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Archived questions from: February, 2015 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

Should I tell the guy I love that I love him? - long back story urgent help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3333 days ago

28 February 2015 (F) - Hey girls and guys . Heres the back story to my problem. I've been in love with the same guy (my best guy friend) since I met him 3/4 years ago. However our relationship is not what I wish it could have been. The first time I tried to tell him...

Is this man capable of being faithful? Should I trust him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3332 days ago

28 February 2015 (F) - I've been with a lovely man for 2 years who has been wonderful to me, including inviting my criminal son to stay with him when he was released from prison. Even when my son stole from him he didn't reject me ( but did quite rightly kick my son out)...

I found lip gloss in his car and I suspect he is cheating. Should I end it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3339 days ago

24 February 2015 (F) - I had a dream where my boyfriend told me "I'll always be your friend" and it was basically a break up. Lately, things have felt different and I do suspect another woman is in the picture. His behavior has changed and I found lipgloss in his car he ...

How can a husband handle such an issue?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3339 days ago

24 February 2015 (M) - Is it proper for the woman to always pin her phones preventing her husband to never have access to her phone? Even when the husband demand that both of them should remove pin code from their phones, she refused. There after the maids alleged that ...

A three way kiss? Do I tell my Bf? He tends to hurt me when he gets mad.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3339 days ago

24 February 2015 (?) - Ok so basically I have been with my boyfriend now for almost 3 years. We are happy enough, don't really feel butterflies that much any more but we do love each other and he cares about me dearly as I do him. We have fun together and he is my bes...

He chooses to masturbate while looking at pictures of women. Will this only get worse? What can I do?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3338 days ago

24 February 2015 (F) - My partner of seven years just admitted to using pictures of females .. Not porn. Just pictures of their bodies so he can masturbate. So it's not the action of sex - it's strictly their boobs and butts he wants to see. My major concern is that ...

I told him I wasnt ready for a relatiosnhip then I found out he slept with someone else...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3340 days ago

23 February 2015 (F) - I had been dating this guy for the passed 4 months around 2 months into thing he said that he wanted a relationship and that he had strong feeling for me but as i had not long got out of a terrible 3 years relationship i told him i wasn't ready just ...

My uncertainties are ruining my relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3340 days ago

22 February 2015 (F) - Hi I've been with my bf for almost a year. We usually only see each other at weekends bbecause of work commitments on both parts but sometimes we get chance through the week, though this is not often. The trouble is, I think I'm obsessed...

I've recently discovered inappropriate messages between my boyfriend and other girls

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3341 days ago

22 February 2015 (F) - My boyfriend left his snapchat logged in on my ipad and my friend was over using it and thought it was my snapchat and saw some things that were quite questionable. There are many message from him to other girls telling them they look extra hot ...

I need advice about my married lover and his intentions

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3340 days ago

22 February 2015 (F) - hello my name is sweet c and i have a problem that i need help with. ok i met this guy and we hit it off the first night and we ended up sleeping together the first night. but the sex was different because he was having a hard time getting up. so w...

Why is my girlfriend not afraid of losing me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3341 days ago

22 February 2015 (F) - i typed a whole chunk but deleted it.. actually i think what i really want to ask is: 1) why is my partner always so chilled when we fight? she could ignore me the entire day and still do her own things while i agonise and wait for her to talk ...

Help me, I think he's cheating? Am I being irrational?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3340 days ago

21 February 2015 (F) - Hi, I'm 21 dating a 32 year old man. I've had some reservations, fears and worries about this relationship but I really love him. We haven't been having sex for over a month because he has been having trouble getting it up. Recently, I had ...

How can I cope with this? Hasn't been a good marriage. Wife is leaving me.

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3338 days ago

20 February 2015 (M) - So after five years of marriage my wife is leaving me. It hasn't been a good marriage, with her spending our money and leaving me to pay off he debts, she has ben humiliating me. She makes herself look good, but she rarely helps around the house et...

