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Archived questions from: January, 2016 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

What can you advise in this situation? It feels like I am option two.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3007 days ago

31 January 2016 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for a few weeks and it's been amazing. The connection is unlike anything I've experienced in such a long time. I started to fall in love with him the second I first saw him. Magic. We love each others company, the sex is t...

Should I encourage him to take the job? Can our marriage survive as a LDR for 3 to 5 years?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3007 days ago

31 January 2016 (F) - Dear Cupids, I am a 35 year old woman, married with no kids. I love my husband and I love our life together. Yesterday he told me that his firm is considering sending him in a remote country 10hrs away by plane and he would have to work there fo...

Why am I only attracted to troubled women?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3007 days ago

31 January 2016 (F) - I've wondered this for a while. Why am I only attracted to troubled women? Or women who are either bad for me or I can't have? I've never, ever had trouble in the female department. In fact, I would say I've been very fortunate. I've always b...

Why do I only attract creepy men?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2374 days ago

31 January 2016 (F) - Hi, so I'm 23 year old, and I've never been kissed or had a boyfriend, but that's not the point of this post. It might help you all understand my situation. I live in a big city so it's quite normal to get a bit of street harassment. But I hav...

How can I talk to someone who won't admit to doing anything wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3007 days ago

31 January 2016 (F) - I feel like my boyfriend of 3 years is taking me for granted. I feel like he thinks he doesn't have to treat me well because I'm just going to put up with it. In the past, I have put up with it and I haven't said anything because I didn't want to ...

Heart broken. Is he just not "into" me ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3007 days ago

30 January 2016 (F) - Hi I'd really appreciate other peoples views on my situation please . I've had great advice about this very man on here before. Finally seemed to be getting somewhere a month ago with him inviting me out most nights , I stayed over him cuddling me ...

By accident I discovered that my husband likes to video himself masterbating, when he is alone. Why does he keep this secret?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3008 days ago

30 January 2016 (F) - My husband and I are both in our fifties. We have been married for 13 years. He has always watched porn but now he stays up late to watch it, masterbate, and videotape himself ejaculate. He won't do this in front of me and he also denies that ...

I "hooked up" with a guy I hardly know. No sex, but did try to give him a Bj. Will my next experience with a guy be better?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3008 days ago

30 January 2016 (F) - I'm a 16 year old girl and a few months ago I stupidly and carelessly "hooked up" with this guy I didn't know too well. Please don't tell me I'm an idiot because trust me I've told myself that everyday since. Before that I'd never soo much as held...

My boyfriend, his Mermaid, and me. Was he disrespectful to add a mermaid? How should I handle this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3007 days ago

30 January 2016 (F) - I will try to make this short and sweet. My boyfriend (we have been dating for a 1.5 year broke up a few times for 2 weeks). He is a big tattoo guy, He has a sleeve and half a sleeve on the other arm. I don't mind them, as I think they look nic...

I am feeling sorry for myself, and sorry for the wife of my married lover since we broke up. How do I get over this break-up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3008 days ago

30 January 2016 (F) - I broke up with a married man two weeks ago. While I am dealing with that and trying to let go, I am also crying over the fact that I will no longer be friends with his wife either. Please don't judge and tell me she is better off without frie...

I feel trapped. Is changing my identity and starting afresh an option to deal with my wish to be single and free?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3006 days ago

30 January 2016 (F) - Ok so I think there is something really wrong with me. I have never had any desire to get married or have a family-I'm 36. For the past couple of years in been fantasizng of changing my identity and leaving my life and starting fresh.... I just...

The cake fiasco. What do you think?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3007 days ago

30 January 2016 (F) - Hi, Hoping for some advice as I'm completely embarrassed and annoyed by a situation! My friend recently turned 30 and for her birthday I had a novelty cake made for her as a surprise. A colleague of mine suggested a lady she knows, who has ...

I'm not sure if this co-worker lied to me. How should I deal with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3008 days ago

30 January 2016 (F) - I'm involved in a delicate situation and I may have been lied to and now I'm not sure what to make of it all... There's a girl in my office, she is 19 and a temp- she's been with the company for 5 months. She is quite and just gets on wit...

How can I secure myself financially?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3007 days ago

30 January 2016 (F) - So I've been with my boyfriend for almost 6 years now... 3 of those we were saving up to buy a house. Well really he was the one doing the saving, as he served in the military and I was a University student on a tight budget. After finishin...

Do women get scared of a man, when all he does is try to make her happy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3008 days ago

29 January 2016 (M) - Do women get scared of a man, when all he does is try to make her happy? I mean, can he do something that makes, her feel like he is getting to like her too much, an then she runs, but down the road, she goes out with other men, an she compares, the ...

LDR. How do we make the most of our time together, and build our loving relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3007 days ago

29 January 2016 (F) - So my boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over 9 months we are 5 hours drive away. We unsually alternate the drive up or down. Usually we see each other late late Saturday, spend all day Sunday and most of Monday together, however we haven...

