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How can I get my b/f in the mood?

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Question - (9 May 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 9 May 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hey i was wondering when me and my bf are away from each other we mostly text or talk on the phone, well most the time when i want to talk about sex il say some thing like "im cold come here and warm me up or im hot help me cool off" Do you have any other ideas on things i could say to get the mood started?

Also i use to talk about sex alot and he even said i was the horniest girl he dated but then he seemed like he was thinking thats all i want. Witch is not true i love him very much, so i stoped talking about it for awhile an now he wants me to do it more like i did before witch is ok. But i dont know how to get back to how i was, Most the time now when i say some thing dirty he'll just say "lol" or "the american dream" and after that idk what to say to get him into it more any ideas? I think its cause he's been stressed alot but i wanna talk about it and he says he wants me to but when we do he dont seem into it. Thanks for your time.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2010):

It sounds as if he wants you to do all the work and make him feel horny. When its you that needs him to talk dirty and get you horny. It is a let down when you text something sexy and just get a lol in return. Its not sexy at all and will put you off. Ive been there. So tell him to brush up on his skills too x

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (9 May 2010):

Laura1318 agony auntYou can Google online for more talk dirty tips.

Just type in the search window ,"talk dirty to your man."

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A male reader, Brunel Wallis and Futuna +, writes (9 May 2010):

I do not know what you want and you do not make sense?

Why do you have to do anything you are not his servant or his whore?

If as it seems he has gone off the boil that says it all it is time for you to be looking elsewhere while you are still on control!

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