doesn't give a crap of what I am speaking? does he hugg me for me to shut up? Guys please opinions...

He's got a secret cell phone, could he be cheating on me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 59 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - I think my husband is having an affair! my husband has a cell phone that i "accidentally" found out about! he says his mom gave it to him. he hides it ALL the time, and if i ask to see it, he gets mad. the one time he let me hold it for a ...

Is he losing interest already?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 71 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 2 or 3 months and I'm having the time of my life. It seemed that he was too, but over the last 2 weeks or so he hasn't been sending me the cute little messages he used to or giving me compliments when we're together. ...

Could his stalling mean his love has faded?

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30 October 2008 (F) - Quick question Mybfriend of a year said he wanted to move in with me (his idea) this year but now says its too soon and he has so much to sort with his house/mortgage. He is still being the same with me as before but does go distant some tim...

I have become insanely jealous! I know this isnt normal!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 71 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - The fact is, I've never loved anyone before - but I am most definetly in love now with my amazing boyfriend. He's lived in my street for a few years and from the moment I laid eyes on him I knew I had to be with him. He was gorgeous; tall, dark and ...

I'm hurting because the person I love doesn't trust me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 71 days ago

30 October 2008 (F) - I come from a crazy past. I was an addict, i slept around and i just partied my ass off! Then just over a year ago i met a boy who helped me change into a much better perosn. I love him so much... I'd do anything for him. He's my best friend. But he ...

Hoping to hear from someone one day...someone who's understanding.

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29 October 2008 (F) - I would love to meet someone that dont mind a woman having tatoos, I am 48yrs old, and so much want to be loved again,. I have been single now for almost 4yrs, I would like to know where to meet someone new that dont mind a woman having stupid ...

He denies being registered on an adult friend finder site, and now he's in a mood with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 71 days ago

29 October 2008 (F) - Hi, ive been with my boyfriend for a year. However, last week he left his hotmail accout on at my house, and i discovered that he had registered with 'adultfriendfinder', a sex hook up website, saying he was single and looking for one on one sex. ...

Why are these guys nice to my girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 72 days ago

29 October 2008 (M) - Dear All: I am facing a really difficult situation lately. The thing is, I've been dating with my gf for almost 3 years and we love each other a lot. The problem is, we're not living in the same country due to the fact that she went to England ...

How far will a woman go to hide the truth?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 67 days ago

29 October 2008 (M) - i am looking for answers.my wife had a little fling with another man recently that she says was only a kiss.i don't believe her.she will look at me in the eyes and swear on her kids life and god.has anyone ever heard a woman say this and not even ...

Is this relationship doomed?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 72 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - I need advice on my current relationship. He is a great guy I think I am in love with him. I am not sure if it is for the right reasons. My husband committed suicide in front of me 1 year ago. I am sure sure if I will ever really get through ...

The lap dance he was offered made me feel jealous. Should I consider being present at a second show?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 72 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - I am a soon-to-be bride and my fiancé' and I have been together for a long time. I was never a jealous girl; however, once I got that ring the jealousy hit me. It didn't occur to me until my beau received a lap dance....it was a "celebration" lap ...

We are together 1 year 6 months, but he keeps "wandering". How can I make him fall in love with me again and forget about the other girl??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 73 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - Hi, i have been with my boyfriend for 1year and 6months everything was going great, untill he met some girl in another country. we have broken up atleast 5 times and we kept trying because i believe in this relationship, but he is very distant from ...

I've recently split with my boyfriend who I loved a lot. Problam was he didnt love me.He still had feelings for on of his past ex's. Now he calls me for long chats. What am I to make of this ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 73 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - hello, im really confused hear I've recently split with my boyfriend who i loved a lot. Problam was he didnt love me and he still had feelings for on of his past ex anyway, are split was his choice but we still talk often,anyway i usually speak to ...

I slept with someone I consider my best friend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 73 days ago

28 October 2008 (F) - Well what happened was me and some of my friends were hanging out and the plan was for the night that we all were supposed to get laid.... me and my friend and my brother and his friend... it was going to be my friend and brother (he's not really my ...

