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Archived questions from: May, 2015 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

How will my husband ever forgive me for being unfaithful?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3251 days ago

31 May 2015 (F) - Hi aunts and uncles. I have been married for four years and have two children with my husband. I absoloutly adore him. However, at a hen party two years ago, in a moment of madness, i kissed another man. It wasnt a proper kiss, as there were no ...

How to prove that he is not cheating while its 99% he is

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3252 days ago

31 May 2015 (M) - Hey there I met a guy online through a gay dating app 3 months ago, I am 30 and he is 20 years Things were fine , I liked him from the first beginning and I couldn't get enough from him ! he said and acted the same ! I had trust issues with hi...

What am I doing wrong? I am homeless, pregnant and I think the other women in the shelter do not like me

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3251 days ago

31 May 2015 (F) - Am a new immigrant. Came to live in the u.s with my sister 3 months ago but she kicked me out onto the street after facing the realities of a pregnant woman..i.e throwing up and bring generally slow and demotivated. She knew I was pregnant bef...

Do men want kids as much as women? Can men have a strong desire for children?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3252 days ago

30 May 2015 (F) - Is a man's desire to have kids as strong as a woman' s? Obviously this requires a bit of generalisation - there are plenty of women that don't want kids, and plenty of men that do - but are men generally a bit more ambivalent towards kids?...

I do trust him, but I am uncomfortable with it. Am I in the wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3251 days ago

30 May 2015 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and a half. We have a great relationship. We communicate openly and generally its a very loving and honest relationship. He's visiting his family in the US. We both live in another country but ...

Can you think of examples where a woman initiated a relationship? I need some examples to demolish my long held view that this never happens.

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 3251 days ago

30 May 2015 (M) - Because it seems, to me, that all boyfriend and girlfriend relationships are still initiated by the guy, where the man approaches the woman first, talks to her first and asked her out first, initiated everything or almost everything in the ...

How can I stop obsessing about what I did 18 months ago?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3252 days ago

30 May 2015 (F) - Hi everyone, I would like some advice. I have a bit of a rumination problem, and have been a big over thinker since being a child. I am torn apart at the minute over guilt I am carrying from an incident that happened a year and a half ago. My par...

He's a drama queen and blows everything out of proportion. But how can I give him support?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3253 days ago

30 May 2015 (F) - So I've been in a relationship with my bf for almost 3 years. I have known him for almost 10. when we first got together, it was the beginning, that joy, we couldn't be stopped. Fast forward to now and I feel like I am going crazy. Needless t...

Why are women turned off by inexperienced men?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3251 days ago

30 May 2015 (M) - Why does inexperience turn women off ? Why is it that if a guy never had a girlfriend before, he is a turn off to the vast majority of girls that are non-virgins and have had their share of boyfriends or just been in a relationship before, and sadly ...

My partner has become snappy and a little controlling. But what to do about my growing feelings for my boss?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3253 days ago

30 May 2015 (F) - please bare with me with this question as it has been bugging me for a long time now and I'm at my wits end with it. Basically, four years ago I met my partner and I thought he was amazing to begin with. We became engaged in April of last...

He refuses to commit. what needs to change to make this relationship work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3253 days ago

30 May 2015 (F) - I’ve been seeing a guy for around 7 months. We get on really well and we really like each other, but he refuses to commit. Things have been rocky from the start. When we first met he was still kind of involved with someone else. Even though sh...

Why is this happening? Anything I've said has sparked an argument this week.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3253 days ago

30 May 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been arguing since Monday and its now Saturday. I booked a week off from work to redecorate my room back home where I'll be moving back to in September. Early Monday when it came to me getting ready to leave, my boyfri...

He says he's been vaccinated for hepatitis B as his father has hepatitis B. Are my fears justified that I could catch it too, in this situation?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3248 days ago

30 May 2015 (F) - I've recently started seeing a man. We get along very well and I do hope to continue into something more serious with him. However when we were talking about our families he mentioned in passing his dad has hepatitis b and a weak liver. He said he ...

Is there any chance we could end up with a deeper relationship? Am I fool thinking I can wait for her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3253 days ago

30 May 2015 (M) - Figure I might just see if any old souls can offer wisdom. Almost a year ago now, I met a girl in an interesting state of mind, who recently broke up with her boyfriend. We work together at a late night restaurant which I rent an apartment above,...

He has blocked me and is ignoring me now. So how do I get back the money he owes me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3253 days ago

30 May 2015 (F) - Dear Cupid I am having on and off relationship with my best friend. We are very close year back, for last 1 year its all going downhill. He is avoiding me, not picking up my calls, telling me lies all the time He blocked me in phone, everywher...

Will he really choose love over religion?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3253 days ago

30 May 2015 (F) - I really need some advice. Its tearing me apart. I am a 20 year old non religious female student living in the UK, my current partner is a 19 year old male Muslim student living in the same city as myself. We are head over heals in love with each ...

Should I message him? Did I put him off by being a bit aloof in my response to his slightly gushing message?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3242 days ago

30 May 2015 (F) - Hello I met a man through mutual friends and he contacted me via Facebook to ask me to join him at an event. I said yes and we then spent the week before the event messaging each other every day - I suppose getting to know each other. He is ...

