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Archived questions from: May, 2007 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

I received an annonymous email from somebody saying that my boyfriend was cheating on me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6175 days ago

31 May 2007 (F) - I received an annonymous email from somebody saying that my boyfriend was cheating on me. I asked him about it but he said that he didn't. He always hangs out with his best friend who is a girl. She borrows his boxers, goes to the movies with him ...

We broke up and now I find it very difficult to trust men.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6175 days ago

31 May 2007 (F) - My ex boyfriend was really popular with girls and when I was with him people were always telling me that he was cheating on me. I used to get really upset about it, cry about it and was really disbelieving of them. But then when I broke up with him ...

I have never cheated on my boyfriend of 4 years but he's got it into his head I have and it's driving me mad!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6150 days ago

31 May 2007 (F) - I have been going out with my partner for over 4 yrs now. But i am at the point now of deciding whether or not to end it. There is a considerable age gap between us and perhaps this plays its part in the problems. My partner does not trust me nor...

My girlfriend gave her ex blow jobs, why am I finding it hard to deal with this?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 1782 days ago

31 May 2007 (M) - My girlfriend gave her ex blow jobs, why am I finding it hard to deal with this? Sometimes when i kiss her i think yuck, Thats only happened twice in the 2years we've been together. Just knowing that she gave an ex partner a blow job is disgustin...

I have a gut feeling my husband may be cheating on me...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6084 days ago

31 May 2007 (F) - i need some advice i normally wouldnt do this but i have no idea what to think!i think my husband is sending me lil signals that hes cheating on me or that he has cheated on me. Well lets see hes in iraq and he use to call me like all the time and ...

He broke it off but we still have sex! It's raising my hopes, so how do I stop since we live together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6175 days ago

31 May 2007 (M) - My partner and I have been together for a long time. For the last 3 months tho, we have been living in different states, with plans for me to move in with him when I had found a job, the week before I was due to move down, he broke it off... This ...

I want to tell him the truth that I lied but I don't know if it'll make the situation better or worse. HELP!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6094 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - Hi...Me and my boyfriend have been together for a year and a half and we just had a son together. The problem is that we live 20 mins from each other and I barely ever see him and when we have plans to see each other it's very rare he'll come over. ...

She's had threesomes, a lot of past sex partners, and told me I can show our home made porn clip to anyone! What's her problem?

This question has 28 answers - newest was posted 5073 days ago

30 May 2007 (M) - I've been dating this girl for six months now and have a few doubts about her. I am just being old fashioned and silly? She's 25 and I am 30. Here's why: 20 or so sexual partners in 9 years. Can’t give an exact figure. Didn’t always go all th...

We're both just out of relationships that ended badly. Do I get involved in this one?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6176 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - I've just recently met a really nice guy but not sure whether I should get involved. He came out of a long term relationship just 3 months ago, things turned nasty with his ex, they have a small child together and he tells me he's not completely ...

How can I find out if my girlfriend loves me in the same way as I love her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6176 days ago

30 May 2007 (M) - i am going out with a girl and i really love her but i dont think she loves me the same way, how could i find out if she loves me the same?...

Why did my boyfriend ask me if I had f***ed him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6176 days ago

30 May 2007 (F) - OK...I'm a bit confused at the moment. Today, just a little bit ago, my boyfriend was making a comment about a guy's truck and I noticed that I knew him, so I stated that I thought I knew that guy. He then asked me if I f***ed him....I personally ...

I got dumped because she found out a mate had a crush on me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6033 days ago

30 May 2007 (M) - i was going out with this gal, and a mate had a crush on me and told me, somehow my galfrend found out, and ditched me, which hurt alot. the mate that had the crush on me is going out with another guy, but asked if i would ever consider getting ...

I'm incredibly paranoid towards my girlfriend!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6172 days ago

30 May 2007 (M) - Dear People, I'm 22 and my girlfriend is 23. We've been together for about 6 months now and we both love each other. Over the past 6 weeks she has been at trainng for her work which means she spends 5 days staying at her training camp an...

