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Archived questions from: February, 2017 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

She says I'm psycho but I hink she is cheating.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2562 days ago

28 February 2017 (M) - Hi everyone Recently My girlfriend went out for a night-out and came back with a boy (who was her friend) and was in her bed watching a movie.Her flat mate (who has been her best friend since a young child) said she heard the bed moving, breathin...

Did this guy actually love her? Or did he just want to have sex with her, despite her telling him that she was not ready for sex ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2601 days ago

28 February 2017 (F) - Hi.i know someone whose boyfriend broke up with her cause she could not have sex with him. Before she accepted to date him she told him and he accepted. Along the line he started really talking about it saying he thought she will let him have sex...

I like this guy. But he has also become friends on social media with a girl who has previously said bad things about me. What can I do in this situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2601 days ago

28 February 2017 (F) - Hello everyone I could use some advice It's a small world, definitely for me. I went for a pageant where my roommate wasn't such a good person. She accused me of stealing because all apple headphones look the same and I took her headphones by mi...

Can anyone help me with the basics of starting afresh? I cheated on my fiancee. Then I confessed and he forgave me. My guilt is affecting my ability to go forward

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2608 days ago

28 February 2017 (F) - Aunts, I need your help. I had committed a major mistake of cheating on my fiancé with a married man. But I realised my mistake and owned up to it, confessed my fiancé and broke up with the married guy. He (my fiancé) has not been resentful, ...

How do I make the next move? I'm scared of rejection but when I do meet a woman I don't know what to say to get her interest

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2602 days ago

28 February 2017 (M) - I've been single for a while now. i'm not looking for a relationship just yet but am looking for casual sex. Thing is, I'm quite shy. I like to flirt with women and find this happens often, I just don't know what to say to take it to the next ste...

I am a married woman who has sex with strangers when I travel for work!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2458 days ago

28 February 2017 (F) - I am a married female looking for some help. This is going to sound crazy but I have always had a high sex drive. I met my husband and everything was great. We had two kids, and he is such a good man. Provides well, if I had to honestly rate hi...

I am worried my boyfriend's new job means the end of our relationship.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2603 days ago

28 February 2017 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together almost 6 months. I'm very happy with him. He is consistently supportive and thoughtful and treats me so kindly and respectfully. He recently got a new job and it started today. His previous job didn't have ...

The lady I was dating has herpes, did she break up with me due to my paranoia?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2610 days ago

28 February 2017 (M) - hello, i met some one she was honest with me, she told me she has had herpes for thirteen years, not on medication, but now she is, an we only been seeing each other for three weeks, used condoms, yes I've told her i am very worried about it, it's ...

Does anyone know of a "safe" or reasonably safe natural remedy that a man in his senior years could use as a stimulate?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2586 days ago

27 February 2017 (M) - I am 87 years old. Periodically what testosterone I have,kicks in with a vengeance and I long for sex. Or even succeeding at masturbation. My main problem is ED. I have been tempted to try Viagra or Cialis but they are not effective for me. Some of...

What should I do? He told me that he "fell out of love" with me like a month ago and now it's too late?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2603 days ago

27 February 2017 (F) - Me and my fight friend have been friends for almost 2 years, 10 months ago he told me he wanted to date. When he first told me he liked me I was really nervous and not ready. I was young, immature, I had a lot of things going on in my life such as ...

Should I stay with my fiance even though I love someone else?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 1764 days ago

27 February 2017 (F) - Dear Aunties and Uncles, I will try to keep this short as possible. I've been in a long term relationship for 14 years and have a 14 year old daughter who my partner raised as his own since she was 2 weeks old. We had an amazing relati...

My boyfriend appears to be attracted to transgender women!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2602 days ago

27 February 2017 (F) - A few weeks ago I noticed my boyfriend had sent a friend request to a young lady. When I went to her page her pics were mostly of her in sexy lingerie and telling all to visit her on webcam. I also noticed she had obvious breast implants and a ...

