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Archived questions from: November, 2008 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

My boyfriend has a crush on one of my best friends!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - I'm increasingly noticing that my boyfriend has a crush on one of my best friends. My best friend is unaware of this. However, I know and have come to realize it over some time due to our private dialogues with one another. Also, supposedly it was a ...

He claims to hate his ex but I suspect otherwise. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5626 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - My boyfriend claims to hate his ex-girlfriend, but I really dont think this is the case. He was with her for eight months, and she broke his heart by dumping him for another guy. She texts him quite a bit still, often while hes with me, and he ...

He's in to me and doesn't want any one else - but he said the thought of us being bf/gf scares him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - I guess you can say I've been seeing a guy for a few weeks now. I go to his house couple times a week. We always enjoy each others company. We kiss, hold hands (even in public..so its not an indoor thing), hug, cuddle, we are intimate. He has ...

He's come on so strong and said he loves me. Is this normal? is he desperate? Or just too good to be true?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - Ok I've been talking to this guy for about 4 months but only seeing him for the past month. Things have been amazing and I really see this going somewhere. The thing is he has come on very strong from the start. Things like he hasn't felt like this ...

I'm getting more and more paranoid and it is getting out of control! What can I do to stop feeling like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5621 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - ive been with my bf for 6 months and never had any problems with him before. last week while we were outside our flat a couple walked past us and i saw him look briefly in their direction and for no reason i instantly got paranoid and thought he was ...

Lost in time and feeling confused! Will he ever let me into his heart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - I met this guy who ask me for a dance, we had a great time and seem to hit if off instantly. He walk me to my car and we continued to talk for some time, than he kiss me very respectfully. Since we had met its been six weeks now. We both just got ...

She's out of the picture but the thoughts still haunt me....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5627 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - My husband and I have been together for 13 years, but have been married for only 8 years. We lived together from almost the moment we met. We went through quite a bit in our lives together and this makes the story more and more sad. However, I ...

Is he lying about his feelings for me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5627 days ago

30 November 2008 (F) - i am 16 years old and there is this guy i chat with and i know him i see him so one day well were chating and he ask me where is everyone and i told him the everyone is sleeping and he starting to telling me that long he had a crush on me he say i ...

Because of my friend she doesn't trust me any more.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

30 November 2008 (M) - Hey people I need a little help, I mean I have this very beautiful GF... lemme just get to the point guys she doesn't trust people that easily and my Best friend told her that I went off and getting girls msns and sort... it pissed me off to no ...

I don't feel he is prioritating me over his ex, what can I do to make him understand my needs in this mess?

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29 November 2008 (F) - i don't want to leave him because i'm blinded with my strong love for this person...His ex keeps calling me and she was telling me that they were getting back together.. she told me that the only reason that my boyfriend was getting back with her ...

Wanted to get married and made HUGE mistake!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

29 November 2008 (?) - My boyfriend and I had been together for five years, but he always changed the subject when I brought up marriage. One night, I broke down and told him that I thought we should either get married or split up, but he didn't respond well to the ...

Seeing his ex behind my back, can I ever trust him again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5625 days ago

29 November 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for two years. We are both 25 years old (The age on my profile doesn't update for some reason). We recently broke up because I found out by going through his computer that he has been seeing his ex behind my back for ...

Is he living a double life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - My boyfriend had just split up with his wife when i met him. We had a great relationship, he moved in with me but several months later he devastated me by going back to his wife. Shortly after returning he was back in touch telling me he had made ...

I love him but have never had anyone else and now I find myself looking at others, why am I having these thoughts?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - this may sound stupid and may sound as if im taking my boyfriend for granted. ive been with my boyfriend for two and a half years im 20 and hes 18 initially the age caused a few problems between us but we worked through all the problems that ar...

My boyfriend works abroad and it is getting hard to make this work, I don't trust him anymore and I don't know what to think. Is he fooling me around?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3563 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - I have been in a relationshipe with a younger man for 4 years now and he has recently been seconded abroad to work during the week and coming back at weekends. This was supposed to be for 3 months but now this has extended to six months and I am ...

He said he has forgiven me but I haven't forgiven myself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

28 November 2008 (?) - me and my boyfriend met at the beginning of the year and before we met i had booked a trip to go trevelling for almost a month. we moved in together a week before i went travelling and within the week i realised that he had a problem with coke. he ...

Is he playing with my mind or does he really want me back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - I really want my ex back after 2 months, we are still sleeping together about 2 times a week, talk on the phone everyday, and see other most days down the pub, He knows i still have feelings for him and would go bk to him , but he says we are frie...