Do I have the right to be upset about her being so close to her work colleague?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6177 days ago

29 May 2007 (M) - Ive dated a girl for 3 yrs. Ive caught her in lies. At functions or a few parties she used to ignore me and talk to others, that was in the beginning. My big question, she went on a college recruiting trip for a company, when she flew up to meet ...

What is she really saying? Do I just walk way and let it go?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6177 days ago

29 May 2007 (M) - Hi, Okay, help please. I just broke up w/ my gf of 5 years. She and I had a talk the other night, and she told me she still loves me, but because of earlier times, she doesn't trust me. I haven't cheated, but when we met, i was with someone els...

We're on a break as my girlfriend has said she doesn't trust me and it's driving me mad not seeing her.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6007 days ago

29 May 2007 (M) - I would like some input on this as its very upseting for me and i feel i have no control over the situation. Me and my girlfriend are on a break for 1 month. She feels she cannot trust me because a few weeks ago we had an argument and my ex ...

We had an argument and he stayed out all night, checked his phone- was put on hold and heard her talking about payment for sexual services!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6177 days ago

29 May 2007 (F) - hi all, in a bit of a delenma, wonder could u help me with some advice or opinions. Myself and my boyfriend are 3yrs together, we have 2yr old son. Had terrible row that lasted whole weekend, we are both very head strong people and neither of us ...

Hate his promiscuous past! How do I move on from this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6177 days ago

29 May 2007 (M) - I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months. I find myself having a hard time accepting his permiscuous past. I find it hard to forget somethings he has told me about his past with other guys. Is this normal? Is this a sign that it wont work? How do ...

Is there anything anyone can advise doing to get the spark back into our relationship and make us become closer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6178 days ago

28 May 2007 (F) - ive been dating my boyfrend over a year now, and at first everyhing was fine. we got on well, the sex was great and we always had a laugh. we were so close, with each other all of the time and seemed to trust each other loads. now everything has ...

Why did he tell the person on his phone he was out with his mates when he was in with me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6148 days ago

28 May 2007 (M) - Im gay and have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 7 months. Last night on the phone he told whoever rang him he was out with work mates and not me. He told me it was his mate who was out bowling. Now I'm wondering why he said that and ...

He said it's his work that's stopping him from seeing me so much but now he won't let me come round to his house. What's going on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6178 days ago

28 May 2007 (F) - Dear Cupid, me and my bf have been going out for two years, one year after we started dating he got promoted to the post of manager. since then he's just changed he doesn't come to see me anymore, and he just keeps making excuses ...

I have a hard time confiding in others. When I do-I feel that my trust always being violated.What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6179 days ago

26 May 2007 (F) - I have a bad past and need to talk to someone but I have no one to talk to. My "friends" all have bfs/ gfs and when I try to talk to them alone they just say " I dunno what to say, sorry" then run back to their partners as if we hadn't spoken a...

It bugs me that people say, couples should not look at each other's emails! Isn't that th choice of the couple involved?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6180 days ago

26 May 2007 (F) - You know, it really really bugs me when I see people responding saying it wasn't a gf's or a wife's place to look through her bf's or husband's email or vice-versa. Maybe some people have an understanding and are okay with things like that. I have ...

I really think she is interested in my husband! What's my next move?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6178 days ago

26 May 2007 (F) - I am struggling with this girl, who lives on the same street as we do (my husband and I) and since there jas been a no smoking ban in public bars and restaurants, we hang out at home. I am usually inside but since it has been considerably warm in ...

He stole naked pics of this other guy's wife...off their computer! Is this really creepy or what?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6180 days ago

26 May 2007 (F) - I need advice. My husband and I have always had a strong loving, trusting relationship. We have been married 4 years and we a have a wonderful two year old daughter. We are both highly successful working professionals. We have very close friends ...

