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anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and I (both 21) have been together for 14 months and we've been having sex since the beginning of our relationship. He was a chronic masturbator as a teen whereas I never masturbated. So... I cum super quickly and it takes him forever to "get there" and it's kind of hard for him to even keep it up. Our sex life has been one guilty romp after another...I mean, of course there are times when we actually do have the best sex we've ever had in our lives but that's only when we haven't had sex (and he hasn't whacked off) in ages. But because it takes him forever to get to that point and I'm usually done in about five minutes, I always feel like I'M the lousy lay. It also doesn't help that we both live with our parents and both of our beds are loud as hell.We're going to start living together in November, though. I'm just wondering how we can start syncing up our libidos and start having the sex life that doesn't leave him frustrated and me... guilty that he didn't cum at all. Again. Please help. I'm getting desperate to satisfy him!
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (22 August 2011):
 there are other ways to finish him off even after sex has finished for you. might help if he can not masturbate so much especially in the day or two before he sees you. do you not give him enough foreplay? maybe that could give him the head-start that he needs
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