How can I get rid of my bad reputation in a small town? My new Gf's father said I should not be dating his daughter

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3342 days ago

20 February 2015 (M) - I'm 21 and I just started dating an amazing girl. Unfortunately I did a lot of stupid stuff in my past to make fathers not want me near their innocent daughters. She is 18, a senior in high school and lives at home. Her father liked me the fir...

33 years of amazing mariage but the spark has gone. How can I deal with my wish to leave my wife?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3340 days ago

20 February 2015 (M) - I'm thinking of leaving my wife after 33yrs of an amazing marriage. It all began three years ago. I was let down badly by people I trusted (including my wife)I needed to feel valued again. I met someone and we began a relationship. I ...

How do I let him know of my needs? I do worry about him flirting with other girls. And it does upset me that he doesn't compliment me as often as I would like.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3340 days ago

20 February 2015 (F) - How do I learn to trust my boyfriend? He does go out with his friends. But I'm just worried he is out flirting with women. Its frustrating that at his age he still loves going to clubs and he drinks a lot. I love him but wish he grows more m...

Unavailable and attached....so why do I attract and seem to be drawn to such men? How can I break this cycle?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3343 days ago

20 February 2015 (F) - I need help trying to explain why I only seem to attract, or focus on unavailable men. I am young, and I am seeing an older man, who is married with children. I was seeing a married man, yes this is unethical, and goes beyond values that I though...

Newly married, but I've lost my sex drive completely. What can I do? What could cause this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3343 days ago

20 February 2015 (F) - Hello, I just recently got married literally about a week ago. However, I've lived with my husband for a little over a year. For about 9-10 months now, I've not wanted sex at all. I'm on birth control pills, and on anxiety medication so I'...

At the very beginning, a year ago, I said I was single. But that wasn't true back then. Do I tell him, now, about this lie?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3344 days ago

19 February 2015 (F) - Hello, So I am looking for a little guidance on a problem that is eating away at me. I have been in a relationship with my significant other for a year. This relationship is by far the best one that I have ever been in and my boyfriend is trul...

So many broken promises from my Bf. After 4.5 years how do I break up with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3343 days ago

19 February 2015 (F) - Modnote: some graphic language removed from post, without changing the meaning. . . . . . . . . . . I am so sick of the rubbish that comes out of my boyfriend's mouth. I'm at my breaking point and want OUT of this relationship. I'm miserable with h...

Do I answer her or not? She messages me, I ignore her. She keeps messaging. How to get her to stop?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3344 days ago

19 February 2015 (?) - Do I answer to this girl or not. We were family friends and became closer two years ago and at first she thought I was a player but as we got closer realized that I was far from it. I was trying to go from a "nice guy" to a jerk and she told me not ...

I've been seeing him for six months but he won't show me his home

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3344 days ago

19 February 2015 (F) - I meet a guy for the past six month now,he's an engineer,and and i'm begining to fall in love with him,but the problem is i don't know his house,we stay 2geda in hotel sometimes,and i have asked him several times his house,but he kept on telling ...

Don't want to settle down yet. Should I be making more of an effort to find a partner and settle down?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3343 days ago

19 February 2015 (F) - I'm 21 years old and don't feel ready to settle down for ages. I've been single my whole life (had a lot of things to deal with like an abusive family) and would rather be single right now too. Superficially society might consider me most physical...

How small is small for a man's penis if the man is 5 foot and 11 inches and 195 pounds?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3343 days ago

19 February 2015 (M) - Hello everyone sorry to be the umpteenth guy asking this question but how small is small when it comes to penis size? Im 23 and have had sex with over 20 girls but its always been in the back of my head that I'm unproprtional and small. My size is ...

Can I ever win him back or is that unrealistic? I'd like another chance to reconnect. What can I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3345 days ago

18 February 2015 (F) - Okay I feel like an idiot even writing this but I need other peoples insight. I was with my ex for 6 years, I have borderline personality disorder which caused alot of stress and fights and I believe ultimately was the ending of our relation...

