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Archived questions from: December, 2014 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

She thinks this is funny. How can I get her to understand that I don't like that she when we make love she lets off wind? Why does this happen?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3402 days ago

31 December 2014 (M) - I have what I call a severe prob;em with my partner in that when we make love she lets off wind and never does do anything to stop it and when I said something about it she thought it was funny and laughed at me and wonder if I should end it with ...

He will not commit but have I put up with this for too long? Should I stay or go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3402 days ago

31 December 2014 (F) - I have been friends with this guy for years I have met his mom and sisters they all know about me. He practically shares everything with me even personal stuff like his habits bank details etc. I literally am his first point of call whenever...

I want my ex take an HIV and STD before rekindling our relationship. What if he refuses to do so?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3401 days ago

31 December 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid,I haven't been with my ex for over ten years we are talking long distance now and have hopes of rekindling our relationship, but I am in fear of having sex with him . I want him to take an HIV and STD test before I give myself to him agai...

Should I give up on Prince Charming? Says he won't marry me unless I agree to become a swinger with him

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 3160 days ago

30 December 2014 (F) - I am a very attractive, tall, successful, and fun-loving 25-year-old young woman. I am deeply and truly in love with the man I want to spend the rest of my life with. Our sex is amazing, and the adventures we have together are truly unreal. ...

I snooped on my boyfriend's Facebook account because I no longer trust him - is it time to break up?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3400 days ago

30 December 2014 (F) - Basically, I've caught him lying to me a couple of times in the last few weeks and I was shocked. I never believed he had it in him and it's taken a lot of begging on his part for me to agree to give him another chance. I've always had an idea what ...

Loves me, loves me not. Then wants to see me again. Am I expecting too much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3401 days ago

30 December 2014 (F) - I'm not sure about what should I do now. I've been with my bf for 5 years and he's going to marry me next year. We used to be so connected and compatible. Our relationship was great. He made surprises and seriously trying hard to make me happy. ...

I'm not given a chance. why do I self sabotage and why are women so picky with friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3403 days ago

30 December 2014 (F) - Its like I unconsciously sometimes ( not always) want to fail or make people not want to want to get to know me..as in the past Ive not been accepted, sadly women are cliquey at times and despite efforts ive been cold shouldered or dismissed. like...

What's going on? What should I do? He manipulated me into ending our relationship two days before New Year

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3403 days ago

30 December 2014 (F) - I wrote a few weeks ago because my new boyfriend, who had showered me with attention, flowers, dinners, mix tapes, texts, at the start, had gone a bit quiet with me. The first time I stayed over his house (and the first time we had sex), he had a...

Should I study business jointly with a language? Then where to work and live successfully as a gay man?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3401 days ago

30 December 2014 (M) - Since I am completely uncertain of what I should do, I was hoping for someones help. If i succeed in my exams this July I'll hopefully be off for university when summer ends. I have submitted and received offers from all of my university choic...

I feel cheap doing what he asks. Will I lose my fiance if I stop agreeing to his requests to skype while undressed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3401 days ago

30 December 2014 (F) - I'm in a LDR relationship in which we have met recently and have hadsexual relationships. Everything is well except this man loves sex a lot. He's asked me to undress on Skype and arouse him to masturbate every other night. I've done it twice now...

I broke up with boyfriend because if his behavior but now he is changing.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3404 days ago

29 December 2014 (F) - I broke up with my bf a few days back because I felt our personalities were not compatible. Time and again we argue over his flirtations with other girls and him constantly texting them (everyday) and them sending him their selfies. I have mentioned ...

Am I wasting my time waiting for my boyfriend to grow up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3406 days ago

27 December 2014 (F) - My boyfriend of 5 years and I have been having a hard time recently. Basically, I have caught him out in a couple of lies (things I wouldn't care about him doing, but I do care that he lied/hid them from me) and I'm struggling to trust the things he ...

