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Archived questions from: February, 2008 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

What questions would you all ask to get a solid answer yes or no?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5898 days ago

29 February 2008 (M) - Okay thank you all for answering to my headache and trust me its a headache because I want to love this female, but its not right of her at all but I also have a huge heart. All right here we go the plot thickens and I mean it gets deeper than wha...

Will her male friends stop calling when they hear we are dating??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5898 days ago

29 February 2008 (M) - Hello, I really like this girl Jessica, we have liked each other for about 4years now. But the reason why i didnt date her before was because she was really flirty to everyone and it made me jealous and i didnt see myself trusting her, so i gave u...

How can I make him understand that this is a pointless argument?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

29 February 2008 (F) - I had a fight with my BF. He gets so upset each time the issue is brought up, but he's the one who brings it up so there's no way for me to stop it. Anyway... I had a friend with benefits when I was 15, and years later, he introduced me to...

Is my mother sleeping with my boyfriend?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5871 days ago

29 February 2008 (F) - I’m a little confused. I have been dating this wonderful guy (Greg) for 9 months now. He is 21 I’m 20. I live with my mother and my younger sister ( our father left when we were little – so it’s just us girls). My mother loves my boyfriend to bits ...

Why doesn't he trust me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5899 days ago

29 February 2008 (F) - My boyfriend does not trust me whatsoever, and I havn't done anything to break his trust. Once I had my suspicions of him flirting with another girl on the Internet. However I did not make a big deal about it, because I knew how he felt for me. She ...

We spend less time together and our relationship has become "too convenient," according to her! Is it normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5899 days ago

28 February 2008 (M) - I am 6 months into a fantastic relationship. Started off intense and fast. We were pretty much together 24/7 from day one. (except work)It has cooled off into a normal relationship. She used to constantly show me physically and verbally how much...

We both agree watching porn is cheating and the only issue in the relationship, yet he can't refrain from this habit!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5867 days ago

28 February 2008 (F) - I have been engaged for over a year and, to my dismay, my fiance has been looking at porn every opportunity he gets. He had made countless promises to top but has been sneaking. I have caught him on our computer, as he tried to sneak a way that he ...

Falling out of love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5899 days ago

28 February 2008 (F) - Well since the last question when i talked about the secret my fiance and my godsister shared a lot has happened. I agreed that we would work things out. I told my godsister i needed her to stay away at least for a while. Now I am totally suspicious ...

Is he a serial cheater or should I have faith in us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5899 days ago

28 February 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend now for 8 months. I am really in love with him and he says he is me too. I have never been this happy apart from one thing that is really bothering me. He is 10 years old than me - he's 38. He was once married but only...

How can I get over my issues, and just enjoy the relationship as it is?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5899 days ago

28 February 2008 (F) - The man I'm dating this year doesn't really give a promise of comittment to me but he wants to be together when he has free time. Although i try to accept it and i pretend to him that it doesn't really matter sometimes it's difficult to hide my true ...

She is always getting male calls....is she cheating??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5898 days ago

27 February 2008 (M) - I met a girl of about 19 yrs of age, whenever am with her she receives a lot of male calls telling her to come over their place. Sometimes she will tell them that it is late that she will come the next day. After that she will tell me that the guy ...

She's always flirted and continues to flirt on the web, she says it's harmless, is it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5899 days ago

27 February 2008 (M) - My g/f's 360 page(sorta like myspace)page.Almost all her friends are men.I'm a light skinned man and all these guys are dark skinned.The darker the guy the bigger he is.I'm not small but with all the meds I take I get erectile dysfunction.I can take ...

Why does he need time to think before marriage? Has something changed recently, for him to hesitate?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5900 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - I am engaged currently and we had a date picked out already but now he is saying he needs time to think about getting married now. I can't be mad because he is being honest, but at the same time what do i do? I know that i love him and want to spend ...

Why do I feel like walking away when I argue with my bf? I'm scared the ex has passed his insecurities onto me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5900 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - I have been dating this guy for 6 weeks. I just wondered if the way I have been feeling is normal? I am so, so into this guy. It feels a little more than lust, but not love. That crazy, can't stop looking at him, can't stop thinking about h...

How to cope with his lack of trust after the pain I caused him by leaving him in the past?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5900 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - How do I make my fiance believe me when I say I love him and will not leave him? I broke up with him and we were apart for 6 months and he says it was too easy for me to leave him and that he is afraid I will do it again. I know the mistake I made ...

OMG!!! Why did I let my friend kiss me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5830 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 4 years and he makes me really happy, I love him so much. In that time I've had a few men interested in me, and I've never wanted to or felt the need to cheat. However last week my male friend, who I've known for a ...

She was dating a co-worker that I didn't know about until I had reason to check her texts messages...

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5898 days ago

27 February 2008 (M) - She was dating a co-worker that I didn't know about until I had reason to check her texts messages. If I had not done so I believe she would have kept it going. She told me that she has only been out with him twice once with other co-workers and ...

Hmmmm.... do I believe her story? Do you???

