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Archived questions from: December, 2008 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

Should I confront her about my suspicions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

31 December 2008 (M) - I've been with my girl for a few years and we've had our share of problems. Now just last month before the holiday she went to New York for a week to be with family. Now she's gone back for the holidays again but now I'm noticing she only contacts ...

I'm afraid he won't be 'in love' with me. Is 4 months long enough to tell?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - so i've been dating a new guy since my last relationship ended horribly. he's wonderful- older than me by a few years but he cares for me and shows it very often. we've been together for about 4 months- i have issues with trust and he has been ...

Found explicit pictures while snooping on his computer!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5592 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - My fiance moved in a few months ago. I was snooping around on his computer and found several explicit pictures of him with other women.I am ticked off! I really didn't need to see any of that! They were is a hidden file created a few days after ...

I'm pregnant, he's distant and I'm not sure if he's cheating!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5595 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - OK, here's the story: My boyfriend and I have been living together for about 8 months now and have been in a relationship for just over 5 years (much of which was during college and quite long distance). I've been really happy for the majority of ...

Considering going to a swingers club for my husband... is it a stupid idea?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - Confused, been with my boyfriend for 3yrs off and on and he's been tryin to get me to meet a girl to have a 3 sum.he said it's his fantasy and that I should try it cuz maybe I will like it. I've never experienced it before and from me hearing it so ...

Is this relationship too risky?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

31 December 2008 (F) - My boyfriend is 30 years older than me. His daughter is 5 years younger,and his son 10 years older. I'm only 23 and he is 53. Is it going to work on the long run? Can we have plan to have babies ? He has grand children.. Right now ,he can still ha...

I don't trust her now

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5596 days ago

31 December 2008 (M) - I'm Hurrycanger. I'm kind alike you, boy. A bit different : I knew her online. For some months, now I call her "wife" and she calls me "husband". Sound kinda happy. But, I'm jealous everytime, + I can't trust her that much. She said she had a best ...

Am I in over my head or should I see what the future holds?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5595 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - I am wondering about my relationship. I am 31 years old in a very serious relationship with a 36 year old man that has 4 kids. One of his kids is by my distance cousin. He tells me he loves me and even gave me a ring for Christmas but I have this ...

Why does he want to be 'just friends'?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I dated for 28 days. We were soo happy together. He would text me all day the 1st coupe of weeks and he'd make me every morning with a 'good morning baby!' and it was so nice. The on the 18th I was with him and some girl popped u...

Is it worth trying to get him back? He's fallen in love with someone else.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5596 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for 1 and half years and we have just split up. i just dont know what to do. he joined friends reunited and got in contact with a girl he knew at school, they have been chatting on msn and texting and apparently have ...

How can I find the truth without tearing my family apart?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

30 December 2008 (M) - How can I trust my wife again? We have been married 10 years and we have 3 young children. I thought we have been very happily married with no major problems, but got the shock of my life last week when I found some very inappropriate text messages...

Finding it difficult to trust my wife....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

30 December 2008 (M) - im finding it realy hard to trust my wife ive bin wit her 7 years at 12 mmonth we went out and i caught her talking to another lad i think she kissed him but cant remeber for certain then at 15 month we had a break in our relationship she went out ...

Is my boyfriend gay and just not admitting it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5418 days ago

30 December 2008 (?) - Is my Boyfriend Gay? Okay so my boyfriend and I have slept together (when I say slept togetehr I mean beside each other NOT sex). He's spent the night at my house about 3 times and we've been in the same bed. I dont wear a bra to sleep in. He'...

Do you believe in trusting gut instincts? I predict an affair!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5567 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I went to see his long lost sister who brought one of her friends, let's call her susan (who is married and has kids), but I couldn't help but get this feeling that something will happen between my boyfriend and this Susan. I have ...

What if he does it again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 4 and a half years now, I really love him, he is very good to me and we are moving in together now but we have had a bumpy ride up until now. I always really trusted him but can't let him out of my sight these days ...

G/f doesn't trust me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5597 days ago

30 December 2008 (?) - My girlfriend never believes me. I haven’t done anything to make her not believe me, I’m always honest with her, but she doesn’t even believe me when I tell her I love her or that I miss her, but she tells me she loves me. What is going on? What do ...

What's wrong with him? I think there's a lot more to being committed.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - Please don't say break up with him and nothing else. I might break up but what to talk to him about these things. I want to know what to say to my bf about this stuff. I've had a bf for a couple of years. He said he is committed to me becau...