How do I stop being so possessive and crazy everytime he talks to another girl?

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28 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost two and a half years. The first year and a half of our relationship, everything was great. He was such a sweetheart and I completely trusted him in all aspects of our relationship. This past February ...

He says he likes me, but his dating site profile is still active.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 74 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - Hi here we go: I am dating this guy I met on a dating website. We get on very well and last Saturday we had sex. It was our 5th date. I feel a bit insecure as I think i pushed him into it. He texted me next day and asked how I was and I replyed ba...

"Just friends" - what do you think???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 74 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - Can I trust him or not? Basically I have been going out with my bf for a year and know him about 7 years. We were best friends all through school but also knowing there was a little something more there. Finally we got together last year after mo...

How do you get rid of a broken heart?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 74 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - How do you get rid of a broken heart when it’s been broken by 2 men at the same time? I’ve been married 25 yrs. and it’s been a rocky marriage. My husband is living in another state managing our 48 unit apt. complex which has caused a lot of ...

She seems 'put off'' by me..what can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 75 days ago

27 October 2008 (M) - There's a girl who I like, except I don't think she feels comfortable around me. Like whenever I try to talk to her she avoids eye contact and looks for other people to "save" her. Also today in my youth group we were doing the "knot game" where ...

I fancy someone but his brother fancies me too! He's saying mean things about him... do I believe him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 75 days ago

27 October 2008 (F) - Heyy xx Well i wil try to putt this in shortest wayy possible. a few months a go this guy.. we'll call him "gary" fancied me for a long time bt i dint fancy him back so i told him so it wouldn't be leading im on. Bt now his bro contacted me an...

I'm in love with my very good friend's

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 74 days ago

26 October 2008 (M) - Okay, I'm in love with my very good friend's girlfriend. She and my friend have been going out off and on for more than two years. She loves him definetely (most of the time). However, I talk to her every day through text, and then im, and then on ...

He lied about not smoking weed, I don't know if I can forgive him...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 70 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - I am getting so pissed off at my boyfriend and want to stop but can't. We've been together 20 months, I want to be with him and he says he wants to be with me. Theres only one problem. I am angry at him constantly. What happened was when we star...

We've been dating on and off for a year, he says he loves me, is he playing me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 76 days ago

26 October 2008 (F) - ok theres this guy i have been dating on and off for a year... he says he loves me and wants to spend the rest of his life with me..... everytime we break up he says he always loves the gurl he is dating and stuff is he playing me or what help me ...

I have problems trusting people, including my boyfriend, what can I do to deal with this problem?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 75 days ago

25 October 2008 (F) - Hi, i am in a difficult place in my life right now and would like to know what ter people think about this. Well i have a boyfriend (of nearly 8 months) and i love him to bits, i mean i think he is the one for me. However i have a big problem ...

I've pushed him away so much, how do I get back his trust?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 77 days ago

25 October 2008 (F) - I'ts been a very turbulent month in our relationship. My boyfriend and I have been together two and half years and we've been madly in love the whole time. For some reason I have this need for him to keep proving himself to me so I used to say th...

First my crush tells my friend he likes me, then he says he doesn't. Should I believe my friend ?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 47 days ago

25 October 2008 (F) - I have a crush on this guy and I don't know if he likes me back. And i got my friend to ask him if he likes me and the first coupel of times he said maybe and today my friend asked him again and he said no. But I don't know if my friend was lieing ...

My boyfriend's porn is 75% big girls ( I'm a small girl.) Is he even attracted to me at all?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 74 days ago

25 October 2008 (F) - Help guys! My boyfriends porn is 75% big girls I'm 105lbs, A cup, attractive, and have decent confidence, but I'm starting to get worried about what he's attracted to. He says he only looks at big girls 10% of the time because he feels like the...

I'm being blamed for something I didn't do, so should I feel bad?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 76 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - Ok my feelings are hurt and I want to know if I could have done anything differently. My friend of 5 years who I talk to off and on is pregnant, newly married and just finally got her own place. I had been asking for a few months when we could ha...

