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Archived questions from: June, 2010 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

We broke up over a misunderstanding! I didn't cheat!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4829 days ago

30 June 2010 (F) - hey im jenny 18 , iv been with my bf for a year and a half, the other day on the 23/6 somethin happened, wen my bf asked me abou this guy i met in , there was a misunderstandin, he asked abt that guy who lived in germany, so in my head al i ...

Is there a way I can find out the truth? Does he or doesn't he have a girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5036 days ago

30 June 2010 (F) - Is there a way I can find out the truth? There is a guy (who I worked with) I really like him and we have flirted for about a year and have always gotton along and we have loads in common, we arranged to go out once but he had to cancel last minu...

My man is defensive

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

30 June 2010 (F) - my boyfriend i have been together for two years now and we just recently just moved in everything is good.i have problem with hem every time i ask hem why he gets so defensive whenever i ask somthing about hes exwife he gets realy mad he doesnt want ...

Why is my girlfriend so secretive over her phone?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4898 days ago

30 June 2010 (M) - Hello. Ok let's get into this straight away. I am in a relationship and its going well. We are in love and going to be having a baby in Oct. Not married but we are strong how we are. I Don't know why but my GF always has a secretive mind. For...

I have found out my boyfriend has been lying to me for nearly a year, I'm scared there could be even more he is hiding!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

30 June 2010 (F) - Hi, I'm a little lost as to which dirction to turn. My boyfriend lied to me. Everyday, for nearly a year. He told me that he lost his licence because he never converted his international licence to an Australian one about 1 year ago. I recently ...

Is he maybe having regrets about telling me he loves me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

29 June 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for seven months now and just recently he told me he loved me. He's known for about three months that I loved him so hearing him say that, and knowing I'm the first girl he's ever said that too was a wonderful ...

Should I leave him with that girl he doesn't know or stay with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

29 June 2010 (F) - Hi, me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a month. He's 14 and im 13. just a day before at nught when i was sure we were meant to be together. he tells me he got another girl pregnant. and then he said that it was a few months ago. tha...

Does he cheat because I'm just ugly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

29 June 2010 (F) - hi, i need some advice, its a quite complicated situation so bear with me. i met my fiance 2yrs ago, ever since we got 2gether things have been rocky. no matter what i find out about him he worms his way out of it, he turns it on me, making out i...

I am pregnant again.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5046 days ago

29 June 2010 (F) - i have posted for help before about my twins i had at 14 http://www.dearcupid.org/question/struggling-to-cope-.html well me and my boyfriend have since got back together three weeks after i posted that question. I have the implant in, so i...

My best friend set me up and I am scared he will blackmail me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

29 June 2010 (F) - my bestfriend told me that his cousin is all over him and demanding him to sleep with her, one night he said that she's at their house and he cant resist her anymore and he's so turned on, he said he needs help. i suggested him to mast. maybe he'd ...

Did he leave because I was disrespectful?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

29 June 2010 (F) - This is a long one, but please bare with me. About two months ago, I 'gave myself away' to a strange guy I barely knew (for LESS than ONE day. Can you believe that ? :-/). I met him at the park around the corner from my house. My friend and I had we...

I need advice on a relationship issue!!!! please read and comment!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5047 days ago

29 June 2010 (M) - I need help please! 5 weeks into my relationhip i went out without my girlfriend and this girl approached me to say hi, i immediatley told her to fuck off but later on in the night when i was heavily intoxicated i said some things to her, for ...

He doesn't understand why I was upset .....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5049 days ago

29 June 2010 (F) - Yesterday was our one year anniversary. We had a busy night running his kids around. Even though it was late, he still wanted to take me to a nice dinner. Instead of it being ourselves, it was us, his teenage daughter and teenage son ... and one ...

She is immature and controlling and I don't know if I want to be with her anymore

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

29 June 2010 (M) - I started dating this girl about 6 months ago, not long after we started dating I found out she had a boyfriend. She said it was nothing serious and she was just waiting on the right time before she dumped him. I thought that was okay. But then she ...

How can I be less clingy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5050 days ago

29 June 2010 (F) - Hello, I was wondering if anyone can give me some ideas and tips that has helped them stop being less clingy. I am a clingy person and I want to change that. I was very clingy with my exboyfriend and it pushed him away. Not to mention that he was ...

I cant bring myself to have sex with my boyfriend anymore because he looks at other women

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5029 days ago

29 June 2010 (F) - I just read this quote on this website as a reply to one of the questions about porn: "Men are a thousand times more visual than we are. We just have to grin and bear it, and move on to bigger problems like they often say." My issue...is that it IS ...

