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writes:Should i ask her if she have boyfriend or not?I just broke up with my ex about 4 month ago.This new girl is a good friend of my ex. They share same classes.I have my own reason for my breakup. But in their mind my breakup was because i fancy this new girl.In the past this girl would sometime find me chat. Sort of a good friend those kind. After the incident, that i once confess to her that i do like her. Things changed. To me she seems like start avoiding me.Now i'm been single for like 4 months already. In my mind there is only her. But we rarely chat now. I dont know if i'm being paranoid or what. When i sms her and she is not replying i feel scared. Scaring that she have a boyfriend already.There was once last time before my breakup when we chat. I did ask her once. She said that she doesnt have one. because the only friends that she usually hang out with is our group of friend. Other time a home stayer.I know that girls doesnt now want to spoil their friendship with their friends for dating their ex. I can wait for next year to start dating her. But i just get freak out for thinking that she could have a boyfriend. Very paranoid.I just wanted to ask if she have a boyfriend. So, should i process to ask her if she have a boyfriend or not?
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reader, johannabanana  +, writes (19 July 2010):
 It doesn't matter if she has a boyfriend or not she made it clear she isn't interested in you and you chose to ignore that... She avoid you after you said you liked her. If she liked you she would not have done that. Don't ask her because it isn't going to happen. Move on.
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