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writes:There's this guy called M whom I just met recently for the first time, introduced to me by a close female friend of mine called C.About a week later, I went out with C. C said that M told her that he likes me.Before she told me that I could somewhat tell that he likes me:Asking me whether I have a boyfriend, kind of touchy feely, showing off his muscles etc.Well, Valentine's Day is coming and I was thinking of giving something to a few of my close friends, including M.I only met him once. Do you think I should give him a little gift for Valentine's day as a 'Friend'?I'll be asking C to pass it to M for me.I'm giving a better gift to C to make it un-suspicious.What do you think?
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (13 February 2012):
 I also don't think you should get him anything for V-day. You've met him all of once?? You hardly know the guy, so he certainly isn't expecting a gift.
If you two were boyfriend-girlfriend or even going out on a date for V-day then, yes.
Acquaintances at the most? No, too awkward.
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reader, Matto  +, writes (12 February 2012):
 its good to show love to the people we truly love but the question is, do you love him? is he aware of the feelings you have for him? pls don't move faster than you should. the fact that you just met once and he is not even aware of the feelings you have for him (that is if you have any) makes it clear that he cant be your val ( for for now).whatever is meant to be will surely be with time so pls don't rush
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2012): nope, dont do it. if you guys end up getting closer, then other holidays will be there. Also, you dont need a holiday to give a gift. so just wait and see if hes worth giving one too first.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (12 February 2012):
 I'd skip it. M is not a friend, it's a guy you only met ONCE. It does not mean that it cannot escalate to more and maybe next year he'll still be your Valentine, but a gift right now, it feels like coming on too strong ,IMO.
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