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Archived questions from: February, 2013 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

I'm a virgin. But due to my thoughts I'm worried that I might be becoming a sex addict. Should I be concerned?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4053 days ago

28 February 2013 (F) - Im 17 I'm a junior in high school and I have a problem. My prob is I think I might be a sex addict....so here's the catch: I'm still a virgin. I have never gone farther than making out and even that I have only done that two times. Both with t...

Married 15 months. Yet without telling me he's resigned his job and left me. How can I get him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4074 days ago

28 February 2013 (F) - please help me !!! We have been married for the past 15 months. For the past 6 months we have been facing a lot of issues in our profssional and personal life. He started beating me abusing and so did I One morning he told me he is leaving the...

My boyfriend asked for a key to my apartment? Should I give it to him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4074 days ago

28 February 2013 (F) - My boyfriend asked for a key to my apartment. We visit each other's places often and sometimes he sleeps over or I sleep over at his place. We have been dating for 3 months. I do not want to live with him or have him live with me. He asked if ...

It seemed like he liked me. But then nothing? How can I shake off these feelings I developed for him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4055 days ago

28 February 2013 (F) - I really don't know how to explain my situation. Okay, this guy and I have been friends about three months and I went down there to see my sister and this guy and I hooked up at the party she threw. He had spent the night with me and one thing le...

Girl flirting with my boyfriend at party, and then friending him on Facebook.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4074 days ago

27 February 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I were at a birthday party at a house a few weeks ago. We met a mutual friend of one of the birthday girls for the first time, a female about our age. At first she seemed really nice and we were both chatting with her. Then ...

How can I get over the guilt and open wound from a year ago?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4072 days ago

27 February 2013 (M) - A year ago, I was going through a rough time in life. I had lost my job, which put a strain on our relationship. I/we were not talking much about our feelings and our self-worth. The relationship was strained. I had a lot of low times and did ...

My boyfriend was caught chatting up another girl over facebook. Do I dump him, or give him another chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

27 February 2013 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 3 months now. So far are three months up to now had been perfect, no argueing, no fights, no huge issues, everything had been smooth and lovely. I was ...

I'm so scared we made a mistake. Yes we married. But was I his "last resort" choice?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

27 February 2013 (F) - I met a man two years ago during a year long course. For the year he would follow me out for breaks, chat, flirt. I gave him my number and he called and invited me out. First night he told me about his drinking, drugs, problems with his dad, ch...

I want to see him again. Shall I turn up at his home unannounced? Or text him when I am nearby to give him a choice of seeing me or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

27 February 2013 (F) - I'm in a recent FWB relationship, with a good friend of mine. Both of us have been hurt in the last year by bad relationships so we don't want anything other then just sex. Both of us have been real busy so in the last two weeks since we discusse...

He's confusing me. Has he lost interest in me? Or is his change of approach because he likes me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

27 February 2013 (F) - I met this guy about 2-3 months ago, and when we first started hanging out I think we hit it off really well. We would spend 2-3 days out of the week together. I usually don't sleep with men so quickly, but for some reason I decided to with him...

Is this how boys are? How can I get over this betrayal? He told me his actions are "part of being a liar"

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3706 days ago

27 February 2013 (F) - My b.f told me that I’m 6 month solder than he is and that he want to breakup... When we met he lied to me and said that he was 18years old, I just can’t forget all he said to me. I asked him to tell me the reason why he made a lot of promises to m...

We broke up but it hurts so much. If I leave it too long, to contact her, will she will settle in with her new choice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

27 February 2013 (M) - So i was in this wonderfull relationship, with my girlfriend for 2 years, We are both in our 20s Over the past couple months our relationship has gotten worse. We were not very close, i tried to do what i could but i guess it wasn't enough or the r...

The man I'm supposed to marry in 2 months has been cheating on me!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 4072 days ago

27 February 2013 (?) - I need help. I love my fiance and he loves me. We have been together for seven years. I recently found out he has been flirting on his job sites and got a girls number and was texting her. And he hit on a friend of ours. He keeps telling me how ...

Is this guy into harmless flirting or is he using Facebook to pick up women?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

27 February 2013 (F) - Ok so I know I'm not the only person with this problem!!. I'm dating this guy Who claims to be really into me. He tells me he misses me all the time, Good morning and good night texted everyday and we talk on the phone for hours! We have been on a ...

Me or your cyberwoman?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

27 February 2013 (F) - Here goes have asked questions before and it has been helpful. I met a man about two years ago, he is on the shy side and awkward. My daughter is in sports, that is how I met him. He always would come and support her at her games and fundraisers ...

Help me understand him. Is he a pervert?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

27 February 2013 (F) - Dear lovely aunts, I need your help.. I've known this guy for 20 years, not close friends but families are close friends, his mom always wanted us together ever since we were kids. I was always emotionally unavailable and never considered him. We ...

