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Archived questions from: October, 2007 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

We broke up then got back together, she asked me to marry her, but now she is backing off, help me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5990 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - I am a 25. i have been with my g/f for about 3 years with a 1 year separation. I moved away to go to college and she cheated on me and then broke up with me. We recently got back together a couple of months ago and she asked me to marry her. Last ...

We were friends with benefits, now I want a serious relationship, can I trust him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5850 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - Alright so we started out as a one night stand about 3 years ago when I was 16 and he was 23. After that we became friends with benefits and remained that way for a long time, while I was completely in love with him. I started applying pressure to ...

Even though it is just a friendship, since she kept it a secret I am disturbed and want it over

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5977 days ago

31 October 2007 (M) - 8 months ago I discovered my wife was emailing an old guy friend I had never met that she had known from high school. She had written like 40 emails, all very long, one a day. I was very hurt and mad that she did not even bother telling me as ...

I'm confused - why is it so easy for him to stay friends with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6020 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - My ex BF wants to be friends, I know I am still in love with him, but he has major issues he needs to iron out, I also have some trust issues with him so I really don't see us getting back together. He wants to stay friends and we kind of have to ...

Am I paranoid?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6020 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for just over a year, we hav split up a few times because he lies about the girls he has been with when we have been on a brake, i make sure that im completely honest with him as i no the truth always comes out.We are ...

Should I take him back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6020 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - My ex and I were together for over a year before he had to move back home for work. We were so in love and very happy. I knew though that him and hie ex were still in contact over the phone but thought nothing of it as I tried to deal with the fact ...

Please Help! I can't get rid of the feeling that my boyfriend is cheating!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - Please help! I have this burning feeling in my gut that my boyfriend is cheating on me. Even though i have tried to convince myself otherwise, the feeling just won't go away! Here's the deal: we have been together for quite some time- almost 3 ...

I cheated and I know its wrong, but it takes two to tango doesn't it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - Do you think it's true that it's not ONLY the person who cheats who is at fault when it happens? I guess I was just wondering about your opinions because I would consider myself a very good person who was caught in a "grey" situation and un...

My fiance accuses me of cheating, he's also immature, how can I cope?

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 5562 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - My fiance is always asking me if i'm with someone else and it sucks because i am always so honest . I feel as if it's his past that makes him insecure (his player lifestyle)..well sunday i went over to talk to him about it..and again he began with ...

He accuses me of cheating but wants to marry me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 9 mths now. He lives in Trinidad, i am in Tobago. he always acuses me of cheating and lying. i love him so , he does also (he says so ) and i believe him, but that is always the reason for us to argue. it hurts ...

Is he lying about his internet activities?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - Is he lying? Yesterday I was looking in the computer's history. It was not where you put in the web addresses, it was under the favorited websites, I guess there is an area that you can look at the history and I didn't know that. Anyway...

Can I trust him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - I have been very un-trustful with my fiancee since I found out he had cheated on me 2 years ago. I forgave him but will never forget. So now I find myself looking through his e-mails and have recently found out that he has been registering onto sex ...

He will work away from home for a while and I'm terrified he will cheat again, as it happened in the past when we faced distance!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6021 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - Hi, I'm in a bit of a strange situation at the moment. I have been with my boyfriend for just over 2 years now and we moved in together a month ago. He has been asked to work away from home for 3 months which will start just before christmas. It is ...

He won't admit to cheating, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5948 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - I have been with my husband for 7 years. This year he moved to another work premises. He was "working late" but we never seemed to have any extra money as a result of this. I noticed one evening when I was out that a number had shown up on the ...

I worry about everything and even compare him to my ex, I don't want to be like this - help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - I feel so confused and messed up at the moment. I have been in a relationship with my bf for a month now and i dont feel happy in it. He treats me right, well I think he does anyway and he doesnt do anything overly wrong. Compare him to my ex bf who ...

He ignores me, now I've got someone who wants to be with me, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6022 days ago

29 October 2007 (F) - I love my boyfriend. We have been together for over six months, and I have never had a problem with how much time he spends with his friends or what he does while he's with them. But lately we never spend time together unless I go over to his house ...

My ex won't leave me alone and I'm scared of dating.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5860 days ago

29 October 2007 (F) - When I was 15 i starting dating a guy who was really nice. We got engaged after just a few weeks, fast I know but we were young. After about 9 months during an argument he hit me across my face. I was really confused at the time I thought he loved ...

All I seem to focus on is the negatives...how can I stop this and have a normal relationship??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6022 days ago

29 October 2007 (F) - Hi everybody. Hope somebody can help me here or if somebody is in a similar situation. I have met a lovely guy who travels alot for his job but when we see each other the time we spend together is great, he is very caring and very affectio...

