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22-25,
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writes:Hello. I'm a 19 year old guy and my girlfriend is 22. So, it's a 3 years gap and we are both okay with it. We dated for 3 months now hitting 4. And to be honest, I had a great time spending my time with her and her the same and we felt like we have known each other for like years. And of course, there's no such thing as perfect relationship, we also do had fights that almost lead us to ruin our relationship that we highly valued. So, I tried to calm myself and she was not yet calm because I did the unthinkable and childish way and I kinda made her jealous because I just want to see how she gets angry or how she reacts and turns out she didn't respond well. I know, it's not right but I already regret to what I did. So, instead of getting angry at her, I humbled myself and ask for her forgiveness. And it hurts me knowing that she is crying which I vowed myself not to make her cry.I could definitely tell that she was furious but she was holding herself not to blow a fuse. And I don't know how to make her calm because she may look harmless and she is 4'11 but trust me, she is a total fire cracker. So, I tried to calm her down by telling her sweet words such as "I love you so much" "I don't want to lose you" and "I'm sorry. It's my fault" which miraculously, she did calm down and she smiled almost immediately and told me that it's her fault as well. And we mended things so easily. I brought her mangoes and my guitar and we had a great time.But I still wondered if she really forgives me? Because some of the girls I dated, they always got that ego and would definitely ignore me for a week or so. But her, I just sincerely apologise, said sweet words that I mean, explain everything and she was acting all happy and a little bit clingy which I really love because she's a sweet girl. What do you guys think? Did she really forgive me? Because some girls are pretty good at hiding.
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reader, Honeypie  + ♥, writes (2 August 2021):
 Yes, she probably forgave you "for real".
Just don't make THIS a habit. Of you doing or saying something "bad" and then asking for forgiveness.
You say " I did the unthinkable and childish way "- learn to THINK before you do something stupid. It will help you not only with relationships but in life in general.
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reader, kenny  + ♥, writes (2 August 2021):
 You have not been together for very long and you are both having big arguments.
Ok so after the last big argument you apologised, you said it was your fault, and she responded by smiling, saying it was her fault as well and forgiving you. Why are questioning this?. She has forgiven you so let it go and move on with your relationship.
Maybe she thinks life is too short to hold onto unhealthy unhappy feelings and wanted to get back to you both being happy.
Would you prefer it if she ignored you for a week?.
Everyone is different, she is not the girls you dated in previous relationships. You had an argument, and she has forgiven you, so accept this and move on.
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