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Archived questions from: January, 2012 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

My wife had no problem seeing my best friend naked! The casual way she acted around him, suggesting that MY underwear would look good on him, makes me very uncomfortable

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4467 days ago

31 January 2012 (M) - I don't think there is a problem, but my wife's behavior toward my best friend seems a little weird and it bothers me. My best friend and I are close. Since I married my wife she has also become 'TXX's friend. We are all very close, and go out toge...

Great love life but sneaky boyfriend. What do you think?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4464 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - My bf and I have been together for 9 yrs. We are both late 20's and he is good to me and loves me. However I say he is "sneaky" because pretty much every 3-4 months like clockwork I will discover something that makes me really question my ...

Had a row, he went to ex's flat, stayed the night, do I believe that nothing happened?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4466 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - Had a row with my boyfriend he went to the ex flat stayed the night says nothing happened should i believe him ? ...

Were we ever really friends?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4468 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have a question about a long time friend (18 years) with whom I ended the relationship / friendship with because he deliberately concealed his marriage from me. Basically, I'm wondering why someone with whom I've been frie...

My boyfriend says he is still in love with his ex

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4468 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - Hi I have been with my boyfriend 1 year in march we were talking last night and he mentioned his ex which he does quite often so I asked him if he was still in love with her and he said yes he is now I'm so confused but my question is will he be ...

Is it cultural or personality? Why is he so shy around me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4468 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - In my class, there is one international guy from China that acts a bit strange around me. After we teamed up in a mini project, he and I started talking more and discovered we have similar interests. However, when ever I talk to him he laughs a...

How can I relax and not sabotage this potentially wonderful relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4468 days ago

31 January 2012 (M) - Hi everyone. A quick question, I am in a relationship with a stunning gregarious woman. We're to married in August and have talked about having a child together. However, I live daily in fear that things will turn sour. I try not to look for reasons ...

He's 50, fit, separated and I want it to work. BUT? Can this relationship work better? How?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4460 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - This is long, so thank you to whoever is reading this… I’ve been in a relationship with a truly wonderful man for just over 3 years. I am now 26 and he is 50. Fortunately he has aged well and he keeps fit. I met him when he supposedly was separa...

And encounter with my ex Fiance. And got on well. How should I play this, and what should my next step be?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4468 days ago

31 January 2012 (M) - weirdest thing happened to me today, i got a text message from my ex-fiance and she said i emailed her from an old email account i do not use anymore. she said she is texting me because she doesn't want her work computer to get a virus... i said...

We have two children together. He's my fiance. Should I forgive him for kissing my younger sister?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4468 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - so my younger sister confessed to me that my fiance kissed her!! she seemed pretty upset and she didn't know how to tell me she said she pushed him away and told him that was wrong and was freaking out. he told me he didn't know what he was th...

How can I learn to more secure and trusting?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4468 days ago

31 January 2012 (M) - I've posted questions here many times for help with my relationship and past... I've had some problems with my current girlfriend, and we recently took a break. I've always been suspicious of her, have issues with trust, but I realize now that I...

His codependency is slowly killing me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4468 days ago

31 January 2012 (F) - I'm in a relationship I don't see any future in and honestly I don't want to be in the relationship at all anymore. I'm 21 years old and I've been dating my boyfriend for 6 years come this April. The saddest part is I have told my boyfriend this ...

Eight months pregnant with twins, but should I break up or make up?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4467 days ago

30 January 2012 (F) - I am eighteen years old and i am eight months pregnant with twins . Idk what to do but first I'll give you the background: My bf is 19 years old and his ex gf lets called her C cheated on him numerous time , she got people to kidnapped him etc and ...

I'm tired of always being the second place girl, the rebound!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4468 days ago

30 January 2012 (F) - Hi. I'm 18yrs old and I fell for a man who is 30 yrs old. He is dating his girlfriend for 6 yrs, and i was told he broke up with her two months before he started seeing me. but then i found out, he lied to me and her and everyone he knew about the ...

Is he sincere about being okay with 'friends without benefits'?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4463 days ago

30 January 2012 (F) - This guy said he wanted to be fwb, but when i told him that i'm not comfortable with that, he said he is ok with being just friends (without the benefits). Do you think he's just pretending that he's ok with that though, and that he'll still ke...

My husband accused me of cheating and won't allow me to leave the house

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4469 days ago

30 January 2012 (F) - i am deeply in love with my husband but he doesn't trust me. he treat me like a cheat and calls me a liar. i can't even go and visit my mum for just a few minutes. i am in my mum's house now, he will send call back or call me to come home. i don'...