Is her mother being disrespectful for seeking too much information about any sexual relations and of intimacy in our relationship? Why is her Mom asking?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3405 days ago

27 December 2014 (M) - This girl I’m in a relationship with for a year and a half, her mom always asks her if we were having sex. I mean we are two grown adults so why would her mom want to know that information, that’s private. She would tell me how her mom would sa...

My friend's boyfriend isn't good for her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3405 days ago

27 December 2014 (F) - I'm worried about my friend, she met a guy of plenty of fish 5 years ago,she practically speaks or txt every day with him,he's moved in with her 2times for a couple of months even her toddler loves him(dad doesn't see her child) Anyways last Yr ...

Am I being jealous, selfish and disrespectful towards my Gf? Should I put up with her disrespect?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3406 days ago

27 December 2014 (M) - Hi, I've been with my girlfriend now for six months, she has two kids to a guy she split from over a year ago. They came to an agreement after they broke up that he would collect the kids and have them stay at his house every weekend. Since me and ...

Former friend has joined the new group and is causing problems with gossip and lies.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3407 days ago

26 December 2014 (F) - Hello. My problem is this. I've been friends with this woman for three years. We were best mates all this time but then suddenly things changed. She began to spend time with a few other girls and for a long while we never saw each other. S...

Why would he delete messages if they are innocent?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3407 days ago

25 December 2014 (F) - So me and my boyfriend have been together around 7-8 months before me there was a girl at work he was friends with or so he says he was friends with they talked on Facebook and he'd give her lifts home she then started to tell people he'd tried it ...

I want to stay calm and be rational but something doesn't add up. Are the texts really innocent?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3407 days ago

25 December 2014 (F) - My boyfriend is a friendly guy but he takes it too far with women he doesn't know well. When we were going through a bad patch he struck up a friendship with his new single neighbour and she then came on to him despite knowing about me and this ...

My boyfriend broke up with me Christmas night!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3407 days ago

25 December 2014 (F) - Hi there... My boyfriend and I just broke up.. Literally on Christmas Day. And my story is gonna be quite lengthy but I really need some opinion of what you may think of it. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year.. And throu...

I need some reassurance before I make a doctor's appointment

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3407 days ago

25 December 2014 (F) - Hi. I am a 24 year old female and I'm currently in a relationship with my ex-boyfriend. We started going out in March this year and everything was perfect( I thought). And we broke up 4 months later cause he didn't trust me. We got together in mid- ...

I'm an unmarried man in cyber love with a married woman!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3405 days ago

24 December 2014 (M) - I am 27 years of age, single, never being in relationship, athletic build and sexually active( I masturbate 2-4 times daily) . I talk to a lady from a different country who is mother and hates her family. I am really love with this woman and she ...

Would you be jealous of this cheat's wife if you were me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3409 days ago

24 December 2014 (F) - I'm writing to this site because i'm feeling pretty conflicted. I used to have a physical relationship with someone who was very wrong for me and it destroyed any self esteem i used to have. Most of the time i was miserable when it was going on. ...

My boyfriend is emotionally unavailable so I cheated. Now what?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3408 days ago

24 December 2014 (F) - I have been with my bf together for 1.5 years and for the past 6 months, we have been arguing a lot (a weekly basis, and it always ends up with me crying). Things we argue about: him flirting with other girls excessively, him texting other girls ...

What's up with his behaviour? He has a Gf. Would it be weird to hang out with him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3407 days ago

24 December 2014 (F) - I saw a guy friend today that has a GF, he admitted he liked me and that he didn't want to hurt me or his GF by cheating but still bothers me to hang out with him. Its like he is obsessed. We used to hang out alot but I stopped since his GF is home ...

She's been flirting with another girl. What are my options? I don't think I can cope with her actions and threats.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3388 days ago

24 December 2014 (F) - I honestly don't know what to do. I have been with my girlfriend for almost 3 years and we've lived together for the last year. I pay all the bills as she works part time and i work full time and everything has been going great. Last month she...

