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Archived questions from: May, 2011 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

Should I have sex ASAP? Or wait next till forever?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4710 days ago

31 May 2011 (M) - Hello all, I asked a question on here a while ago about a girl that had only a tendency to date "douchebag" guys, and now she's mine 3 yay! But someone incepted (planted an idea in my head, nerd reference) me recently.. Last night me and my girlfr...

I've caught him cheating 4 times but just don't have the courage to dump him for good!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - My boyfriend and i been together, on and off, for 2 years and 3 months now. so recently, i had this feeling that something wasn't right. so i went on his facebook and seen that he blocked our relationship from 21 females. not 1 or 2 but 21. i was so ...

Should I be angry that my boyfriend isn't introducing me to his family?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - so my boyfriend and i have been together for 9 months and he wants to go to his family but he doesnt ask me to go with him because he said he already knows i wouldnt be able to go. he has met people in my family that i have never even met. i think ...

He denies sleeping with her, but she is saying it is true!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - I am four month pregnant with my boyfriends baby, I found Messages on his facebook suggesting he was doing something. I've asked him and he says he hasn't, I have asked her and she tells me that he has been seeing her and that they have had sex more...

I cheated on my long term boyfriend, but I don't feel guilty at all!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - well... i've been in a relationship for almost 5 years, and so far, it's been ok... Lately we've been fighting a lot, mostly beacuse, even though we've been together for a really long time, he doesn't trust me. Sometimes it seems like he's the on...

I believe my long-term girlfriend is having an emotional affair. What is the best way to confront her without losing her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

30 May 2011 (M) - I believe my long-term girlfriend is having an emotional affair. I do not believe it is physical yet based on the evidence I found, but I do know that she is very attracted to this guy. Should I lay all my cards on the table and ask her to...

How do I get over this break up??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - how do i get over this break up?? my boyfriend of 7 months broke up wit me 2 weeks ago and i dont feel like its gettin any easier.. we have been friends for 4 yrs and he was chasin me for them yrs.. i didn give in because i was afraid of gettin h...

Is he just trying to keep in my good books?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - Hey everyone, ive been talking to this guy since september last year and we have never met, we met on the site plenty of fish. Anyway ive always wanted to meet him but hes always busy saying working or hes a big football fan so going to football all ...

Wife in Girl's weekend . Do they have to call their husbands?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

30 May 2011 (M) - My wife spent the weekend with her friends, she just called me on Saturday night for one minute saying that your cellphone was working in the area and she was using her regular cell phone.Sunday she didn't call me at all( she could find a to place ...

He think's I'm older than I really am! Do I tell him or not?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - Hey, okay this has proved to be tricky for me. I met this lad and it all started off as innocent fun, you know, talking, texting etc. Well I have been telling him the truth, except for one wee white lie... I live in Ireland and he lives in England,...

I'm worried my pregnant girlfriend is seeing her ex. Now she's not answering my calls!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

30 May 2011 (M) - Hi to all, I am not sure whether I am at the right place. I have this big problem. Me and my gf of 20 months are expecting a baby this days. We got in 2 arguments lately. She chat with her ex behind my back and she knew that I don't like that at ...

I want to go to this dance, but my mum won't let me. Should I lie about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - I want to go to a teenage disco which my other two best friends have gone to, they said it was class. Its June now and the one for school finishing is on this Friday the 3rd, though my parents wont allow me till the one on halloween and I'm not ...

Six months and still he's delaying making out. Should I continue? Why is he so reluctant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - My boyfriend an I have been going out for 6 months now. We have kissed before, but i really want to make out with him. I have dropped subtle hints and even plain out told him. He says he wants to also, but will not follow through. I keep thin...

How can she love me but still have feelings for someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

29 May 2011 (M) - Here's my dilemma.. I have been with this girl for two years.. We net at our old job. She has been wonderful to me, and we were very much in love, to the point we had a child together who is now 9 months old. Just recently she broke it off with me, ...

What am I supposed to do? Trust my ex or this creepy guy friend of hers?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4711 days ago

29 May 2011 (M) - Everyone has heard the phrase love is not enough. Me personally I find it hard to believe that if someone says they love you and continue to do what they want that is not love. I recently broke up with my girlfriend. Maybe I was a little over zea...

B/f in touch with alot of his exs and hooks ups. He says its nothing but I don't trust him

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

28 May 2011 (F) - Ok, My husband left me when our daughter was just 18 months. He was having an emotional affair from what I gather with a girl he worked with. My problem is now that I'm finding it hard to trust my new boyfriend. We have been together almost 12 ...

Why do other people feel the need to comment on me liking this boy? How do I stop them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

28 May 2011 (F) - ok, so , i'm ''dating'' lol this guy in my school who i talk on fb everyday and he's really cute, really really sweet, who i've got like EVERYTHING in common with. And which i can now admit i really really like , but he's 15...and i'm almost 17 , ...

