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Archived questions from: January, 2019 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

Did I just ruin the best thing that's ever happened to me with one bad decision?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 1908 days ago

29 January 2019 (?) - I feel like a complete fool. Tonight I did something stupid and opened a message on my fiance's phone. I didn't even read the message bit then lied to him when he asked me if I had read his messages. I did come clean and it has really upset him. He ...

How much do guys tell their friends about their dating life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1914 days ago

29 January 2019 (F) - I'm wondering how much guys discuss their love life with their guy friends. I tell my girlfriends everything, who I'm going out with, whether we hooked up etc. I'm on a dating site and I was seeing this guy who I liked for about a month. We only...

Is my boyfriend's behaviour normal? He's admitted to going really strange sexual things relating to the girl he liked!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1908 days ago

29 January 2019 (F) - Hello. I’m starting to become a little bit freaked out by my partner. I just wanted to know how “normal” this was. He’s a normal man, hardworking, provides for the family, kind, caring and loving. He hasnt had many girlfriends in the past due to ...

I just found out that he's married and having an affair with me behind his wife's back! I want to run but he makes me happier than I've ever been. What do I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1913 days ago

29 January 2019 (F) - I have been dating the love of my life for 4 months. I am an extremely introverted person, but felt extremely comfortable with him from day 1. The connection that we share is indescribable. He is the sweetest, most loving man that I have ever met ...

He's coming on too strong, talks about sex a lot, has a child with an ex. Should I ignore these red flags?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 1918 days ago

24 January 2019 (F) - So about 6 months ago I met this attractive guy.. we met in a cute way as I got him lost accidentally by trying to help with directions, and he later gave me his number and name, which I hadn't asked for. I added him on Facebook and he messaged me, ...

How can I show him without lecturing, messaging too much or irritating him that it would be great if we were exclusive?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1911 days ago

23 January 2019 (F) - Sorry but this is long , Me and this guy met on a dating site 3 month ago. We both deleted our profiles but are not exclusive. I told him i want a future with him and he knows how i feel about him. His words were lets just go with the flow. im ...

Is trust possible? How do I overcome these relationship obstacles?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 1920 days ago

21 January 2019 (F) - I have come here in the past because of my relationship which I have gotten great great advice - I realize that I have been in neglectful - narcissistic relationship which stem from my parents - both are emotionally unavailable and to be honest I ...

Should I be over his cheating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 1920 days ago

20 January 2019 (F) - I’ve been with my guy for over 6 yrs now. We got into a discussion yesterday about his twin boys momma. Saying you know we will have to be around her more. And I said “as long as nothing else happens again” due to him going behind my back a couple ...

My husband of 12 years is so secretive and refuses to talk to me just gives me the silent treatment

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1675 days ago

18 January 2019 (F) - I am in my late 50's and have been married for second time for 12 years. I have grown up children from my first marriage. My husband is 60 and from the beginning he has been so secretive. He never shows any interest in my life and health and never ...

The other woman or mind games?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 1924 days ago

17 January 2019 (F) - I have been in a relationship with a woman for five years now. We have hit some rocky patches in our road together but always stayed together. There has been issues involving another woman, an ex of hers that she doesn't seem to want to let go of. ...

I see his ex as a threat. Am I being silly or do I have reason to worry?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 1926 days ago

17 January 2019 (F) - I am probably being silly but my partner was married a few years ago and been divorced over ten years. He has told me that how he feels about me is far deeper than his ex wife, he said he was very unhappy with her and he looks back and knows it was ...

We aren’t in a relationship yet, but I’m concerned about his sister-in-law!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 1928 days ago

14 January 2019 (F) - We are not yet really in relationship yet, we are getting close there. His brother family is living with him. Recently he told me that he feels like his brother’s wife likes him, she kept trying to be close to him. Few time she tried to hug him from ...

Is he actually seeing someone? Am I just entering a situation I shouldn’t? What are his motives?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1936 days ago

5 January 2019 (F) - I’ve been talking to a guy (via messenger) for around 10 months now, we originally met on a dating site. It’s very casual and flirty but we’ve not met due to us both agreeing the distance was a bit too far, however after months of us both dating o...

I thought he liked me but then he went ahead and completely ghosted me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 1934 days ago

5 January 2019 (F) - To make a long story short: Started talking to this guy online..We hit it off. Met in person about a week later. Had great first date. He texted me when he got home to tell me he had a great time and wants to see me again and said he is inter...

Girlfriend sexted a guy she knew from a dating site: Is it cheating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 1933 days ago

5 January 2019 (M) - My girlfriend of 7 months who is 8yrs older than me have split up because I caught her Whatsapping a guy who she met on a dating website (where we met each other) recently and what turned from friendly chat, became sexting. It turns out she ha...

A stranger offered herself to me to help me lose my virginity. Do I accept?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 1911 days ago

2 January 2019 (M) - I will be 20 very soon and am still a virgin. I have tried to date probably more than a hundred women and have always been rejected. I have contemplated visiting an escort but don't want to lose my dignity doing so. Out of a whim I posted an ad o...