18 months together and all was well. So why has he started being distant with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3409 days ago

23 December 2014 (F) - My boyfriend is being very distant and i dont know what to do. Ive been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. So far everything has been hunky dory! Hes fab! I love him, he loves me and were planning to buy a house together next year so we ...

I think I love her, but I'm so confused about how I feel. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3410 days ago

23 December 2014 (F) - I'm a 17 year old girl, who is currently dating another girl. I think I love her, but I'm so confused about how I feel and about my sexuality. I feel like I'm denying my happiness by not being open about my relationships and sexuality...help?...

He feels responsible for his depressed ex gf......how do I deal with this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3407 days ago

23 December 2014 (F) - Ive been seeing this guy for a month now. We really like each other and things were going great. Til now. I dont know the ins and outs of why he and his ex of 7 years split up back in summer but I do know that they werent right together and they ...

Do December May relationships ever work, especially if the woman is older?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3410 days ago

23 December 2014 (F) - Do December-May relationships ever work in the real world? Woman older, man 17 years younger....

How can I get him to show more affection for me and be lovey-dovey to me? we have been dating for 2 weeks.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3410 days ago

23 December 2014 (F) - My boyfriend isn't very good at making moves? So weve been dating for a couple weeks now and before that weve been best friends for nearly 2 years. He asked me out, however he isn't really the "lovey dovey" kind of person. I want him to be and my f...

How can I deal with my frustration at the rude ignorant behaviour of my Bf?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3405 days ago

23 December 2014 (F) - I will keep this short. My boyfriend and I were in (large well known store) tonight. The cashier was being very slow and having difficulties with the register or something. WE had to wait...My bf then starts saying OUT LOUD something along the ...

How to COMMUNICATE I don't like what he called me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3410 days ago

23 December 2014 (F) - Chatting with a great guy via text and we've yet to meet. Our meeting being next month. Last night he had to go to sleep quite early and while saying good night, referred to me as 'babe'. "Night night babe sleep well." I feel the babe thing is wa...

How can I get over feeling I'm too old to have a girlfriend at 26? How should I flirt, talk to and approach women?

This question has 38 answers - newest was posted 3267 days ago

23 December 2014 (M) - The fact i'll be 27 in a few weeks and I still haven't had a girlfriend yet, obviously still a virgin, the fact that I didn't have my first girlfriend and didn't lose my virginity around the age-range most people do just makes me bitter and ...

I am supposed to visit my BF for Christmas, but he is not responding to me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3410 days ago

23 December 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid I'm in LDR with my bf for past 1 year. We r in a relationship for.past 4 years. He went abroad for his work. Earlier he used to call me everyday and we used to talk everyday or text me. Nowadays he is not calling me and if I do.he is no...

Why did he change so quickly? Now he has said we can still talk and we can be friends, but I want more than that.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3410 days ago

22 December 2014 (F) - I really need some advice? ok so I met this guy about 9 months ago, we started texting and then went out for some drinks where I ended up spending the night at his house. Nothing happened because I was a virgin (I know strange as I am 22) anyw...

When I'm with him I feel loved. I love him. But am I getting too attached if he does not yet feel able to say he loves me after 3 months of dating? What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3410 days ago

22 December 2014 (F) - Hi thanks for reading. In a relationship with a guy three months this month. He's 25, I'm 24. We live other side of england in a sense so we go for weekends away. I did suggest dates etc (we only ever had one day date was our first date) sinc...

My wife of ten years says abusive things and then expects me to apologise. How should I respond to her accusations and her insults?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3411 days ago

22 December 2014 (M) - Hi, I'm really concerned. Ours has not been the best of marriages. We're 10 years in, we have two beautiful daughters. I'm the stay at home parent and I've thrown myself at the role. We've moved 3 times and I've made new friends/ a new world ea...

