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Archived questions from: January, 2010 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

I broke his trust... how can I make this better?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5181 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - Okay, so I am a senior in high school and so is my boyfriend and we are both almost 18. We have been together since we were freshmen and our three year anniversary is coming up. Our first time having sex wasn't planned at all and this happene...

I'm really angry right now. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5183 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - I'm a bit angry right now. I just broke up with my boyfriend. Reason being that he had trust issues with me and my past, for the record in the past I wasn't a slut (although he thinks I was) and well, I gave oral sex to a guy we both know (I stopped ...

Bad relationship with my husbands kids! How can I change things?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - Several years ago I got involved with an older, married man. At the time I thought it was simply a short fling, but it developed into a relationship that eventually led to him leaving his wife. I do not feel the need to go into the 'gritty' ...

I'm worries because I repeated something my ex g/f told me in strictest confidence.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5180 days ago

31 January 2010 (M) - Ok i broke up with my girlfreind and i really took it bad, she had revealed lots of intimate secrets to me(about sexual abuse in the past) i promised her i would not tell a soul. During the break up I became a real mess. I had to speak to somone and ...

Should I take police advise and sue my ex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - I have an awful ex - he abused me emotionally and sexually for years (physically only right at the end, when I was finally getting out). I'm wondering if revenge is worth it at all? I could either do nothing and continue working through my issues, ...

Are some people simply destined to be alone all their lives?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

31 January 2010 (M) - At age 25 i have never been in a relationship and obviously still a virgin never kissed anyone and as each day passes i see myself growing older and lonlier. I suffer badly from depression and anxiety i have no self esteem at all no confiden...

We have gone from a spontaneous fun sex life to ziltch. Is it me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - I’m 22 and my boyfriend is 31. We’ve been together for 2 and a half years. At the start of our relationship, our sex life was brilliant, it was fun, spontaneous, sexy and naughty, I would often dress up in naughty outfits/underwear, and we would use ...

I text him, he says he doesn't know who I am, or that he doesn't want to talk, and yet I still wonder if he could be interested in me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5194 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - Hi everyone help needed please, i like this guy and we got on really wel, anyway we stopped talking for a reason i cant really explian 2 u it wasnt bad but he didnt belive that it was not me, Anyway everynow and then i text him sometimes he rel...

Given his ex is on the scene should I even be considering marriage?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - My fiance continues to talk with his ex. I believe it is her that initiates the contact. I've read his emails to find this out. She says things like, I miss you more than ever and I miss you so much I could puke. It has been 3 years since they hav...

Am I being unreasonable in my distrust of him and by getting angry at the drunken states he gets into?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5199 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - Hi. I'm 19, and I've been with my boyfriend for about a year, he's 21. Before going out with him, I'd only had one previous sexual partner, when I was 17. My boyfriend, on the other hand, has had about 10 sexual partners. None of which he dated, t...

I think he has feelings for another girl! How do I talk to him about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - I think my boyfriend has feelings for another girl... Should I talk to him about it? What would I say if I talk to him about it? HELP!!!...

He told me he's territorial and doesn't want me hanging out with other guys! What does he mean?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - hey i gotta question whats it mean when my boyfriend tells me that he doesn't want me hanging with other guys or really talking to them.....he told me hes territorial...??...

He accuses me of cheating everytime I go overseas! What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - I have a seven years old relationship with a gentleman who is accusing me of being unfaithful to him everytime i travelled overseas. I went overseas three times since we are together and he thinks i am having sexual intercourse with guys in those ...

Mom is disappointed I went to a club instead of the movies. Am I a bad person for telling the truth?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5196 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - Hey you guys,i kno it has been a while and I have missed you all.Ok,last weekend was my cousins birthday and she decided to go to a club afterwards.I had an eerie feeling about it but mi cousins convinced me not to be scared(being that i'm only 16 ...

Older Boyfriend, I don't want to lose him. Should I worry about him going out to clubs and parties???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have a really good relationship. He's there for me, cares for me, and wants to be with me in the future. I feel that i can trust him, and dont mind him talking (as friends) to other girls. So ive been on punishment lately and ...

He flipped out when I answered his phone. Is his anger justified?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

31 January 2010 (F) - Tonight, I was playing a game on my boyfriend's cell phone. A private number called, so I handed him the phone. He pressed the ignore button, which ended the call. I went back to my game, and the private number called back about a minute later. I ...

