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Archived questions from: November, 2007 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

The contacts are very infrequent. He also refused visiting me on holidays for financial matters even though I sent him my savings.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5990 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - i've been in long distance relationship with my hunny for the past 2 yrs now and all was goin on well until september when he changed his university n he had to move out to other town. he stopped callin me so often as it used to be before coz he c...

I lost trust in him and I feel there should be something more solid..should I stay or go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5991 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - Should I stay or should I go? -This is the fifth year of our relationship -We have a one-year old son -My boyfriend is about 3 years younger than me and not ready to commit to marriage any time soon. I feel our relationship should be more conc...

Losing him once made me realise how much I loved him. But how do I trust again and put the past behind me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5989 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - I have quite a complicated situation. It may sound trivial to begin with, but please offer me advice, as I am so confused. I met a J about 18 months ago. I was in a relationship at the time, but it was not a healthy relationship at the time, an...

She cheated and I can't trust her. Any suggestions?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5602 days ago

30 November 2007 (M) - have recently split with girlfriend of 1 1/2 years. we moved to new country together where she started a new stressful job. we had recently had a conversation about how we were not satisfied, and decided to take a break to think - we always got ...

My boyfriend doesn't seem to trust me. Why does he act this way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5984 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - hi i am 21 years old and my boyfriend is 32. we have a morgage together and i love him so much. i really need the answer to why my boyfriend thinks im staring and flirting at other blokes {young to old, really ugly to good looking} while we are out ...

I really feel his ex is trying to come between us, with actions she has undertaken, manipulation, gossip. Do you think I am overreacting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5987 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - I just wanted people's views on the suituation I am in. I have been with my boyfriend 9 months. He was with a girl for 4 years before me, they had been split up for about 5 months prior to us getting together. In that time, my boyfriend said...

She spent the evening with a work-colleague the night before she came home but swears nothing sexual happened. Do I trust her less for this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5990 days ago

30 November 2007 (M) - I have been going out with my girlfriend for 5 years. This morning I found out that she spent the evening with a bloke from work the night before then came home to me. She swears she didn't have sex with him and that they just talked. I don't know ...

I found a pregnancy test and a female's picture in my husband's toolbox. I suspect an affair.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5785 days ago

30 November 2007 (F) - i found a pregancy test in my husband toolbox and a pic. of a girl. he told me that the test and the pic. had been in thier a long time,the test was his exwife and the girl he don`t rem... how do i no he telling me the truth. rem.. he lied to me ...

Why did he ask me to buy him pills to increase his penis size precisely now that he is out of town for months? Does he want to impress another woman?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5992 days ago

29 November 2007 (F) - My husband is out of our state for work and i wont be able to see him for 5 more months. Last week he ask me if i could buy him pills to increase his penis size. He said that he knows I have told him many times that his size is great for me, but he ...

Why is he like this towards me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5986 days ago

29 November 2007 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for about two months now, but i already know that this is real love, none of my other relationships felt this way. But sometimes my boyfriend makes me feel a bit..odd i guess. He'll say hows much he loves me constantly ...

My boyfriend got a lapdance from one of his former friends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5992 days ago

29 November 2007 (F) - Hi. A little while after me and my boyfriend had begun talking, he got a lapdance from one of his former friends.Yea, she strips for a living and she has like 5 kids. He blames it on the fact that they were all drunk.But he did have the guts to ...

How can I stop being so over protective and start to trust my bf??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5993 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) - I think i'm a bit weird...you know, a bit to over protective with my bfs. When i have bf's i can get very protective. For instance i don't like him looking at other girls. Sometimes my mates flirt with my bf and i kind of pull him away from them ...

She is unsure if she can trust me and continue with me because I confessed I cheated. Is there hope for us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5993 days ago

28 November 2007 (M) - My wife left me a year and a half ago. We decided about 2 months ago to get back together. But before we got back together I told her that I cheated on her when we were married....she did not know this when she left. Now she is faced with the issue ...

Scared of losing my virginity.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5993 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) - hiya, I'm 19 and i'm still a virgin. I'm scared of losing it because i was sexual harrassed in high school, and i've never had a real long relationship. When i was sexual harrassed i had a bf and he did nothing, he didn't comfort me or do or say a...

Will he hurt me again and is he a player??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5993 days ago

28 November 2007 (F) - Sorry if this is long, Right, well im 14 and in March this year and i got with an amazing guy i had been after for ages and we went out for 1 month. The day before we broke up he passed his driving test i found out he had cheated on me. Before i ...

Can someone help me here with my insecurities?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5994 days ago

27 November 2007 (F) - I am very happy with my boyfriend, but I have noticed differences in him lately like when we were first going out he couldn't wait to see me and he would spend every moment with me. After college he would come see me most of the week or ...

Should I be upset that on the first night of meeting my present girlfriend, she left with another dude?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5994 days ago

27 November 2007 (M) - I have been dating this girl for one year. The other day she said she had something that she had been hiding from me. On the night that I met her, she had a casual sexual encounter with a mutual friend of ours. Now granted, we had just met ...