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

27 February 2008 (M) - I left town for two weeks and when I came back one of our condoms was missing. She told me that her daughter's dad tried to have sex with her and she said no and he slept on the floor in the living room where I pay rent. She said she was out by ...

I love him with every bit of my soul, even though I'm constantly getting my feelings hurt. Advice here would be greatly appreciated!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5549 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - I've been dating this guy since August of 2006. We've lived together since November of 2006. We've known each other since elementary, and just prior to our dating that August, his girlfriend of 13 years broke up with him. We did jump into our ...

Why is he keeping me a secret?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5873 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - Been dating this guy for a while. He's not willing to introduce me to any of his friends or family. He's been divorced for the last 4 years or so and still talks a lot about his ex and what has happened and still doing things for her. The sex is g...

I found him in bed with another girl..we split, now he wants to get back together..Should I forgive and forget ?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5871 days ago

27 February 2008 (F) - I've been really impressed with this site so far, so I'm hoping that maybe someone out there can give me some advice, or share a similar story... I met my last boyfriend about 8 months ago, and we clicked immediately. We had text book compatabili...

I feel immense sympathy for him thinking he will be alone forever if he doesn't have me, so I can't walk away!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5859 days ago

26 February 2008 (F) - for 3 yrs i have lived with a man who constantly lies to me about his internet activities, i know he uses it as a way to meet to meet people because i have found this out on numerous occasions. he avoids our sex life as a way to punish me and openly ...

Am I over reacting by feeling uneasy about my partners chatroom activities.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5900 days ago

26 February 2008 (M) - Am I over reacting by feeling uneasy about my partners chatroom activities. I am never told, I have always found out by accident or phone numbers clumsily left out. This has been going on for almost two years. I am always told that these names are ...

I don't want to break-up with her and then to start craving her again...and I know it would tear her world apart. What do I do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5901 days ago

26 February 2008 (M) - I started dating this girl about 4 years ago in June. Things were great for the first year or two, all loved up ect, ect, ect. She started hanging out with guys which she told me was just "old school mates"; so I had to trust her, and I tried. ...

I saw a flirty txt on his phone and now he won't let me see his phone bill...are guys just like that??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5899 days ago

26 February 2008 (F) - hi, my fiance changed careers at the start of the year and has to train for 5 months. He doesnt come home at night until after 9 every night apart from Fri and Sat. When I approached the subject of setting a date for the wedding for a year and a ha...

We rowed like we never have before after his ex called...was I so wrong in what I said??

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5899 days ago

26 February 2008 (F) - Please help me. When I first met my boyfriend I'd known of him for 6 years, working together in a mental health hospital. I had originally asked him out over email before I left my job. Then after I'd been seeing him for 3 months, I found out that...

He is obsessed with my ex, I told him it's all in the past, now we aren't talking,what did I do wrong?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5901 days ago

26 February 2008 (F) - i was seeing this gentleman who would always bring up my old boyfriend. He would not let it go. I finally got upset, said that I don't live in the past. I live right now. He said me if I told him I loved him. I could not understand why he kept ...

Why do I have to suffer and love him so much, and how can I get over this overwhelming pain?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5902 days ago

26 February 2008 (F) - I recently broke up with my ex. About an hour ago. Not the first time, but I think this is the last one. We had been having problems for a long time because he didn't trust me, he dislilked and judged me a lot about my past. He always made me feel ...

I'm sure he's cheating, isn't he?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5806 days ago

26 February 2008 (F) - Here is my question. To make a long story short, My boyfriend got a text from a woman that he is supposedly "friends" with, asking if she left a pair of black pants at his house. I calmly asked him how long he had something going on with her. He ...

Am I unattractive, for my husband to prefer porn to being with me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5902 days ago

25 February 2008 (F) - me and my husband have been together for 5 years. lately he acts like I am not even here. i feel like he does care about me anymore. i love this man with all of my heart and i dont want to ever lose him. he doesnt seem interested in me in the ...

I found out she lied to me, should I confront her?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5236 days ago

25 February 2008 (M) - Regretfully, I snooped on my girlfriend's emails to either confirm or deny some suspicions. I found out she had lied to me about seeing a particular guy I had specifically questioned her about a while ago. She even made me believe her lies. But ...

My boyfriend said he will dump me if I ever cut myself. Now I don't know if I want to be with him anymore. Help.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

25 February 2008 (F) - My bf was recently telling me how a friend of his broke up with his gf because she was cutting herself. I was shocked that someone could break up with someone they are supposed to love when they need them so much. I was even more shock to hear my bf ...

Secrets came out 8 months before our wedding. What now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5901 days ago

25 February 2008 (F) - I am getting married in Oct BUT suddenly a whole bunch of stuff has occurried. 1) I never dealt with an abortion I had 13 years ago 2) He has not disclosed a criminal act he did prior to our getting together - we've been together for 12 years and...