How can I stop being so insecure about all of this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - Okay this is my first question on this site and its kind of a simple question but requires a lot of background. So here goes: About 5 and a half years ago I started dating this guy. We were both real young at the time and he is my best friends ...

I love him but I feel it's all one-sided!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - So I have this guy for almost 3 years. I love him very much, but it seems like he does not feel the same. I have caught him lying to me count less times, and have even checked hi emails and myspace (tho i know its completely wrong) because ...

I found a condom in his computer bag. How do I ask him about it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - I have been living with this man for over a year and a half now...we have several animals together..I have met, and have a relationship with his family and friends...It seems to me that we are taking steps to lenghthen our future together...BUT..he ...

Is once a cheat always a cheat?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

30 December 2008 (F) - i have had a gut feeling for a while that my boyfrend was seeing someone else so yesterday (and i know its wrong)i went through his mobile phone to see if i could find any evidence on there. there were picture texts from a girl showing just her ...

Bisexual husband?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - Hi all Let me give you a short background first...married 13 years with 2 kids. I am bi myself,came out about 6 years ago. When I came out he was there as I said it outloud to both of us, and we came to an understanding I would not explore or e...

Am I wasting time waiting for him? He was unfaithful.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - me and my boyfriend were going through a hard time recently, (all down to him being unfaithfull last year)i dont always bring it up but there are times when it gets to me and i do make references about it. over the phone we had a discussion, mainly ...

Why do I get so jealous when he visits his mother?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - Why is that i get so jealous even when he is visiting his own mother? We have been dating for 7 months now and he happens to be devoiced and he is 12 older then me. Can it be that im afraid he might run into his ex wife, even if she is not in the ...

I've lost my trust in him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5597 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - Hi Aunts. Me and my boyfriend got into a big fight this weekend. A long time ago, we both had a mutual friend(who is a girl, it's his ex girlfriend from when he was younger and still stayed friends) but we had a falling out and stopped speaking...

I find it very difficult to trust my husband...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5597 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - I have been married for more than 6 years now with 2 beautiful children. my problem can be summed up by one word: trust. i mean i cannot trust my husband not telling his parents or even sister the details of our lives, our plans.... you name it. i ...

I just want my normal family life again. You think that is possible?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - I could really be doing with some help at the minute. This isnt the first time ive posted on here and this is the same problem. My husband and i were going through a difficult time which i can now see improving, the problem is that while we were ...

How do I talk to him about the empty pack of condoms and Viagra I found in his drawer?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - Please help, i found an empty box of ribbed condoms and some viagra on my bf's drawer while i was looking for a dvd he said he has put there. The thing is we don't/NEVER use ribbed condoms and we didn't use them so i don't understand why the box is ...

Desperate for help: crippling trust and jealousy issues!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5598 days ago

29 December 2008 (M) - Im fifteen and I have crippling trust and jealousy issues. My gf of five months is very devoted. But I cant help but feel uncontrollable jealousy over small things and worry over things that havent even happened. I actually have times where Im ...

I was more like a free shrink to her than a boyfriend...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5597 days ago

29 December 2008 (M) - I was friends with this girl for over 8 months and then we both started developing feelings for each other. She told me first that she likes me and we became closer. After 2 weeks she told me that she doesn't feel the same without giving any reason ...

Was this attempted rape?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - My boyfriend knows I want to stay a virgin till im married....but last night we did a lot...and normally we do that dry humping thing..well this time I had no clothes on and he had his boxers on...well I felt his hands down there and I didnt kn...

Did he lose service or something? He hasn't texted me all day!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - My boyfriend hasn't texted me for a day. It's really annoying I only texted him twice yesterday and then I was like w/e but, it's really annoying. I'm away in Colordao and I know he likes me alot he tells people and we've been going out for 3 weeks ...

Small lies, but he lies alot!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5598 days ago

29 December 2008 (F) - I am a freshman in college and I have been knowing this boy since I was a sophmore in high school. he always wanted to be my boyfriend but always turned him down. now I like him and we are currently in a relationship. he asks me to come stay with ...

He is not who he pretends to be, please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

28 December 2008 (F) - Hello.. My name is Shiyu.. i have been in a relationship since 2 n half years. i love him like a crazy but he lied to me alwayz Firstly he lied to me about his financial status. He is a normal middle class guy. HE lied to me about his studies b...

