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We broke up and I can't get over him! Help!

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Question - (9 May 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 10 May 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

hiaa I have a problem. I broke up with my bf a few months ago and now he's with someone else. but I can't get over him. its when youve not got someone that u realise how much you needed them. and now when ever I see them together I have to leave the room to stop myself from crying. people say I should get over him but I can't and I dont know how to. I have no interest in other guys just him. plzz help x

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 May 2010):

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thanks xx ive taken on board all tht xx ill make a huge effort to get over him an see where i end up x thanks again x

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A female reader, fishy fish United States +, writes (9 May 2010):

I think the fact that ur not interested in other guys is because u haven't met the right one yet who's compatible with u , so ur flashbacking ur last relationship and feeling bitter cause he has moved on. Put in mind that u should get over him and u will trust me! Be strong and realistic and forget about him!

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A female reader, Shonababes United Kingdom +, writes (9 May 2010):

This has happened to me too darl.

I'm 16 and been with my boyfriend since I was 14 and he was 16, so yeah he's now 18. All I can really tell you is that it's hard.

Me and my bf argued for a whole 3 weeks just constant none stop swearing at each other and calling each other names . . . . he was texting his ex saying that i'm boring him and telling his mates at college that he's pissed off with me and that he thinks he's made a mistake with being with me.

I lost my v to this dude, and I seriously don't reccomend you loosing yours as yet cause I was only 15 and i'm still with him but I regret loosing my virginity to him.

I also have no interest in other guys cause to me . . . he's perfect, so I understand were your coming from.

All I can say is to give him some space for a week or so and then text him, ring him, email him or whatever telling him you are still in love with him etc and you don't want this other lass getting in the way. Mention that if he doesn't want to speak to you or see you again, then say you will leave him to his life, this will make him realise that just letting you chase after him is coming to a full stop and your ready to give in so he has a last chance basically.

Hope this goes well, if you want to know more, email me.

Good luck xxx

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