I'm thinking ther only way to accept her past is to HAVE a past myself. I feel the need to cheat on my gf.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4866 days ago

25 February 2008 (M) - Ok, let's start from the beginning. My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost six months. We are very close and we love each other dearly. We also see each other almost everyday. My problem is that she is more "open" then I am. She is th...

My girlfriend returned home, can we ever be back together in the future even after others?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5902 days ago

25 February 2008 (M) - Last year in August 2007 I met a girl through a friend I met at my job. She was from japan and had been here 6 months prior to meeting me and had 6 months left before completing her year of English school study. I am learning japanese and I know ...

Is my husband having an affair?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5777 days ago

25 February 2008 (F) - My husband has been working with his female assistant for about 8 months now. Up until the last month, I had not had reason to suspect anything that their relationship was anything other than professional. However, last month, one week he called her ...

My husband is in love with his affair but determined to work on our marriage! How do I convince him thsi woman is not as perfect as appears to him?

This question has 22 answers - newest was posted 4992 days ago

24 February 2008 (F) - When I found out about my husband's affair 2 months ago we decided to go to relate and try to work out a better marriage for us both. And although it's been hard we have made progress and have learnt a lot about each other. we have been married 21 ...

I went abroad for my further studies, now I am having difficulties in trusting my gf, especially her good friend that is pursuing her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5903 days ago

24 February 2008 (M) - I have been in a serious relation for 4 years.During the 3rd year one common friend started coming very close to my gf.She started staying with him more than me on a few occassions, but eventually was with me 90% of the times.Still that made me ...

She is still not over her ex

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

24 February 2008 (M) - I met this girl about 5 months ago over the net we got on great from the moment we started talking, but when it came time for our actual meet she went all quiet and i didnt see her or speak with her for a couple of weeks, finally she came back and ...

Should I trust him? Does he just want a visa?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5904 days ago

23 February 2008 (F) - Hi, I have know this guy for many years. He said he loved me before and we met again after three years,recently in the states. We started dating a year ago. He wants us to get married so that he can remain in the states. He isnt a citizen by the w...

How do I rebuild my trust in him, it is ruining our relationship.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5904 days ago

23 February 2008 (F) - My boyfriend of 4 yrs has lied to me many times over our rship but never actually cheated on me. he has carried on friendships with females behind my back and lied about who he is hanging out with. he maintains that it was never because he had ...

I would not dare to go out with him because I'm afraid of a failure. Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5904 days ago

23 February 2008 (F) - Hey i've never had a proper bf before, well not a serious one anyway i seriously like a lad. W ehave been friends for a while and part of me thinks he likes me to. The thing is though i'm not saying anything will happen but if he does feel the same ...

My friends say he will let me down again. Was I wrong to give him a second chance?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5904 days ago

23 February 2008 (F) - I was in a long distance relationship with this guy we'll call him H. We met a week before he went to uni 5 hours away from where i live but carried on speaking on msn everynight- webcamming, video calling etc. He was due home for christmas in which ...

I'm not sure I should involve seriously in coming dates as I feel emotionally drained due to my past relationships.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5904 days ago

23 February 2008 (F) - i have dated men for years to realize that they aren't right for me. i see their flaws and see past them and i "deal with it"..in hopes that it may be forever. i am a Caucasian Italian female. i'm trying to figure out a pattern but then even wh...

Am I being immature and overreacting or should this relationship be ended based on these problems?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5905 days ago

22 February 2008 (F) - Dating question Guy I've been dating for 5 months. 1. He has a son he gets every wkend who I've met, but never get invited when they do things. Doesn't seem too big because it's a new relationship. 2. He works full and part-time as well. I see hi...

Why did he stay in touch with his ex when she caused us so many problems?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5905 days ago

22 February 2008 (F) - This has been bothering me for quite some time and I need some help with what to do. Back at the end of July I found out my boyfriend was talking to his ex over his cell phone, and basically hiding this from me. He ended talking to her on h...

I've hurt 2 great people... should I try to contact them and try to make it up again and be friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5905 days ago

22 February 2008 (M) - I was with this one girl *Jen* for 2.5 years. Things were good when we were away at school, but after moving home the first summer she got back into her old routine and really put me in the backseat. That was a big change for me because of how ...

I don't know if he's being truthful and find it hard to trust him now...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5905 days ago

22 February 2008 (?) - Last May 2007 I found 3 text messages on my husband's phone flirting with a woman, when I asked him he said it was just banter with a work colleague. He told me she worked in one of his nearest depots and only saw her ever few months and I believed ...

I constantly worry I will never be as good as his ex. Am I being unreasonable?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5905 days ago

22 February 2008 (F) - I recently joined a new college last september and have been going out a boy who i met there for 3 months now. I love him so soo much and i know he loves me back and he never gives me any reason to be jealous of his ex/s or anything.. but still i ...

Do I have reason to be paranoid about them and express my lack of trust?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5905 days ago

22 February 2008 (M) - hello, i love my girlfriend and we just had our 2 year anniversary. about a year and a half ago she went to china with her ex of 7years. she asked me before hand if i was ok with that and it was a pre planned arrangement with him before we got ...