Should I let go now or forgive him since we weren't officially dating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3252 days ago

29 May 2015 (F) - Should I let go now or forgive him since we weren't officially dating? ok so I need some advice , so me and this guy have been talking for about eight months now but we are not officially together he and I both decided that until I moved then we ...

I'm not planning on giving up on her.So advice please on how to get closer to her, please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3253 days ago

29 May 2015 (M) - Close friends in high school for 3 years I occassionally asked her to movies via whatsapp, she said yes but with friends and that she may had a family trip. I stupidly sent her that i want es a one on one date. She replied: ooh, i thought it would...

My boyfriend is tiring me out by following a routine that does not suit a young mother. What can I do to get him to realise this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3253 days ago

29 May 2015 (F) - Hi everyone my problem is my boyfriend we have been together for nearly 3 year we have a 5 month old son together. He goes to work, finishes at 4 comes to mine at 6 for tea, goes home, and comes back when our son is asleep. By then I'm tired and go...

What could be the reason I am so consistently declined for jobs I apply for?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3250 days ago

29 May 2015 (?) - Hi there I started to feel sad and upset with my situation. I have a degree in event management and also worked for 2 years for a well known company with good money too. Since I had the baby I left the job because I was commuting long distance. ...

How do I win him back and feel better? My Mom and My Aunt don't like him

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3252 days ago

29 May 2015 (F) - I fell for this guy; I'm 23 and he's nearly 30. He seems to like me and he's also sexually attracted to me. However, I haven't been able to date him as I was trying to finish off my degree at the time. This is still an on-going problem as I'm s...

Is our relationship over? What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3254 days ago

29 May 2015 (F) - I have been married for 15 years and with my hubby for 20years but he just doesn't do anything in our relationship anymore. we don't have sex unless it is a quick handjob (sorry for been rude) he doesn't take me anywhere he doesn't spend time wit...

Why do I continue to have drama in my life with friends? How can I be better, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3253 days ago

29 May 2015 (F) - I continue to have drama in my life with friends. No matter what I do, drama follows. Nothing seems to work. I still end up losing friends. I partly think it's because I expect so much from them. Whenever I have a friend, I expect them to treat me...

Is she rejecting me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3254 days ago

29 May 2015 (M) - Very close friends in high school. We went on our first date, went pretty well. Pretty standart one After that, she didn't change the way she acts towards me in school. Asked for a second date. She couldn't. Asked for the following week. S...

Big decisions. Do I stay in my comfort zone? Or should I take a chance with this job offer, despite my Bf's objections?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3254 days ago

28 May 2015 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for seven years now (lived together for five years with his grandparents). I've been on a temporary contract with work for the past year, but I've just been offered a full time permanent position at a new company ...

The Art of Arguing. What helps you to resolve issues in your relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3118 days ago

28 May 2015 (F) - There's a song by Ne-Yo that absolutely cracks me up now whenever I hear it. "When You're Mad" talks about how sexy it is when your partner gets angry and more than implies the joys and benefits of make-up sex! Deep within my nature, I do hav...

How do I get past this betrayal so that we emerge stronger as a couple?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3254 days ago

28 May 2015 (F) - Hi all My boyfriend of 5 years was addicted to porn and because he was desensitized to average porn he signed up to ^^^ buddy websites for a different kind of thrill (real women) He didn't contact anyone on these sites or even fill in his ...

I just want my own identity. What needs to change in our marriage?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3253 days ago

28 May 2015 (F) - My husband and I have been having so many problems lately. Financially, sexually, and emotionally and I really don't know what to do. We've have 3 kids and I'm a stay at home mom. Whenever I'm upset, I like to vent to him so I don't explode ...

Is my BF jealous of this other guy who is also a dance instructor?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3255 days ago

28 May 2015 (F) - MY BF is a dance instructor. I used to dance in his class as a student. Now this other dance teacher took over his class who is male. My BF puts this guy down at every turn in front of me. Not sure why. Says the guy thinks he's all that but he ...

Am I right in thinking that maybe he doesn't have time for a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3254 days ago

27 May 2015 (F) - I'm a 26 year old woman in a relationship with a 30 year old man, who I've been with for almost a year. We are kinda long distance, we live two hours away from each other so only get to meet once, maybe twice a week. I was happy with this at first ...

Man 1 fathered my son aged 2. Man 2 fathered my unborn child. Just broke up with Man 2. Should I accept offer from Man 2 to still see my 2 year old son?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3256 days ago

27 May 2015 (F) - So trying to cut it short. Pregnant with second child different man to first and first childs dad is not around. Been friends with this man 2 years together for 10 months .. My son is 2 and they get on well however since getting pregnant (un...

Not sure how she feels. But should I try to do some extra nice things for this customer, who I really like, for when she gets back from trip to Japan?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3256 days ago

27 May 2015 (M) - so this girl was a regular customer at my store, and we had so much in common. (How many girls love giant monster and horror movies lol) We started hanging out, nothing serious at all. We would watch cartoons together over Skype and text all the ...

