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female
age
41-50,
*hinana
writes:I would like to direct this question to the guys even though ladies opinions are welcome too. I have become very attracted to a japanese man who works at the embassy in my country. I met him when I started applying for graduate school in Japan and he has helped me out a lot as a result I got accepted to several universities. On the three occasions I have met him over a period of 5 months I have developed a strong fondness to know to get to know him on a personal level, but I just dont know how to get him to ask me out. He is the nerdy type, seems shy but is very nice, polite and friendly, he sometimes immitates the way I talk and has made fun of my lack of knowledge of how to use chopsticks. Because of his influence on my application and the fact that I have a crush on him I get so nervous around him and all my wit and sense of humour seems to disappear. Last time I saw him he invited me to a conference in December and offered to introduce me to one of professors from the graduate school I might attend. Other than the information i have provided and his playfulness around me I have no clue if he likes me or not but how can I hint that I like him without scaring him off. Is it a good idea to contact him via e-mail just saying hie or should I just wait until I meet him at the conference he invited me.
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reader, Justin sexalot  +, writes (10 October 2012):
 I know how you feel, I had that problem when I first asked my wife to dinner! :) just go up to him and say hi, nice to see you! You wanna grab a bite to eat down at McDonald's or something! Stand up for yourself.
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