Am I better off dating someone within my own culture/race?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3411 days ago

22 December 2014 (F) - Five years in an interracial relationship with a man fifteen years older than me. I thought I loved him but now, I'm unsure. Holiday season is depressing. I've never been invited to a family dinner or functions and I hate it. My friends are always ...

I want to feel as strongly about my boyfriend as I do about this other man!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3409 days ago

21 December 2014 (F) - I'm in a predicament that I've brought on myself. I have a partner of 12 years. He is good to me, I love him, but not in the way that I feel I should. There was never the initial attraction. I was in a bad place at the time and he was there. Our r...

My little sister is dating a much older man and lying about it, and I'm worried he's taking advantage of her! Do I tell our parents?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3411 days ago

21 December 2014 (F) - Hi. My sister is 21 and yesterday told me she is in a relationship with a 40 year old man. This is her first ever relationship and they have been together 6 months. She says they are getting 'serious' however she has not and is not planning to tell ...

My feelings for him have changed. Possibly one reason is that he's changed his appearance. What can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3412 days ago

21 December 2014 (F) - I'm depressed lately because I just realize that my life sucks. I don't have friends to hang out, my boyfriend also live in boring life, he also feel lonely lately because he doesn't go out much. He broke up with me a few months ago, and his app...

How do I find the strength to stop allowing guys to treat me as an option only?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3412 days ago

21 December 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid at this point of time I feel like a complete loser at love.. my previous bad experience was when I was dating this guy for Abt 2years and he finally came n told me he was going to marry his relative or some girl then his parents chose fr...

How do I let stubborn guys know that I really do not want to give out my number?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3412 days ago

21 December 2014 (F) - I live in a town where men interpret "no" as "yes, but I'm just playing hard to get for now." In addition to that, they're also very forward and persuasive. Often when I'm approached for my number but am uninterested, I'll initially just plain ou...

Together 18 years, yet sexually it could be better. Emotionally we have issues. How can this situation be improved?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3412 days ago

21 December 2014 (F) - My husband and I dated for three years and were sexually active. When we got married, I just stopped wanting sex at all, but I did continue to masturbate. I dreaded sex and just had no interest. And when I say dreaded I mean I would just pray ...

Why would he message this ex? Why can't he just ignore messages from an ex? what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3411 days ago

21 December 2014 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend over a year. Things are great its been a great year and weve talked of buying a place together next year. So were both very serious about one another. We've told each other we love each other etc and i really do want to ...

I love her and we've been doing sexual things together. Despite all this she says she doesn't love me sexually. So what am I, to her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3410 days ago

21 December 2014 (F) - I've been best friends with a girl for 5 months. She's my daughters uncle's wife. We have been come really close, and doing sexual things with each other. It's happened 3 times now. I'm confused in what to do. I love her to bits, but she sa...

Torn between what I want and what I need to do

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3412 days ago

21 December 2014 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for 3 months now and its time to get to the next step which is the intimacy part. I am still a virgin which adds extra pressure. Ive saw him look at another girl and i feel if i dont give him what he wants sexually he will ...

I've never talked to him. A bit shy too. Is there any way to determine if he likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3406 days ago

20 December 2014 (F) - Im a 19 year old female. So there is a guy that I really, really like. We have so much in common and he already knows that we do. At first, he thought that my friend liked him, though she doesn't , so he blocked her online and he once gave he...

We've got back together but the breakup has destroyed me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3413 days ago

20 December 2014 (F) - I recently got back together with my then ex-boyfriend. We dated for 3 years before he decided to call it quits saying that he had fallen out of love with me.It was a real nasty break up and he was horrible and nasty to me I hardly recognized him. I ...

In past few months my Bf has been acting cold. Recently he started to be loveable again. Is this normal in a 2 year long relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3413 days ago

20 December 2014 (F) - The past few month things with my boyfriend has been hell. We fought all the time, he wasn't loveable, he never cuddled, he never paid attention to me because he was always on his phone. we hardly never had sex, he never said I love you or gave me ...