Girlfriend needing some space?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

29 June 2010 (M) - I'm at the end of my wits. I love my gf a lot but my patience is really running out :( Everything seemed fine about a week ago. She was getting close to me. We would hug close in bed and it all seemed to be going well. But things fell apart the n...

I really like this girl, but we've been friends for so long

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

29 June 2010 (M) - There is a girl I really like. The only problem is we've been friends for two years. I think she might like me but I'm not sure. What do I do from here?...

Should we sow our seeds first, then get back together?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

29 June 2010 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for over six years now. We love each other very much and work so well together. We have lived together for five years and have only ever had small fights that we worked through. I want to grow old together and have his ...

Why hasn't he kissed me yet?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4887 days ago

29 June 2010 (F) - Ok so this is the thing, I have known this guy for a long time now, I would say 4 years maybe. We never knew I existed until now but I have always had a crush on him, but I guess that was because I was too young at the time, I am going to turn 19 ...

Tortured with the thought of my wife's sexual past

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

29 June 2010 (M) - I am dealing with the common problem of having married a woman who had a sordid (my opinion) past. By age 24 she had over 35 sexual partners varying from a 2 year relationship to blow jobs in a club parking lot with strangers. I am conservative by ...

Am I making a mistake by trying so hard to love her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5023 days ago

29 June 2010 (M) - Hi there. Ive been with this amazing girl for just over 11 months, and ive been in another counry for about 2 weeks now, and get back the day before our 1 year anniversary. I have been missing her terribly and have been in contact with her ev...

Wifey or Home wrecker?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

29 June 2010 (M) - I've been with my girl for 2 and a half years,but for 2 of those years she's been my side chick. To make a long story short, I caught feelings for her, left my girlfriend, and now we're official, but come to find she`s been a side chick before. ...

Who has gone too far. Me or Him???

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

29 June 2010 (F) - what the?? OK so I'm 29 and my boyfriend is 44. he has many girlfriends and is very social, and i love this about him. we've worked in the same salon together for 8 yrs, been living together 1 of the 2 yrs we've been dating. generally very happy. ...

Should I settle for less than my expectations in who I date?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5050 days ago

29 June 2010 (F) - Should i be more open about who i date. every time i go for the ones im attracted too it always blows up in my face. Should i allow more aoption into my life or should i keep searching?...

He was repeatedly checking out my friend's pics

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

29 June 2010 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for 3 years and we live together. I was going through my internet history yesterday to find a website I went to a few days ago and made a different discovery. He has been looking through ALL of my friend's pictures ...

My husband is acting strange and out of character could he be cheating?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5048 days ago

28 June 2010 (F) - My husband is acting strange,and out of character, although in nice ways, making dinner, cleaning the house,and generally making unusual effort to spend time with me. He has even been suggesting we make love, (he usually says he's too tired!!) H...

Let the past be the past? Or warning sign?!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

28 June 2010 (M) - I been with my girl for 1 year,we were having intercourse and she yelled out a name that wasnt mines. I was furious and asked her to explain her self. She told me it was the person she was with prior to me,but that wasnt what borthered me. It was ...

I discovered he's been keeping his social networking from me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5045 days ago

28 June 2010 (F) - ive been with my boyfriend for 2 years, weve gone thru so many things. thru out the 2 years i found out he had a secret twitter , myspace ect.. and i confronted him and hes admitted to flirting 3 times andi just keep findin things . but he says that ...

How do I fix this relationship?

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28 June 2010 (F) - Hi, Ok, well I,ve been with my bf for 2 years and 6 months.. Everything was going great, until about 4 months ago.. Everything went down the drain when he moved out of his parents house and moved in with my grandmother. His parents did some...

How can I be his best friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5050 days ago

28 June 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 7 months now. Our relationship didn't start off very good-- he had a girlfriend at the time we got together, and it went against everything I thought that I stood for, because I strongly disagree with ...

I have caught my girl cheating three times!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

28 June 2010 (M) - my girl has been cheating on me, i have caught her more than three time now, she saying that she will not do it again but she keep liyimg to me , im fed up ,what do i do? [Mod note: text was edited for clarity. I hope I got it right.]...

Is he emotionally abusing me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

28 June 2010 (F) - Hi, Im 21 and dating a 29 year old guy and i love him dearly but then i have secrifised a lot for him. he said he dont like my cousin and i must cut them out of my life and thats what i did, he told me that i musnt have any friends cuz friends are ...

