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writes:So, I met this girl a couple of weeks back. She was in my country on vacation and we spent a week together. We connected in a big way and enjoyed each others company a lot. From here she went on to travel the world for a few more months before returning back to her own country. Just before she left she suggested I come meet her in one of the countries she'll be visiting in a couple of weeks.I know the circumstances were special with her being on vacation. I know the situation is hopeless with her being away for the next few months on top of livinging in a different country.I have the time, I have the money, I could use a vacation anyway, it's a country I've always thought would be interesting to see and even though it may never go any further than that, I really would like to see her again.Just how crazy would it be to go see her at her next destination?
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (22 August 2011):
 Not crazy at all, it's adventurous. You've got nothing to lose, so go! Enjoy your vacation and the great company! Don't expect too much, which you already aren't, and just enjoy what ever may happen.
There are complications, yes, but you can't take all of life's sorrows in advance, and you never know what life may bring. As long as you aren't expecting too much, it should be fine. If nothing else, as long as you're ok with walking away as great friends, then all's well.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2011): Oh, I think she meant it when she said it...The tickets are bought and she seems pretty happy about it :)I'm pretty ecstatic about it myself, really looking forward to it...Thanks for you answer.
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reader, angelDlite  +, writes (22 August 2011):
 this could work out really well for you. if she likes you she will like you EVEN MORE if you make the effort to meet her in her next destination! that shows you are really interested and i think its really romantic!
however if when she suggested it it was because it was a charming or polite thing to say, never expecting you to actually do it - then she will soon make her disinterest clear by not agreeing to meet up with you.
i say go for it - what have you got to lose??
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