Urgent! I snooped through my boyfriend's phone and now his mother says I have to tell him right away

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 4336 days ago

30 January 2012 (F) - Hello, I really need some advice/help fast my as boyfriends mom tells me Im running out of time..JOY! Ok heres what happenned, I live with my boyfriend and his mom for the last 6months. We've had our ups and downs..Im having some stuggles due to f...

My boyfriend's fickle-mindedness is really bothering me!

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30 January 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I lived together for 1 year after we met and have had a LDR for the past year because of his job. He can't seem to decide on a plan for the future so we can work towards it and it is getting really frustrating and hard for me to ta...

I want my ex to take me back again!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4467 days ago

30 January 2012 (M) - So I dated this girl for 4 months and I was really in love with her, we went back and forth a few times, we had our problems, we got into fights, i would get really jealous about other guys and her (turned out i had nothing to worry about atleast on ...

Should I tell my boyfriend about my past?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4469 days ago

30 January 2012 (F) - I am 17, was sexually abused by my last boyfriend, and am in a new relationship. I am hoping that it isnt a huge surprise that the last relationship still affects me, mainly in bad ways. recently i have been having more nightmares, some involving ...

Am I Bi or a Sicko? :(

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4468 days ago

30 January 2012 (M) - Hello guy's my name is Dan and i am 20 years old please don't judge. I have been very worried recently over the type of porn i used to watch as a teen 13 - 19(not sure when i actually started) I used to watch normal hetrosexual porn (not for lo...

How to keep it in the family!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4469 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - i am in love with my dads cousin he is married n has kids but still loves me more thn anhything he recently proposed to me n i really wnt to marry him but if my family found out then it would be disaster his family is not a problem. how should i...

Are people that have been in relationships with an alcoholic in the past afraid of commitment and trust ?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4470 days ago

29 January 2012 (M) - Ok I have a question , I was dating this woman for 6 months and things were going really well and we took our time in the relationship , she had basically told me about her past life , it wasn't the best , at 16 she was sexually assaulted , at ...

B/f says I'm controlling? Am I? He's lied and I have trust issues!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4470 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - My guy and I have been dating about 8 months and the last couple have been a bit intense with disagreements. I'm 38 and hes 45. We both have been married before and its just some things at his age I think he should know by now. If I don'...

What's your opinion of guys who flirt with their ex, while the guy is still IN a relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4469 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - I just wanted everyone's opinion on this. I ask because my ex still flirts with me even though he's got a girlfriend. He's even said to me once how do I know if he ain't lying about being in a relationship, and that I should pretend that he's still ...

I like a much younger guy, and now he is flirting with me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4469 days ago

29 January 2012 (?) - I need advice on something. I told one of my friends that I liked a guy in our college class. The thing is that I'm 23 and he is 17...I told her I was embarrassed about it and that I couldn't help how I felt. I had to tell someone so I chose he...

My wife says I play games too much!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4470 days ago

29 January 2012 (M) - Okay my wife says i play my game too much that we don't have time for each other anymore. Okay i work all night pretty much i work 4 Nights a week and then on Sunday i go to work and open. We have a 15mth old daughter together so those two days that ...

I just get turned off by his double checking the condom

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4469 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - Hi everyone, I didnt know who else to bring this up with so thought i'd see what other people on here think... Basically my partner and I are in a very loving relationship. We both want children and plan to start trying in ...

Should I try and work this out or just move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4469 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - hello good people. this is my situation. ive been dating a guy for 8 months now. he's in the army and got deployed a month after we started dating. Our relationship had such strong chemistry that i decided to wait on him till h comes bak in june. ...

My love for him is so strong, but he just plays with my emotions

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4470 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - i have a boyfriend of 1 year and 8 months, we are long distance(live 5 hours/230 miles apart) and we met 6 months before we got together through a friend i went to see for a week, i was with someone else at the time, but that didn't stop me doing ...

Maybe I should just end the relationship!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4463 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - Hello, I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 21. We have been doing a sort of open relationship for about the last 5 months. He has only been with one other girl and it was just a mindless hookup, dont care. In our particular arrangement, I told him I really ...

My past relationships are coloring the future!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4468 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - Hey guys! I need some advice, I'm having a hard time letting go, trusting people, and or finding myself to like anyone in a way that others like me. I have had quite a few relationships but not as much as I have with people I have "went out" with, ...

He said it was a joke but it's still on my mind

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4469 days ago

29 January 2012 (M) - Please help me I'm struggling. So to make this short. I'm gay and I'm 18 I have a boyfriend who's 19 we have four months together. Do now about my issue. I went on my boyfriend Facebook without permission I loged on with his password and checked his ...