Is this relationship salvageable or should I move on?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - My husband and I have had a bad marriage the last 2 years. We've been married 14 years. He turned into a workaholic and I was lonely. I started hanging out with friends. A few were guys. He avoided me by working all the time. I developed an add...

He went to visit his ex and is not back yet. Should I wait or move on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - My man found out he has a 14 yr old daughter just recently. He went to visit her on 2/12/13 and hasn't returned yet. I know her mother wants to be with him again. His daughter is having problems in school. My question is should i move on or wa...

He's ten years older , but says he's willing to wait until I'm ready to lose my virginity. What should I do?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4073 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - I am 17 and still a virgin me and my boyfriend have been dating for three months. He is 27 and already he has a daughter. He says he will wait for me until I'm ready to lose my virginity with him. I'm quite ready,but since he is experienced im kin...

He leaves me goes to ex..rinse, repeat. How can I trust him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - i feel so lost. i was married and very unhappy, i met a guy at work and at first site it was as if i stopped breathing, i instantly loved him! butterflies fireworks everything! it signified the end of my.marriage as i felt if i was in love with my ...

Now guys at work see me in a different light. How could my own brother embarass me at work about things I told him in private about my private life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid,my brother and I are employed at the same place we have private conversations between each other at home about our relationships with different people in our lives so that's cool. However he then went to work and told one of the cowo...

Can one waste so much time thinking about the ex that one could miss out on what could be true love? how can one stop dwelling on the ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - Bit of a general question here, but if you are trying to get over an ex, how are you supposed to know when to give up wondering and hoping? What if you decide to give up and then you never rrally find true love because you were meant to be with the...

Am I unreasonable as he claims? My 8 years older ex can be thoughtless, inconsiderate, and does not listen.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - Hi, I have a bit of a problem with my boyfriend, who is 25 (8 years in my senior). We've been going out since October. Recently we have been having many disagreements and I find myself craving more from him. We split up recently due to that, bu...

Did I taint my husband's image? He is cross that I confronted the married woman who's been sending him love texts

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4074 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - I received love texts in my hubby's phone which were replies to a married woman's txts. The last one states that 'soon we shall be together darling' When i asked him he denied and said he has no affair with this particular woman. We decided to bl...

Is my girlfriend having second thoughts?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

26 February 2013 (M) - I have only been with this girl for a few weeks. she recently broke up with her boyfriend of two years after they were constantly arguing and she felt that they needed to call it quits. she has been with me since then and then she broke up with me ...

He's not fighting to keep me in his life! I'm gutted. How do I get over this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - Dear cupid, I am distraught. Me and my boyfriend have broken up. We were together tabout 4 months. I have always suffered with confidence and low sef esteem. I dont tink ive trusted him from day 1. He never gave me any reason not to trust him. It...

Was he tired, confused, emotional for some reason. or just forgetful when he use the name of his ex, (instead of my name), when he spoke to me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - The other day my boyfriend called me by his ex's name. He was making me laugh because I had been previously upset with a family member. All of a sudden while he was telling me a joke he used her name instead of mine. He was with her for three ye...

What are the options to deal with our rude confrontational neighbors? They stir up trouble and it's wearing me down.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - Hello, I'm really confused about my neighbour. I just can't work her out! For the last 18 months the person living next to me has made my life quite difficult. We have got to a point that we have resolved some issues but I am really wary of her!...

Is it a communication problem? Guys do ask me out, but whenever I date it never leads to much more than the first date.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - I am 23 years old, Whenever I'v liked or been attracted to someone,that person has always asked me out.. I'm an attractive girl and these men compliment me a lot,but I don't know why it never leads to relationships! Its just a date and then I f...

If partner is using dating site do they always keep on carrying on until you dump them permanently?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - I am noticing there seems to be a growing number of questions here relating to repetitive cheating on dating sites by their partner. I have had to go through this with my partner who never admits it or thinks he is not doing anything wrong by way o...

Should I worry that I may lose her to someone who is just as pretty but more intelligent?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4072 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - I am dating someone who is very accomplished and quite literally brilliant. While I have above average intelligence, I have no education nor anything that I have accomplished or am really good at. Long story short : I became a mom at age 19 an...

I introduced the girl to my best friend. Now they are together. Trouble is I have fallen in love with the girl. What can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4074 days ago

26 February 2013 (M) - I'm 17 years old, male, and I've been best friends with this guy since elementary school. Lately I've gone insane with envy for certain aspects of his life. A key component, his relationship with his girlfriend, whom I've fallen in love with ove...

Multiple Dating Questions: can you help me please? What to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - So I guess I need some dating advice! I realize every person is different and I'm also a lady who dates ladies but I think anyone would have a good perspective on this. I've been dating women for several years but usually I was pursued by them or ...