Is wanting some ''space'' a sign that she's not as interested in me any more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3345 days ago

18 February 2015 (M) - Hello, I'm writing because my girlfriend broke up with me almost 2 months ago. We had a great relationship and to this day she says there was no "real reason" to break up, she just needed time to think about things, as her grandmother pass...

Did he use me? My married lover just stopped seeing me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3344 days ago

18 February 2015 (F) - So I know that what I have been doing is wrong. I wholeheartedly know this. I just feel sometimes you cannot help who you have a real connection with. This is my situation in a nut shell; I am now 26. When I was 18/19 I used to work for a l...

After these two incidents years apart, I'm not sure that my B/f's happy and committed. What do you guys think I should do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3345 days ago

18 February 2015 (F) - My boyfriend of 4 years was sending flirty text messages with another woman, about how he was going to be in her area soon and how he wanted to see her in a bikini etc. She stopped responding after a few back and forths and so it fizzled out. ...

My Bf wanted to pay for a private lap dancer. For me. Should I be worried by his actions during the lap dance?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3345 days ago

18 February 2015 (F) - My boyfriend and I just went to Mexico and decided to hit up one of the local strip joints. He wanted to pay for a lap dance for me in a private room. It began with him just watching to the stripper asking him to join in. While it was hot and heav...

He wants me to be exclusive with him. But there is another woman in his life. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3345 days ago

18 February 2015 (F) - i met this guy i been having sex with him the last mouth he has been helping me in so many ways. he talks to my kids he tells me he wish he met me fours years ago before he met the women he is with now he wants me to wait for him for me to have no ...

He's in jail and was my wild Bf. How can I help him without it becoming a relationship agani?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3344 days ago

18 February 2015 (F) - I have recently split up with my boyfriend but I'm really confused about what to do. I was in a relationship for 8 years with a guy who was really quite boring, we had nothing in common and my life was a bit mundane. After I split up with him...

What can we do to work through the issues that impact on us as a couple due to her parents prejudice against disabilities?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3345 days ago

17 February 2015 (M) - first off, i have a disability which impacts me physically. it's nothing serious and i can live a normal life, but with some minor limitations. ok, so i've been dating this absolutely amazing girl. she fully understands my limitations, and...

What can I do to help him understand he is ruining our relationship?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3345 days ago

17 February 2015 (F) - Im in a relationship with a younger man there is no doubt on my mind we love each other, he goes to work I am home I rarely go out I pretty much stay to myself before the relationship began I was always surrounded by fam and friends they were always ...

We are separated but trying to work it out, I'm worried that he's not attracted to me or prefers to watch younger women in porn! Help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3325 days ago

17 February 2015 (F) - My husband and I have been seperated a year and living in different houses. We mainly seperated because we had drifted apart and I felt the love wasn't there or at least that he never expressed it. He has always had a major problem with e pressing ...

Am I paranoid or right to be concerned about the attention she receives?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3346 days ago

16 February 2015 (M) - My girlfriend of three years has a very competitive career which means sometimes her male clients use the fact that they are the business source as leverage for attention. That results in my girlfriend having to go to lunch or maybe even happy hour ...

I want a break now. Life was simpler five years ago before knowing him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3348 days ago

15 February 2015 (F) - My bf isn't romantic, didn't expect anything for V-day so I was happy to just spend some time with him. Then, I find out he had plans for tonight. I wasn't included. I always work on Saturday nights, he never asked me to take the day off etc so I'm ...

She's falling for my ex-crush. How can I deal with this and not lose friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3347 days ago

14 February 2015 (F) - Hey guys, so I'm in a pretty complicated spot here. My best friend and I are very close, but them last week something happened. She's falling head over heels in love with my ex-crush. I have a boyfriend, yes, but she feels like she shouldn't go...

Being so close to Valentine's day, what is the best way to break-up a relationship around this time?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3349 days ago

14 February 2015 (F) - hi everybody! happy Valentine's day! Need some advise on the best way to end or quit a relationship that you are just tired of after a year or more . Is it Ok to tell the other partner that 'I am tired of this relationship and I don't wish to cont...

