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writes:I am 20 years old and never been in a relationship and have never had sex, there is this guy who likes me and has made it obvious and we got quite close intimately one night we did not have sex although nothing has happened since. The whole relationship thing scares me and I get very nervous and start and back away and even things such as kissing I avoided I dont really know what is wrong me I think I like this guy but I dont know what to do?any advice will be helpfulThanks in advance
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reader, Y_v +, writes (25 August 2011):
 What scares you in particular? is it the commitment, having to go through the effort? or is it not knowing what to do to make a relationship work?
IF it's either of those then you are definately not ready to go into a relationship. Take it nice and slow. don't do things that aren't comfortable and the cliche advice of being confident in yourself will bring out the confidence in others. Just find a friend in him first. you don't need to get into anything serious. You'll find your feet once you find you're happy medium of comfort. There are many relationship advice online, or you could ask around. ask friends who are already in relationships, find out pros and cons. but whatever you do, don't rush into things otherwise it may become painfully awkward for both you.
Take it easy x
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