Is my boyfriend being truthful about his parents?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2603 days ago

27 February 2017 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a little over three years now. He's currently in his forties. We broke up last year for about a month because he and I talked about getting married but then when we actually started trying to pick a date he told me ...

I worry I am being led down the garden path again!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2612 days ago

27 February 2017 (F) - Im really confused I hope someone helps. A few years ago I've met a guy and I've actually lost my virginity to him. he meant a lot to me and things were going great however I was afraid of commitment and I thought negatively so my thoughts were th...

We/ve been back together for a year but it just isn't like it was.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2608 days ago

26 February 2017 (F) - Okay so I don't quite know how to start this, but my friends have been helpful and supportive, but I suppose I'm still lost. My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 years minus the 2 that we were broken up for. We broke up because he said he ...

He's not telling me the truth. Do I bail before it's too late?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2608 days ago

26 February 2017 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for some time now and we just stopped using condoms a month ago(we got tested first), a day ago I was at his place cleaning up and I found 2 condoms in his jeans,now I'm wondering who else he's sleeping with. I ...

I do not enjoy being 30 pounds overweight. How do I come to terms with the fact that the medication I must take is also making it much harder to lose weight?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2608 days ago

26 February 2017 (F) - A combination of menopause and necessary medication is making it extremely hard for me to lose weight . The medication is actually what caused the weight gain and through working with my dr I did try alternatives but nothing else seemed to work for...

How can I stop comparing myself to everyone else? How can I become Assertive and less insecure?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2608 days ago

26 February 2017 (F) - I'm single woman in my early thirties that on the outside most people would say (kind-generous -attractive- nice). My problem is - I'm very insecure ( I worked and work so much on outer appearance ) that I lack self confidence. I can't say no (...

He's been flirting with me, but after seeing him out with another woman I'm not sure how he really feels!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 2608 days ago

26 February 2017 (F) - Hi Aunts and Uncles I met a guy nearly two years ago. Did not like him to begin. Then started to get to know him and he started flirting he gave me his number. Cutting a long story short, we have been talking for many weeks and my feelings h...

I've had bad luck with women in the past, and now I'm wondering if this new girl is testing me or just playing games

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2608 days ago

25 February 2017 (M) - I would like some advice on what to do with a female I'm currently talking to. Ive had no luck in the past when it comes to relationships and have always ended up getting hurt, no fault of my own. I'm not a bad looking guy and can get dates, I deci...

He's a handsome foreigner, twice-divorced, aged 60. But all is not well in the relationship. Is it time to break up with him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2608 days ago

25 February 2017 (F) - Hello, I´m a single working mother of two. One is 13yo and the second 5yo. Six months ago I met a handsome foreigner twice-divorced aged 60. After 2 months, he came to live with us. He´s the first man to ever enter my household because I´ve alw...

I'm losing the love I used to have for my boyfriend. How do I let go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2608 days ago

25 February 2017 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for two years now, known him for four. Over the past month or so I've felt my feelings towards him just fade. When he text me I feel myself drain, when he holds me I feel a little uncomfortable, just little things l...

Teen daughter does not believe me. In your opinion did I do something wrong?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2608 days ago

25 February 2017 (F) - I'm a single mother of two children. A girl who is 15 and a son who is 11 years old. We had a good life. We would take vacations and go back to our home country to visit every year. They both attend private Christian schools. Five years ago I di...

Do I ask her out online or in person? She is shy.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2608 days ago

24 February 2017 (M) - I don't know if I should ask her out in person or online? We talk often, and get along well. In fact I often see her staring, and all of the signs that tell me she likes me are clear now. She's shy, and probably won't ask me out herself, so I thin...

How do I tell someone that their romantic feelings toward me are not mutual?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2608 days ago

24 February 2017 (F) - I'm not into relationships at all, just casual stuff mainly. However, a guy I've recently been seeing thinks he's fallen in love with me and wants to be in a relationship. The issue is I can't bring myself to tell him that's not what I want. I'm ...

