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Archived questions from: March, 2008 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

I don't know how to trust him...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5868 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been going out for nearly 6 months now, we're best mates and in love and can't imagine life without each other. However I can't trust him, I'm suspicious he might go off with someone else all the time so I read his messages...

Is he hiding something from me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5868 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - Hello all... I will try to keep this short... :) I have been seeing this man from NZ for over a year now, and things have been great, we spent 9 days together and everything was amazing.. Anyways I recently got an invitation to a website calle...

When he says he loves me I just think he wants sex with me. I just don't believe in love anymore.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5868 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - I've married my husband for 22 years and he treats me like dirt in the recent years and says he never loved me. I was hurt then divorced him. I met this man 18 years my senior who treats me very nice and always says he loves me. I can't believe ...

Is there more going on with his work colleague than meets the eye?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5868 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - Recently, I have snooped through my husband's cellphone (since I have been suspicious of his odd behaviour which leads us to fighting) and noticed a few text messages that he kept in his trash box but forgot to delete from his female co-worker. One ...

I'm scared that history will repeat itself (my previous partner has cheated with my best friend!) What to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5868 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - Hi everybody. About 8 years ago i split up with my long term partner after finding out he was seeing my best mate. Over the following years I have found I cannot trust men. I have been with my current partner for 6 months and I love this man...

I have been told I look like a player because of the way I danced in the club!! Why such comment?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5868 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - hi everyone i have what may seem like a silly question but feel really paranoid. i'm 33 married and have children. i'm always told that i look attractive and have a good figure which although is true i'm not a very confident person and wanted some ...

She keeps cheating on me, how can ever trust her?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5866 days ago

31 March 2008 (M) - Dear Community, I need advice. I have been dating my g/f for 9 months now. Through out the relationship a lot has happened. I am no longer able to conduct my thoughts in a proper manner. I constantly think she is seeing someone now. It all beg...

What are the tell tale signs?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5867 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - How do you tell if your soon to be husband is lying to you?...

He's mad at me for checking his e-mails, but he's the one in the wrong!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5869 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship. I just got mad at him because he signed up for a dating site, looking for girls where he is at. I confronted him and he said that he was just curious and wanted to find out the price of it. ...

I understand that he wants his space but I think he might be cheating!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5869 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - I am not sure whether I have a problem or it is my boyfriend. I will tell you both sides of the story:- After the honeymoon period of the few relationships that I have had wears off, they have failed. None of them have lasted more than 10 mon...

How can I trust my boyfriend more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5865 days ago

30 March 2008 (F) - I have an amazing boyfriend. He's sweet and he loves me and trusts me, but I seem to have trouble trusting him. Some of his friends that are girls have reputations for being sluts, etc, and I have caught one of them with a few of my guy friends ...

He's my best friend, but his girlfriend is extremely jealous of our friendship.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5847 days ago

30 March 2008 (F) - My best friend *who is a guy and i'm a girl* of 17 years has had a girlfriend for the past 5 years. Everytime my best friend hangs out with me or calls me, she throws a hissy fit. It's gotten so bad to the point where she is accusing him and puts...

Wondering if the relationship is worth saving - after she has been cheating me on the rent, double charging me to clear her arrears -, and if so, how?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5868 days ago

29 March 2008 (M) - I moved in with my partner in October past having been together for about 18 months, believing that I had found a strong relationship based on love and trust. I recently discovered that she has been cheating me on the rent since I moved in, double ...

I received an irate message awakening my previous suspicions about my husband's friendship with his (also married) colleague.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5870 days ago

29 March 2008 (F) - I have been married for a year and a half, and my huband goes to college about 30 mins from where we live. About 2 months ago, I noticed he seemed to be making and receiving quite a few phone calls and text messages from a female classmate, ...

How can I stop worrying about him talking to other women?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5868 days ago

29 March 2008 (F) - I been with my boyfriend for 3 yrs. I have very low self esteem and recently found out he spends most nights on dating circle websites! I don't know if i should be worried or not. I know if i ask him about it he'll just accuse me of checking up on h...

I need to know everything and hate liars do I have a control issue?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5871 days ago

29 March 2008 (F) - OK, I had been in a long distance relationship with my BF for about more than 3 years. When we first started to date he was still seem his ex-girl and he said that he had no feelings for her; but he never broke up with her; he was not sleeping with ...

How can I learn to trust my husband?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5871 days ago

29 March 2008 (F) - i have been married for 4 years and i have been together for 7 years i have had bad past relashioships with guys cheating on me and me catching them and my husband now i thnk he is doing the same everytime he goes out the door my mind starts to fly ...

He has pulled out of our wedding twice should I give him a third chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5871 days ago

28 March 2008 (F) - hi im in real need for some good advice this is a long story but il try to cut it short! my partner is in the army! we have been together for 2 years! he was sent away to afghan half way through he proposed and it was the best day of my life!! we...