I want to stop being gay because it is destroying my life!

This question has 46 answers - newest was posted 4979 days ago

25 May 2007 (M) - Alright i need a lot of help here. I want to try to get over my gay tendencies and stop thinking about guys. Being a gay guy has just destroyed my life, it has completely left me empty inside. I can't find friends like me because to tell you the ...

people seem to judge me because I'm confident. How do I deal with it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6181 days ago

25 May 2007 (M) - I have shaped my personality in to being a person, a part of which people in my family and some members in society have rejected or find it inappropriate for the fear of being criticized, abused, etc. But i am quite confident in the way i am and ...

Worried that if we stay together her many past encouters with Men will hang over us!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6182 days ago

24 May 2007 (M) - Im 20yrs old. I have been going out with this girl for 6 months now and the number of guys she's bin with really bothers me (around 14). She went to a festival and had unprotected anal sex with some random guy in some forest last year...she has had ...

Because I'm very good at sex-he's very insecure and thinks I will stray. How do I reassure him I won't do this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6178 days ago

24 May 2007 (F) - I think my b/f is going through a slight insecure phase because I have a high sex drive (usually want it more often than he does) and he tells me I am great at oral sex (the best he's ever had) and when we go out he thinks I look at other men. I do ...

He says he loves me when he sees me, once a month. Then I don't hear from him! Is he being sincere?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6182 days ago

24 May 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I live in different towns. I see him once a month and when we see each other he always tells me that he loves me, but as soon as he leaves, I don't hear from him for weeks. He won't even return my smses. Do you think he means it ...

How do I stop my fiancees accusations, that I do things intentionally to annoy him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6182 days ago

24 May 2007 (F) - my fiancee thinks that im always up to something or doing something intentional agst him. But that is not true at all. For example, he cannot find the digital camera which I have put somewhere and I dont know where it is myself and am honest with ...

Been seeing her for 4 months but I can't trust her! Will we make it?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6182 days ago

23 May 2007 (M) - I have been seeing this girl for about 4 months now and we both have said we love each other. Problem i have is im not sure i trust her. i know this is MY problem but i know she has slept with a few of my mates in the past.however,she was dating ...

I got drunk and he got very angry with me! I'm hurt and I refuse to call him! Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6183 days ago

23 May 2007 (F) - Ok... I've been dating this guy for 2 months pretty heavily basically we would see each other 2-3 times a week and the rest of the days of the week we would have some kind of text whether call or text. I waited about 7 or 8 dates before I had sex ...

He and this girl mate are taking a holiday together...I trust him but I don't trust her! What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6183 days ago

23 May 2007 (F) - Ok, well I've been cheated on in 2 of my previous 3 relationships and the third told me straight out that it was all a lie and that he never loved me. I have a bf now but he's planning to go on holiday with his best guys mate and best girl mate. I ...

I think hes taken call waiting off his phone and lied about it!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6183 days ago

23 May 2007 (F) - Is this a little weird and suspicious? My b/f and i both have the same cell phone service provider. Regarding call waiting--you know when you call someone and there is a distinctive ring telling you the person is on the phone. Well for a few m...

I'm his first serious relationship, he wants to be with me but wants to date others for a bit!!!!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6180 days ago

23 May 2007 (F) - I have been dating this male who I am very close with and we are both serious. Im 22 and he is 20. He sees me as his soul mate and we are both in love and he cares for me. We have good communication and I trust him. One day he told me that he wants ...

He doesn't want to call us bf-gf anymore after over 2 years! How could he fall out of love with me soooo fast?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6183 days ago

22 May 2007 (F) - I and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 2 1/2 years. In the beginning it was great, we always used to spend time together. He did little romantic things for me, we would talk to each other on the phone hours and hours. We then moved in ...