Husband jumping to conclusions.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

28 May 2011 (F) - I really need you help here.....please be patient with me as this is very confusing to explain.. here a bit of background.. my husband of 7 years constantly brings up my past, he doesn t believe what I have told him is the truth and thinks I have w...

I suspicious that he's cheating again

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4714 days ago

28 May 2011 (F) - I have been dating a guy for awhile now. The relationship started off kind of rocky, as he was an alcoholic. We fought about this for a long time, but he promised that after his birthday he would stop drinking. I didn't completely believe him, but I ...

I don't believe a word he says but I still love him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

28 May 2011 (F) - I need help!!! I have been datin my bf for one year now, 2 months ago i checkd his fone randomly n saw his bbm chats wif some chic n she was talkin about takin pills n being careful n he was saying he ddnt want to be a father, meanin they had sex, ...

I don't want him to know I'm a virgin. How do I fake being Good in Bed and experienced, the first time?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4701 days ago

28 May 2011 (F) - So I really like this guy and he really likes me but he doesnt know I'm a virgin and I'm not planning on telling him. I've told him that I haven't slept with anyone for over a year but have said I have had one sexual partner. There is no way I am ...

People say once a cheater always a cheater, but considering we were on opposite sides of the world, is this different?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

28 May 2011 (F) - hi there Im feeling really insecure.Iv been with my partner for 5 years. He is from Germany I am from America.I met him when he came to university in america. As far as i was concerned our relationship was perfect and I wanted to spend my life wit...

I broke up with her Two weeks ago, so why is she still texting me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4714 days ago

28 May 2011 (M) - I'm not going to explain the whole story, because it's long, but I broke up with my ex two weeks ago. We had been together for almost five years at the time we broke up. We've been through break ups before, but this is the first time I've brok...

I really dislike my boyfriend doing these chats on this site!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

28 May 2011 (F) - Ever heard of a website called blog tv? for those who haven't, its a website where you broadcast yourself live and anyone can come watch and chat to you. Well lately my boyfriend of two years has been doing broadcasts and i thought nothing of it, ...

Does my ex boyfriend's apology mean he still has feelings or is he just feeling guilty?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

28 May 2011 (F) - Well i split up with my boyfriend of 2 years just over 3 months ago. We ended in a pretty bad way leading me to delete him from facebook. He completely cut contact, although i finished him, he drove me to it and all i wanted was answers to why he ...

Do you tell your partner when you get hit on, find someone attractive, or have a crush?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

27 May 2011 (M) - Do you tend to tell your partner when someone has hit on you or find them attractive? Does the situation make a difference? For example, if your coworker is hitting on you versus the girl in line with you at the checkout? My girlfriend ...

After asking me if I had an STD he called me a ho and untrustworthy, but I still really like him. Should I talk to him again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

27 May 2011 (F) - i have always had bad luck with the dating thing, until i went to college i met the guy of my dreams, i wanted him so bad. So one day he hit me up and gave me his number and i was so happy, we started texting daily and hanging out and then we ...

Why is he suddenly so interested in me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

27 May 2011 (F) - I have liked a male friend of mine as more than a friend since the first time I met him. My boyfriend of the time was away with the military for a while last year, and in that time we got close, going out together and he even spent the night, but ...

Should I try making up with him or at this point is he even worth it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4715 days ago

27 May 2011 (F) - I personally think he was always more after my looks than liking me for my personality. When we first started dating things were good! However at times before we were dating he'd act protective and controlling. He'd say he wish I wouldn't post some ...

Lots of men buy my girlfriend gifts with "I love you" inscriptions!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4715 days ago

27 May 2011 (M) - my girlfriend has a lot of male friends they buy her gifts with I love you inscriptions on the gifts and each time i react she ask that i stay away from coming to her place we only meet at church i called her for a break up but she didn't want a ...

Do you think he is using me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4687 days ago

27 May 2011 (F) - Hi I'm a 23 yr old woman iv been with my boyfriend for almost 3months he never calls me unless I ring him,he hardly texts too. Three weeks ago I tried ringin him contiously as he did not pick up my calls and rhe next mornin he dumped me. When I m...

Older male dating a younger one, who was a virgin and is now seeking more.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4712 days ago

27 May 2011 (M) - I am a 38yr old male dating a 20yr old male who was a virgin. We have had sex, though I have not penetrated him. He is still wanting to wait, and I am fine with that. We have been together for 4 months (as of last night)and he has started masturba...

Brokenhearted, please help! Should I give it my all to get her back or give up and move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4713 days ago

27 May 2011 (M) - hello again I had been goin out with a girl recently for nearly a year and absouloutely adored her.Words cannot describe how much i though we would be together,we fought and rowed and made up and at beginning they were huge arguements but t...