My ex sexually assaulted me and I don't know what to do

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5197 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - Okay, so im sorry if this gets long, and i know that im more in the wrong than any of these guys! I just really dont know what to do anymore, ive been with my amazing boyfriend Richard now, for 11 months, everythings being going great, hes so kind ...

Is true love and romance dead

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - is true love and romance dead ? is it just becoming a myth a dream that can only exist in ones head ? humans are so horrible to each other its truly disgusting.. this world has become so dark it truly makes you think why are you still here! then ...

I don't know if I should trust him

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - I am packing up stuff into boxes at the moment to move house with my boyfriend and I came across his leaving card from his most recent employer - it was signed by loads of people. I was looking at the card laughing at some of the comments when I ...

I don't know if this man is playing with me or not

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4995 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - I was in a store, around early November when I noticed this guy promoting something or another. He was vocal, to say the least, and just sooo funny. I couldn’t help but chuckle! He caught me while I was picking flowers and just stared straight at ...

Why are guys insecure when they know a girl has been with a larger penis?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - The other night my boyfriend and I were talking about sex and he brought up his size, which I said was perfect. He then asked how he fits in size wise with past boyfriends I have been with and if I had been with larger than him. Of course he c...

What sort of man would do this to his child

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

30 January 2010 (F) - I have had a married lover for over 25years, when I met him he was not married, anyway I have 1 son with him and he has 3 sons with his wife, he paid child support for the child for 19 years, But he (my son) caught us talking dirty on the internet ...

She's a really nice girl but I'm afraid she's not telling me the truth about her virginity.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5199 days ago

30 January 2010 (M) - Ok I'm pretty old to have just lost my virginity which was only a few months ago. I wanted it to be with someone really special but it wasn't. A month after that happened I met a girl who I really wanted to lose it with. She tells me that she's ...

I know there are plenty of fish in the sea, but I want this fish

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

29 January 2010 (M) - Ok, Here goes. There is an attractive girl. We have really been talking recently and getting to know each other really well recently. I know she likes me. She thinks I'm nice, she even told me she thinks I'm cute. Today, we were talking and she told...

I feel I have been pushed into child access arrangements

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - Me and my long tearm boyfriend split up this week. We have a 2 month old baby and we both agreed that, he would have are daughter for 3 day at his home and 1 night. This means that I would be takeing care of her for 4 days and 6 nights. Their is ...

Do I have the right to be hung up on being hurt by my girl before we started officially dating??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

29 January 2010 (M) - Me and my girlfriend met under unusual circumstances which ultimately led to me getting my heartbroken right before we started dating. At the time I met her I was currently dating someone else. I had already been planning on confessing to my ...

Am I a fool to believe his promises that he won't cheat again? I want this to work!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - I know everyone is different but do you believe in those sayings 'a leopard never changes its spots' and 'once a cheat always a cheat'? Having read these sort of replies on here many times its now happened to me. My partner has cheated on me an...

If she tests me like this, is it a sign she's not the best match for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

29 January 2010 (M) - Before a relationship starts, sometimes a girl will test me by giving me a negative vibe, like she doesn't like me (even though she does). Is this a sign that she isn't the best match for me? I mean, if she were really into me, why would she risk ...

Long-distance, is it really worth the wait?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - Long story short- we met a few months before college. Everything seemed perfect, until it was time to leave. We've been in a long distance relationship for almost two years now. Finding a good time to visit eachother is rare. Half of the time plans ...

My wife is being very secretive

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4872 days ago

29 January 2010 (M) - My wife and I have been married for 7 years and we have 3 children. My wife is on facebook and has a lot of guy friends on there and she will not except me as a friend I ask what are u hiding and she says nothing I talk to my girlfriends she has ...

It's as if she doesn't want to even see me anymore

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

29 January 2010 (M) - Basically, my girlfriend keeps having mood swings at me and keeps telling me to **** off.....half the time she says she is joking. I have barely seen her outside of college for over a month and i used to see her often, but she says its because...

After three years I am getting fed up with my boyfriends behaviour

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - iv been with my boyfriend for 3 years in July, but feel like im the only one whoputs any effort into the relationship, i always go to his house, he always expects me to get up realli early and go to his in the morning for sex, he hardly ever comes ...

I'm walking on eggshells ................

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

29 January 2010 (M) - Hi, me and my girlfriend are going through some problems. We've been together for just over 4 months now and in that time we have encountered a few turbulent periods in our relationship. One ongoing problem is sleeping at her flat. I find her bed ...