Seeing my Mother's abuse has caused me trouble in my own relationship! Any advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6183 days ago

22 May 2007 (F) - i have been a very defensive person in my relationship and i think that it has something to do with the fact that my mother was beat by her bloke when i was little its causing me a lot of grief in my relationship does anyone know if there is a way ...

I get jealous for the most stupidest reasons! How do I get over this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6184 days ago

22 May 2007 (F) - Hello, I'm a jealous girlfriend, I get jealous for the most stupid things... I can't help the way I feel but I know if I don't stop this now, I'll ruin my relationship with my boyfriends. I love him and I know he love me too. Things I get je...

He is texting his old gf..does he still have feelings for her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6183 days ago

22 May 2007 (F) - i have been going out with my boyfriend for the last two years and we are getting on great. but i have recently discovered that he is texting his old girlfried on and off. they went out for four years and had a bad break up (she cheated on him), ...

He's treating me the same awful way he treated his ex! Is he cheating on me too?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6183 days ago

22 May 2007 (F) - Before me and my boyfreind were together he would call me every day, txt me goodnite, send me sweet messages, compliment me, talk to me all the time. he has changed a lot since we have been officially together, he hardly ever calls me or does those ...

How do I stop my bf being possessive??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6184 days ago

22 May 2007 (F) - I've been with my bf for 6 months and he has now become really possessive of me. When random guys chat me up he'll freak out on me and tells me that I must be doing something to make these guys chat me up and I must be encouraging them in some way, ...

He says he's depressed b/c of us and thinks about breaking up but doesn't actually want to. Should I just get out now?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6177 days ago

22 May 2007 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for just over a year and a half; we moved in together about 7months ago. Lately we have been going through a rough patch. I know that I have had trust issues due to past experiences and that has been the root of most ...

My untrustworthy alcoholic b-i-l is moving in w/ us! How can we help? How do I not become resentful?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6181 days ago

22 May 2007 (F) - Hello - I've asked about my alcoholic brother in law before, but I have a few new questions now because the situation has changed a bit. (I'm linking my first question at the bottom.) First let me set everything up (names changed, too): I'm 25, my...

My ex best mate and my bf were in the bathroom together - he says nothing happened! Should I believe him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6184 days ago

22 May 2007 (F) - been with bf for 3 yrs but i think he has cheated for the fact that when we first got together we were at a party but he was in toilet supposidly being sick but i couldnt hear him then two weeks later found out my ex best mate was in toilet with him ...

I cheated although not sexually, I'm pregnant with twins, but my bf doesnt think they are his!!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6184 days ago

22 May 2007 (F) - Hi, A few months ago i cheated on my b/f of 2 1/2 yrs. I met a bloke off the internet and spent 3 nites with him. We didnt have any sexual contact as such although we did kiss and we both wanted to but i couldnt go through with it as i realised...

Is full of poo or is it actually possible that he is being the logical and smart one out of the two of us?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6184 days ago

22 May 2007 (F) - ok so i meet this guy through mutaul friends it wasnt planned , and i wasnt looking for anything or even thought anything of him but bam we hit it off like right away he took me home that day and he asked for my number so i gave it to him and 2 days ...

Can I ever learn to trust my husband again after his lies?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6183 days ago

22 May 2007 (F) - Can I ever learn to trust my husband again? I just found out 6 month ago that my husband has to children from a previous marraige. We have been dating for 6 years and have been married for two. Its not that I didn't ask he just flat out lied, an...

Worried by my girlfriends sexual past...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6184 days ago

22 May 2007 (M) - Before my girlfriend I was a virgin, we have been dating for 5 months and its been great fantastic and wonderfull. Currently the main problem in our relationship is how I feel about her sexual past. Personally I have become gradually more i...

I keep thinking that my boyfriend will leave me for someone better. How can I stop thinking like this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6185 days ago

21 May 2007 (F) - this is a question to guys. ive been with my boyfriend for about 4 and a half years now. we live together and have a small baby. this is going to sound stupid but no matter how much he tells me he loves me and cares for me i just dont believe...