What can I do about my overbearing controlling sister in law? She also has power of attorney over my husband

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3009 days ago

29 January 2016 (F) - Should I give up on my marriage? my husband s oldest sister who is power of attorney to him and was power of attorney for his mom before his mom died still wants to be in charge of everything. No way in hell does she want to let go of this. ...

Am I over sensitive about the mean things my husband says to me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3007 days ago

29 January 2016 (F) - Hello I am a middle aged woman and have been married for 12 years. My husband is in his early 60s. Our marriage has had its up and downs but we have made progress, we are both from different countries. We live in Canada. My family live in UK. ...

Is it hard to find a person who is your perfect sexual match?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3008 days ago

29 January 2016 (F) - Do you think it takes goimg through lots of people to find your sexual match? I mean somebody you are totally compatible in bed with? Unlike any other? You can be attracted to many people but that does not always mean mind blowing sex wit...

Seems he's been messaging her non-stop. Is my boyfriend cheating on me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3005 days ago

29 January 2016 (F) - Okay so I know some people may judge me for this but about two months back I snooped on my boyfriends phone. I saw he had been exchanging lots of messages with this girl he goes to university with who he is actually going to be living with next aca...

I feel everyone will hate me if I see more of this guy. What do I need to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3006 days ago

29 January 2016 (F) - I have been going out with my current boyfriend for 3 years now. We have had our ups and downs but for the last few months we have had a smooth patch. As we starting going out quite young (ish) the relationship has sometimes made me a little i...

Is it a good idea to propose to her on St Valentine's day? She never revealed earlier why she broke up with me, previously.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2978 days ago

27 January 2016 (M) - We went out for a year and then she broke it off. After about 4 months we started seeing each other. We have been seeing each other for the past 2 months. I am not sure why she broke it off. I am a healthy 65 she is 54. She has never been marri...

How can I overcome my emotions over this bad break-up? Feel sick with jealousy, anger, hurt and sadness

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3011 days ago

27 January 2016 (M) - Hi everyone. So I broke up with my ex girlfriend and ended up exploring my bisexual side. Since September 2015 I have been seeing This guy our meets were intense and we ended up having sex. I freaked out for a couple of weeks and ignored him. He ...

What can I do when she gets in a mood like this?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 2962 days ago

27 January 2016 (F) - My friend has been really difficult and I don't know how to deal with it or if it's even worth it. She's been having a hard time the last couple of years and the things we both went through in life is what made us bond in the first place, as much ...

I think her behaviour equals "playing games" with me. What should I do in this situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3011 days ago

26 January 2016 (M) - I started talking to a girl and we hit it off straight away. We began talking as if we were together, everything got stressful, it was too much. We stopped speaking for a bit, to which she proposed we could be together in the future and whatn...

Is this the end of the line?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3010 days ago

26 January 2016 (F) - I met a man over two months ago and immediately entered into an intimate relationship and fell for him. He is 7 years my senior and at the moment he is working day till night all over the country so I never get to see him. Our last date was 2 we...

Why is hubby hiding Viagra from me??

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3010 days ago

26 January 2016 (F) - I have been married for a very long time. About 10 years ago I discovered that my h was a porn/sex addict, he has never sought help, just thought that he could hide it better, now with the use of pocket porn, his mobile phone, he has a constant...

Why did my guy betray me and stop being loyal while I was busy supporting my Dad during Dad's terminal illness?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3012 days ago

26 January 2016 (F) - I have had the worst year of my life due to my dad's terminal illness. This has took a lot out of me waiting for the outcome to happen. I had what I thought was an amazing man supporting me. I've now happened to find out that through all these ba...

Tired of being Mr Nice Guy. How do I find women who will treat me as well as I treat them?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3009 days ago

26 January 2016 (M) - Well,in the last two months, to failed relationships, so girls, would you rather be ghost, or cheated on, at least cheated on, you know why, it ended, so at fifty nine, do I change, stop being romantic, no more opening car doors, helping putting on ...

He loves using the internet. Am I wrong to distrust him when he wants to stay up late while I sleep?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3012 days ago

25 January 2016 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating and living together over 3 Years, we have had a lot of problems but seem to hang on... I have troubles with trust because he is a internet addict, talks to other women in a way he should not and also has been on ...

Did I cheat and how do I fix it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3013 days ago

25 January 2016 (F) - I've just gone through a breakup and I really need an opinion on what to or whether I actually did something wrong to deserve being broken up with. I started dating a guy about 2 months ago. We went for a couple of drinks during the first week and...

Considering breaking up, so why do I feel like crying, as if I'm losing something?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3013 days ago

25 January 2016 (F) - Dear Cupid I'm dating an guy for past 3 months, I connect with him so well it scares the hell out of me. I really like him, he never said anything about liking me, he is not really vocal in showing affection; his action also confuse me Fo...

Could it be that we are sexually incompatible? 110 percent compatible in every other way.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3013 days ago

25 January 2016 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 8 months. During this time I have noticed that when we have intercourse he doesn't always reach orgasm. At first I put it down to us needing more time to get to know each other's bodies but now it is becoming...