He said he can't love me because of my past, but I still love him!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3255 days ago

26 May 2015 (F) - i am unable to get over my ex. we started dating four months ago and it was perfect.by the end of the first week itself i told him about my past, that i had lost my virginity to my ex. all he asked me was, if it was a one time mistake or more than ...

I met a man online, it started out great, then went south. Advice please!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3257 days ago

26 May 2015 (F) - I met this guy online (long distance) about a month ago. We clicked instantly and have been in contact everyday. We're friends on social media, talk on the phone every other day, text on and off all day and have this thing where we text each other ...

My boyfriend had time to shoot some golf balls but no time to see me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3257 days ago

26 May 2015 (F) - I am very upset at my boyfriend of 2 years. I am hoping you can tell me if you think I am justified or being unreasonable. He thinks I am being unreasonable. We see each other certain days every week due to different schedules. On one...

Do we have a chance of making this relationship work?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3257 days ago

25 May 2015 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for 9 months now. We are both introverts and both don't find it easy opening up to other people. A few days ago, we woke up one morning and unexpectedly from nowhere he said he wanted to talk about our rela...

Should I take time off to be with my mother, before she passes, or take time off after to help my family adjust?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3248 days ago

25 May 2015 (M) - I'm in a state of confliction currently. My mom is currently on her final days. It sucks, and my head is all over the place. I'm struggling to come to terms with myself and how I am reacting to all of this. I know it sucks. I hate this. It's not ...

I'm worried if we apart that my boyfriend will cheat like he has in the past

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3256 days ago

24 May 2015 (F) - I'm in a relationship which has survived, well kind of survived my boyfriend sleeping with another women, but now he is about to go work aboard for 3 months over summer, I don't know if I trust him enough to keep our relationship going. We met when...

What was my G/f (who I'm in a Long Distance Relationship with) doing at 4:00 AM and why is she evading my question?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3258 days ago

24 May 2015 (M) - Hi there, I'm not sure how these things work so I'm just going to post the situation and hope for a response. My girlfriend attends the University in Liverpool and I'm home in Coventry, it's been like this for about a year now and the long distance...

Should I stay away from where he works?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3256 days ago

24 May 2015 (F) - I was seeing this guy back in February. He owned a bar where I worked which we went into on weekend for drinks. My friends told me he liked me but I didn't really pay him too much attention. On New Years Eve, my friend and I went to his bar and ...

Despite all these set backs, and my feeling that I just can't win: how do I recover from all this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3258 days ago

24 May 2015 (M) - This has been the most frustrating time of my life. To start the year off I decided I would get back with my ex girlfriend. Who had gotten married for money so this guy could get a green card. Yeah there was no money lol. But I had been in a rela...

Seven days later, is there a reason he hasn't asked me for another date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3259 days ago

24 May 2015 (F) - So I went on a date with a guy about a week ago. He picked me up, and we went out for a few drinks and came home relatively early because he had work the next day and had already been at a dinner. When we were both in the car together, we kept ...

How do I keep my friend safe? why was I agressive?...and why didn't he stop me,or get upset?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3259 days ago

24 May 2015 (F) - Hi I’m a bit worried, I had just gotten yelled at rather bad by my family I went to be all snuggly with a good friend and yea was crying and quite a bit upset...and I did this terrible thing. Like I hardly knew but I asked if I could be not nice ...

What are my options, because I feel trapped? He shouts and becomes abusive. I want to pack my bags and go with our child.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3257 days ago

24 May 2015 (F) - I've been with my husband for almost 11 years, married for 5. We have a little boy who is 2 and a half. I'm really stuck as to whether I should leave my husband. I haven't been in love with him for a while. However we are good friends and bein...

Feeling hurt and confused. We are not official. Yet why tell me had a date? was it said to get a reaction?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3252 days ago

24 May 2015 (F) - Dear Aunts, There is a guy that I have been seeing. Its not official or anything. We kiss, go out, go to each other homes etc. He has always described me as his part time woman which i feel like for the time but I want to take it to the next leve...

My Bf is depressed. How can I help him and help our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3258 days ago

24 May 2015 (F) - My boyfriend is depressed. We have had an amazing relationship, no arguments and lots of fun. We have been together for 7 months but on month 3 we switched into a long distance relationship and it was really good until April when he started ...

Feel betrayed, hurt, and extremely upset about her lies on her friendship/relationship with T. What should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3257 days ago

24 May 2015 (M) - My wife and I have been married for a little over two years, and have been together for nearly 6 years. About 7 months after we started dating I met her friend, (a guy called T), who she said was her best friend. At first I was a little put off,...

Should I cancel the trip or not?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3249 days ago

23 May 2015 (F) - I met with this guy at work and we started to date almost for a month and i have not slept with him until last week. We both work at the airlines so taking advantage of free flight benefits his vacation started and after we slept, he asked me out of ...

It is upsetting to know I have been used by him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3260 days ago

23 May 2015 (F) - How do I get over a break-up. I've been seeing this man for over a year and he was my world. I loved him and I did anything I could for him. We talked everyday non-stop and I thought he felt the same. He has now moved away due to work so we have ...