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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:Do you believe that there are people who astrologically are meant to meet each other? (not necessarily stick together forever) You might find astrology silly, but it shows that there are people who will eventually find each other, no matter the obstacles.Now the big question is: what if you find out that a married man is such a person? Should I pursue this or just let it go? (we are both Aries, with an age gap of 24) The only thing that draws me to him except his great looks is his sex-appeal. His past with women is complicated, with multiple cheating and now at the age of 51 he is settled down. He claims that in his youth, due to his great looks, women used to offer themselves to him without any effort from his part. Is it worth pursuing something that I sense will be nothing more than a sexual encounter? He is way too lazy, he expects me to step forward and take initiative and him just enjoying ME. He even told me that when it comes to sex he prefers the position "woman on top" to enjoy the view but my bets are that he is too lazy to get his ass moving. Or maybe that's what he is used to from his wife.I need a piece of advice here ...
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reader, Lexie88  +, writes (16 August 2011):
 Hitler was an Aries too...
YouWish offers you great advice. If you've got any self respect you'd let this man go, fast!
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (16 August 2011):
 So, he's married.
He's a serial cheater.
He is 24 years older than you.
He wants to you "service him" during sex.
He's lazy.
He's MARRIED.
A piece of advice?? This guy is an absolute disgusting, demeaning, wife-cheating, bottom-feeding, woman-using, lazy ass pitiful excuse of a man. So what if he's an Aries?
That would be like saying "The guy I'm interested in beats women, has an explosive temper, breaks walls and people's teeth, has a criminal record, has 3 incurable STI's, is a freeloading moocher who doesn't support his 12 kids by 12 different women, and he doesn't shower for 2 months at a time, but BY GOD HE'S AN ARIES, so I must have him!"
My advice is -- get different criteria for choosing guys then "He's an Aries". Also, you should think better of yourself and what you have than to choose a 51-year old used-up serial dirty asshat cheater to give yourself to. That is truly like casting your pearls before swine.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2011): If the only thing drawing you to this relationship is the fact that he is your astrological match, then it's probably best to break it off. x
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (16 August 2011):
 you let it go... there are other Aries in the sea.
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