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I want a serious relationship but I think he want to be friends with benefits....

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Question - (22 August 2011) 4 Answers - (Newest, 24 August 2011)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, *ethf97 writes:

There is this guy who likes me and I like him too, but I think he wants something other than what I want, he hasn't had many past relationships, whereas I have and I don't want a little fling this time, I'm mature now and want something more, a long relationship, which even though im young, is possible. I think he wants to be kind of friends with benefits even though he told me he loved me. In the past I've messed him about, but he has also lied to me and has a wondering eye so I don't know if I should risk it , i already have a man-eater reputation so I don't know, play it safe and knock it off or risk it? X

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A female reader, Bethf97 United Kingdom +, writes (24 August 2011):

Bethf97 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thanks everyone, it's over now, he says I'm a distraction from schoolwork and he needs to concentrate this year so that's us over. I warbling of upset about it and now he just says he hates me :/

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2011):

this guy did that to me. but i told him i really just wanted to be friends because this other guy asked me out and wanted a relationship. so then he tells my friend he really want a relationship with me but i had a boyfriend.

idkk what to tell you because im pulled between guys.

but good luck

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (23 August 2011):

As a woman you will spend the rest of your dating life dealing with guys who would rather be FWB than give you a committed relationship. You can either learn to demand a relationship when you want one right now or you can spend years learning this lesson the hard way.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2011):

I think your too young for a FWT, i mean if it was a serious relationship then that´d be alright.. but thats only my opinion.

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