He makes me feel unloved, ugly and paranoid.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5871 days ago

28 March 2008 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been going out with my boyfriend for over 3 years, and it seems as though lately, he has completely changed and doesn't care about me anymore. He's started going out drinking more often with friends not inviting me. He's recent...

We have two children, he says he loves me, but he has a girlfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5871 days ago

28 March 2008 (F) - I was in a relationship with a man i thought was the one for me we have 2 children together and we have not long split up. We have still been having sex but he has a new girlfried. He says he doesn't love her and he is only with her because her aunt...

Should I let him go or am I being too hasty?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5869 days ago

28 March 2008 (F) - I'm in a tough situation right now and not sure what to do. To start, i'm dating this guy who broke up with his girlfriend early december of last year. They dated for 7 months, and although things weren't bad between them, she didn't excite him (how...

Is my boyfriend lying to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

28 March 2008 (F) - Been dating someone for past 10 months. He is 49 years old. When we first started dating, he was texting a 29 year old girl he had met before we got together. Said they were “just friends”. He shared with me that they went to Cancun over a ...

Should I relocate to be with him even though he might never marry me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5871 days ago

28 March 2008 (F) - what should i do? background - together for 7months - relationship been great. we met each other's family, hang out together all the time - i love him and i think he does too problem - he's relocating to another country and i don't know if ...

Cell phone tracking question...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5871 days ago

28 March 2008 (M) - Does anyone know if there is a way to track a cell phone? (ex. finding out where a person is located at any certain time)I also am hoping someone can answer this... Can my cell phone service provider give me a list of the text messages from her...

Space Problem....between me and my 13 months old boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5869 days ago

28 March 2008 (F) - Hi...Actually, me too am having space problem with my 13 months boyfriend... actually, we've been through lots of fights all the time... he doesn't trust me since i lied to him once and from that day onwards, he doubts all my say. and also, he ...

Am I alone in feeling jealous and insecure because my man is handsome and charming?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5865 days ago

28 March 2008 (F) - I apologize for the long rant. I'm overwhelmed right now with feelings of insecurity and jealousy. My boyfriend of 1 year is a very charming man with good looks and great sense of humor. He is flirtatious, he is very out going and meets new girls ...

Is it fair I give up ballroom dancing because my boyfriend doesn't want me dancing with other guys?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5846 days ago

28 March 2008 (F) - My boyfriend has a problem with me dancing with another man. Do you think it's fair? Background info: I used to take ballroom dancing with my gay friend. After I dated my boyfriend, I have stopped. He doesn't like me dancing with another men beca...

Should I trust him if I commit to a mortgage agreement

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5865 days ago

27 March 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating seriously for 3 years. We are both in our mid 20s. He is now living in different city because of work. He would like to buy a property so I can move up to his city about 1/2 year later (when my work gets orga...

After two years of dating will he ever cut all ties with his ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5871 days ago

27 March 2008 (F) - Am I asking for too much? I have been dating a guy for a little over two years now. When we started dating he was still married but seperated, which I did not find out until I started asking questions about the divorce. By this time, though, I ...

Am I just stupid? Does he even love me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5871 days ago

27 March 2008 (F) - I've only been married a month and a half and I have learned my husband tried calling his ex girlfriend the other day (anonymously). I know this because I looked at his calls on his cell phone. Let me go back a bit to explain why I did this... ...

My girlfriend created a "secret profile" on myspace! Can I trust her?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5871 days ago

27 March 2008 (M) - hi everybody, i have a long distance relationship since 2 years. i discover recently that my girlfriend (23 years old) have created secretly a profile in my space, where she claims to be single. i asked her if she was hidding something from m...

His comments about other women make me feel insecure, and I want to be more confident!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5804 days ago

27 March 2008 (F) - Am a 48 year old, attractive, intelligent woman. I have been seeing this wonderful man for 4 months. Just back from holiday with him. On occasions when we are out, he'll say things like "that barmaid was gorgeous, wish I could take her home" or ...

He broke up with me and I'm pregnant with his child. Will he come back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5872 days ago

27 March 2008 (F) - my ex-broke up with me over a text msg and told me that he has been cheating on me. im pregnant with his child that he wanted with me...everyone i talk to dont think that it wont last with them because the girls a skank and her relationships dont ...

We once had threesomes with my mate does he now like her more than he likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5872 days ago

27 March 2008 (F) - Hi I have been with me boyfriend for 3 years now, that is never a good relationship. He never cuddles me, we would never sit together on the sofa at home and we hardly ever had sex, he spent most of his time in the put as well. About 2years a...

In a relationship for six years and I don't want to ruin it but feeI have more in common with my co-worker...any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5872 days ago

27 March 2008 (M) - I am 24 years old manager at a retail store, i have know this co-worker of mine for four years, she is 22 years old. She had quit this retail job and went to work at a bank, from all the other co-workers i kept in touch with her the most, mostly by ...