Raising our son at home and my bf is mad because 'he makes all the money'!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5994 days ago

27 November 2007 (F) - hiya i have a ten month old son and i dont wont ot go to work yet, my boyfriend always tells me that he makes the money he pays for everything. i know that!! i have look for a job to do at home so i dont wont to miss out on my sons life, i h...

Do you think I should ask him who this other woman is?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5994 days ago

27 November 2007 (F) - Hi, So I'm a paranoid wreck at the moment. My boyfriend was working in England for the last 3 weeks. I missed him very much and I think he felt the same. He arrived back on Sunday and everything is fine. The thing is, this morning when I was getting ...

We were drifting apart, then we sparked up again, now he's proposed, but there's another man on the scence, I don't know what to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5987 days ago

26 November 2007 (F) - I have been in a relationship for nine years. It took me a while to decide I had fallen out of love because I do feel for this guy and we have bought a house together and have a cat. I hadn't left him because we were in so much debt I didn't see how ...

I like my cousin's bf! What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5995 days ago

26 November 2007 (F) - i have a big problem, me and my cusin were like best friends, shes beein going on about a boy she meet at work she told me soo much about him and i was happy for her, but the other day i meet him by the end of the night my cuzin asked me if i ...

Should a newlywed man still keep pictures of his ex's on his computer?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5928 days ago

26 November 2007 (F) - I am newly married and my husband keeps pictures of him with previous girlfriends on his computer. Do you think he should get rid of them? We are married now so I don't see why he needs them anymore....

Is he playing with me? - he "forgot" to say he lived with somebody else and already had a child. He says he loves me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5995 days ago

26 November 2007 (F) - Hi! I was with this person who wanted to me intimate right away with me after a few dates. I said no. After a while he would call me a few times then one day I stopped calling him. six month later he chased me down after a month we became intimate. ...

I can't help not trusting my boyfriend! Any advice?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5449 days ago

26 November 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I love eachother very much but I can't help not trusting him. I am admittedly a control freak. Since my last boyfriend betrayed my trust several times I really have trouble trusting anybody now. I have been keeping this under ...

Why doesn't my boyfriend believe my best friend is ONLY my best friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5994 days ago

25 November 2007 (?) - why doesnt my boyfriend believe that my best friend is only a best friend? my best friend is a boy and we have known each other since nursery. we were 3 years old. we have gone through school together and we are in our last year and are still best ...

He said he wished I was near him, when I suggested visiting he avoided the subject however. What is going on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5996 days ago

25 November 2007 (F) - Hey Ive been with my boyfriend for a couple of months, I never fall badly with guys as i have trust issues from previous stuff. But when i met him i fell completely in love with him. I can think of no one else, In fact i know no one else in this...

I can't stand the lies!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5996 days ago

25 November 2007 (M) - I'm a 45 year old male and have 3 kids with a 35 year old female, we been together for 15 years off and on she has been abused as a kid by a grandfather, so she has sex, one night stands or 2-3 times a partner but has lied throughtout our entire ...

For the first time I realise what a poor and selfish spouse I have been. How do I show her my love, how to do it without sacrificing family time?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5996 days ago

25 November 2007 (M) - I have been with my wife for 15 years. We have been married for 10. About 4 years ago I got caught cheating with multiple women. Additionally, about two years ago she found a letter that looks like I may have been doing it again though i actually ...

I want to be able to trust her more...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5996 days ago

25 November 2007 (M) - My girlfriend and I are still in high school but we both come from completely different groups. She is a bit older than me and so are her friends. I don't know all these older guys that she is friends with and I know that I can't trust them. But I ...

I cannot visit him abroad for financial matters, so he imagines I do not love him or am unfaithful. He stopped contacting me. How do I solve this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5996 days ago

25 November 2007 (F) - Im always Misunderstood and Im FED UP always explaining things to ppl,and now my bf suspect me of infedility and unloving him..this is a Brief explanation:Im 24,curently back at home to my parents to finish my last Huge Exam and research paper.I ...

My boyfriend met another woman who began texting him constantly and telling everyone they are dating, I don't know who to believe

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5997 days ago

24 November 2007 (F) - I am having major trust issues right now. I've been with my boyfriend for 6 years now. He met another woman this past september and she instantly began to text message him 10-20 times a day. He told her to stop and that he had a girlfriend. She ...

I'm really confused about what I want to do...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5996 days ago

24 November 2007 (F) - I've just broken up with a guy who I've been with for 7 years and I'm in two minds about whether I've done the right thing. Things have been going downhill over the past few months. I don't trust him as a few years ago he met someone and although...

He already said he quit calling his EX, but checking his cell I discovered he was lying. How do I go about this without coming off as a nag?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5997 days ago

24 November 2007 (F) - My Ex and I have gotten back together after a 2+ year break, when he moved back from Indy. After a couple weeks I found out he was in a 'relationship' with a married woman, who he was still talking to. I told him how un-easy that made me feel, and ...

He doesn't care about my sexual needs, does this mean he doesn't care about me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5996 days ago

24 November 2007 (F) - I feel that my BF is selfish as he doesn't try to make me orgasm when we make love. I have bought toys, showed him numerous times, tried to talk about it...He is aware and says he will try, but everytime we make love, and he's had his share of ...