He's my ex and he still checks me out all the time. Why does he do this still? His Gf hates me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4470 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - My ex and I share a lot of history, we were best friends for a year and liked each other for a lot, a year after we hugged for the first time and hung out as well with friends. Few months later we had our first kiss and first sex and it was very pas...

Is it tacky to ask about STDs?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4470 days ago

29 January 2012 (M) - I myself am currently a virgin and my girlfriend is not. She told me she has had some unprotected sex. She really really wants to have sex with me, we just started dating, however, we have known each other for quite some time and actually dated 4 ...

We hooked up twice and now he ignores me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4470 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - hey there, so i have a slight problem, i have this friend we use to date back in the day but it didnt work out for a few reasons, but recently we have partied with each other a couple times we hooked up twice, he does have a girlfriend and i feel h...

On top of all our problems sex is not happening either!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4470 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - My husband was in an accident 25 years ago prior to our marriage that left him paralyzed. He has a full time job and has lived indepentantly. We met 3 years ago on the internet. I lived in the USA and he lived in Australia. He came to visit me in ...

One boy wants sex the other puts me in the friend - zone

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4471 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - MOD NOTE: TWO QUESTIONS FROM SAME ASKER COMBINED Question ONE: Okay, so I’ll be honest, I am desperate for advice because this is really my only way to get help. I’ve talked to my friends about it and they all are close-minded about it so I decided ...

I feel knackered and old!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4451 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - I'm in a very dark place. I feel immense loneliness, empty feelings no matter who I'm with. I'm threatened by evrything. Mainly people preferring other people to me cause my personality is shit even though pple reassure that its not I feel it deep ...

He wants sex, I want more, but I am too lonely to just walk!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4470 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - Hi, I met this asian guy...we were going out...dinner, dancing, movies..etc...he is younger almost 10 years...I realized..too late he only wants sex. Thats all. And I want more company...friendship. I told him we are looking for different things a...

He just can't shut up about his ex!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4470 days ago

29 January 2012 (F) - my boyfriend and i has been together for 10 months now but i dont think he's over his ex. we got together after 2 weeks of them breaking up, they were going out for almost 1 year and a half. after they broke up, she had a new boyfriend just 2 weeks ...

My ex seems like a new man. Is he interested in me again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4470 days ago

28 January 2012 (F) - I don't know what to do. My ex and I from two years ago have become closer recently we have been talking more face to face and we have also started bbming each other a bit. A few months after we broke up i had got completely over him and we thoug...

Why is my sister in law and friend is backstabbing and acting up to me as if I've wronged her

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4470 days ago

28 January 2012 (F) - ModNote: two almost identical questions combined. She (P) was my friend before i even met her brother, my now boyfriend. I also have a mutual girlfriend with P called (E) When i started dating her brother she would back stab me and stuff, sayin...

My red hair gave me nothing but the blues

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4452 days ago

28 January 2012 (?) - I was bullied quite badly at school for having red hair. That was 7 years ago, i'm 24 now and look completely different, but i still feel like i'm the same person i was back then. If somebody compliments me, especially a guy, i just won't believe ...

This 'happily married man' seems too eager to perform handy man favours for my girlfriend

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4471 days ago

28 January 2012 (M) - Prior to meeting my girlfriend a year and a half ago, she met this supposedly “happily married” man at a church social function. According to my girlfriend, he apparently calls her from time-to-time to say “hi,” and will always inquire about any ...

My husband has joined an online dating site

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4467 days ago

28 January 2012 (F) - My husband has joined a sex dating site. Should I be worried. Or is it harmless fun?? ...

Has my husband's love for me faded?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4471 days ago

28 January 2012 (F) - hi guys. my husband has been leaving on his own outside the country. recently i joined him there. but he doesnt seem happy to be with me. apparently its an isolated place with mostly men there. he has become so harsh with me. always finding fault ...

I still can't be intimate with my wife despite forgiving her infidelities

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4462 days ago

28 January 2012 (M) - My wife and i have been married going on 4 years. In our first year married she cheated on me with my ex best friend. Well i found out later by her best friend and for a while My wife denied it then she finally broke down and told me. Well I forgave ...

I am almost certain my husband is using escort services!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4468 days ago

28 January 2012 (F) - Hi Everyone, I also am pretty certain that my husband for the 25 years is using escort services. My husband is self employed ,he not a nine until 5 man. There are alot of unexplained afternoon mobile numbers on his bill, when he dails these nu...

I feel I've made some awesome progress in the week we have been broken up!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4471 days ago

28 January 2012 (M) - My girlfriend broke up with me saying we need to see other people because we started dating when we were 14. I am 22 now, thats 8 years and we are eachothers first relationship. but i know it has more to do with the fact i was very very immature she ...