Don't trust and afraid of being hurt

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

28 December 2008 (F) - i have a problem with trusting boys. i used to trust them but i hear things and it just makes me think they're all the same. i have a boyfriend and i love him so much, and he loves me. but i hear guys around my school and they talk about cheating on ...

We don't trust each other!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5596 days ago

28 December 2008 (F) - he im new to this but i really dont know what to do.let me start be saying this i had to have surgery and i was so scared of have to go through something along.i ask god please send me someone to help me through this and he did.we met a week before ...

I don't want to give him a call card and he uses it to call other girls!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5598 days ago

28 December 2008 (F) - I have got a boyfriend of 26 years and I am 20 years. He keeps asking me to send a call card to him. but when I am with him he spends for me. We quarrel over sex every time we meet cos I am a virgin and he also is a virgin and I am scared of ...

How can I trust him more?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

28 December 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 months. We have been on and off for 3 years and have known eachother for 4. Things started off great, but I started getting really clingy after 2 months or so. Every now and then, I accuse him if I cant g...

My partner abuses me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

28 December 2008 (F) - I'm so confused and don't know what to do. I have been with my partner for 3 years and I love him so much. He is a lot older than me. In the past, women have taken him for a ride and he finds it hard to trust anyone and this has affected his temper ...

My b/f wants a virgin..I lied and told him I was!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

28 December 2008 (?) - I have been recently dating thsi guy, we are together for two months and a bit now. He does not know i am not a virgin, no one does. The other day we were talking about things and he is a virgin, and told me how he wanted his fisrt time to be with ...

I have boy friends and a boyfriend who thinks they are more than friends... help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5597 days ago

28 December 2008 (F) - so i have a boyfriend.. we went out before, all summer. now we're going out again. it's been a little over a month so far and it's just amazing. i really feel like i'm in love with him. people say you'll know it when it happens.. and we really ...

Please help - need advice

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

28 December 2008 (F) - Please help, am feeling lost and in need of some advice. I have found out after my partner of 3 years used my laptop to access the internet that he has subscribed to a dating site. We have been in a what I thought was a good relationship for 3 years ...

How to deal with rejection if I see him so often? He really hurt me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5597 days ago

27 December 2008 (F) - how do i deal with rejection. the story is i liked this guy doing the sport as me and then one he rejected he didn,t seen with me in the nighclub,and rotten to me.actual the guy is jerk, but he found him self gilfreind a girl who has learn for h...

He's leaving on an internship. Should I trust him living with another girl?

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27 December 2008 (F) - Alright, so my guy and I have been dating for almost 2 years and this summer he is going away for an internship for two and a half months. Last summer he had to go away for a week for an orientation for this internship, while there he made a lot of ...

Is my new husband cheating or am I just paranoid?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

26 December 2008 (F) - I have only been married for eight weeks, and for the last five weeks i have been going out of my mind with worry, my husband works away from home, and we only see each other every three to four weeks for a day or two at a time, however, i received ...

Does her reaction mean I can talk to her later?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5600 days ago

26 December 2008 (M) - Hey Guys, I had posted a question on this forum earlier on the confusion i was having with the signs i was getting from this girl i have never met and known and have only seen from a distance for the last few months.On that situation i got a strong...

Should I tell her I cheated? It would ruin our relationship.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5599 days ago

26 December 2008 (M) - Here goes. First of all, My girlfriend means the world to me. Honestly. I've thought about it, and I really, really love her. She's the reason I wake up in the morning. She's the reason I breathe. When I look at her, all I can see is happiness. All ...

Do I have trust issues or am I right to worry?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5598 days ago

26 December 2008 (F) - So I'm not officially in a relationship with this guy, but we're very much a couple. For new years, he is planning on going to Whistler (a ski resort in Canada) with his best friend who is a huge major player. I trust my guy but when he's drinking ...

I think she is cheating but it's weird..

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5601 days ago

25 December 2008 (M) - Ok I am in a bit of a problem and not sure how to handle this, I am not new to the dating game but this is one of the more complex problems I have had. We will start from when we first met, I met my girlfriend online one year ago (a few days ago ...

Is my husband on the down low?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5569 days ago

25 December 2008 (F) - I have been married for 2.5 years and have not had sex for 17 months. I am trying to determine if my husband is on the down low. Does anyone have any signs I can look for? Or help me understand why we have not had sex for 17 months since I have ...