Is he telling the truth or should I leave him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

28 June 2010 (F) - i been with my boyfriend for a year now, and everything has been fine but the last couple months have really started going down hill. like im afraid im going to get hurt and i think he was cheating on me but i dont know if i believe him even when he ...

How do I trust him after he lied to me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

28 June 2010 (F) - How do you forgive the man you love after they've lied to you? He was texting a girl he met at the bar he was working at, and never told me about it, although it was fairly innocent, I still feel betrayed. I love him so much but I can't seem to let ...

We fight a lot and ask whether the other is cheating

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5051 days ago

28 June 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for awhile now. But every time we don't see each other we fight a lot and we both always ask if one another is cheating or is thinking about it. Also, I am 16 and pregnant and he swears he is going to stick ...

She's hanging out with other guys

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4917 days ago

28 June 2010 (M) - Sorry if this is confusing. Ok, I Really need some help here. Me and my girlfriend have been together for a year and a half and have been very happy but recently we've had some arguments. Earlier today we were talking about how some time ago sh...

She doesn't believe me when I tell her I love her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5051 days ago

28 June 2010 (M) - My girlfriend doesn't believe me when I tell her that I love her. She will say she does if I ask, but sometimes out of nowhere she will ask me why I love her, or what do I mean when I say that. Then if there is a fight she will just repeatedly say ...

Young love, trust, and regaining trust....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5051 days ago

28 June 2010 (F) - Im 16 and have been with this boy for a year now, he is my first love and im crazy for him, were broken up write now because i lied to him 2 times now =/ but about small little things, and i told him about a day after i did. im not a bad person i ...

He becomes unsupportive and mean in stressful situations!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5051 days ago

28 June 2010 (F) - This is a long post, I'm so sorry, please help me though. My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over a year. We love eachother very much, we spend as much time together as we can and its usually always great quality time. I can not ...

He wanted the truth.... but he can't handle the truth!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5051 days ago

28 June 2010 (F) - Alright, So the guy I'm talking to is amazing. Never has given me reason to doubt him or to think that he is going to hurt me. The first time one of my close friend's told me she thought he was going to be the type to hurt me, I took that to the ...

I don't want to share my husband

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5051 days ago

27 June 2010 (F) - I have been married for 24 years I love my husband and he loves me. He has become unhappy in the last three years stating he no longer wants to be in a relationship. But he still loves me as much as when we married. Recently he has developed ...

How can she tell if a boy is a virgin?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5049 days ago

27 June 2010 (M) - My girl friend just told me dat she is still a virgin and would love to marry a virgin guy like her, i luv her so much i don`t want to loss her. Making the relationship last for a life time has been our quest,but i am confused because, i don't know ...

I love her, she doesn't seem to return the favour!

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27 June 2010 (M) - Hey, i'm completely confused. This girl, we've gone out, and she really likes me and all, but she doesn't want to start anything with me, because she claims that the place where we are living is unsuitable. She says she cant say she loves me, beca...

Why did my girlfriend's behavior towards me change? Why isn't she expressing herself like she used to?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5051 days ago

27 June 2010 (M) - I need some advice about this, because it's driving me nuts. I'm in a long distance relationship with a girl that I met about a year ago. Because we live far away from eachother, the only ways to communicate is by phone, text, msn (+webcam). We us...

Should I try to get him back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5051 days ago

27 June 2010 (F) - i broke up with my boyfriend a few weeks ago because the was no trust in the relationship. he is 4 yrs older then me but i really think i`ve fallen for him. when i got with him it for a bit of fun then it got serious. i duno what to do i want him...

Is he remenissing about his ex girlfriends?

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27 June 2010 (F) - This may sound like a silly question and I know it's not a big deal, but I found that my boyfriend's been looking at loads of pictures of his ex's on facebook, quite frequantly. He once told me how he misses his ex's and wishes he could talk to them ...

I don't want to be the office gopher anymore!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5051 days ago

27 June 2010 (F) - What would you do if you were working away in a job for the past six months.. had the gut instinct that all the administrators and other women in the company were deliberately setting out to make you look incompetent.. (because their friend missed ...

Should I ask him about where we stand, I'm confused

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5051 days ago

27 June 2010 (F) - I've been seeing a guy for the past 2 weeks. at the beginning everything was going well and he seemed very into me. Yesterday, he invited me to meet his friends for the first time. To most of his friends, he introuduced me as a friend, except to one ...

He thinks I'm lying to avoid sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5051 days ago

27 June 2010 (F) - Okay so I have irregular periods always have and my boyfriend of 5 years knows this, sometimes my periods are longer then usual and heavier then usual...but now hes starting to think im lying about being on my period just to avoid sex with him! He ...