My mom thinks boys only want girls for sex. How do I tell her about my new boyfriend ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 77 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - Ok my mother always ask me if I have a boyfriend but I tell her no when sometimes I do but I don't wanna tell here because her view of all boys is that they only want one thing and that's to have sex but I don't think so because all the ones I have ...

We love each other, but I feel like the world is against us. Will he miss me and come back to me in time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 75 days ago

24 October 2008 (M) - I will try to cram it all in here! so bare with me. I'm 20, gay and have had 2 serious relationships, this being my second. The first one left me pretty bruised and torn up, but I came out alive. My current (ex) B/F I have been with for 2 years...

I'm so freakin' confused right now. Is this guy for real?! I mean WOW, I don't even know what I'm asking anymore after re-reading this!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 73 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - Ok where to start. I met this really great guy, and everyday I learn something new about him. I kind of had an idea in the beginning something wasn't right with him. But you know the old saying you try not to judge the book by its cover. Well he ...

What is the point of watching porn during sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 65 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for four years. Everytime a conversation came up about porn he would say he that he wasnt into it at all, and thay they are all sluts, blah blah blah. Well we are living together now, and sometimes he wants to watc...

I feel I'm unimportant to him because he never keeps his word.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 77 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - Hey, ok my problem is with my boyfriend. I feel like I am unimportant to him because he doesn't keep his word. For example, I planned to go home on monday and return wednesday (we are at uni) but my boyfriend suggested I come back to uni on the t...

Should I trust men in general?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 77 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - Hi I'm 30 and have had a few long term relationships, including the one i'm in now. I have NEVER been able to trust a man and assume they are all lying/devious about everything, would cheat if they got half a chance and can not be trusted or...

He says that it's not cheating because it is his ex-wife!?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 77 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - I recently found out that my boyfriend of seven years has been sleeping with his ex-wife. He says that it was the only way to get her to act right, meaning seeing his children and lowering child support. He actually wants me to accept her and the ...

My boyfriend finds me unattractive because of my small boobs and thin body structure...

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 28 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend(for 3 yrs) feels that i am too thin for him and he is not that attracted to me since i have small boobs. It really hurts me when he comments harsh things about my body. He says that i need to become a little fat to carry on with the ...

Do many guys lie about cumming?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 77 days ago

24 October 2008 (F) - I had unprotected sex about 3 days ago (Oct 21) and I start my period at the end of the month. So anyday now it should come. Anyhow, He said that he didnt come in me during sex but I am sure that he lied because he did jurk some and couldnt get up r...

I'm tired of his empty promises.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 53 days ago

23 October 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years and been living together for 2. Recently I went into his phone to text myself (couldn't find my phone) and there were messages to and from this girl he used to work with, "Vanessa". We've...

I am feeling so insecure regarding his ex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 60 days ago

23 October 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been in a relationship for about 7 months now. We fell for each other instantly! He is one of the sweetest men I have ever met, we click so well, that we are now living together. Everything seems to be going extremely well, ex...

He fantisizes about me when we are apart. Does that mean he only wants me for the sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 78 days ago

23 October 2008 (F) - hello, thanks for read my question, I have been with my boyfriend for 9 months, I think we have a nice relationship and strong feelings for each other. He has a very high sexual energy, so do I, the sex between us is great, sometimes we do it for ...

What to do with a disappearing, lying, stealing husband?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 76 days ago

23 October 2008 (F) - My husband and I have been married for a little over 5 years now and our marriage has had some problems. when we first got married my husband drank a lot and did drugs I knew how much he drank but he tried to hide his drug use from me but I always ...

How can I prove to her that she is the one and only?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 78 days ago

23 October 2008 (M) - Okay me and my girlfriend love each other very very much. And I know for sure that this is true love and not a high school crush. I am currently 14 and my girlfriend is the same age. We have been going out for 6 months. When we first got together ...

She's pissed off at all guys, right now.. But I still like her and want to ask her out. Advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 79 days ago

23 October 2008 (M) - The homecoming for my dance was this past weekend. and there was this girl that I really like and before I got the chance to ask her she got asked by another guy. This guy then started being a total jerk to her and now she's pissed really at all ...