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writes:Hey everybody,So here's the deal.I think I've fallen in love with my cousin, and no matter what anyone says I'm not gonna change my mind, because this is love. I can't control my emotions. I met so many guys but I can't get over him, Every time I see him and I get close to him, I can't help but fall for him all over again.But that's not the thing, the thing is:There's an Up coming wedding party and there's gonna be slow dancing, and I've been planning to ask him for the past few monthsHow should I do it?P.s: There's another cousin (She's a girl) Well she seems to like him too, and she happened to mention that she would dance with him if he agreed (She was talking to lots of people in the room not directly to me)Shall I act like I never heard her?Or Shall I just go with the flow and see what happens?We're all gonna meet next Wednesday which is 3 days away or soSo I thought I would casually ask him to dance with me,If she says she was gonna ask him I would be all "Oh Sorry I didn't know that he's all yours" ... That's just if, I'm hoping she doesn't mention it.Another thing is I'd be awkward and stupid, and what if he Jokingly rejects it?That's why I need you to tell me how to do it.Important note : A third cousin, she told me she noticed He stared at me a lot, she even asked me if he ever told me he likes me or something. So I guess that's a good sign?Another Important note : I personally think he likes me back because we make A LOT of eye contact, and I just can tell by his body language and such.That's it, Thank you for reading.Regards, God bless you. :)
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reader, Linton  +, writes (22 August 2011):
It's quite far from my own social whirl, so I have no advice. On the other hand, it appears that third cousin is just about an ideal mate from a biological perspective if in a few years you're going to think about marrying. Here's an artilce you can find at sciencemag.org. [An Association Between Kinship And Fertility of Human Couples. Agnar Helgason, Snaebjoern Palsson, Daniel F. Guobjartsson, Pordur Kristjansson and Karl Stefanson, SCIENCE vol 329 8 February 2008 page 813] The whole article costs a few bucks, but it might be nice to have somewhere down the road.
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reader, Vanessa_Twinkle  +, writes (22 August 2011):
Go for it!! and Good luck :)
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