I'm feeling resentful towards my wife for her lies about her sexual past. Has this permanently changed our relationship?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3262 days ago

14 February 2015 (M) - I will make this simple short and sweet. My wife lied to me about her sexual past and was not honest about it. She had made herrself sound innocent and I knew she wasn't a virgin when we met. Being dumb and naïve I didn't press the issue further....

Was I a fool to expect too much of him as a friend? Should I have been less supportive towards him, earlier?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3348 days ago

14 February 2015 (M) - The friendship issue i have is a few months ago my friend was jobless and he was at home almost for 7 to 8 months . While he was at home taking care of stuff{cleaning, taking dogs for walk.cooking(partially) } I put my personal life on hold...

My husband calls me fat and useless, I think he is cheating on me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3349 days ago

14 February 2015 (F) - My husband Is cheating and denies ces So rude towzrds me and everytime He tells me am So,fat,uselesscalls me idiot.he sends secret messages to a particulzr girl,once i asked himhe shouted and got annoyed of me and pretend he didnt know anything....

My LDR boyfriend doesn't trust me

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3348 days ago

14 February 2015 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend a little over a year. We met online, and eventually met in person. As of right now we're LDR (long distance relationship.) again, just for a few more months. Ever since day 1, he has had trust issues. MAJOR. At fir...

Am I being selfish when I feel that he's too clingy when perhaps he is being concerned and serious about me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3351 days ago

12 February 2015 (F) - Hello everyone! I'm 21 and before I left to study abroad (6 month exchange program) I was seeing someone (let's call him B) exclusively for about a month. I did not get into an official relationship with him because I felt that it was difficult to ...

Is online flirting cheating?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3350 days ago

12 February 2015 (F) - I am in a relationship with a wonderful person. He is 10 years older than me and I love the fact that he is more experienced and worldly wise than I am. I met him on facebook and we hit it off immediately. We are both abroad away from our families ...

I'm finding it difficult to continue living in this atmosphere of deception.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3347 days ago

12 February 2015 (F) - There was a period of five years in my present relationship, of 20 years, where sex stopped. For me, it was part of a larger package of the menopause, our teenage daughter's behaviour and my partner's semi-loss of potency. In October last year I ...

Should we allow my mother in law to babysit our very young child while our m I l appears to be drinking alcohol to get drunk regularly?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3349 days ago

12 February 2015 (F) - I think my mother in law drinks (commercial product/mouth wash) to get that drunk feeling instead of wine. My m.i.l. babysits my 6 month old baby, and she always had a drinking problem, she drinks wine everyday, until we asked her to stop because ...

Fallen for one guy. Like another guy, as just a friend. Both flirting with me. How do I choose?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3350 days ago

12 February 2015 (F) - I have ran into a dilemma. I broke up a guy I've fallen for a boy a year older than me, in my band, and he's the nicest person I've ever met. He's helped me through some pretty harsh times. And there's his friend. In my view, we're like siblings....

I'm feeling insecure in the relationship since boyfriend likes watching transsexuals

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3352 days ago

11 February 2015 (F) - I have been researching this a lot but just wanted more feedback as I'm feeling unsure still. I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and we live together. We have s good sex life and are very happy. The first thing I found out about was that he ...

How do I open up and trust my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3342 days ago

11 February 2015 (M) - Hi! I suppose I would put it by saying that I've having difficulty transitioning into my new (and first) relationship. I'm at my final year at university and I recently met a guy I really like, and who really likes me back, and we've been 'toge...

Pleaseee help me I want to die,my boyfriend of 7 yrs is leaving me because I told him about my past.?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3349 days ago

11 February 2015 (F) - my boyfriend of 7 yrs has a long sexual history including gangbangs,orgys, etc with 50+ girls. he done drugs. he neve r lied n we go to church and we are very in love. i trust he doesnt hide anything and loves me. we started off as f.buddya ...