I have a boyfriend but like another who I texted, but I get no reply

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - okay, i went to a club the other night for my friends birthday. my friend also invited some other friends of his who i didn't know. i started talking to one of them and he was so funny and sweet. he was good looking and had a really nice smile. i ...

I don't feel like having sex with my boyfriend any more

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5177 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend had fantasy sex with his friend (girl) he knows. It looks like every time he is imaging to have sex, he will think about this girl. But he told me he will never have sex with this girl in real life. Is he lying to me? He loves me...

I don't know how to tell b/f of previous relationship problems

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - I was in a relationship for 7 years. I was very young when we started dating, I ws 16. He ended up being very mentally abusive. Were no longer together, but due to him my self esteem has taken a huge hit, and I no longer feel pretty, and worth ...

How do you feel about larger inner lips?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

29 January 2010 (F) - Male and female opinions wanted - please be truthful! How do you feel about the inner lips being outside the outer by quite a fair bit? Please be honest !...

How can I learn to trust again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5201 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - My boyfriend cheated on me 3 months ago our relationship has been very hard for us since then. I never once suspected he was cheating on me and one day out of the blue he told me the truth and said that it was eating him alive and hes so sorry. It ...

After reading his emails I worry he's gay and I am his cover

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - AHHHHHHHHHHH! i neeed help! im 19 years old and ive had a boyfriend for 4 years already!...hes a lot older than me hes 27. yeah i know such a big age gap but he is my bestfriends brother and by just going over her house everyday all day long we ...

After he told me his plans for our future I am just dazed

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5198 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am white 25 year old Christian girl. My boyfriend is 31 year old Muslim man. I want to convert to Islam and plan to do so soon. I split with my ex-boyfriend (a university 5 year romance) just before I started dating my curren...

She is so shy she might run if I approach her

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5186 days ago

28 January 2010 (M) - Slightly confused as to make a move on this girl or not ? She's in her early 30's and slightly older than me, we've been working at the same place for about 6 months, she's spot on, ticks all the boxes but i'm getting mixed signals, when she'...

I worry about my sexuality

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

28 January 2010 (M) - I am 16 nearly 17 year old male, And i have a problem. I am firstly very conscious about my appearance (overweight, i myself would like to be more muscular) but thats not important, i believe myself to also be a late bloomer...but thats not importan...

Why don't I trust my boyfriend? do I need help?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - So, im 18 years old and i started not trusting my boyfriend and getting fishy ever since this: to make a long story short: he gave me his email account/password back in sept to check something. In Dec, i went on his account because i got fi...

My boyfriend wants to sleep with a married woman and I don't think it's right!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - I'm a 25 year old female that has been dating a 34 year old man for 5 years. He recently came into contact with a former female college friend and they've been flirting online. Now, he plans to meet with her this weekend to go to a concert. He goes ...

How can I stop being so needy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5202 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - i am in desperate need of help, my partner and i met eachother online 4 years ago, and moved in with eachother 6 months after first meeting, hes 26, im 24. before we moved in we would chat on the phone for hours every day, in total about 7 hours a ...

He didnt get me a birthday present, am I just being used?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 5 1/2 months. A few weeks ago he moved away for work for 3 months. It was my birthday last week and he sent me nothing. Yes he rang a few times on the day and sent a few texts...its not like he forgot. I asked him ...

I feel very insecure with my boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5190 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, My boyfriend has been known for never being single for long. After a breakup, it doesn't take him long to get someone new. We have a history so I sure as hell hope I'm something special. Whenever I hear one of his ex-girlfriends' ...

He says he feels trapped, should I give him an untimatum

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - six years ago i caught my fella with another woman this wasnt the first time and i threw him out. i took him back on the understanding that we went out as a couple and he could go to the local occasionaly. recently hes been going nightclubbing with ...

How can I stop being so insecure?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

28 January 2010 (F) - I've been going out with my boyfriend for almost two years and just recently (about 6 months ago) I've started to become really insecure. I am getting more and more insecure everyday and its for little things like if he says no to something that i ...

Why did she message me after everything, I did to her?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

27 January 2010 (M) - I'll try to keep this as short as possible. I dated a girl last year from about April to June. It was a very short yet meaningful relationship. I was in love with the girl, and I'm pretty sure she was in love with me too. We never confessed it to ...