I can't trust him to tell the truth. Any suggestions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6022 days ago

29 October 2007 (F) - Hi - I have been seeing my boyfriend for 2 years (the last 6 months he has been living abroad). He told me only last week (during an argument on the phone when I shouted he had been selfish leaving me alone like this) that he had actually delayed ...

Why am I tormented by visions of my ex doing things with other men?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6019 days ago

29 October 2007 (M) - A few months ago, my girlfriend split with me because she was going to university far from me. And now, I keep envisioning her making out and having Sex with other guys. I am the only guy she has ever slept with, as she's never been in a long term ...

I feel like an addict

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

28 October 2007 (M) - Hey Cupids, Why cant I just let go! Even through my ex walked all over my heart and totally took my feelings for granted I still think about her all the time and am fighting the urge to pick up the phone and call her! I have the possibility...

Is he playing me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6021 days ago

28 October 2007 (F) - Hi all, thanks for reading this. I've been dating a guy casually since January of this year. We're not exclusive. We hang out in the same social circle. He says he doesn't want anyone to know we're dating, because I once dated someone else in the ...

Lack of communication is hurting me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

28 October 2007 (M) - Been going out with this girl for a few months now. Everything was great for the first few weeks, but college has kinda taken over our lives. It has become harder and harder to see each other, so I text her once a day just to check in. Sometimes, ...

Is it worth the gamble?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6023 days ago

28 October 2007 (F) - i have been loosing interest in my boyfriend for a long time. ive spoken to him about it and tried to do different things but nothing happens. he's letting his appearance go and i no longer find him attractive at all. he hasnt done anything with his ...

My boyfriend never invites me to parties... Should I be worried or am I overreacting?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

28 October 2007 (F) - Hi, I'm a 20 yr old female. I've been in a relationship for the past 8 months. Although I know it's normal for the dynamic of a relationship to change over time, I just can't seem to shake the feeling of inevitable doom. Around September, my bo...

My husband now wants me to obey him, as head of the household. We cannot agree on this particular issue.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6023 days ago

28 October 2007 (F) - Hello I hope you can help me i'm at the end of my tether. I have been married very happily for 16 years. Recently my husband and I have been discussing how best to talk to our teenage daughter about sex. She already has a little knowledge l...

How do I catch him out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6024 days ago

27 October 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and his friend went out clubbing one night last week. My boyfriends friend told his girlfriend that my boyfriend brought a girl back to the flat and they slept in living room all night. He doesn't know if something went on. The ...

How can I ever trust him again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6019 days ago

26 October 2007 (F) - How do I get passed the doubts of him cheating? In June of 2007 I found out by my boyfriend's co-worker that he asked another woman to party that he told me was a guys only get together and that he had already met this woman out before and she drov...

Do I have the right to stand my ground??

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

26 October 2007 (M) - Hey everyone, I'm the kind of guy that i don't care where my gf goes im in anohter country and i have been away from her for over a year. I'm back in 2 months but i don't think i can get passed this next obstacle. She wants to go to a Hallowee...

Me and my pal tricked him into exposing himself on the webcam. How can I trust him again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

26 October 2007 (F) - i'm 19, and the guy i was seeing is 21. we used to be good friends before all this. we started speaking on myspace after not having contact in a while.we sent flirty emails and texts and met up the following week. he came round mine and we kiss...

If I'm single, I'm fine, but once I am involved, I become so insecure!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6026 days ago

26 October 2007 (F) - I always fear sooo insecure in relationships. Im usualy ok/fine when im single....but as soon as i get into a relationship im not fine. Why is this? ...

He says he is working but I see him online! I want this to work but feel he is lying.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6026 days ago

26 October 2007 (F) - okay, back with my bf. he seems to be pretty honest, but he works at a fast food place (cuz hes 16. im 14-he dated a variety of ages so dont lecture meee please) well for someone who works 4-9 how could he be on myspace at 7?? i dont understand ...

He is in the forces for 2 months, our contacts will be almost non-existent because of the nature of his job. I'm worried he'll end contact with no explanations, as my ex has!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6026 days ago

25 October 2007 (F) - Hi everybody, my problem is trivial but im making myself ill with worry and at the moment. I have been seeing a lovely guy for a very short time (two weeks) but those two weeks we spoke to each other everyday and when he was home spent alot of time ...

Our situation is extremeley complicated and I wish that my partner could see that I've finally grown up. What should I do to be a couple again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

24 October 2007 (M) - i have been with my partner 9 years. we have an eight year old son. i was addicted to recreational drugs when we met, though i have since stopped. i lead a avery busy working life and have had little time for my family. i still smoked cannabis up ...

