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Archived questions from: April, 2012 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

I cant trust my bestfriend anymore, should I end our friendship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4341 days ago

30 April 2012 (F) - My bestfriend and I have been friends for about 7 years now.. I love her very much and I know that she loves me, but for the past year its been seeming like everything has become a competition with her. It drives me crazy because I feel like I can't ...

I stole money from my ex girlfriend and gambled it away. I regret my actions now, how can I win her back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3809 days ago

30 April 2012 (M) - Hi I just want to know if I can get my ex back, we were together for 3 and a half years and broke up in november because I stole money from her the second time, we owned a house together 2 years ago and I stole money from the account and gambled it, ...

I'm 23 and my parents control my life

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4368 days ago

29 April 2012 (F) - Hi,mine is going to be a pretty long story so please be patient and kind enouf to read it I am 23 years old,and in my final year of med school,throughout my life I have been controlled by my parents,not that they hit me or anything they give me ...

Can I change her bad ways by loving her?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4367 days ago

29 April 2012 (M) - Right so i have known this girl and i've dated her on and off. i feel an intense attraction towards her. She's a gorgeous lass but Problem is, she has a terrible family background and as a result has led quite a wayward life. She hasn't been abl...

I'm 22 weeks pregnant and I think he might be cheat on me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4366 days ago

29 April 2012 (F) - When I started a new job last June, I started a relationship with a man at work. Not the best timing since he was just at the beginning of ending his 12 year marriage. That being said, I guess I'm worried now. I've heard rumors of him cheating, and ...

My Facebook friend is very secretive. Should I cut him loose?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4366 days ago

29 April 2012 (F) - I met this guy through a facebook friend almost two years ago. We talk only through emails and text. I can say I fell for this man but now I want to let him go but everytime I try, I keep going back. When we first start emailing each other he seem ...

Is he for real or just messing with me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4366 days ago

29 April 2012 (F) - I talk to this man for several years an he would send me little things little good morning here your coffee a flower or just some little something .we keep talkinf an found out we he use to live in same town that i do an know the same people .so we ...

He sent dirty texts to my bestfriend,should I give him another chance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4341 days ago

29 April 2012 (F) - Me and my boyfriend of 3 months split up 2days ago. The other day which was my 3yr old sisters bday my friend (used to be best friends but kinds drifted apart because shes been seeing married men). Was calling me sayin she has somthing to tell...

I'm engaged. But should I act on my powerful crush I have with my co-worker?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4369 days ago

29 April 2012 (M) - I have been working with this married woman for about two years. I'm engaged. There was an instant attraction. She is this sexy hipster with a really cute face and a hot body. We started texting and the texts became heated. We decided to pull bac...

My Step mother puts me down all the time. It's upsetting me. How can I handle this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4370 days ago

29 April 2012 (F) - I know this isn't a relationship question but I don't know where else to turn. Over the years I've asked lots of questions to the site and the responses have always been very helpful and genuinely caring. Recently my step mom who has always been ...

My insecure wife constantly accuses me of looking at other women!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3940 days ago

29 April 2012 (M) - My wife and I have a problem. We have been together 8 years, we are mid 30's early 40's (I am 6 years younger), unable to have children after having multiple miscarriages. My problem is this; that every time we go out, be it the mall, supermarket, ...

Does a lack of sex justify cheating in a committed relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4370 days ago

29 April 2012 (F) - Could the lack of sex in my relationship have caused my boyfriend to cheat? We were together for 2 years and we both live at home with our parents. We both come from very strict households which made it hard for us to have that "quality time" to...

Are most Friends with Benefits relationships usually kept secret or not?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4370 days ago

29 April 2012 (F) - Hi everyone just a quick question about Friends With Benefits (fwbs) I am currently in one with a guy I really like I was just wondering if all fwbs are usually kept secret or do people tell each other they are in one? I have asked this question...

My ex wants to come clean about why he cheated on me,should I talk to him or let it go?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4370 days ago

29 April 2012 (F) - my ex and I had a 4 year relationship that ended because he cheated on me. I cut off all communication after we broke up until he posted a long status on Facebook about our relationship, and how he made mistakes and his mistakes shouldn't be coun...

Is this violent jealous abusive boyfriend worth the trouble? What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4366 days ago

29 April 2012 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for a bit over a year, he always accused me of cheating. I don't know why he would even have the idea, I have a full time job and I would spend my days off with him at his place, he has the key to my place and he woul...

Am I not over my ex? I'm having problems with me relationship. Could it be that 7 year relationship with ex is the problem

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4370 days ago

29 April 2012 (F) - I have been in a relationship for seven years. We are high school sweethearts and have been on and off a couple of times during high school. Four months ago, we started to have sex. I was incredibly scared of sex - even had a phobia of it for a ve...

I really miss him. And I realise that he may be ill. How can I connect with him and be a friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4370 days ago

29 April 2012 (F) - There was a guy who I was close friends with, who cut off all contact with me and many others for undisclosed reasons. Personally I think he was suffering from depression - I can't be positive because he hasn't interacted with many people since the ...

