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writes:I am feeling alone and confused about what kind of guy to go for.........I have been divorced now for 5 years from a guy I was with for 13 years and have found the dating world a confusing disaster......My ex didnt want or wasn't ready to have children but I still hope to find a good man and have a family.....However, the guys that I go out with, who are charming and I am totally attracted to turn out to be users and on the other hand the men that I go for who I am less then attracted to turn out to be super nice guys and treat me really well but I have no desire to have children with them(there is no chemistry and attraction)..... Is it possible to find a nice guy whom I also find attractive or what am I doing wrong? I know that I am very innexperienced and naive because I spent all my 20's with one man and didn't have any experienced to learn from so any advice at all will be very much apreciated!!!Thank you so much to all...
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reader, Daniel the love doctor  +, writes (28 September 2011):
 You're very welcome. :^)
I wish you the very best!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you so much.............your words made me think..:)
thank you so much!
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reader, Daniel the love doctor +, writes (21 September 2011):
It's perfectly fine to have some standards when it comes to meeting people. But what you have to realize is that NO ONE is going to live up to everything that you want- especially if your standards are set extremely high. In the same breath, I want to say that I don't think you should settle. I believe there is someone out there for everyone.
So just stay active, read dating books/articles, and most importantly remain open to meeting different guys. Love can come from anywhere, anyone, and sometimes from people we wouldn't have even thought.
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