Need to tell him I'm not sure if I want to sleep with him without hurting his feelings...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5873 days ago

27 March 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a while now, We've been on and off since I started at this school. Its been sorta Y'know. 'I cant come. I'm really sorry but I cant I'm extremely swamped' and it was true I know we had the same classes. [Thats ...

Are these signs of immaturity that he'll grow out of?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5812 days ago

26 March 2008 (F) - I've been dating a 6 years younger guy. He is 25, a typical American cool guy who's life is about gym and clubbing on the weekends, very social, fun to hang out with but sometimes annoyingly immature! He is a good looking guy with a nice bod...

He has a child with his ex but what worries me is that he pays the ex much attention, jumps at her calls to carry out her wishes... any ideas?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5873 days ago

26 March 2008 (F) - PLEASE HELP I've known my current bf since the tuesday before feb 14th and been going out with him for about 4 weeks, but one thing's bugging me, he has a 3 year old with his ex gf,he goes round to see the kid most nights and leaves when the chil...

When is it time to quit trying and just end a relationship completely?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5811 days ago

26 March 2008 (F) - How do you know when to just quit trying with something that feels like it should work, but doesn't? I dated a guy for three years, and he was, without question, the love of my life. In all my life, I would never get bored of him, and we had ...

How do I make my best friend back-off from my girlfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5872 days ago

26 March 2008 (M) - I have been going out with my girlfriend for about 2 months now, but my best friend seems unusually close to her. I met my girlfriend at the beginning of school, when her, my best friend, and I hung out a lot for about 6 months until her and I ...

Cruel jibes in the past still make me feel so ugly ..I'm so insecure now with my boyfriend, help me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5871 days ago

26 March 2008 (F) - I'm 19 years old. I was always ignored in high school. One guy actually called me ugly once (and added that I should consider plastic surgery). No one ever called me beautiful and no guys ever crushed on me. My friends told me I was pretty, but ...

I agreed to an open relationship but I'm not happy and need advice on how to handle it or break off?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5869 days ago

26 March 2008 (F) - I've been seeing this guy for about 6 months now and we're in an open relationship. I'm his main girl but he is going around dating and sleeping with other girls. Although he hasn't slept with any other girls yet b/c if he did he'd have told me and ...

I won't to leave hin again but this time for good. Any tips?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5873 days ago

26 March 2008 (F) - Okay I know I am only 17 but I would really like some opinons. I have been in a relationship with a guy for 2 years, he has cheated on me once and I ended it at that but a week later I found myself back in the same relationship. There has been other ...

Three years with my boyfriend but I fancy his friend too!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5874 days ago

26 March 2008 (F) - Hay everyone iam 18 I always ask my friends what to do but they don't give me anwers can someone help? I been going out with my boyfriend for 3 years but I really like his friend I mean like they grow up together I call his friend almost e...

What goes on at Bachelore parties?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5873 days ago

26 March 2008 (F) - Hallo I have a guestion for guys mainly. Is there any sex or kissing or stuff going on at a Bachelore parties?? I heard from one of my friends haveing BP and the strippers were going down on them for $200 .. I find it not only overpriced but d...

Is it okay to be there for your ex when he is down?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5872 days ago

25 March 2008 (F) - Me and my boyfriend of 3 years have broken up for a week now and it's been goin well, i have jus been goin up n down with emotionss.. we didn't talk until las nite he said dat he is sorry for doin this to me but he was jus havin a break down and...

Should I tell my boyfriend his brother tried to kiss me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5874 days ago

25 March 2008 (F) - Hi I'm in a great relationship we have been together for three years and are talking about marriage.I could not ask for more. I do however have a problem my guy has a little brother two years younger than him they are extremly close and love each ...

My friend is 14 and her boyfriend is 19, I'm sure they love each other, but her mum is against him, what do I advise to help them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5874 days ago

25 March 2008 (?) - Okay so this might be wrong in some of your eyes but to them it is love. they know they will be married when they get older. they love each other more than anything else in the world. her dad loves him and his family loves her. but there are ...

Whenever I criticise his porn viewing he brings up my past and calls me a slut!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5873 days ago

25 March 2008 (F) - I've been with this guy for about 4 years... at least that's how HE puts it. We hung out together for one year, have lived together for the past 3, but in my mind, have been officially a couple for maybe 1. I have always tried to make it perfectly ...

Due to my very troubled past and bad experiences with people close to me I have trouble trusting people. How can I trust my boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5873 days ago

25 March 2008 (F) - Wow. Where do I begin? When I was younger I was raped. Then later on in my life I was molested twice. Then at 17 a 38 year old from the church that I used to go to since middle school tried to have sex with me. My mom french kissed me when I was ...