How can I deal with this friend who likes attention and likes to brag?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4370 days ago

28 April 2012 (F) - I met this girl in my class last semester. We r both business major. We clicked, and we started hanging out a lot and studying together. She and her best friend (who is also her roommate) are no longer friends, so i decided to introduce her to my ...

His move will cause us to be apart. Why is he acting like the change is my fault?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4363 days ago

28 April 2012 (F) - This is complicated and for length I may have left important parts out, so bear with me. Basically my boyfriend got a job in a city. I do not want to live in the city and he is giving me an ultimatum that either I move there with him or he'll break ...

How do I get back my ex? We've started talking and see each other regularly

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4370 days ago

28 April 2012 (F) - What do I do? I think I love my ex again but this time it is different. We broke up two years ago and since then we have both matured and lately we have been speaking more especially over the last three months we have been speaking nearly ever...

Boy swapping gone wrong?

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 4367 days ago

28 April 2012 (F) - Ok, last night my best friend and our boyfriends were hanging out at my moms place. She and her boyfriend are out of town for the week. Anyway, we were partying pretty hard, having a lot of fun. We started playing truth or dare, long story short we ...

I found he did some "swinging" two years into our dating... and not from him. How should I feel?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4369 days ago

28 April 2012 (F) - Dear Cupid, I'm in an exclusive relationship going on two years. We both own our homes. He is divorced and my husband passed away. He never would give me much information on why they divorced and claimed he never cheated on her, they just gre...

Am I just being blinded by love?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4371 days ago

28 April 2012 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for 4 months now and I do genuinely love her but a couple months ago she got really drunk on a night out with her friends and ending up dancing and kissing another guy AND they exchanged numbers. Realising what she had ...

I don't want to be perceived as the awkward kid, I want to fit in!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4371 days ago

28 April 2012 (M) - I feel like I have done wrong by a lot of people, and in doing so, I feel I have let myself down. I know I am a teenager and I have a lot of time to get my head around it all but for a long time now, I have been trying to figure out why I had so...

I want to do things differently and ask her out with a letter. Any ideas on what to say please?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4371 days ago

28 April 2012 (M) - Can someone please give me a sample of a letter to send the girl I wish to ask to be my girlfriend? I do believe she is ready for the next step, as I know I am. She's 17, I'm 19. We've been talking for almost a year, and we both know we like each ...

Girls would you be OK with this? Guys how do you feel about men having strippers at a bachelor's party?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4366 days ago

28 April 2012 (F) - I am just asking this question out of curiousity. It is for both men and women. How do you feel about men having strippers at a bachelor's party? Maybe it is because I have low self-esteem but if my fiance was enjoying that kind of show, I woul...

Am I just worried over nothing? Her love and appreciation only happens on line

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4372 days ago

28 April 2012 (M) - I've been with my girl friend for a while and i get texts, emails, messages on facebook, all telling me how great i am. What a nice kind guy I am. And a true gentleman. She tells me she enjoys it when i come over and spend time with her and her ...

Does my potentially bi friend like me? He has a girl friend, but he maybe likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4372 days ago

28 April 2012 (M) - My friend that i've known for about 6 months is bi...i think. I mean, I never thought he was, but people told me he was and then the other day we were talking in a group about girls we found attractive and then he started to list guys too. (Btw he's ...

Why has he not offered to take me out? He's my ex. He'll spend time with me but that's it.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4371 days ago

28 April 2012 (F) - I am starting to develop feelings for my ex-boyfriend AND I don't really know If he's attracted or if he still has feeling for me. We dated years back AND I hadn't seen him in quite some time, like 11 years ago. He is not married, but he is dati...

Why a 180 from what she said she wanted a week ago? Did I do something wrong?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4213 days ago

28 April 2012 (M) - Ive been with my girl friend for a few months. She asked me to move in with her and her children. This happened about a week ago. Everything was falling into place. i treat her like a queen and her children are treated the same way. I do everythi...

Boyfriend liking/saving sexy pictures of exes and attractive female friends, how to overcome my jealousy

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4370 days ago

27 April 2012 (F) - I know my plight is not as dire as some and I should consider myself lucky its not worse. I just want to know how to get over my anger and jealousy so we dont have to fight about it anymore! My boyfriend of nearly 6 years (hes in his early thirti...

I'm falling for my ex again, but she's not giving me any assurances

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4372 days ago

27 April 2012 (M) - Hey everyone, My problem is getting back with an ex. We broke up about 2 months ago, after a nearly all that time waiting for her I started to move on but then she suddenly wanted me back. I happily said yes as we never broke up for any decent r...

I didn't trust him and tested him and now I've lost him!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4369 days ago

27 April 2012 (F) - Dear friend, I feel quite sad in this two weeks, Iam craying every single moment , guess why!! It.s have been 5 months that I am in relationship with a lovely man, I think now clearly I am in love with him, but In last two weeks I think I made a b...

How can I overcome this jealousy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4373 days ago

26 April 2012 (F) - Hello can anyone offer some advice to me My boyfriend and I have been together for about 6 months and he has this girl friend that he has known about a year. When we first got together he would always be out with her and she was constantly calling ...