Finally admitted infidelity after 17 years

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5950 days ago

24 October 2007 (F) - I am posting to this group hoping to get some support. 17 years ago, I was married for 5 years just had our first baby. My husband tells me has some kinds of bugs in his pubic hair. Stupid, naive, catholic school girl like me looks it up and finds ...

Her unfounded suspicions are destrying our relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

24 October 2007 (F) - i'm in a lesbian relationship, we have been together for two years. She does not trust me at all. Shes so disrectful to me. Always calling me vulgar names. Everyday I'm accused of cheating, with the neighbors, people walking down the street, ...

I read her secret diary

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

24 October 2007 (M) - In my wife dairy, she has a crush for a marry man at her work. In the dairy she stated that how much she love his smell, touch, and hug. She also mention that she have problem concentrating at work when he is around and dream about making love to ...

The differences between males and females

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

24 October 2007 (M) - Why is it that men are nearly always responsible for crimes. Not just murders and roberies but also child abuse. Yet oddly the ones who can be the most vile are actually women (cat fights and veral abuse). Can anyone explain that?...

I think he gave me the ring just to "trap" me, make me feel better about having sex before marriage. He used to say if I didn't continue sleeping with him he wasn't going to "set a date." Should I stay?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

24 October 2007 (F) - I want to know if my ex-fiance proposed for the right reasons. We are broken up now (I broke up with him), but I still need some resolve. Anyway, after 2 months of dating last year he proposed. When we first starting dating I told him I was waiting ...

Is it love or addiction?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6022 days ago

24 October 2007 (M) - Hey Aunts, My original post is here is you want to read: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-treat-her-like-a-princess-but-she.html I hav'nt spoken to my ex since sunday night, i was quite angry and I didnt part on good terms. Her depressi...

Not feeling wanted

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

24 October 2007 (F) - Dear cupid, well ok here goes nothing i really like this guy but my parents dont they think i can do better but i dont like nobody else he is all i think of and i dont really think he likes me but he aint afraid to be around me at night when nob...

She only shows the kids attection and is considering leaving me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6027 days ago

24 October 2007 (M) - My partner and I have two children and I love a care for her deeply. I love to show her affection but she does not show me any. She tells me that 'this is me, I can't change get use to it, but she does show our children affection. Recently she has ...

Does he love me? Has he cheated?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

24 October 2007 (F) - Hi I have been with my fiance 4 years and we have a son up until my son was born our relationship was troubled. My fiance used to go out clubbing and never come home he would say he stayed with friends. I found texts off his ex and found out they ...

How can I stop dwelling on the past?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6026 days ago

24 October 2007 (F) - Hi have been with my boyfriend 4 years we have a son who is one the first 2 years of our relationship was rocky he would go out and never come home he would text his ex girlfriend behind my back he would tell me he love me one minute and the next ...

I feel she is inconsiderate to me as concerns her relation with her ex, and others have noticed too she's putting me in an incomfortable position. Am I being unreasonable/jealous?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6000 days ago

24 October 2007 (M) - I met a great girl 8 months ago. We get on fantastic. But a little problem is starting to put tension and barriers between us. we have run into her ex b/f on a number of occasions. On the first occasion at her local pub she chatted with him...

We have a relationship and I feel this other woman from miles away who he told me not to worry about in the beginning, is still in the scripts, calling late at night etc.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6027 days ago

24 October 2007 (F) - Dear Cupids My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months, (I pat myself on the back) the relationship has been growing very nicely and we are so in love with each other. He has the best qualities i need from a man and he really knows how...

I suspect there's more to the story

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

24 October 2007 (F) - Its been maybe a week now that me and my boyfriend I mean "ex-boyfriend" broke up and he's really confusing me. We had been going out for almost 2 years we were each others first everything. Then all of a sudden out of no-where he said it was time ...

Why does it hurt again after three years?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6028 days ago

24 October 2007 (F) - My Ex and I were in a long distance relationship, which we ended nearly three years ago. The break up was mostly mutual, and we agreed to a pseudo open relationship. We did see each other twice in the following two months, and I always thought we ...

Life doesn't wait so why should I?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6026 days ago

24 October 2007 (F) - I have been in a serious relationship with this man for 6.5 years now. We finally moved in together this last May. He told me last Christmas he wanted to try living together for atleast 6 months before we take the next step (getting engaged). ...

Why would he be such a monster?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6028 days ago

23 October 2007 (M) - What makes a guy who want to have sex with a girl but she refuses and instead he forces her to do oral sex instead. What are the implication or reasons for his action....