Is this recently widowed woman demonstrating a desire for a closer physical relationship with me, or is she grieving?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2611 days ago

24 February 2017 (M) - Hello A woman i know, when we meet, we hug and kiss each other on the cheek. Not long ago her husband died. The last we met we hugged and she placed my head on her breastl Does she want a closer relationship with me? As in sexual? Or is it so...

We've dated for 4 years, but now she doesn't make an effort anymore. What could improve the relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2608 days ago

24 February 2017 (F) - I am in between a rock and a hard place....I have a girlfriend of 4 years and I feel differently about our relationship to what I used to. I want to talk to my girlfriend about it but she doesn't want to listen! Nor talk...she is pretty closed w...

Should I ? I'm tempted to contact the other people involved and ask them

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 2598 days ago

24 February 2017 (M) - Looking for some advice here.. About a year ago, I found out that my fiancée and two of her (our?) friends had been exchanging intimate photos - and had even been together a couple of times. I confronted her, she broke down, told me that the o...

I like him but worry about his motives.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2609 days ago

24 February 2017 (F) - Hi so there's this guy that I've had feelings for for a while. I'm 99% sure he at least likes me a little but for some reason I still have some doubt in my mind, which might just be because I'm not use to guys genuinely wanting to get to know etc. ...

I feel he guilt trips me into staying with him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2609 days ago

23 February 2017 (F) - My partner needs help with his anger and possessive behaviour , how do I help him .. I know I can't help him he needs a professional but what do I do in this process !? It's sounds horrible because im finding it hard to believe he will change and ...

How does one overcome loneliness? I feel like I have no one to talk to nor anyone I can confide in

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2614 days ago

23 February 2017 (F) - feel like I'm alone !! I feel like I have no one to talk to or confide in!! family members aren't an option I don't want to tell them what's really on my mind. my boyfriend well he is not to interested and even then some of my feelings aren't ...

Chaotic childhood. Do I leave it ? do I dig further to find out more about my mother?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2609 days ago

23 February 2017 (F) - My upbringing was somewhat chaotic. my father 19 when he had me and my mother a drug addict. Me and my twin sister were removed from her care at 1 years old and spent sometime in a foster home until a relative fostered us. we were given a little ...

I'm pregnant and the residual odor of cigarettes is drifting into my apartment from the apartment below. How can I get rid of the odour?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2609 days ago

23 February 2017 (F) - I am 6 months pregnant and iv literally tried everything for the cigarette odor that has been drifting in my room from the apartment beneath me to disappear. I talked with the neighbors below me, but they didn't seem like they would change. And si...

So many questions with him paying for porn

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2609 days ago

23 February 2017 (F) - Hi there, I know the topic of my question has been discussed a lot but I still feel the need to ask. I have been with my boyfriend for 1year and a half and everything has been great, I had my own place and he has his. Then, this summer, my lease...

The way he manages money puts marriage in doubt

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2609 days ago

23 February 2017 (F) - Hi, So I have a question regarding relationships and finances. What do you think about being in a relationship with a guy who says that it will be a long time before he can get married, and the reason is that he is in a lot of debt because of ...

Should I continue to see this man? He is also my boss. He says he wants to keep his independence, and doesn't want anything serious

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2609 days ago

22 February 2017 (F) - Hi all! I've recently started a new position in my work place and since moving facilities my boss and I have become very close (he is the same age as me 26). It all started with him asking discreet questions about my relationship status,...

Is it up to me to make the first move in this situation? Because I think he thinks, in error, that I'm exclusively gay.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2613 days ago

22 February 2017 (F) - I sit next to a guy in one of my classes, and I've realised recently that I'm really into him. I work with him on a production and I think it's been coming on for a while, but best of all I get the impression he's into me too. I just have sever...