Boyfriend drunk texting/sexting a girl he slept with. Need advice!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4373 days ago

26 April 2012 (F) - My boyfriend keeps texting a girl that he slept with way before we started dating, but he only texts her when he is drunk. Sometimes it's sexting and then just being friendly. It really bothers me, because of things that his mates tell me about her ...

After looking on his phone and on Facebook I'm suspicious about him and this girl he used to hook up with, should I confront him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4373 days ago

26 April 2012 (F) - My boyfriend and I got in our first fight after 5 months of dating and now 4 months of being boyfriend/girlfriend.. not so bad for just having our first fight. It was a HUGE fight and I won't go into details because it will take a very long time to ...

How can I read the signs?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4373 days ago

26 April 2012 (M) - How can i tellers if a girl is showing a particular interest in me? Does she stare at you when she thinks you're not looking? Does she stand closer to you when it seem unnecessary? Does she start conversations with you out of the blue? The reaso...

I am separating, but my male friend is dating someone else. Why won't he wait for me?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4154 days ago

26 April 2012 (F) - Here is my story. I am in the process of separating from my husband. The separation is in the beginning stages. We are going forward with it but are in the process of selling our home. Hubby works in another city and is rarely home which makes it ...

Its hard to Trust when Temptation is always present along with opportunity.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4373 days ago

25 April 2012 (M) - I am a man that can admit that I have such a hard time trusting women. I am afraid of being lied to, cheated on, and used for my gentlemanly, respectful, and generous ways. I have a woman (fiance)that is very beautiful and she is has a large set ...

He's depressed and never responds to my emails or texts, and never answers the phone. How do I deal with my irritated feelings over this situation?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4372 days ago

25 April 2012 (F) - My boyfriend recently 'went' back to the east coast where he's from, and there's no certainty if he will come back, or when. All of his stuff is still over here with me... but I can easily see him decide to stay over there and have all his stuf...

My family still thinks I'm a jerk, but I've changed!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4373 days ago

25 April 2012 (M) - When I was a young teenager (14-16) i was a major jerk and caused alot of grief and problems for my family. Since then I have gotten several major reality checks and I've gotten better. But the problem is that my family still doesnt trust me, this ...

Our outlooks are different. I already have a Bf. So why an I crushing on this very different guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4374 days ago

25 April 2012 (F) - I am very confused. Something very strange is happening to me, and I really need an explanation. I met someone that I have been talking to..l will call him X X and me used to work together and were always good friends, he moved to another...

Is my fiance having a relationship with her cousin who is in prison?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4374 days ago

25 April 2012 (M) - I was cleaning my fiancé’s car and notice while in the trunk there were a number of letters in a large bag. The letters were from someone in prison to my fiancé. Curiosity made me read a letter and in the letter it stated that he was going to take ...

Am I allowed to tell him I don't trust him on his holiday?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4375 days ago

24 April 2012 (F) - I don't trust my boyfriend to go on a lads holiday with his 2 mates (one who is single and the other who is taken but has the mind of a single boy) because my boyfriend lied to me and cheated on me 2 years ago (hasn't done anything since). Am I ...

I want to get married to this man someday, but to stand at the alter with the man who used to abuse me standing by his side, is unthinkable!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4372 days ago

24 April 2012 (F) - I love the man I am with, unfortunately his best friend is an ex of mine, an abusive ex. His argument is that they have been friends longer than I have known him and that everyone makes mistakes. He is a godly man and believes we need to forgive one ...

How do I handle the fears of my girlfriend that I will get hurt climbing to the summit? It is my dream to do this climb

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4375 days ago

24 April 2012 (M) - Ok, so next year, I am scheduled to climb to the summit of Mt Everest, the worlds tallest mountain. This has been my dream ever since I was a little boy. I am taking up a particular route to the summit. Yesterday I was watching a video of an area ...

B/f proposed to me but I'm unsure since he seems addicted to porn

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4374 days ago

24 April 2012 (F) - My bf of 2.5yrs has asked me to marry him. I know most women would be absolutely giddy with happiness, yet I told him that I needed to think about it. Earlier in the year I walked in on him jacking off to porn. When we first started dating he told ...

How do I distingush whether he likes me or just likes to have sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4375 days ago

23 April 2012 (F) - I started to date a guy and wish to have a serious long term relationship. If the guy want to have sex with me? How do i distingush whether he like me or just like to have sex? How long or how many dates should have before the intimacy? thanks an...

I have jealousy issues!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4376 days ago

23 April 2012 (F) - Hey aunts and uncles I hope you are all well! So I am back again looking for some more help if possible? My question is about jealousy. I know I have really bad issues my boyfriend just has to look at a female and its like a flame in my heart and I ...

How do I find out if he's just stringing me along?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4375 days ago

23 April 2012 (F) - Boyfriend of a yr and a half only talks about us getting together when we're retired - that 17 yrs from now! We both own separate homes now yet we spend 3-5 nights together every week. I want to be under one roof but he says nothing about our near ...