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*airbabe2u
writes:I have started seeing a man 22 and i'm 43. It started well but he asks me for five or ten dollars here or there and i pay for our dates since i have a full time job and his is part time. He is looking for a full time job also to get a car and we both are full time students. But sometimes he doesn't want to have sex, has no cell, and doesn't seem to want me to kiss or touch him. He is black I'm white. I don't mind helping someone get on their feet, but I don't want to be taken for a fool. He says he wants to get a job to pay for some dates and we talk about sharing expenses on a place but I am a very touchy feely person and need alot of sex and to express myself by touching my person. How could this work if he doesn't like to be touched and he's young, why no sex? I thought he may be seeing others he says no and says he doesn't believe in fbs, but maybe that's one-sided for me not to. Reply to this Question
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (22 May 2010):
 He is a loser. A good man would have appreciated you and been nice to you the whole time. I hope the next guy will be better.
Good luck.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (12 May 2010):
 He only likes you because you are experienced, more mature, undemanding and his sugar momma.
He likes to take but does not want to give. This type of relationship will not last.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (12 May 2010):
 Soon, you need to get yourself some glasses pretty soon. No offense meant.
Poster, think of him as dead weight you're dropping.
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reader, hairbabe2u +, writes (12 May 2010):
hairbabe2u is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks everyone we broke up today, he doesn't like my body he said but he shouldn't have made me fall for him...reading me poetry with teary eyes the first night we met...asking me to love him...calling me lovely...(men shouldn't send mixed message, but if he was using me I suppose they will.)
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (9 May 2010):
You're being used.
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reader, bigsister83 +, writes (9 May 2010):
What are you getting out of this relationship exactly? It sounds like a whole lot of nothing, which isn't a big surprise since this kid is twenty-two years old. Think back to when you were twenty-two. Seriously. End it.
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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (9 May 2010):
Don't be a fool and don't allow yourself to be used . Time to change a newer model.
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (9 May 2010):
Find yourself another man who likes what you like. He doesn't sound like he's that interested in you and is only taking what's available. Don't be a sugar momma.
Good luck.
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reader, Danielepew +, writes (9 May 2010):
Sorry, but he seems to be using you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2010): Well you know very well what you are getting into. He doesn't have money. He doesn't have a car. He rarely likes to have sex. He doesn't like to be kissed. He doesn't like to be touched. He doesn't believe in fbs (don't know what that is but he doesn't believe in it). He is 22 years old (which I am not even going to go into all the implications behind the fact that he is so young)...That's very kind of you that you want to help him get on his feet. But I can't say he is taking you for a fool because you know very well what's up. If you feel like a fool it is because you are not getting what you want out of this give and take relationship you both have going. This isn't the best arrangement for you and so perhaps its time to find someone who better suits your needs and wishes.
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