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How do I let her know how much she hurts my feelings?

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Question - (16 August 2011) 2 Answers - (Newest, 16 August 2011)
A male Nigeria age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i met this girl about 4 months ago and we have been friends since then.we told each other about ourselves,and stuff,she seemed friendly.suddenly i started noticing some kind of behaviour from her.anytime we met,she gives me a quick wave and looks away,she's always in a hurry to leave whenever we talked.but anytime i call her,she always sound lively and she kind of enjoys talking to me but even after then when we meet in class she greets me casually.i have been the one calling her,since thats the only way i could keep us close.then one day i got anoyed and stopped calling her cos she didn't call for 2 months.but i still like her,infact i was just about telling her how much i love her.how do i let her know how much she hurts my feeling,or is it my fault that she snobs whenever she sees me?

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A male reader, jpgeek Nigeria +, writes (16 August 2011):

What you said is exactly what happened to me with one girl i met in my office. I called her everyday, but she seemed not interested in me, bcos she was in a relationship with one guy, if i stop calling or send her sms her, she will flash me. if i called her back, she ask me why am not calling her again or sending her sms, maybe I have got someone else. I got really confused about her behavior.She wanted me to tell her my feelings towards her, but I want to know her first and friend her before anything love. Bear it in mind that women always hide their feelings from men,I advice you to quit from calling or sms like one week or more than that and see her reaction. if everything went fine. then tell her your feelings and how she want you. hope you understand me?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2011):

I think that you fancy her and she knows and doesn't like that so is keeping her distance to not lead you on

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