Am I the problem?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5628 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - hi, my boyfriend and i liuve together, he is was divorced decades ago. my problem is, when his ex-wife calls or i hear her name being mentioned, i feel uncomfortable. when i try to be honest with him and tell him how i feel, he tells me that im the ...

My boyfriend is overprotective of his phone but checks mine non-stop!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5577 days ago

28 November 2008 (F) - Something isnt right. My bf (who is 19 and so am i) of 2 months seems overly protective of his phone considering how he goes through my phone non stop and always has to know who im calling/texting etc. When he gets a message, if I ask him casual...

How to heal a father/daughter relationship after his affair?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - My husband had a affair a year ago and it has been a long year.My 13 year old daughter is having a hard time, she started pulling her hair out we put her in counselling . This has helped a bit but every time she pulls her hair her dad gets on her ...

Is my husband making a fool of me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5628 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - Hi i'm maried 31 years, we met 2 women in out local a few years ago and became friends as I thought. It seems now that my husband has been texting one of them for a while (shes a widow) and last month I caught him in her house, he said they are only ...

Was he looking at her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - this is going to sound really crazy but its really getting me down! ive been with my bf for 6 months and never had any probs with him. the other day we were outside our flats when a boy and girl walked past. he was fiddling for his keys and i saw ...

Do you think this is a sign of his true character?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5630 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - Hi there everyone. I'm looking for some answers as to what I should do about this guy. We started talking online a few weeks ago and I really love his personality. He is (or was) interested in me big time. But since he lives far away I was hesitant ...

Who do I end up having sex with the guy who hurt me, do you think I let myself be used for sex? Could this be because I never got over my ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - Ok, this might be a little long sorry. When I was a freshmen in highschool I met this amazing guy, and i was pretty innocent when it came to physical stuff. Even though I was not a virgin i believed you needed to be dating someone almost a year ...

I have dated men who treated me badly--so how do I gain a man's respect?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5630 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - why is it that I am 25 years old and have never had a meaningful relationship in my life? The closest I ever had was in my teens but I had to break up with him because he was abusive. It seems now I go on a date with a guy and they are all over me ...

I have been back with my ex-wife for 2 weeks, we were divorced 6 months ago due to an affair on her part, I am confused about the relationship, please help?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5630 days ago

27 November 2008 (M) - I am going thru some serious issues at the moment that is driving me crazy.My situation is I have recently got back with my ex-wife it's been about 2 weeks.But the problem is that we got divorced about 6 months ago due to an affair on her part.I am ...

I feel my husband is lying to me, but have no proof, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5629 days ago

27 November 2008 (F) - What can you do ,if you think ,your husband is not telling the truth, but you can't find a way to prove it? I feel very strange, because I think he is not telling to me what he does, but it's just an intuition, without any evidence. How can I not ...

I previously wrote about my husband not telling me about his divorce. Now I don't trust him at all

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5585 days ago

26 November 2008 (F) - I previously wrote about my husband not telling me about his divorce. Now I dont trust him at all. I always feel like he his cheating on me. Is this just paranoia because he lied or is this my womans intuition....

Going backwards.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5628 days ago

26 November 2008 (F) - I am 21 and have been with my boyfriend since I was 16. I have always been a jealous person, and a person who doesn't trust easily. My boyfriend has always been someone who didn't want to go out and liked to stay indoors, but it seems now we are ...

I feel like he is always playing this push away and then pull back game with me, what is going on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5630 days ago

26 November 2008 (F) - Okay, I am really confused and I am not sure if I should be hurt or not, move on or keep sticking it out. All this started about 7 months ago when I meet what I have to say is the perfect guy for me and everything I ever wanted. Problem from the ...

I feel like we are together for the past rather than for the future but can't bring me to break up, what shall I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5628 days ago

26 November 2008 (F) - hey.. me and my boyfriend have been going out for 14months.. and for the past few months it has been pretty rocky due to our exams.. for one we spend alot less time together and for two he gets really tempermental during. after the exams i thought ...

Is it possible something more happened?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

26 November 2008 (M) - I've been with my girlfriend for over a month and I know that isn't long but I really love her. She kissed her ex and on another day he showed himself to her (down below) now I'm wary that more happened, I mean I do have trust issues anyway through ...

He didn't show respect or consideration for me, what can I do?

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26 November 2008 (F) - my partner lied to my about going to his stepsons birthday dinner. I found out and his reason was that he didnt know what to do so he chose to lie to me. Now he lives with me and my dauta, and we both agreed that as they'll be times when we both ...