This boy I like says he likes me too but I'm used to people saying that as a joke, so I don't know if I trust him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5997 days ago

24 November 2007 (?) - well ya see theres this boy at schol and i really like him. he tells me im pretty sometimes and he cuddles me at school and he always calls me babe and stuff. He tells me that he likes me on MSN and stuff. And he has told one of his friends that he ...

How can I overcome my trust issues and stop behaving so bad towards her??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5997 days ago

24 November 2007 (M) - I have a problem with my relationship with my girlfriend, i love her and dont want to split up or hurt her, but i am being a pig. I dont trust her, when she goes out with her friends, i dont like it and when she comes back i sulk and dont talk to ...

My fiance talks to his ex wife every day, why does he do that?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5357 days ago

23 November 2007 (F) - Does anyone know why someone would talk to their ex every single day more than they talk to their Fiancee? I have been dating my Fiancee now for almost 2 years and he talks to his ex-wife every single day. Sometimes more than he talks to me. I wo...

My 'friend' acts strangely around me and cheats on her homework. Please help, I don't know what to do about her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5992 days ago

23 November 2007 (F) - Dear cupid, i'm having problems with my mate. i only call her a mate but she says i'm her best friend but anyways she annoys me alot nowadays, the other day i was talking and she wasn't listening and it was obvious so i stopped talking and just said ...

I cheated on her and she won't take me back because she's been hurt this way before. I can't move on, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5997 days ago

23 November 2007 (M) - Hello, I have a question. I had an eight month relationship with a wonderful, beautiful young lady. I had never felt this way about any girl in my life, and I am sure that I was, and still am, in love with her. However, a little while ago, I cheated ...

Will I trust again?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5996 days ago

23 November 2007 (F) - I have just found out that my finance that I have been with for over 12 years has been cheating on me for about 1 month. I found out when I received the cell phone bill and this odd number was all over the bill. He denied it so then I really ...

How can I ease the negative thoughts?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5998 days ago

23 November 2007 (M) - Hi, this is my 3rd question in a line of questions relating to my relationship, or should i say previous relationship now. My girlfriend broke up with me because my insecurities have pushed her too far away. She is at university and I struggle in a ...

How can I know whether she is having another relationship? She is avoiding me all of a sudden.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5998 days ago

23 November 2007 (M) - Hi I'm having a problem with my relationship. She is a different country girl. we were very happy for months and all of sudden she is trying to avoid me when I'm trying to talk to her. And I don't know whether she is having another relationship. Pls ...

We have a LD relation, I insisted on visiting him but he insisted not to, claiming it was expensive. Is he finding excuses?

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23 November 2007 (F) - I am currently on a long distance relationship, and I am always flying over to his place. I am planning to see him next week; but I was also planning to go the following week (meaning 10 days after); but he told me not to come since he is coming d...

I was a workaholic and my wife left me, I've turned things around now, how can I convince my wife that I've changed?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5997 days ago

23 November 2007 (M) - My wife of 9 years ask me to leave 9 months ago. She told me that she held on to hope the last couple of years but had finally given up and eventually fell out of love with me. Her reason are that I was disconnected from our family and was not ...

Why can't he invite me too when he goes out with his friends? Am I being unfair?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5997 days ago

22 November 2007 (F) - hiy, i have been with my boyfriend for 1 year now and he has started going out with his friends in the evening once in a while, it annoys me because i dont ever go out with any friends of mine, and he didnt go out for the first 7-8 months .. it bot...

I'm turning into a distrustful, pscho-girlfriend... how can I stop?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5999 days ago

22 November 2007 (F) - Hello - first time using this site, and am hoping for some good advice please :-) My boyfriend and I have been going out for 1 and a half years and bought a flat together about 9 months ago as we were so happy together. However, we have recently...

He lied about how many sexual partners he had. Why?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5975 days ago

22 November 2007 (F) - Hi - advise needed. Well by boyfriend told me 3 yrs ago that he had only ever slept with 1 other person (his ex of 1 yr) before we started dating, now hes telling me he slept with 6 other woman before me!!! Im confused about how i now feel. I nev...

Suspected: The Cheated Becomes The Cheater...?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5997 days ago

22 November 2007 (M) - Hi All, I appreciate all the comments on my original post about the break up (http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-get-loads-of-attention-from-other-girls.html). Yesterday evening I found out she’s been seeing someone else for the last month ...

My boyfriend has sent intimate photos of us to his ex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5999 days ago

22 November 2007 (F) - my boyfriend took some pictures of us in an intimate pose with my consent. However he recently sent these to his ex girlfriend I have confronted him about this and he is very sorry and says he has never done anything like this before and will never ...

I had never cheated before in my life and now that it's happened it must surely mean the END of my marriage? Is there any hope now that I've done this, which he does not know?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5999 days ago

22 November 2007 (F) - Hi all, does it count as cheating say if : you are married, your husband walks out with no real reason for 2 months, you go back when he asks you, but find it hard to deal with. You leave him for 3 weeks and you are intimate with another man. You ...