Why are my friends giving me the 'cold shoulder'?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3013 days ago

25 January 2016 (M) - Is there a way to tell friends that they are not being good friends without screwing up the friendship? I have known this couple for a very long time, but in the last couple of years it feels like they have been giving me the cold shoulder: I i...

Is this the person she will always be? She hit me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3013 days ago

25 January 2016 (M) - My girlfriend and I were studying together in an empty classroom when she decided she was cold and wanted to do jumping jacks to warm up but said it would be too embarrassing. I said: it's not embarrassing and nobody is here but me so who cares. I...

Suddenly he cannot get hard. How can I help him with this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3012 days ago

25 January 2016 (F) - A little background on us, we've been dating since the week before thanksgiving 2015. It was fun and very exciting to build this new relationship and the sex was great! But suddenly he cannot keep hard no matter what I try. I didn't rush him aski...

Am I afraid of being happy? Should I nip this relationship in the bud or let it grow?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3013 days ago

25 January 2016 (F) - Background: I haven't been in a relationship since I was in a multi-year-long tumultuous relationship in high school (my first and only). It was a physically and emotionally abusive relationship and I have avoided relationships for almost six year...

She lied to me. Should I feel betrayed? First she claimed to be a virgin. Later she said otherwise..

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3012 days ago

25 January 2016 (M) - Dear all Basically my girlfriend of about 9 months has always told me she is a virgin. that when we have sex it will be her first time. However, she has recently told me that she has had sex with more than 1 previous boyfriend, but said that...

My retaliation hook-up has been weighing me down with guilt. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3014 days ago

25 January 2016 (F) - my.boyfriend and I have been together almost 6 years. we have a 3 and 4 year old. when we first got together I had just gotten out of a bad relationship. in a bad place. anyways, he and my best friend had hooked up and I found out. I forgave ...

What action is needed by us, to resolve this family issue?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3015 days ago

23 January 2016 (F) - I have been with my partner for four years living together for three years. Last year his mother died and his father had major heart surgery. We offered to have his father living with us temporary until he got better although he didn't tell his ...

Our marriage is falling apart. I ask myself, 'why am I with him?' What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3015 days ago

23 January 2016 (F) - My marriage is falling apart and has been for some months. We aren't close and don't have a marriage in the true sense. We are more like friends now. Trust issues years ago regarding my husband haven't helped either. We've been married nearly 24 y...

Shall I allow him a second chance ? Or should I tell him how I feel about his actions?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3014 days ago

23 January 2016 (F) - I'm new to the dating world after being married for a long time and am just trying to navigate my way…would appreciate thoughts and opinions :) I met a new man out for a blind date last night. We kept it short. Just a drink and sort of a ...

Am I right to have reservations? Or is this guy a jerk?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3015 days ago

23 January 2016 (F) - DearCupid, maybe somebody can help me. I've been looking online for answers to this question and it seems like there are kind of two "camps". I will explain the situation. Met a guy at college and we had our first date a couple of weeks back. He s...

Is there an explanation for what occurred??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3015 days ago

23 January 2016 (F) - Hi all I have a pretty weird question to ask, first of all I'll explain the situation: I was due on my period later this week so me and my boyfriend decided to have sex (our first time together and my first time in general) it hurt a little a...

Why do people string others along?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3015 days ago

23 January 2016 (M) - My problem isn't romance or relationship related, but at this point the stress I'm feeling feels like a rejection. I seek advice here. Last year October I met with a mentor of mine and I expressed to her that I was looking for a job in a parti...

My Bf and I, both 14, kiss a lot. Should I be worried about the recent way he's behaving when we kiss?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3014 days ago

22 January 2016 (F) - my boyfriend and me have been in what i would say is a serious relationship for about 6 months. We are the same age and have got to the point where we kiss a lot, for a long time. recently, whilst kissing he's been pulling me a lot closer than usua...

Why is he still keeping in touch? Even though we are no longer having sexual relations?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3013 days ago

22 January 2016 (F) - I did a bad thing. I was in a a relationship when I met a guy through a mutual friends. We exchanged phone numbers and started texting. After going out as friends for drinks, we ended up sleeping together. After that, we have done a few more tim...

Should I break confidentiality to protect a relative?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3013 days ago

22 January 2016 (F) - This is sort of an ethical dilemma. I volunteered at a transitional home for women most of whom were recovering drug addicts who had child service cases. One lady there, who I will call Shelly, opened up about her story and how she grew up in a ...

I've lost my trust in him. I love him but am not in love with him

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3015 days ago

21 January 2016 (F) - ok so I have been with this guy going on 3 years and I already had one baby with my x husband n he stepped up to the plate n he loves her so within the past going on 3 years of being with him I have had 2 kids by him n hes a great father to them all ...

My mother has been lyin/being manipulative to me and other family members. How do I deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3017 days ago

21 January 2016 (F) - Ive found out very recently my mother has been lying to me, a lot, manipulating me into feeling sorry for her, or saying very negative things about the way other members of our family treat her/ behave. It also turns out she's been saying very neg...