How to get him back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - I've been dating this guy for a while, things got bumpy in the last little bit of it. So rough, that I lost trust in him due to something that I found on his computer. This lack of trust between him and I led us to fighting 2-3 times every time we ...

Does she really love me or is it an act?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5631 days ago

25 November 2008 (M) - Well here's the thing my dad got with this new woman and she had kids me and one of the kids got along well..Really well. They kept having arguments and it ended up with my dad walking out on her so me and my dad's girlfriends Daughter (miss X...

I want him back, what shall I do?

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25 November 2008 (F) - hi. i split up with my boyfriend and we were together for a long time. We split up because rumours had it that he was cheating on me. So i ended it. we were talking a couple of weeks ago and he said he never cheated on me but did tell his mate to...

I met a wonderful man on the internet, but now I'm afraid I might have pushed him off, what shall I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5631 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - I have met the wonderfull man on the internet , we have spoken on the net, text and telephone for over 3 months. He is away in the USA taking his ill mother for a short holiday, I cannot contact him by phone, although he said he would ring or e ...

Did my husband cheat on me and gave me a std?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - my husband of 21 years told me he had sex with another women 1 month before we got married. when we were married i got pregnant on our honeymoon, after i had the baby i ended up with a std, i was 18 when we got married an was stupid i really did ...

Sick of past pictures with my boyfriend!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - I have been in a relationship with "Damian" for 2 years...we are like any other couple who has it's ups and downs....we are engaged to get married next year in the fall. We live in South Florida in the same city he lived for the past 10 years. I ...

My girlfriend always keeps texting other guys when with me. But when she's out with her friends she tells me she can't text me! Why am I so low priority to her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5511 days ago

25 November 2008 (M) - Hey, Recently my girlfriend and I went on a break, we've gotten back together and things are going great, however there's one thing that has really started getting annoying for me, she's constantly texting. Now she's pretty attractive, so over the...

Can you love somebody and cheat on them? Should we stay together or split?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5606 days ago

25 November 2008 (M) - well its been about 3 weeks now since she's been home from the vacation im still unsure what exactly happened while she was there with that other guy but i cannot quit thinking about it , she had told me on the phone that we would just have to see ...

I'm not sure about being intimate with my long distance guy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5631 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - Hi, just need a bit of advice please if anyone can help. I met a guy on a chat site just over a year ago and have met each other twice since then. We live approximately 150 miles apart and both work shifts so meeting is quite a challenge. we talk ...

Is my BF out innocent flirting or something much more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

25 November 2008 (F) - I've had sneaking suspisions about my boyfriends 'friendship' with a girl he works with whom is also a married woman for some time now. So yesterday I thought I would get to the bottom of it by getting into his email account and looking through his ...

How do I react to this... I can't trust him.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5632 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - Hey guys I need some help plllleasee... Well recently I have just got together with a guy after a long open relationship (4 months, it's been great even though we've only been together for a short space of time... when we first got together i f...

My BF went through a "gay stage" in the past and I'm freaked out.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - I recently found out that my boyfriend went through a "gay stage" in the past. He didn't tell me about it, I happened to come upon one of his old emails. When I confronted him about it, he said he went through a stage but didn't want to talk about ...

Everybody says I'm cute! But why don't guys ever hit on me??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - Why dont guys hit on me?!! I need advise!!? People always tell me i am one of the nicest and kindest people they know. Girls also constantly tell me on how pretty i am and how they wish they were as pretty as me. I constantly get stares or looks fr...

I think he is cheating on me! What shall I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - ive been with my partner for 3 yrs we got a little girl togerther know and i also have one from a previous relationship 2 yrs ago i found out that he took some girl back to his dads house and they stayed in the same bed my partner and the girl say ...

He wants an open relationship and threesomes! Should I give up on him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5633 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together two years now. He's 18, I'm 19. About a month ago, he met another girl (17) whom he really enjoys hanging out with. At first, it didn't bother me, but then he started hanging out with her a lot more than me and ...

He doesn't know that I'm a virgin..should I tell him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5633 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - okay, so here's my problem. I'm 17 and a virgin and I'm ready to have sex. I don't want to do it just to say that i have, but i'm just ready to have sexual relationships. For the past couple of months I've been "friends with benefits" with a guy. W...

Daughter's boyfriend comes over late at night. Do we trust them together?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5632 days ago

24 November 2008 (F) - My 18 yr. old daughter's boyfriend likes to come over to visit, which we do allow but he comes over late when he works. We don't allow him to be here late when we have to go to sleep because we don't think it's appropriate for them to be left alone ...