Can anyone help me feel less cynical about love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

27 May 2011 (F) - Can anyone help me feel less cynical about love? With all the celebrities in the news who have cheated on their wives, and my own experience of being cheated on by an ex-bf after we'd been together 8 years, I'm wondering if anyone has a relationship ...

I think I'm more into my BF than he is into me. Should I just back off?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4604 days ago

27 May 2011 (F) - I have invested my heart and fallen in love with my boyfriend of five months. He also says he loves me. But I am always anxious. He is a musician and left on tour two weeks ago. He wanted to stay together and he's been calling every day. Troub...

His grandmother has just died. He's sad. Is it too soon to ask my ex to go hang out with me again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4715 days ago

27 May 2011 (?) - what can I do.?.. well my ex boyfriend and I were trying to fix everything out. However, when he talked to my parents everything changed, because he understood that my parents didn't want me near him, so we stopped hanging out(but they don't care i...

After all this time and considering we fell out over something silly, would it be OK to try to reconnect again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4593 days ago

27 May 2011 (F) - Hi, I have just recently heard from one of my friends that my ex best friend misses me, I miss her too but its been 4 years since we last talked.. we fell out over something silly. I don't know how to approach the situation now in case she has a ne...

Should I believe him when he says he loves me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

27 May 2011 (F) - I really believe my boyfriend doesn't love me anymore. We have been together almost three years, have a child together, and I am about two seconds away from walking out the door. We are at our last straw with couseling and because he picked a sex ...

The girl my cousin is dating likes me! What do I do??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

26 May 2011 (F) - Today I found out my cousin's fling likes me and my cousin is really depressed and I want to talk to her about it, but I don't know how. I feel really bad because my girlfriend told me she liked me but I thought she was being paranoid. I also want ...

I want to trust again but don't know how to make that step in life!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4693 days ago

26 May 2011 (F) - I'm not sure if my post went through earlier but here goes. In the past iv been taken for a ride, I alsways fall hard for a guy I like an at the end they either lie cheat or just stay away or just let friends talk thr head over. I'm single for two ...

I want a relationship with a celeb but the past won't allow me to be positive and have trust!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

26 May 2011 (F) - I'm seeing this local celebrity. At first he said that he does not want a relationship because he is too busy but he visits when he has time. With my experience in the past I can never keep a relationship going for long,too many guys has taken me ...

The whole relationship has been me worring that she'll cheat

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

26 May 2011 (M) - okay so there is this type of club thing that me and my girlfriend are going to this friday (tomorrow) and last time she went on her own (when we were both single) she made out with this random guy. i think that when we go this time she may do ...

I really like both these guys. My ex is now ignoring me. I need some clarity please? What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

26 May 2011 (F) - I really like this guy. I will call him Y. And I really like my my ex, who im still in love with. I will call him X So X and i broke up in june last year...8 months later after a different girlfriend, he came back begging for me to take him back tha...

Is she manipulating me? Does she want me back? Should I move on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

26 May 2011 (M) - My ex and I broke up about 3 months ago but decided to stay friends. The first big torpedo for us was me catching her sexting her ex- from long ago and hurting my trust. She begged for forgiveness and for us to stay friends; I caved because I stil...

Could my wife be falling for her attorney?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

26 May 2011 (M) - My wife hired a new attorney in December based on a recommendation from a friend to help her setup a company. The first time she met him she came home and told me how young he looked (even though he's not too much younger than she is) and that he ...

I don't know if we can fix this relationship, she's very stubborn!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

26 May 2011 (?) - hi. Im dating this 1 girl for 5 months now and the first couple of months, she was amazing and loving towards me but i guess after some time she has changed so much, i really dont know what to do. She has been the girl of my dreams. When ev...

I am lazy when it comes to relationships now because I had a bad breakup. Is this normal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

26 May 2011 (M) - I went through a bad breakup because of my infidelity...I made mistakes and ultimately paid for it by losing someone I loved...she started dating a guy immediately after breaking up with me. I had a long recovery period from this and can finally ...

I'm not happy single but I don't trust women!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

26 May 2011 (M) - This isn't really relationship advise i'm seeking, more advice in general. and has spurred from relationships. I was in a relationship for two and a half years. i was absolutely obsessed with her. but now i realise she wasn't good for me, she undo...

Can a woman give herself completely to a new love, despite having had many lovers in her past?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4706 days ago

25 May 2011 (M) - I am 31 years old and dating this girl (27 3rd year surgical residency) which I absolutely love we are both very sexual beings. The problem is that we have different views on sexuality, even though she says that we don't. I have only had one sexual ...

How do I get his ex out of my head before it ruins our relationship??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4716 days ago

25 May 2011 (F) - Hi Cupid, Ive been going with my boyfriend for just over a month now and already we've fallen for each other and we're very happy. However, I'm really struggling to get his ex out of my head! I know im being silly, but I was going through his comp...