Should I stop having sex with my boyfriend???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2610 days ago

22 February 2017 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 9 months. During month 6 he proposed to me the issue I am having is with sex I want enjoy having sex with him but I crave it so much I feel overwhelmed. We don't have sex often because I really want to s...

I honestly don't know what to do. What can I do? She blames her childhood for her major trust issues

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2021 days ago

22 February 2017 (M) - Hi, I have been together with my fiance for about 8 months now. Unfortunately, she has major trust issues and she fuels it by giving me no space to breathe. she expects me to tell her everything in detail. ie if I get a message from a friend(ma...

Should I message her on facebook, or should I just leave it?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2610 days ago

22 February 2017 (M) - I went out on monday night for a student night and I met this really nice girl where we danced. I bought her a drink. She had a friend who was dancing with my friend but he left somewhere and I ended up going to see one of my other friends, but I sa...

Should I end this relationship or work with it? He's become my best friend, but the excitement and passion have faded

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2611 days ago

22 February 2017 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years now but i am 18 and just starting to feel like i want to have other boyfriends and get to know other guys. I do really love my boyfriend but hes kind of more my bestfriend now. I defintely dont have ...

How do I gauge how much interest a guy really has in me? I want a guy who cares

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2616 days ago

21 February 2017 (F) - I've been bad w/spotting one sided relationships, so I want a guy who is actually interested in me. I went to an event I go every year, I knew I would meet guys there, but I never expected to find a guy who was really into me. Usually at that eve...

I can't get in contact with my love who has moved on to another country. How can I deal with his absence?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2611 days ago

21 February 2017 (F) - This boy that I have fallen in love with has moved to Spain and I have no way of getting in touch with him. Although he is back in summer but that's 5 months away. I'm worried he might find another girl whilst he's there and everyday I worry an...

Should I move on? She had a crush on this guy previously. They've had recent conversations with each other

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 2609 days ago

21 February 2017 (M) - I recently found out that my wife is having inappropriate conversations with someone who she had a crush on several years ago. I know for a fact that she asked this person a hypothetical question saying "Let me ask you something, what if I say he...

How can this be resolved? I want a Baby. He couldn't think of anything worse.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2611 days ago

21 February 2017 (F) - My husband told me the other day he never wants to have children. I’m devastated. Don’t get me wrong I love him completely and can appreciate that it’s just how he feels but I feel angry and bitter and am having serious thoughts about leaving him if ...

I hope I'm wrong but wonder based on these signs if should I just move on?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2612 days ago

21 February 2017 (F) - I normally have a really good intuition about relationships and men, but oftentimes ignore it in hopes that I am wrong. I'm sort of hoping that I'm wrong this time around, but I digress. I met with this guy about a month ago. He is older than me...

I fear rejection. Could his actions be a sign that he only wants sex, and nothing more serious ?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2612 days ago

20 February 2017 (F) - I have been seeing a guy for some time now and it has been amazing and I utterly admire him but the thing is I don't know what we are. He is all sweet and kind and all touchy and shows affections when I'm with him even in public, he is very playful,...

What are the protocols about posting and commenting on the pictures of others on social media? Or am I just being crassly controlling?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2612 days ago

20 February 2017 (M) - I am coming to social media rather late in life and am confused by the protocols that seem to liberally litter posts with kisses and hearts. So when my girlfriend posts a pic of an event she attended where I wasn't present and someone responds...

I don't in the slightest trust this artist who she met for lunch recently . Am I just insecure?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2612 days ago

20 February 2017 (M) - I am engaged to be married (2nd time for both of us). Because of her work my wife to be has developed many male friends/acquaintances including some who have been keen to take it further than platonic. She presents very innocently of al...

Should I ask if we are boyfriend and girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2619 days ago

20 February 2017 (F) - I have been dating a guy I met on tinder since December. We seem to get on really well and I feel that we always have good dates. After the 10th date, we slept together and have slept together a few times since. We have now probably been on...