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writes:HiI have been dating this guy for 18 months and I really thought it was my imagination, but whenever we go out to a pub for a drink, I see that when he is talking to me, he isnt actually looking at me, he is eyeing up the barmaid or passing females from afar!!!!!!!!!Apart from being a rather rude individual, does this mean if I wasnt there, he would be actually chatting these females up?I havent yet confronted him regarding this as up until now I thought it was my imagination. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWith regards to this guy my instincts were right, he was cheating. He got so confident that he texted his new girlfriend when he was next to me on the sofa. I gave this idiot his marching orders, goes to show if you think something isnt right, it probably isnt!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the advise, does sound a bit "needy" on my part, but I when I wrote this I was fed up with it as I think it so rude, so next time I shall do as suggested and ask him if he'd like me to check to see if she is available.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 May 2010): Next time hes oggling just ask if he would like you to go and ask the girl if shes available. Thats how i stopped my bf from staring when i was with him! Whether he would chat them up if you arent around is difficult to say. And as Laura said. It might not be him that makes the first move. As you will know yourself. If a guy stares at you, you know he likes what hes seeing. Its not a great leap of imagination to assume one of them might approach him first. You could ask him if he would chat to them but the answer will be no. Unless he wants to find himself single fast!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 May 2010): If you want him to pay more attention to you, then do things where he can't look at girls. Go have dinner together at a fancy restaurant, and choose a table near a whole bunch of older people. Go and do activities where you know there wont be scantily clad girls hanging around (i.e pubs, the beach, strip clubs).
If you feel threatened by other girls then you should perhaps do things to increase your self confidence like going to the gym, or learning some new skill, or self defense.
If you're constantly suspicious of his motives, no matter how thick he is, he will soon pick up on that and decide you're too needy.
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reader, sweetiebabes  +, writes (8 May 2010):
 Sometimes men tend to do this to get some reaction from their GF. But men are men and are visionary. If they looked at other women, it doesn't mean they like them or whatsoever. They just look and has no meaning to it.
Learn to have trust with your BF, what you are feeling is a sign you don't trust him much.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (8 May 2010):
 It is quite possible but then you cannot assume that he will unless you see with your own eyes or someone told you about what he did in the bar.
Some men only check those girls visually while some may hook up with them. Sometimes ,it is the girls who approach the men.
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