How can I tell if my BF is telling the truth or not? What lengths will some men go to, to tell lies?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - How can you tell if your boyfriend is tellin the truth whether a "friend" is just a friend orwhether he has slept with her. He denies anything happened that hey were just friends. I somehow believe him, just want to know to what lenths will you ...

Should I call him and tell him how I really feel?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4077 days ago

26 February 2013 (F) - okay so..here it is under an unusual planetary alignment i meet the most amazing man it was strange i felt a deep connection with him when we shook hands i will never forget gazing into his eyes when i met him. i could not describe the pow...

Porn Addicts - how to spot one in 13 ways

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4071 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - Here are a few ways you can spot a porn addict. I've had it happen to myself. 1. They pick on your appearance, they try to change your appearance. "Can you not wear your hair like that tomorrow?" "Why don't you wear fake tan?" 2. They think r...

Is he the right Bf for me? He prefers vanilla sex. I want threesome,s sex toys, bondage, role plays, sex outdoors and dressing up

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - I'm 24 and my partner is 28 and we have been together for a year and a half. Although we love each other the chemistry in the bedroom isn't sizzling... We keep fighting and getting frustrated with each other about whether we are having sex or n...

How can I make my dad understand my college situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4077 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - I got into college last September. Although my college has many, many, ridiculously too many parties, I never went to a single one. I tried to get in the whole college spirit but I just don't enjoy getting stupid drunk and hangover. I went EVERY...

I'm straight. My gay male friend gets holier than thou when I talk dating a guy. What can I do ?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4077 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - I'm pretty much stuck in a situation where I feel like a total Fag Hag. Most of my friends are gay. I absolutely adore all of my friends, and see them as amazing people who just happen to be gay. It's my gay friends who like to socialize an...

I really like this guy. He did message me. All things considered, does he like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4056 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - Ok i met this libra guy and we hooked up. He just start to travel and have no plan yet. He asked me if i have a bf and if i want one. i said i don't really know because i'm going away in 5 months. we clicked it of he's really sweet and charmi...

What's changed? I'm attractive and the same weight etc. Yet guys have stopped asking me for dates, since I turned 40. Is it me? Why the change?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4075 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - I'm a pretty woman in my early 40s. I look very young, not my opinion, but others say it. I have a great job, friends, my only child is away in college. I decided not to have a boyfriend after my divorce few years ago, as I couldnt fit one ...

What can I do about the double standards in my family? All my siblings are adults, yet as the eldest more is expected of me.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4076 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - I hate being the eldest. If my siblings want me to do a favour, I get screamed and yelled at. But if I need a favour from my siblings, my parents don't care at all. They tell me it's my problem and instead yell me to shut up. I'm sick to bit...

Are we Platonic or not? While telling me he's a "Player", now he wants me to meet his sister.Why?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4077 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - If your guy friend wants you to meet his sister(after 9 months) is my relationship with my guy friend platonic or not? Why am I confused? It's because he has been saying that she wants to meet me, and now he's actually putting something to...

What can I do about my fiance who continues to lie to me? Money is tight yet he still spends on things we can't afford.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4077 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - my fiance keeps lying about stupid things and its driving me up the wall. He's not working at the moment so money is tight, I have spoken to him about how much he keeps spending several times now. He has two kids from a previous relationshi...

My world is crumbling around me. Are there any strategies that could help me deal with all this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4077 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - I have a problem. Basically the world is crumbling beneath my feet. I have studies at Uni to finish, I'm in my last week of my internship and everything is going to hell. I really need some advice or at least a listening ear. This is my situation...

I thought, due to his own issues, that we were going to be FWB. Yet is he getting attached to me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4077 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - I just started seeing this guy for a month, even we never talked about our relationship status, it's more like fwb or f*buddies.. In the beginning, he didn't really seem to give a thought much about me Recently, he acts like he is my boyfriend w...

How can I resolve the fact that I am torn between the man I love and what I think will make me happy in the long run?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4077 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - My partner is 30 and I am 20, we love each other and I think he is my soulmate. I just wish I had met him 10 years ago and things would have been different. He has two kids with his ex and they live with her. He visits them in the holidays and...

I am her best friend, but I also know she cheats.How can I be her friend without having to keep her secrets?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4077 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - Hello everyone. I am a romantic. I believe in love and everything it entails. However, my best friend know I have known for eleven years, is a cheater. I know it isn't my life and it's hers. I also know that it is her decision and hers al...

Should I confide in him like he confides in me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4077 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - I'm dating this guy right now, we were friends for a few months before we decided to date. He has been so open with me cause he trusts me a lot. He's told me some pretty dark things that have happened to him in his past that nobody knows. ...

The one thing I always wanted was passion. Just broke up. Am I asking too much? Wanting passion in a relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4077 days ago

25 February 2013 (F) - I was wondering if the idea of real romance like in the movies is really impossible to find in relationships? Of course I realize they are only movies but a girl can dream right? I always hated romance movies because I think yeah right! But ther...